Colchester - Barbara T. Young, 45, of Colchester and formerly of Bozrah, passed away after a tragic accident on Monday, May 27, 2013.

Born on May 14, 1968, in Norwich, she was the daughter of Hillary and Barbara (O'Laughlin) Young of Bozrah. Barbara attended school in Bozrah and graduated from St. Bernard's High School before attending Business School in New London.

She was a para professional, working with Unique Learners at Bacon Academy in Colchester. Barbara was also a coach for unified sports with the Unique Learners.

Barbara will be remembered for her fun loving nature and most importantly for the care she gave to those who need assistance.

In addition to her parents, survivors include two children, Kevin "KJ" Surratt and Jessica Surratt, both of Colchester; two brothers and their spouses, James and wife, Renee Young, of Bozrah, Hillary and wife, Janet Young, of Putnam; her former husband, Kevin Surratt of Lisbon; the Unique Learners at Bacon Academy; and numerous extended family members and friends.

Family and friends are invited to attend calling hours from 3 to 6 p.m. Friday, June 14, at the Aurora-McCarthy Funeral Home, 167 Old Hartford Road, Colchester. The Funeral Liturgy will be celebrated at 10 a.m. Saturday, directly at St. Andrew Church, 128 Norwich Ave., Colchester. Burial will follow in the Gardner-Buckley Cemetery in Bozrah.

Donations in her memory may be made to benefit her children's education fund, c/o Dime Savings Bank, P.O. Box 293, Uncasville, CT 06382.

Barbara's family would like to express their heartfelt gratitude to the countless members of the community who have reached out with love and care after the tragic loss of Barbara. Your gestures of kindness will never be forgotten.

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Published by Chicago Sun-Times on Jun. 9, 2013.

Memories and Condolences
for Barbara Young

16 Entries

James

September 18, 2025

You will never be forgotten in my mind or in my heart baby.

Mark Kalinowski

June 19, 2013

A great person with the biggest heart that matched her smile. My prayers are with her entire family.

Bonna Cassarino

June 14, 2013

Worked with Barbara at Bacon, remember her in the morning smiling, always a nice greeting. My son went to St. Bernard, a year behind, but she knew him as she graduated with his best friend. My heartfelt sympathy to your family at this very sad time. She will be sorely missed by so many. Mrs. C

Laureen Robley

June 13, 2013

Sorry for your loss Jess and KJ. I've only known your mom for 3 years,but she will always have a special place in my heart.She touched my sons life and many other kids lives with special needs in so many ways,with her love and her support and encouragement to be the best they can be,and to never give up.She will truly be missed.

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Alexander Robley

June 12, 2013

Missing You

Richard Robley

June 12, 2013

I'm Alexander Robleys' dad. I want to let you guys know how heartfelt this is to our family. Alex is truly missing Mrs. Young and you are in our prayers. Be strong and stick together to get through this. Bless

June 12, 2013

The world was a better place because Barb was in it. rest in peace.

Bill, Carrie, Theresa and Family

June 12, 2013

Thinking of you in this time of sorrow, words cannot express or take away the pain and grief you are going through. Just know an Angel "Barbie/Mom" is now watching over all of you. With Love, and Support, Carrie, Bill, Theresa, and Family

June 11, 2013

We are saddened to hear about your loss. The death of a loved one is never easy to deal with. May the "God of all comfort" be with your family during this difficult time. Isa. 61:2

Chris Synott

June 11, 2013

When I think of high school and the summers working at the local Burger King, that time in life was full of so much laughter and good times. Working all night and spending our days with the crew at Misquamicut, to start it all up again later that evening. Wouldn't trade those times for anything in the world, and James and I are so glad that you were a big part of that with us. Your kids were so lucky to have had you, even if cut waaaaay too short. Miss you already Barbara. Thank you for being a dear friend at a great time in our lives.

janet young

June 11, 2013

Years have went by, you'll always be in are heart. Love you 4 ever. Love Your Sister-in-law Janet

Donna Gordon

June 11, 2013

My heartfelt condolences on the loss of your mother, sister, aunt, daughter. Barbara was a wonderful person inside and out with a smile on her face always. May your memories of her help to heal the pain of her tragic loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.

Rebecca Warner-Mallett

June 10, 2013

My dear childhood friend Barbara. You were the one I shared that first little girl sleepover with. Funny how we had our first conversation in almost 30 years on Mothers Day. May your children and family have the strength to endure the road ahead.

Christopher Contois

June 9, 2013

Aunt Barbie you personified what the love of the Lord means. I will always love and miss you.