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Dr. Sarah J. Kallick

1966 - 2020

BORN

1966

DIED

2020

Sarah Kallick Obituary

Kallick, Dr. Sarah J. 1966-2020. On February 20, 2020, beloved psychotherapist Sarah Joanna Kallick Psy.D died at home, surrounded by her family. Sarah was born in Evanston, Illinois, on May 13, 1966. She graduated from New Trier High School in 1984 and had attended National Music Camp at Interlochen, Michigan as a cellist. She attended Occidental College in Los Angeles as a psychology major, also registering for orchestra and chamber music where she and violinist Paul Vanderwerf were assigned to a string quartet together. Their love of music remained a shared passion ever since. After her graduation in 1988, Sarah and Paul married and lived in Oakland, California as they both began their graduate studies. Upon moving back to the Chicago area in 1990, Sarah continued her graduate studies at Illinois School of Professional Psychology, earning Master and Doctoral degrees. As a licensed psychotherapist, Dr. Kallick developed an eclectic approach that included psycho-dynamic, developmental, cognitive, behavioral, inter-subjective, and Eastern mindfulness concepts to empower clients and increase their self-trust through a nonjudgmental exploration of thoughts and feelings. Her specialties included applications of Mindfulness to psychotherapy, process group therapy, marital therapy utilizing concepts of Imago Therapy and Schema Therapy, women's issues, integration of psychology and spirituality, and treatment of anxiety, depression, grief and loss, and life transitions. She was active for years in the Illinois Group Psychotherapy Society where she served as President and Co-Chair of the Program and Training Committee. More information on Dr. Kallick's professional career can be found here: http://integratedlifeservices.org/skbio.htm. Sarah was passionate about her work, which brought her such joy. But the highlights of her life were her two children, who filled her with great pride, laughter, exuberance, and inspiration. Sarah is survived by her dear husband, Paul, her beloved children, Mattias and Emily, her father Bruce Kallick and stepmother Claudia, brother Steve, sister Kathy, cousin Diana, Aunt Sharon, nieces and nephews Juniper, Jeremy, Riley, Josh, Christian, and Mathew, and so many dear and loving family members and friends. A service in memorial will be at Evanston Unitarian Church on March 22, 2020 at 3:00 p.m. Sarah's memory can be honored by making donations to Illinois Group Psychotherapy Society at ilgps.org and North Shore University Hospice https://www.northshore.org/hospice/

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Published by Chicago Sun-Times on Mar. 1, 2020.

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Diana

February 23, 2025

Cannot believe it has been Five years. I was blessed to know you as my cousin when we were growing up. You were and still are so adored and loved by us all. Often think of our conversations about everything.

Kathy

February 23, 2025

So very poignant to read through these memories and see these pictures. Sarah, you were loved and adored and your sweet and fierce presence is still cherished by everyone who knew you. Five years have flown by, and also crawled by, as we've weathered so much including the loss of your guidance. Your kids are gorgeous, love prevails, your memory burns bright as a beacon. We're all just walking each other home.

Katherine Kallick

February 20, 2022

My Dear, beautiful sister, how poignant to look through these messages on the two year anniversary of your leaving this world. Though your physical self is gone from us, you are with us all, every minute of every day, in our hearts, and in our minds. I see your presence in your gorgeous children, both doing fine things and full of love and passion. Our family gathers, and conjures your spirit, and we laugh and cry, and share memories freely. I'm going to have a mindful little walk and look for you in all the flowers, clouds, blades of grass, birdsong, heartbeat, and every breath. You are always with me, Sarah, always.

Nancy Klein

November 6, 2020

I am a friend of Bruce, Sarah's father. I knew Sarah through him. She was a charming, intelligent and accomplished woman who was much loved by her father. I feel this loss must be very heavy to bear. I pray that Bruce, her stepmother Claudia, her husband Paul, her two children and her brother Steve and sister Kathy find peace and healing in time.

kevin murnane

September 21, 2020

Dr. Sarah was a life-changing therapist and teacher. Her kind and healing gifts brought me hope and structure for a better life. All love and support to her family.

Peter Kohn

March 23, 2020

Judy and I never met Sarah, but offer Paul our (belated, we take awhile to get to our newspapers) condolences. She seems to have been able to accomplish a great deal, so there should not be regrets on that score. If, as I gather, the children are past their adolescence, then that is a blessing too, that she could see them on the other side of that and that Paul can have their mature support now, rather than the challenge of raising/dealing with them. Now is a good time also to indulge sadness, a good basic healthy emotion.

Diana T.

March 9, 2020

Danielle Kaplan

March 9, 2020

I am so saddened to hear of Sarah's passing. I met her in 1999 while on my predoctoral internship at Ravenswood Hospital. Her calm, her centeredness, her wisdom, and her deep kindness have always stayed with me. May her memory be for a blessing.

Sarah with Emily, Val,s Mom, (Frances), Cathy, Valerie & Debbie wth Sophie

Valerie Shaner

March 7, 2020

Sarah in college

Valerie Shaner

March 7, 2020

Sarah & Valerie

Valerie Shaner

March 7, 2020

Bridal Shower gift bows' bouquet

Valerie Shaner

March 7, 2020

Bride & Groom to-be

Valerie Shaner

March 7, 2020

Sarah, Valerie, Paul, Quinn & Liz

Valerie Shaner

March 7, 2020

Melissa with Abby & Sarah with Mattius

Valerie Shaner

March 7, 2020

The Bride getting ready

Valerie Shaner

March 7, 2020

Sarah, Philip, Madeline, Paul & Liz

Valerie Shaner

March 7, 2020

Night with girlfriends

Valerie Shaner

March 7, 2020

Sarah, Paul & Liz

Valerie Shaner

March 7, 2020

Dancing with friends

Valerie Shaner

March 7, 2020

Sarah holding baby Kurt

Valerie Shaner

March 7, 2020

Paul & Sarah at Valerie's

Valerie Shaner

March 7, 2020

Sarah with puppy Bear

Valerie Shaner

March 7, 2020

Junio Year High School

Valerie Shaner

March 7, 2020

High School girlfriends

Valerie Shaner

March 7, 2020

Sarah & Paul

Valerie Shaner

March 7, 2020

Lizann Nagel Fragiotta

March 3, 2020

Sarah was one of the kindest, sweetest people I've ever known. She had a gift for helping other people, and a wonderful smile and sense of fun. She and I went to high school together. I loved growing up with her and her family as dear friends. This is a devastating loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with Sarah and her whole family. She will be missed and remembered.

Sharon T.

March 1, 2020

Sarah left us a huge legacy of love and the circle will not be broken.

Aunt Sharon

Debbie Kallick

March 1, 2020

May her memory be a blessing to you always. Much love to everyone.

sisters!

katherine kallick

March 1, 2020

SF Ferry Building August 21, 2018

kathy Kallick

March 1, 2020

Chicago Botanic Garden May 13, 2019

katherine kallick

March 1, 2020

Sally Van Meter

February 29, 2020

Such a beautiful tribute to Sarah, and she will always be loved, always missed and never forgotten. A beautiful light that shone for you.

Diana T.

February 29, 2020

My beautiful cousin. You have been so beloved by us all, You touched so many lives.

Elizabeth Vanderwerf

February 29, 2020

Sarah is so dearly loved by so many, and will be long-remembered as a kind, talented and intelligent woman who made the world a better place for all those who knew her. Her long and valiant journey through the cancer maze was heartbreaking, but she is surely at peace now, and would want nothing less for all those she cared for in this lifetime. May we keep the best of her spirit alive through the acts of kindness we extend to each other, and may her memory be a blessing as the rest of us walk each other home.

katherine kallick

February 29, 2020

My beautiful little sister. There will be so many messages, and photos, and remembrances here. You have been so beloved by so many! We will celebrate your wonderful, brave life while we grieve the loss of your immediate presence.

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