Constance Pesce Obituary

Miss your friendship. Think of you often.

I think of Connie often. I miss her laugh and big smile. Such fond memories. Hope she is looking down on us , praying for us and happy in Heaven

Catherine, Danny and Steven The Nemshicks loved your mom as you know. We had so many laughs when Steven and Scott played ball together. I am so glad I got to see you all at the house 2 weeks before she passed. I will always remember her that day as she closed her eyes as I talked to her with a smile telling me her eyes were tired but she could here every word I said. When I was leaving she said she loved me and my family and her door was always open. She died 10 days later. She had told me that day that she was planning her funeral and I had told her I didnt want to hear her talk that way. Catherine sat on the bed with her and she looked so peaceful with Pete,Danny and Steven in the other room. I really felt she had said everything there was to say and it was time for her to move on-wherever God wanted her to go. The Nemshicks will miss her so much.

Dear O'Brien & Pesce families,
You have all been very much in our thoughts and prayers as Connie has fought her way through this illness. I know that it was your love that supported her, and hers for you that gave her the strength to battle on as long as she did. I know she loves you still with that fierce will that made her such a vibrant person, and a good friend.
Danny (I don't know if you're still called that), I remember vividly when she first learned you were on your way into her and your Dad's life. There were never two people who loved each other and their soon to be child more. Catherine, I hope you have a daughter of your own some day so that you can then appreciate the special love your mother had for you. And Steven, you were the added blessing.... the full cup that runs over and brought her even more.
That Connie was smart and steadfast are a given, but what I remember most fondly is the laughter, always the laughter. I t didn't matter whether the experiences she was relating were happy or not so happy ones, she always put a spin on it, made the best of it, and we laughed.
You kids have gotten a raw deal, no doubt, losing your mom way too soon, but you have also been given a great legacy which I hope you'll recognize and lean on in the months and years ahead. Hard work, intelligence, caring about others, having fun, and mostly, love. She loved each of you so much. Family was so central to her being, I'm sure she passed that on to you. Love each other, support each other as you each find your own way, don't lose each other. Call on the love that surrounds you from your Dad, your Aunts & Uncles, your Grandma, cousins and friends, and your Mom. I know you have already grown to be the kind of people she dreamed and hoped you would be; I know you will continue to make her proud.
Once you were her dream, now she is yours...
Our deepest sympathies. I wish we could be there with you all. Know that other hearts also ache and feel this loss, we are glad she is no longer suffering.

Pete and Family,
We are very sorry to hear about the loss of Connie. Please accept our sympathy.

Though I can't remember exactly the last time I saw Mrs. Pesce, I was probably 13 or 14, what I do remember was that she had a beautiful and sincere smile. I enjoyed every moment that I danced with Catherine and I know that our mothers did too. I am heartbroken to hear this news and wish that I could have been able to attend the wake. The family is in my constant thoughts and prayers, and I will always think of Connie as I last saw her, with a huge smile as she watched Catherine dance.

Pete and Family,

Our deepest sympathy to you and your family. We were so sorry to hear about Connie. We will keep you all in our prayers.

Gary & Kathy Boubek and Family

Pete, I only knew Connie through the way you spoke about her, always with respect and admiration. My prayers are with you.

Our deepest sympathy to Pete and the children. Connie is in our prayers.

Gloria and Tom Hau

Our deepest sympathy to the Pesce and O'Brien families. We are very sorry for your loss. We have fond memories of Connie from our DePaul Un. days.

We are deeply saddened by the loss of such an amazing woman. Connie was a beautiful person, both inside and out. She held such pride and love for her family, and an unwavering loyalty to her friends and community. Connie, may you be at peace with the angels. And to the family, you are definitely in our thoughts and prayers. Although your mother/wife/sister/daughter no longer walks alongside you, she continues to hold your hand and guide you, and will live on forever through your memories and presence. Love to you all.

To the Pesce and O'Brien families,
We send our heartfelt condolences to all of you. We will keep Connie and you in our prayers.

Dear Catherine and family,
I am so sorry to hear this sad news. I remember the Irish Dancing car pools as well, and her laugh was contagious. I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers.

Sincerely,

I sat next to Connie at a DePaul President's Club Dinner years ago and we had such a pleasant memorable conversation about her family and her pride in Pete's success. I will always remember her for that evening.

Dear Steve and Family,
When someone enters your life, if even briefly, they make an imprint that lasts forever and they live on through you and everyone whose lives they've touched. Your mother has made that connection with so many of us and I hope you will find some comfort in the love and support of your many friends.

It was a privelege to care for Constance, she has such a fighting spirit, CARM RN

Pete: I am very sorry for your loss...My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. You have been a great role model of someone who truly puts family first.i am sorry i cannot attend the funeral but you and your family are in my thoughts

My condolences to the entire Pesce family on the loss of Connie. You will all be in my thoughts and prayers.
Barbara Croker (Andersen)

While it has been several years since we've last met, I immediately recalled with fondness the many hours spent together at Irish Dance practice, the car pools, and the trip to Ireland. My wish for all of you is that you find solace and peace in your memories.

Eileen, I know that I speak for many at the Women's Exchange when I say that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers during this very difficult time.

October 12, 2006

To the Pesce Family,

You were so blessed to have Connie in your lives. She was an incredible person in so many ways. I'm sure you know she loved you all dearly and you always brought her such joy. She loved sharing your accomplishments and was always there for your mishaps. Treasure your memories and always remember she will be with you forever. You are in my prayers.

Our friend Connie loved life, gave generously of herself, was filled with kindness and understanding. She was bright and courageous, she fought a tough battle, always drawing her strength from God. May she rest in eternal life with God and all the angels and saints.

Peter, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during these very sad days. May God Bless all of you and give you strength.
Fondly, Anna Holmes

I'm Sharon DalCompo, the sister of Joe Failla, a long time friend of both your mom and dad. I knew your dad since I was a little girl, him being my brother Joe's friend. I went to your parent's wedding and remember how beautiful your mom looked. I am deeply sadden by the passing of your lovely mother Connie. I know she no longer feels the pain she experienced on this earth. She is now in peace and in the Protective Hands of God. May the sweet memories of your loving mother remain always in your hearts. My prayers and thoughts are with you at this time.

Connie was my fifth grade teacher at Clinton Elementary School in Chicago and a most spirited teacher who put up with me so lovingly and patiently during my childhood—even when she had to throw a rubber ball my way to get me to sit still. She was a marvelous influence who to this day I often remember, especially when challenged by my own students or wish to inspire my own children in ways that were commonplace for Mrs. Pesce. You made a difference. Thank you.

I'm deeply sorry to hear of your family's great loss. I will keep your family in my thoughts and prayers. Slan, Belinda Tobin

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.