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Carol Kaufman Obituary

Kaufman, Dr. Carol Fuchs 68, lived actively and fully with her husband, family, and friends, and fought ALS fiercely for five years until her passing on February 27, 2006. Born December 12, 1937, in the Bronx to Eva and Sam Fuchs, Carol relocated with her family to Kinston, NC, where her father's shirt business, Hampton Industries, was opened. The family moved to Miami Beach where she attended Miami Beach High School. At Brandeis University on the first day of orientation she met the love of her life Jerry Kaufman of New York City. They married December 21, 1957. She transferred to Barnard College, where she fenced for the women's varsity team and graduated Magna Cum Laude, with a BA in Sociology, 1959. After college, she taught the second grade at The Ramaz School in New York City. They settled in Chicago in the Summer of 1963. Her children attended Hillel Torah Day School where she chaired the Education Committee. She was a member of the Congregation Or Torah in Skokie and served on its Board. While raising four children and volunteering her time to political, charitable, and educational causes, she earned a PhD in Clinical Psychology from Loyola University, in 1988. She was certified to practice in the State of IL and established a thriving private practice in downtown Chicago. An accomplished psychologist, her patients continued to seek her guidance even during the advanced stages of her illness. She supervised PhD candidates at Michael Reese Hospital. She was a frequent visitor of the Las Vegas Desert Inn Hotel where she took the house for a small fortune. She traveled extensively particularly enjoying her annual trips to Dorado Beach, London and Jerusalem. She was a strong supporter of Israel and women's Jewish studies. She was a philanthropist, opera lover, arts lover and collector of all things beautiful. She loved the New York Times, a freshly-brewed cup of coffee, and a fine red wine (not necessarily in that order). She was wise and offered a sympathetic ear, which inspired so many to seek her counsel both personally and professionally. A wonderful mother to Miriam (Eric Feldstein), Michael (Neera Heifetz), Daniel, and Jeremy (Vered Hankin). A loving Bubbi to Jennifer, Max, Sam, Eliana, Sophia and Benji. Sister to Harriet Chused, Pearl Schechter, David Fuchs, Estelle Stine and Les Fuchs. Cherished aunt, cousin, and friend to so very many. Funeral Services, Wednesday, March 1, 2006, at 12:30 pm, Weinstein Funeral Home, 111 Skokie Blvd, Wilmette, IL, (847) 256-5700. Donations can be made to the Chicago Jewish Day School, 5959 N. Sheridan Road, Chicago, IL 60660 or University of Chicago ALS Fund, c/o Raymond Roos, MD, Department of Neurology, University of Chicago, MC2030, 5841 S. Maryland Avenue, Chicago, IL, 60637.

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Published by Chicago Sun-Times on Mar. 1, 2006.

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Robin and Michael Morgenstern

March 11, 2006

Dearest Jerry and Family,

We are so saddened to hear of Carol's passing. We will always remember her for her love of life and the joy we felt when in her presence.

Shmuel Shoshan

March 7, 2006

I remember Carol as a woman imbued with warmth and goodness.

May you be consoled among the mourners of Tsion.

Joel and Pam Kossman

March 3, 2006

What a loving and entertaining tribute, Les, to someone who must have been a remarkable lady. Joel and I have heard stories about your sister and have memories of her through your daughter, Jill (our soon-to-be-daughter-in-law). We are so sorry for you loss.

Pam and Joel

Louis Levinson

March 2, 2006

Dear Jerry and Michael:

I was saddened to hear of Carol's

death from Charlotte. I always asked

about her.

I enjoyed learning so much more about her

from her biography.

Please accept my deepest sympathy

to you and your family.

Michelle Bearman-Wolnek

March 2, 2006

One of my fondest memories of Aunt Carol was when she and Uncle Jerry came to Meyer's bris, conversion and naming. She was so excited and moved by every aspect of the ceremony and she wrote me the most beautiful letter afterwards. Her beaming smile will forever stay in my memory. I will always miss her and remember her brilliance and strength.

Rhonda & Andy Chused

March 2, 2006

Dear Jerry & Family,

Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you. Carol was a very special Lady and Aunt. She will be missed.

Our Deepest Sympathy & Love,

Rhonda & Andy Chused

Lynn Orschel

March 2, 2006

Dear Jerry:



Please accept my deepst sympathy upon the passing of dear Carol. In June 1989, I had the privilege of meeting and working with Carol and that relationship was the highlight of my life. I will always miss her in ever so many ways.



Although there is little one can say or do at a time like this, I hope the kind wishes of your many friends will help ease your burden.



All my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.



Very sincerely,

Lynn Orschel

Brookie Silber

March 1, 2006

To the Kaufman Family;

I was so sad to hear that Carol passed away. Ever since my parents told me that she was ill I Davened for her daily. But I have to say, that I could never picture her sick. She was just so beautiful, sweet, caring and CLASSY it was impossible to imagine.

It has been years since we have seen or spoken to each other, but you are in so many of my happy childhood memories I just had to let you know that I am thinking of you and wish you much comfort during this sad time.

May your family have much Simcha in the future!

With Love, Brookie

Raymond Roos, MD

March 1, 2006

What an inspiring obituary. I regret that I never met Carol when she was young and healthy - but I feel lucky to have known her and the family. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Abby Hurwich-Kehat

March 1, 2006

What a wonderful tribute to one of the classiest ladies I've been privileged to meet. ALS leaves us with a gaping void in our lives.

Randy Steinberg

March 1, 2006

So sorry I couldn't make the funeral, but my thoughts and prayers are with you.

Meryl Jaffe

March 1, 2006

I never knew Carol fenced too...how cool is that!

I am so sorry for the loss, and while I cannot be there with you physically, know I am there in heart and spirit. Carol will be sorely missed.

Much love - Meryl

May G-d comfort you among the mourners of Zion and Jerusalem.

Ariel Braun

March 1, 2006

I love this bio - so true to Carol's legacy. Amazing how much I didn't know about Carol's life. I've missed being able to exchange thoughts with Carol, but now I'll miss her terribly.

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