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Carl DeStefano Obituary

DeStefano, Carl T. age 74, devoted husband for 52 years to Corinne "Corky" (nee Wagner), loving father of Caryn (Matt) Snell, Mark, Paul (Florence), Mary (Michael) Flahive, Madelyn and the late Joseph, dearest grandfather of Gina, Michelle, David and Michael, great-grandfather of Jordan, dear brother of Mary (the late Fred) Eisenstein, Theresa (the late Dutch) Schroeder, the late Mark (Gretchen) and the late Rocco, fond uncle to many. Lifetime friendship with "The Bombers Club" and loyal friend to numerous others. Best friend and sidekick to Joe Varco. He loved you all very much. Funeral Monday, August 18, 9:30 a.m. from Ryan-Parke Funeral Home, 120 S. Northwest Hwy. (2 blks. S. of Touhy), Park Ridge, to St. Paul of the Cross Church. Mass 10 a.m. Interment St. Adalbert Cemetery. Visitation 1 to 9 p.m., Sunday. Former President and Officer of Local #143, Union of Operating Engineers, Chicago Public Schools, retired in 1998 after 47 years of service. His passion for the Chicago Bears, Frank Sinatra, Excalibur Cars and hardwork was unsurpassed. Memorials to the American Heart Association, appreciated. www.ryan-parke.com

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Published by Chicago Sun-Times from Aug. 15 to Aug. 17, 2003.

Memories and Condolences
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Jack Larson

September 3, 2003

Corky, So sorry to hear the bad news. Just found out and want to express my sincere sympathy. Hope all is well with you, Jack

Jim O'Connor

August 22, 2003

My sincere condolence to the DeStefano family. Carl was great guy. He was great union president. He was always there when you needed him. If you had a problem, Carl was there to get to bottom of it.

Rest in Peace Carl.

Jim O'Connor

Nancy Patula

August 22, 2003

To all of the DeStefano family,

My deepest condolences on your loss, Dennis called me (he moved back in with Mom) with the sad news. May the years of wonderful memories give you comfort. Nancy

Joan and Jack Mudd

August 20, 2003

Dear Corky,

Our deepest sympathy on the loss of your husband Carl. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. Please know others care and share in your loss. Joan and Jack Mudd

Don Kurtz

August 18, 2003

Time spent with Carl was time well spent. How greatly he brightened our St. Angela luncheons.

John (and Donna) Moscinski

August 17, 2003

DeStefano family --



We were very sorry to learn of Carl's passing and know he will be greatly missed.



We first met Carl at The Farragut, where he was always responsive, helpful and truly caring about the building as well as its students and staff. And of course we won't forget his wonderful Christmas staff lunches, especially the sausage and peppers!



Later I was lucky to work at the Pershing hdqrts when he was in charge there. Again, every one seemed to know and rely on him.



Finally my brother-in-law and I ehjoyed the season Bear tix we got through him for several years. Often the best part of the game was being with Carl. We were always tickled by his winter coat, with a sandwich in one pocket, a thermos in another, a piece of fruit in still another.



It was a pleasure and a privilege to know Carl.

Kathleen Thuerk & Family

August 15, 2003

Carl was loved by many. We will miss the pleasure of his company. He was a joy to know. Our sincere condolence to Corkey and his family.

Heaven just became a better place.

Jac and Liz Varco

August 15, 2003

With sincere condolences to the DeStefano family, Carl's memory lives on in our hearts, thoughts, and prayers.

Ray & Pam Silvia

August 15, 2003

To the family:

Our deepest sympathy



Ray& Pam Silvia

Richard & Ginger Houlihan

August 15, 2003

Corkie,



Carl will be missed by everybody that has known him. He was one of the hardest workers in the Chicago Public Schools. Your family has our support in these sad times.

Pat Eisenstein

August 15, 2003

Aunt Corky,

We love you and are here whenever you need anything or just a shoulder to cry on. Uncle Carl will be missed by everyone! We always enjoyed our trips to Williams Bay and the family get togethers. God has a plan for all of us and he wanted Carl to come home. All our love, Pat and Carl Eisenstein

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