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Bonnie Kepplinger Obituary

Kepplinger, Bonnie 76, of Chicago died at peace on February 26, 2018, after a month's illness. Bonnie was born on March 10, 1941, in Beloit, Wisconsin, of William Charles and Ruth West Kepplinger. She graduated from Barat College in 1963 and from the University of Wisconsin Madison in 1965 with degrees in English. After teaching high school for a few years in Chicago, Bonnie found her calling developing textbooks for Scott Foresman and Company. She also found her husband there, Eugene Vaughan, whom she married in 1981. Their son Greg was born in 1982. Bonnie skied in her 20s, had a weekly tennis match for decades, biked thousands of miles on the rural roads around the Red House in central Wisconsin, and walked everywhere in the city up until her last days. She regularly played blackjack with her college friends, and continued to add new friends until the last week of her life. Bonnie wrote poetry, read and traveled widely, and frequently went to movies and plays, from Steppenwolf to storefront experimental theater. In the early 1970s she helped write the Guidelines on Improving the Image of Women in Textbooks, which was profiled in the inaugural issue of Ms. magazine and later lambasted by William F. Buckley, much to Bonnie's delight. She always had at least one volunteer gig, most recently working weekly at Lakeview Pantry and with homeless LGBTQ teens at the Night Ministry and The Crib. She was recognized as Night Ministry's Volunteer of the Year in 2012. Above all, Bonnie treasured her loved ones. She was a cook and host nonpareil, frequently having dinners and parties for her extended family and her many friends. Guests loved her warmth and wit as much as the food. At 74, she competed on the Food Network's Chopped, losing to a Chicago Franciscan nun who used the proceeds to feed the poor, an outcome Bonnie probably preferred, given her Catholic faith and her own volunteer work. She brought cookie-making, Dollar Store trinkets, books, Jelly Bellies, and joie de vivre to her grandchildren. Bonnie disliked compliments, asparagus, and even the possibility of someone fussing over her. She practiced (but didn't talk about) her faith, rarely missing weekly Mass. Bonnie fought to resolve the large and small injustices she saw around her. She loved Chicago, the Cubs, Dickens, the Oscars, and chatting by the fireplace with a glass of red wine or a brandy Manhattan. Bonnie's husband Gene died in 2009. She is survived by many nieces and nephews, her son Gregory, his wife Carolina Torres, and their children Samuel, Paulo, Gabriela, Manuel Felipe, and soon Francisco, due in May. A Mass will be held Saturday, March 10, 11:00 a.m. at Our Lady of Mount Carmel Catholic Church, 708 W. Belmont, with a party afterwards at Bonnie's house. Memorial visitation will begin 45 minutes before the Mass in the back of the church, where guests are encouraged to fill out register books with their memories of Bonnie. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations can be made in Bonnie's name to The Night Ministry (https://www.thenightministry.org/support-us) or Lakeview Pantry (http://www.lakeviewpantry.org/make-a-gift-2.html). Info Lakeview Funeral Home, 773-472-6300 or www.LakeviewFuneralHome.com.



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Published by Chicago Sun-Times on Mar. 4, 2018.

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Laura Field

May 15, 2018

Dear Greg and family,
I met your mom about four years ago at the gym. We took the same class and I loved seeing her and chatting about books, food and trips. She loved the trips she took to see you.

She always asked me questions about my work as a spiritual director. My dream is/was to grow up to be like Bonnie.

My Dan helped your mom several times at her house. He loved her too.

I am so sorry for your loss.

I hope her presence surrounds you in the days and weeks ahead. She was a lovely woman. I have a hunch her spirit is soaring.

Laura Field & Dan Quinn

Debbie Fitzgerald

March 12, 2018

Celebrating a life well lived. We will cherish the memories forever.

Renee Harrison

March 9, 2018

My condolences to all who knew her well.
She shared a great deal.

March 9, 2018

As a fellow member of The Village Chicago, Bonnie was immediately on hand to help, compliment or add interesting information.
I last saw her at a Village Art exhibit
where she most admired my work, wanting to immediately purchase it.
Her lovely smiling face and fun attitude will always be remembered.
Renee Harrison

March 8, 2018

Bonnie and I grew up together. We were born two months apart and attended elementary school together.
I remember on our First Communion day my parents were called away unexpectedly during Mass. Bonnie's parents gave me a ride home; my first ride in a Cadillac.
Ruth, her mother, made the very best angel food cake with orange icing.
Most of all I remember Bonnie's kindness to me and so many others. Her goodness and wonderful sense of life was a gift to all.
Richard Hansen
Menlo Park, CA

Kathy Rand

March 7, 2018

Bonnie and I met in 1967 at work and stayed friends ever since. Every year we tried a new restaurant for dinner, and we always regretted that we did not write a book about our dinners. I loved Bonnie, considered her one of my best friends and can't believe she is gone. I will miss her and remember her always.

V.W

March 5, 2018

My sincere condolence to the family of Bonnie's. May the God who "binds up the brokenhearted and comforts all who mourns" sustain your family during this difficult time Isaiah 61:1,2 with heartfelt sympathy

Rita Hasner

March 4, 2018

To Bonnie's family... please accept my deepest condolences and prayers for the peaceful repose of her soul!
I will miss summer nights sitting on her front porch drinking manhattans, I will miss our discussions about books, Film etc etc. I will miss having Bonnie over to my house on the spur of a moment for dinner.... the last time she was over is when I learned she definitely did not like asparagus! However a champagne and sherbet dessert made up for it! What I will miss most was her Joie de vivre and that wonderful twinkle in her eyes!!
Rita Hasner

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