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Barbara Wingo
GAFFNEY, SC-- Barbara Smalley Gay Wingo, 79, of 371 Little Egypt Road, went home to be with the Lord on Wednesday, January 5, 2011 at Spartanburg Regional Medical Center.
Born in Gaffney, she was first married to the late Eddie G. Gay, Sr. and is survived by her husband, Andrew J. Wingo, Sr. She was the daughter of the late Loyd F. Smalley and Othella Guthrie Smalley. Mrs. Wingo earned both her Bachelor's and Master's Degrees in Education from Converse College. Devoted to teaching and learning, she taught English at Byrnes High School and Cowpens Middle School in Spartanburg Districts 3 and 5. She was a member of Midway Baptist Church where she taught Sunday School and was involved in the visitation and library programs. Her life was an example of charity and Christian love to her family and friends.
She is survived by a son, Eddie G. Gay, Jr. of Anderson; a daughter, Patricia Gay Orr and husband Terry of Belton; a stepson, Drew Wingo and wife Susan of Spartanburg; two stepdaughters, Pamela W. Johnson and husband Eddie of Boiling Springs, SC, and Ginger W. Reed of Columbia; three brothers, Vaud F. Smalley and wife Agnes, Robert L. Smalley and wife Carolyn, and Ray A. Smalley and wife Martina, all of Gaffney; two sisters, Sue S. Wright and husband Dick of Mauldin and Betty S. Folz and husband Walter of Stevensville, MD; two grandchildren, Marianne Orr Ayers and husband Chris of Greenville and Lloyd Orr of Belton; seven step-grandchildren, Jon Wingo, Laura Wingo, Summer J. Meetze, Marshall Reed, Clint Johnson, Robb Johnson and Ben Johnson; three step-great grandchildren, C. J. Meetze, Wynn Meetze, and Holden Wingo. She was preceded in death by a brother, C. George Smalley.
The family will receive friends from 2:00 PM until 3:30 PM on Saturday, January 8, 2011 at Midway Baptist Church. Funeral services will immediately follow at 3:30 PM at the Church with Rev. Vernon Craig and Dr. Danny Emory officiating. Interment will be in Frederick Memorial Gardens.
Memorials may be made to Midway Baptist Church, 153 Midway Road, Gaffney, SC 29341.
The family will be at the residence.
An online guest register is available www.blakelyfunerlhome. com.
Blakely Funeral Home & Crematory, Gaffney

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Published by Chicago Sun-Times from Jan. 7 to Jan. 8, 2011.

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Doris Campbell

January 14, 2011

Barbara and I taught together at Cowpens Middle School for many years. She was always so thoughtful and willing to help anyone. It has been many years ago, but I still remember things she told me. She was a good friend to all of us there.

Beth Wingo

January 8, 2011

I was so sorry to hear of another family member passing. I am Hugh M. Wingo's daughter, Beth. My sister had Barbara as a teacher at James F. Byrnes High. I had graduated by the time she was there. I would have liked to have known her. A.J. is daddy's first cousin.

Mike Chamberlain

January 8, 2011

Did not know Barbara but just got her wonderful grandaughter into our lives and we know she must be grieving. Love and prayers to all. Mike and Lou Chamberlain

Saundra Evans Gaffney

January 8, 2011

To A.J., Eddie and Patty:

Barabara and I worked together at Cowpens Jr. High / Middle School for years. For a while our rooms were side by side and we both taught English. I remember the many conversations we had on just about everything and how she was always encouraging others. I last heard from her about 4 years ago.
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this season of your lives. Continue to put your trust in God.

Janis Ross

January 8, 2011

I am so sorry to learn of Barbara's death. I was the school secretary at Cowpens High then Cowpens Jr High where Barbara taught for many years. She was a good friend.

January 8, 2011

The Sorrels West family are sorry to hear about the passing of Barbara. She was loved and will be missed by our family. To A.J. and family you will be in our thoughts and prayers.

January 7, 2011

My Dear Aunt Barbara was a truly beautiful person. She took care of us as children over the years as any dear beloved Aunt would and when a crisis arose she was there to encourage us. I will always remember her giving, thoughtful, and kind spirit. She gave her time and love always to the needs of others. I hope that she always knew how much we all loved her. I pray that she is at peace now. Love you Aunt Barbara....your niece Laura S. Mudrich

Charles & Faye Rich

January 7, 2011

Very saddened to learn of Barbara's passing. She was a very dear person. Our thoughts and prayers are offered in behalf of the family.

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