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Betty Torrey Obituary

Betty Louise (Stetson) Torrey November 11, 2009 Betty Louise (Stetson) Torrey passed peacefully November 11, 2009, in Sarasota, FL. Born in Kenmore, NY, near Buffalo, Betty graduated from Kenmore High School in 1945, then Fredonia State Teachers College in 1949. Shortly after graduation, she married Richard F. Torrey of Syracuse. They lived in Central and Western New York prior to moving to Venice (1988), then Sarasota (2005), Florida. Sports and music played a major role in Betty's life. She performed as a church soloist and directed church choirs. She enjoyed golf, bowling, curling, cross country skiing, tennis and attending Syracuse football and basketball, plus Buffalo Bills and Sabres games. Betty and husband Dick together played golf in 25 countries around the world, mostly after Dick retired from Niagara Mohawk in 1988. She shot three holes-in-one. She was a master calligrapher and donated many hours of volunteer work to charities in each place she lived. Betty was a former member of Rockefeller Memorial Church and DeWitt Community Church. She was a member of Onondaga Golf and Country Club. Surviving are her husband of 60+ years, Richard F. Torrey; daughters, Patricia Torrey (Warren Kritsberg) of Baldwinsville, Carol (George) Kress of Rochester and Barbara (Kenneth) Friedman of Ithaca; six grandchildren: Becca Simpkins of Carlsbad, CA, Ashley Simpkins of East Greenbush, Shannon Kress Duerr of Millbrook, Erin Kress of Boston, MA, and Karen and Paul Friedman, both at SUNY Buffalo; and one great-granddaughter, Clare Stetson Duerr of Millbrook. A memorial service will be 1 p.m. Monday, Nov. 23, in DeWitt Community Church. Interment will be in DeWitt Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to TideWell Hospice, 5955 Rand Blvd., Sarasota, FL 34238 or the Alzheimer's Association, 441 W. Kirkpatrick St., Syracuse, NY 13204. Fairchild & Meech DeWitt Chapel has arrangements. Please sign the guestbook at syracuse.com/obits

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Published by Chicago Sun-Times on Nov. 15, 2009.

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Pamela Sebura

November 24, 2009

Another member of our family gone, we are so sorry for your loss. The Seburas, Stetsons, and Collings

Rebekah,John, Brittan and Jay Lambrix

November 22, 2009

Our family is so sorry about your loss. Betty sounds like an amazing person who is very much loved and will be sorely missed.

Molly Wilson

November 19, 2009

Dear Dick and family - Betty was like a true aunt to us. Beautiful and gracious, fun to be around, and a dear person. We will always hold her in our hearts. Our condolences to you all. Love, Molly and Faith

November 19, 2009

Our condolences, Dick, to you and your family.

Susan & Charles Sullivan

November 17, 2009

Dick and family, Betty was a beautiful person in so many ways. Molly and I have many fond memories of both Betty & you. We had so much fun together. Molly and Lloyd

Jacqueline Andrews

November 16, 2009

Condolences to the Torrey Family from Jacqueline E Andrews. Charlie and Jacky Andrews have many found memories with the Torrey's and Betty will be greatly missed.

Walter Sweeney

November 15, 2009

Dear Dick and family. So sorry to hear about Betty. We had many good times with you both. I'm sure your children will be a great comfort to you

Walt & Jane Sweeney

November 15, 2009

Dear Trisha,Becca and Ashley I am so very sorry to hear of your loss, you are all in my thoughts and prayers.I'm sure your mother/grandmother is smiling down on you.

In deepest sympathy
Mary Glinecki

Donna Cross

November 15, 2009

I never met Betty, but I know two of her daughters, Trisha and Barbara. Both are extraordinary women--smart, talented, creative, and kind. Both have raised wonderful daughters of their own. What better testament could there be to the value and importance of Betty's life?

My deepest sympathy to the entire family.

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