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Thomas Ryan Obituary

Ryan, Thomas J. 64, beloved husband of Diane (nee Pauritsch), proud father of Diane (Todd) Wetzel, Thomas (Jacqueline), Penelope (Kevin) Wiskus and Matthew, loving grandfather of Trevor Wetzel, brother of David, Cyrilla (Robert Finnegan), Lawrence, Bernard, Stephen (Mary Kay), Jane (Chris Brewer) and the late John (Lorraine), loved by many nieces and nephews and friends. Tom was the first president of the Brother Rice Alumni Association and a long standing member of Elks Lodge 500. Following donation to science at I.U. Medical Center, a Memorial Visitation will be held Wednesday, 5 to 9 p.m. at Moeller Funeral Home, 104 Roosevelt Rd., Valparaiso, IN, 219-462-0535. Memorial Mass will be held directly at St. Paul Catholic Church, 1855 Harrison Blvd., Valparaiso, IN, 219-464-4831 on Thursday, at 11 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to the American Society. moellerfuneralhome.com

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Published by Chicago Sun-Times from Jan. 16 to Jan. 17, 2007.

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Michelle Walsh

February 17, 2007

To the entire Ryan family~
Our family just heard the news of the passing of Tommy and we are deeply saddened. Although this expression of sympathy comes late, please know that our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Living on Fairfield Avenue together for years and years provides us with wonderful memories of the times that we spent together. May you find comfort in those around you and our hope is that with each passing day you gain more and more strength during this difficult time.
With deepest sympathy,
Bob and Dolores Renninger
Ginny (Renninger) and Steve Linn
Cindy (Renninger) and Rocco Fusco & Family
Michelle (Renninger) and Jim Walsh & Family

Tom & Yvonne Gibbons

January 20, 2007

Dear Diane & Family,
Ken & Lynette Kelly called with the sad news. I knew Tom for more than 50 years, and always enjoyed and treasured his friendship. He was someone with whom you could have a great conversation, even if you disagreed. I can see him swimming and then enjoying his boat. Many good times. Few men, and he was one of them, come along in life who make such a lasting impression as him. And we do know that his face wil always be to the Sun, and the road will rise to meet his feet. Please, be assurred that you, and Tom, are in our prayers.

Brian & Carrie

January 18, 2007

Deepest sympathies to the entire Ryan family and our dear friends Todd, Diane and Trevor. Remember and retell the good times.

LaVerne Gnoit

January 18, 2007

Dear Diane:
We only met Tom one time, but still felt like we all knew him.Being with your dad every day makes us feel like part of his family, so we share your loss. The love of your family will help you through this sad time.
LaVerne & Ray Gnoit
Peace Village

Jayson Canady

January 18, 2007

Matt, my thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. "May the Spirit of the Lord go before your father."

chris hamacher

January 18, 2007

Diane,sorry to hear about your husband.Tell Diane,Juli said hello.
See you in church.

Sue Dina

January 17, 2007

Dear Jane,
I was so sorry to hear about your brother Thomas.
You have such a nice family-what a comfort you will all be for eachother.
I wish you Peace.

Cynthia Szczygiel

January 17, 2007

Dear Diane,

I can not begin to tell you how sorry I am for your loss. We worked together at Ward North America, and we learned so much together.I am with Zurich now. Although I never met your Tom-you made me feel like I did. I lost my father-in-law in Sept; they we're togeher 53 years.
You have my deepest condolences.
Just know and believe that to be absent from the body means to be present with the Lord. Be strong.

Kathy Shanahan

January 17, 2007

Dear Diane and family,
I am so sorry to learn of Tommy's death. Please accept my deepest sympathies. I am babysitting our daughter Kerry's children in Mt. Prospect while she and her husband are out west. So I am unable to attend the memorial service. Please know my prayers are with you today and in the difficult days ahead.
Kathy McEnery Shanahan

Patricia Connelly

January 17, 2007

Tom Ryan was the most genuine person I have ever known. He was a friend to many people. Talking to him was a treat. He was always happy to see you and made you feel good by his interest in you and your family. "Neither heaven nor earth will ever be the same." God Bless you, Tom, and your beautiful family.
Trish McDermott Connelly

Marge and Bob Ryan

January 16, 2007

Dear Diane:
The downside of our living in Arkansas is separation from family at times like this.
We wish we could be at Tom's Memorial Mass but please know our thoughts and prayers will be with you and your family.

Michele Sands

January 16, 2007

Dear Diane,

I was shocked and very saddened when I heard the news at work about Tom's passing. I met you once when you came to the office (I sit at the front reception desk and answer the phones). When I started at the newspaper two years ago, Tom was the first person I would see every morning. He would help me open the doors for the employees as we chatted about our families and how he didn't mind the drive to get to work. He was always happy, helpful and one of the nicest people I've ever met. I will miss his smiling face and his caring ways. My prayers are with you and your family.

Tom Merrion

January 16, 2007

Don't fret to much, I'm sure my father has a big batch of Kimchee all ready for Tom in heaven.

Rob Thorgren

January 16, 2007

Mr. Ryan was like a father to all of us and will be greatly missed! We are all blessed to have known him. Love, Rob

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