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Lillian Zeidenstein Obituary

Zeidenstein, Lillian Elfman Daughter of the late Nathan and Tillie (Okun) Elfman, passed away peacefully on Thursday, January 24, 2019, at the age of 96. Born and raised in Chicago, Lillian and her late husband Morrie resided in West Rogers Park on Birchwood aka "The Resort" for 60 years. It is where they raised Jay and Mara until Cystic Fibrosis took their young lives. Lillian retired from the Illinois Department of Unemployment after many years. Then, she worked for Northwestern Medical School through her eighties. Also, she was known for her fundraising efforts for the Cystic Fibrosis Foundation. Lillian was an amazing person whose strength and magnetic personality was apparent when she threw herself a 95th birthday celebration and over 90 people celebrated with her. She made friends for life. Besides her parents, she was predeceased by her husband, Morris; son, Jay (14); daughter, Mara (21); and brother, Joseph (Joe). She is survived by her sister, Shirley Elfman Schlinger of New York; her nieces, Dayle (Arthur), Bluma (Edward), Sari (Lorry); nephew, Ken (Kathy); many grandnephews and grandnieces; two great-grandnephews; and the best friends and neighbors a person could have. Some of Lillian's neighbors and co-workers became her life long friends and were there to comfort her until her last days. Lillian's out-of-town family is so thankful for these friends and all of "TEAM Lil." Donations may be made to Cystic Fibrosis Foundation or the charity of your choice. Graveside services Monday 11:00 a.m. at Waldheim Jewish Cemetery, Des Plaines Ave. (Gate #60) South of Roosevelt Road, Forest Park, IL. Arrangements by Mitzvah Memorial Funerals, 630-Mitzvah (630-648-9824) or www.MitzvahFunerals.com.



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Published by Chicago Sun-Times on Feb. 3, 2019.

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Pamela Marcus

January 28, 2026

Lil, you are truly missed!

Pamela G Marcus

January 28, 2024

In loving memory of a wonderful person. My family will love you and miss you always.

Pamela Marcus

January 28, 2022

I will forever remember our once a month Sunday at 5:00 p.m. conversations. We are missing you dearly! Love, The Marcus Girls (Chinenye, Pamela, & Chimdi)

February 19, 2019

Please accept my dearest and heartfelt sympathy. I am so sorry for your loss. May the God who "binds up the brokenhearted" and "comforts all who mourn" sustain your family during this difficult time. Isaiah 61:1,2

February 12, 2019

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times that you shared together. May our loving Heavenly Father provide you with the comfort and support that you need during this difficult time. (Psalm 145:18,19) Our thoughts and heartfelt condolences goes out to you and your family.

Z L

February 10, 2019

My sincere condolences to your family for the loss of your love one. May the God of comfort be with you during this sad occasion and may his loving words at John 6:40 console your heart.

Lillian's 95th Birthday Celebration!

Pamela Marcus

February 4, 2019

Dear Family and Friends of Lillian Zeidenstein. Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you. Lill will truly be missed by me and my girls (Chinenye and Chimdi). I am forever grateful to have known you and to call you my Jewish mother! I will miss our 5:00 pm weekly Sunday telephone calls. Love, your African American daughter, Pam Marcus.

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Waldheim Jewish Cemetery

Des Plaines Ave. (Gate #60) South of Roosevelt Road, Forest Park, IL

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