Daniel Stanton Obituary

I am writing to you as I heard of Danny thru Jim Taylor. I am an Aunt of Jimmy thur marriage and also a bereaved mom. ( my son died years ago now. and you never , never forget your child ever. ) I am so sorry to hear of Danny and wanted to extend a hug and helping hand. I wanted to let you know about the Children's Memorial Heartlight bereaved program and to let you know of a candle lighting ceremonial in memory of children; on APRIL 24, Sunday at Lincoln Park Presbytarian Church, 600 W Fullerton, Chicago, IL 2:00pm- . I missed a meeting at the Chicago's Chapter of Compassionate Friends that you had attended;and want to let you know I attend the monthly meetings as well. It is very, very painful to attend meetings. Just want to let you know you are not alone in your pain and you can find support from others that have gone thru it. Danny is missed and loved forever. My heart goes out to your family. T Taylor

The story of your amazing son and his enthusiasm for life has brought such inspiration into my life; I am blessed by his memory, even though I did not know him. Last week I lost another friend, who also enjoyed life. Taking the words you wrote as his epitaph, I wrote a song to keep the inspiration close. It's called "Sam and Danny Did":

Sam and Danny Did
(For Sam Flesher and Danny Stanton)

I’ve always lived a buttoned-down life
Afraid to let myself go
Never knowing what lurked within
The demons kept under control

I’ve hewn a path narrow and straight
Held to my forefathers’ line
Pull yourself up by your bootstraps, Girl
Don’t waste a minute of time

But we buried Sam today
Who wasn’t afraid to live
And Danny not so long ago
Whose four short years were a gift

And somehow I hear them saying to me
That mensch, that sweet little kid
Please go ahead and enjoy your life
Sam and Danny did

Don’t worry so much about making mistakes
Take chances, have a good time
Learn what makes you happy, do it
Forgo the perfect rhythm and rhyme

Smile and talk to strangers you meet
Believe the best is to come
And if you lose heart and want to give up
Remember what they would have done

And somehow I hear them saying to me
That mensch, that sweet little kid
Please go ahead and enjoy your life
Sam and Danny did

After my husband passed away im March, my son-in-law said "God only takes the strongest soldiers". I hope these words can bring you even a tiny bit of comfort. To have touched so many lives in such a short time is a miracle. May God bless you always.

Mr. and Mrs. Stanton,

My 93 year old dad read about Danny in the Portland (Maine)Press Herald. It moved him so much that he passed the article on to me. Danny's story moved me too - so much so that after reading the story, I folded it up and put it in my purse - I just couldn't put it in the recycle bin!
I was just searching in my purse for a phone # and saw the folded newsprint. I took the story out and re-read it and suddenly the frustrations of the day vanished. I'll bet I'm not the only one out there who never met Danny or your family, but has been changed by his story - I just wanted you to know that Danny's spirit lives on! God bless you.
Becky in Bennington, Vt.

What a beautiful boy Danny was. Thank you for sharing your story and his life with us. Our prayers are with you.

What a beautiful boy Danny was. Thank you for sharing your story and his life with us. Our prayers are with you.

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

Dear Stanton Family, it was with deep sorrow to find out about Danny's passing. May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Lily Montesanti

As a mother of young children, it's so hard to separate your loss from my own life. I keep coming back here to check on this guest book, as if another entry prolongs Danny's influence. He was a beautiful child. And his death a reminder of the fragility of ALL life. I cannot find a way to be sorry enough, so instead, I'll deepen my own thankfulness for what I have. Hoping and praying that your family finds a deeper closeness too. There is no greater tribute to your precious Danny.

I will keep your family and Danny in my prayers. Hoping that there is comfort in the many who are strangers but hold you in our arms.

God bless Danny....

My condolences to the Stanton family, your boy must have been a true angel. I hope your story touches many people and this spirit will live on in your lives, and those of people you know, as well as those you may not.

Mariann,
I was a McAuley classmate of yours (my last name was Lenehan). The story I read about your little boy moved me so much that I wanted to let you know that you and your family are in my prayers. Your little boy was truly special -- a real tribute to his parents, siblings, and the loving environment in which he lived. I wish you and your whole family peace.

My deepest sympathies to the Stanton family. I can't imagine the suffering you must be going through! My wish is that you find solace with your loved ones, and the memories that you all have of Danny! I came upon the article about your remarkable "little boy" by accident, and was brought to tears immediately! What a blessing to be given this very special, precious gift~~if even for 4 short years!! Danny is now with God playing ball, and befriending everyone. Danny's story should remind all of us to hug, high-five, laugh, lend a hand, love, and "live" more!! He "did", why can't we? Our thoughts and prayers go out to you all!!

God Bless you!!~

My condolences to the Stanton family. I truly understand their grief at the loss of their young son. My son passed away from SUDEP in June of 2008. He was 8 years old, and had the same "live life to its fullest" attitude as Danny did in the news story I read. Hope to meet you someday to discuss our special boys.

God Bless you and your family during this difficult time. You were blessed to have such an amazing child. We can all learn from the lessons that he taught in his few short years. Maybe others will learn to live the way he lived and the world will be a better place. God Bless!

I hope many read the articles on your wonderful little guy and learn something from his all too short life. God bless

I don't know you or your son but reading the article about him made me feel as if I know him. I can tell that he was "an old soul who had been here before". I can imagine a room lighting up when he walked in. Just think, that star is shining brightly in heaven now and will forever shine upon you. May you forever cherish the memories.

I met Danny only once. He smiled at me. His smile was the most effortless expression of joy I have ever seen and I have two young children so that says a lot. When I saw the notice of his death, I remembered that smile. I hope that in time the pain lessens and you see what I do when I pray for and give thanks for Danny.....that grin. Blessings and prayers for all who loved Danny. Many have read about him and share in your sorrow. You have a beautiful family. And, a beautiful angel too.

Dear Stanton Family,
I just sat to read my emails, taking a break from cleaning up the huge holiday mess in our house. I saw Danny's story, clicked past it, read my emails and got up and started working again. Something told me to go back and read it and I am so glad that I did....I was meant to. First, my profound sympathy to your entire family. I have come to realize in my 45 short years, that none of us really knows what we have in store for our lives. We plan, we teach, we provide, we protect, we love, but for some things, we just don't get to decide...God does. We don't have to like it, we just learn to find a way to accept it. I have done the eulogies at 5 funerals including my best friend's daughter that dropped dead from a heart issue at 19 and my mother that died at 69 after a 3 week battle with cancer. At each of their funerals, I included a quote from Abraham Lincoln that was fitting for them and especially fitting for Danny. "In the end, it's not the years in your life that count, it is the life in your years." Danny did. Danny truly lived his life...all 4 years and he will continue to live on in the hearts of everyone that knew him...and even those he never met. Ours prayers are with you.
~Michele Corr
[email protected]

I am so sorry. Your son was amazing.

Dear Stanton Family,
I read about your little boy today and I am deeply sorry for your loss. On June 21st 2008 my 12 year old nephew died in his sleep and the cause remains unknown. Danny reminded me of Jake when I read the things that were written about him. After Jake died I knew God called him home for a special reason. We can only find comfort in knowing that our children are in heaven. I pray for peace each day and the ability to humanly deal with the loss. I pray the same for you and your family. May God comfort you.
Shawna Sharp

I am deeply sorry for your loss. From the article I read he touched a lot of lives. I know he will be greatly missed by all who knew and loved him. God bless you and your family.

Michael and Mariann,

I'm so sorry for the loss of your child. He sounded like a real angel on Earth, and there's no doubt he's in Heaven, where he is surrounded by God's loving hands.

We lost our son Tommy at five years of age this past November, to seizure activity as well. He had Angelman Syndrome, and we miss him dearly. The story about your son brought tears to our eyes, and what a priest told us was so true. Our children are not suffering anymore, it is us who are. Prayers are being sent your way, and just reading about your son's kindness and love of life, makes me more grateful for every day. To think someone that young could have such maturity and thougtfulness, that is a special boy indeed. God Bless You and keep you comforted during this difficult time.

Mike and Nani Ross
[email protected] Fairfax, VA

I cannot imagine how you feel. I am the grandmother of a four year old boy who resembles Danny's picture. He had his second seizure on Dec. 17, but was during the day, and spent several days in the hospital. Luckily he came home for Christmas Eve and day. I am scared to death, but like Danny he has brought so much joy. I will pray that you find peace in your memories and love around you. I am so sorry.

When I read the aricle..all I could think about was WHY, and HOW would you and your family cope???
I PRAY for JESUS to give you all AMAZING GRACE, COMFORT, and PEACE!!!!
Oh God!!!...how I mourn and PRAY for you....
I am a mother of two boys. My youngest had cancer, and that was something that we would experience seeing other families having to say goodbye "for now"...
I am SO DEEPLY SORRY for your loss. You brought a BRIGHT shining star into this world and he left the SAME way!! He was wonderfully special because of what you "ALL" gave him, showed him, and loved him each and every minute of each and EVERY DAY!!!! He will be waiting for you at those pearly gates when its your time..until then he will be smiling down on you...
JESUS be with you all....

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

I was reading the story about a smart young boy who lost his life just before Christmas, Danny Stanton. Wow, he touched so many lives. I am sorry for your loss, and my sympathy goes out to the entire family.

I am so sorry for your loss. I wish there was more I could say. Please know that my prayers and thoughts are with you at this time.
Mary Caplis (Betty Lazarra's cousin)

I thought you might be a tiny bit comforted to know that Irving Berlin wrote the song "White Christmas" 14 years after his infant son, Irving Jr., was found dead on Christmas morning 1926 (probably a victim of sudden infant death syndrome.) Irving and his wife Ellin had a daughter at the time, then he and his wife had two more daughters. Every Christmas Eve, Irving and Ellin would take time out of the holiday celebrations to visit their son's grave.

So in the future, whenever you hear the words

"I'm dreaming of a White Christmas
Just like the ones I used to know"

I'd like you to remember that Irving was thinking of his son, just like you are thinking of Danny.

Thanks to all who've offered condolences on the passing of Danny. Here's a picture of Danny with his best friends: brothers Johnny and Tommy and sister Mary Grace.

There is no telling of the length of time we have here on God's earth or what impact we will have on humanity but in four short years Danny has left a legacy of inspiring greatness. Your loss must be devestating but take comfort in way his story has touched so many people. God Bless and keep your family.

I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. Danny's kind nature will serve as an inspiration to everyone who hears of him as he was truly a very special little boy with a big heart <3
Bless you and your family.

Dear Stanton Family,

The ten people in my family here in Tucson, Arizona are shedding tears for your loss (although God clearly gained an angel in heaven). Our thoughts and prayers are with you, more than you know. Out here in Arizona, there is a saying among the Yaqui Indians: no one is ever truly gone, until the last person who remembers you is gone. I have shared your story with my children. They will share Danny's story with their own children (three of them have epilepsy). Phrased differently, Danny's sotry will live for a very, very long time among people here in Tucson who will keep him (and you) in our prayers. With warmest regards, the Uhlmann family

I read about your precious little boy. I'm praying for you all this Christmas. I know that dear little Danny is now an angel in heaven, and he's watching over you.

Dear Stanton Family,
Yes, your Danny did, indeed. He made me just go downstairs and hug my children a bit tighter, a bit longer. I am so sad for your loss but so happy that your little boy was so loved and capable of touching so many lives. Prayers of peace and comfort to you at this time in your life, and in every day forward.
God Bless,Stacie Eastman

I read Danny's story. Sounds like a remarkable young boy taken too soon. I am so sorry for your loss. Thanks for sharing his story and your grief with us.

Dear Stanton Family - your son's life has touched us here in Washington State. We will enjoy our life and keep little Danny in our thoughts as we do. I'm so sorry for your loss - I pray you find the strength to keep your chin up and cherish every moment.

Dear Stanton Family,

I read about your family online...this touched my heart in such a way that I could not help but to let you know that although your baby is not here with you in body...his spirit will live on. So tragic what happened. I can't help but to think that this foundation you will build was his true mission in life. God Bless always...

Gosh what an adorable little boy. I feel so sad for this family. May he rest in peace and join the other angels in heaven.

Dear Stanton Family,
I just read Danny's story and I'm in awe of him and of all of you. It's Christmas Eve and I'm running around trying to get things done and was about to go rattle off a list of things for my 10 yr. old daughter to do before company arrives. Instead I'm going to go hug her, and just sit and enjoy Christmas and life with her. Just like Danny did..
Thank You for sharing your story, and your angel, with us.

Stanton Family, As I set here today with very troubled and confused heart, I just want you to know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. I am so very sorry for your loss of Little Danny, but know that he is a very special child and he will remain in your hearts for every tomorrow to come.
I live the life of the four year old child who has seizures and for reasons unknown. I have spent many days and nights at a childrens hospital with my daughter.Your family is living my worst fear. I have also sent her to pre -school this year and I still fear the WHAT IF!!! I have been able to save her several times and I am so scared that the day will come and I will not be there.
I want you to know that Danny was a Blessing and I also want you to know that as his parents you were the Blessing for him. He chose you. He knew that you were special and that at this time, you will find the strenght to make a positive impact on the lives of your family and to leave a Living Legacy for other families who have a special child. Fo this say THANK YOU.
With Christmas, I want to close your eyes and remember that you his special parents were the chosen ones. You are Little Daniels Blessing.
Please know that I will keep you and your family close to my heart and I am going to say Thank You for the life of Little Danny. He does live on.

Dear Stanton Family,
I just read the story regarding the loss of Danny! Danny sounds like he was a true treasure! My thoughts and prayers are with all of you this time. I, to, had a loss this past week. My mother passed away on Saturday! I'm sure she is in Heaven watching over Danny!

May Danny's memory be eternal!

Sofie Haritos

DANNY DID IT

God's heavenly conference was called with loud singing.
The message was sent out with silver bells ringing.
The angels were happy, their wings set to humming.
The word had spread quickly: Danny was coming.

He entered in triumph, his little feet thumping.
All hearts in the heavenly realm were sent jumping.
"I did all I could," He cried out to the thronging
of heavenly hosts. "Did I earn my belonging?"

Then God rose in majesty, perfect eyes tearing,
And scooped up the perfect young soul so endearing
and said, "How I missed you, my precious young son!
You ran just exactly the life all should run!"

Danny,
I read a story about you. You were an amazing boy. Watch over your family, they need you. They loved you so much.

Dear Stanton Family,
You are in my thoughts and prayers this holiday season. I am so very sorry for your loss. I know how hard this must be one you. Please know that Danny was a blessing from God and that he has not left you, just taken his place by God and you will be together again. Merry Christmas and all my love.

I am deeply saddened by this story and it sounds as if God needed another angel. I am truly sorry for your loss and pai but we will all pray for you and Danny will always be here in mind and soul.

To the Stanton Family, I read an article about your son on the internet. It really touched my heart and soul. I am a mother of 3 children and can only imagine the grief you are experiencing. My prayer is that God comforts you during this time of need for He is faithful to do just that.

Dear Stanton Family- I just read an article about your precious son Danny. I didn't know Danny, but I wish I had. A small boy with such a big heart. My you find peace in knowing Danny is sitting with the Lord, and that one day you will see him again.
Sincerely
Joni Craghead
McKinney, Texas

Dear Stantons,
This story touched my heart so deeply I needed to send you a note. I live in Connecticut and have a 4 yr old son so reading about your little angel brought tears to my eyes. I can not understand the pain you must be feeling but it sounds like Danny gave so much in his short life. May GOD bless your family in this time of need. Remember that you now have a little angel in Heaven looking down on you. Have a blessed Holiday and know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Dear Stanton Family,
My deepest condolences on the loss of Danny. This world could definitely use more beautiful people like Danny. The road ahead will be hard, but you will find comfort in the memories of your very remarkable young man. I never had the pleasure of meeting Danny, but his joie de vie has made its mark on me. Please know my prayers are with you and your family. God Bless.

Dear Stanton family~
My whole heart and soul go out to your family. I read about the sad news and just had to write to tell you that I send many thoughts of strength and love to your whole family. Danny sounds like such a wonderful boy. I am so sorry about his passing.
Love~
Heidi Bresilge, ELmhurst

Dear Stanton Family, Just received the heartbreaking news of your great loss. We will miss Danny's smile, energy, his "Cubs" socks and his flying shoes. He will always be our "Angel" in the outfield here at Frozen Ropes. You will always be looked upon. Our hearts and prayers are with you now and always. Gus and Georgia Tountas and Family and all the staff here at Frozen Ropes.

Mike and family-

Heard the news through a mutual friend of ours- Sue and David Morris. As a father of 4 I can't imagine the loss. I hope that your family and friends take solace in knowing that you have quite a little angel looking over you.

Your Rambler friend. Mark Sullivan and Family

Dear Stanton Family
Our son Emmett was on Danny's soccer team we just wanted to give you our deepest sympathies at the lost of your cute Danny. We will remember your family in our prayers during this difficult time.Peace to you all.

We are heartbroken over the loss of your precious Danny. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Dear Stanton Family, Our deepest sympathies to all. You now have a true Christmas Angel to watch over your beautiful family. Our prayers and sad hearts are with you now and always. Carmen and Michael Perrone and family

Dear Stanton Family,
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this sad time.
Kathleen Talbot

Dear Mariann, Michael, Stanton & Murtaugh Families,
I dont know how to tell you how sorry I am to hear about Danny and I cant imagine how much pain your going through. I just hope you find the Love & Strength to carry on through your grief and find solace knowing that so many others share your sorrow.
My deepest sympathy,
Michael

Dear Stanton Family,

We are so very sorry for the loss of your little Danny. We wish you peace and strength. With deepest sympathy,

The Clark Family
Tom and Jacqui
Ryan, Josie and Jeanmarie

Dear Staton family,

We are so sorry for your loss. May god bless Danny and your family. You are all in our prayers.

Our deepest sympathies.
Speropoulos family

Please accept our deepest sympathies.

Colleen (Garrity) and Eoin McCague and family

Monaghan, Ireland

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

No parent is suppose to go through what you are enduring. May God, your love for each other and family help you through these days. You are never alone because Danny is forever in your hearts. Our deepest sympathy to the entire families
Ed, Pat & Ed Feldheim

Dear Mike and Mariann,

Words cant describe our heart felt sorrow. May you find comfort in knowing that so many people care.

The Kosmicki family

Margie, Joel and Max

Dear Mike and Mariann,
I am so sorry to hear about your son, Danny. Our deepest sympathies are with you. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Narissa Roque Breger

Sending our thoughts and prayers to the Stantons and Murtaughs. May you find the continued strength to comfort each other during this very sad time.

With love,
Austin and Susan Nicholl
The Nicholl Family
The Dillon Family

We are so very sorry for your loss. Many prayers are yours and his. We will never forget your little angel.

My heart is feeling all of the love this small boy brought out of people. He was an amazing force for a four year old. We should learn from his life. He made a difference.

Peggy Meyer, Chicago,IL

Our deepest sympathy to the Stanton family during this difficult time. May the love and strength of your family carry you. You will be in our thoughts and prayers.

The Benz Family

Dear Stanton Family.
We offer our deepest sympathies. You are in our thoughts & prayers.
Terry & Ann Murphy

God bless you and be with you in this time of sorrow. May he give you strength and hope to meet each new tomorrow.

You are all in our prayers.
Marty, Jennifer, Kelli, and Joe Stanton

Dear Stanton Family,

We are so sorry about your loss. Our deepest condolences go out to you and your family.
The Kadet Family

Anne, Howie, Artie & Emily

May the love of your family and friends carry you through during this trying and difficult time. Our thoughts, prayers and love are with the entire Stanton Family.

Tim & Katie Feldheim & Family

Danny is in our thoughts always. Our prayers go out to the Stanton family.

Dear Michael and Mariann,
Please accept my condolences on the loss of your son Danny. You are in my thoughts and prayers,

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

Our prayers are extended to the Stanton Family during this very difficult time...God Bless..
Mike and Grace Grantz

We never met you Danny, but may God hold you dear in His Kingdom. God Bless You little one.
- The Bolos Family
Arlington Heights, IL

We are so sorry for your loss. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.

To the Stanton family: We are so sorry for your loss. Our prayers and best wishes go out to you. May god be with you and Danny. Luke, Ian, David and Kim Marren

Dear Stanton Family,
We were so very heartbroken to hear about Danny. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. May God keep you safe and give you strength. Love Always,
Patrick, Martine, Branden & Drew Stanton

Our hearts go out to the entire Stanton Family during this diffcult time. We pray the the cherished memories that Danny created will bring you comfort and a constant reminder of what a special gift Danny was to this world.
Lucy, Mikey, Johnny, Mary Kay and I will keep you in our prayers.

Dear Mariann, Michael, Stanton and Murtaugh Families, Please know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers. We are heartbroken knowing what you are going through. We love you. Sincerely, Kathy and Keith Fowler and Family

Dear Stanton family,
I am a neighbor of Dan Garrity. I ran into Dan while picking up our kids at St. Tars and he shared with me the sad news about your darling son Danny. I haven't the words to express how deeply saddened I am by your loss. Please know that your family is in our prayers and may God give you strength in the days to come. God bless.
Jennifer Salerno

Dear Mariann, Mike and family, we are so sorry to hear of your loss. We can't even imagine the depth of your grief but know that others are with you in keeping all of you in our thoughts and prayers. Jim and Barbara Nevels

I work with Mary Jo at felony review and my thoughts and prayers are with the family. Yours Catherine DeRoss

I'm so very sorry. All of you are in my thoughts and prayers always. with love, becky pazik

Dear Mike and Mariann and family, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers through this tough time and my heart just breaks for you. Patti (Culloton) Gasparian

You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Jeanene (Novick) Levar

Dear Stanton Family,

Words cannot expess our sincere condolences during this difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Please know there is a guardian angel to watch over all of you.

Love, The Dunham Family

Dear Stanton Family
So sad to hear about Danny, my thoughts and prayers are with you. May G-D peace be with you now and always

Dear Stanton Family,
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts are with you. May Danny's memory be eternal.
Our sincere condolences,
Alex, Angela, Irene and Contantine Konstantinidis

Dear Stanton Family,
We are so saddened by your devastating loss. Your sweet little angel will be having a glorious time celebrating Christmas in heaven. Our prayer is for God to shower you with love, strength, courage and peace in your hearts.
Love, Patti and Mark Mitchell

Dear Mike and Mariann - I am so so sorry this has happened to you. My heart just breaks for you and your families. I can only imagine what an amazing little boy he was. Julie and Dave Vennetti

Dear Mike, Mariann, Mary Grace, Johnny, Tommy and Stanton and Murtaugh Families,
We knew of Danny through Betty and Pete and met you all briefly at graduation parties for Katie & Patrick. They always spoke with such love about all of your children. We are praying to the Blessed Mother to give you strength through this very trying time. I know Danny held a very special place in many people's hearts in his short time on earth. His memory will live on forever in their hearts and in the wonderful stories you will share with others. Our deepest sympathy.

Dear Mike, Mariann, Cheryl, Tommy and all the Stanton and Murtaugh Family, Our hearts breaks for you. You are in all our prayers and thoughts. May you find peace in the loving memories of your beautiful little boy. Matt and Sue Casey

Our thoughts and prayers are with your family - although Danny didn't really know us that well, he always had this infectious smile and always took the time to say hello when he saw either my husband or myself - I'm sure Danny will be remembered fondly by everyone - Rest in Peace ...

Michael & Sharon Daidone
(Leroy Avenue)

Dearest Stanton Family,
So very sorry to hear about your Danny. Our prayers are with you. The Muno Family