Pahl, Bethany Maria of Chicago passed away at the Midwest Palliative and Hospice Care Center on July, 9, 2008, at the age of 51. She is survived by her husband, Edgar (Starr) Donaldson, her daughter, Margaret Rose Pahl Donaldson, her parents, Arlette and Henry Pahl, and sisters Michelle and Leslie Pahl. A memorial service celebrating Bethany's life will be held on Saturday, August 16th, 11 a.m. to 1 p.m., at the United Church of Rogers Park, 1545 W. Morse Ave. in Chicago, 773-761-2500. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Rosie Donaldson Scholarship Fund, the United Church of Rogers Park, the justice-seeking organization of your choice, Breast Cancer Action or National Breast Cancer Coalition. 
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Ric Gudell
September 4, 2008
A clear thinker, with values that made a difference in the lives of all she encountered, Bethany exemplified what it best means to be human.
Kathleen Dowling
September 2, 2008
I savor every note, postal card, photo and memory that Bethany gave to me.
I had the priviledge of working with Bethany and quickly learned that her kindness and benevolence were matched only by her ability to make others feel appreciated.
Bethany remains one of the most original and spirited women I have ever known.
She is missed.
Rick McCormick
August 25, 2008
Dear Starr and Rosie,
We were so sad to learn of Bethany's passing. She was such a vibrant, funny, warm person, creative and witty, and with such a great laugh.
It has been awhile since we've seen you--Rosie, I doubt you would remember us. But we will never forget your mother--and we feel so lucky that we had the chance to know her. We send our love and sympathy to you both.
Your friends, Rick, Joan, Isa and Susana
steve everett
August 23, 2008
I appreciated working with Bethany when she was at TMA. Her willingness to solve problems and go the extra mile was enormous. I remember Star being attracted into the activities because of his special talent. I keep her in my memory as a special person.
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Ellen OReilly-Garcia
August 15, 2008
Dear Rosie, Starr, Mr. & Mrs. Pahl,
I am so very deeply sorry. Bethany was remarkable. I so enjoyed working with her, and I am grateful that we continued to keep in touch via emails. She surely made this world a happier place with her great humor, and her commitment to social justice.
But her love for all of you was the MOST important. You are all in my prayers. I am with you all in spirit at the Memorial. (I need to take my daughter to college in A.M. Saturday--so very sorry.)
Love, Ellen O'Reilly-Garcia & Family
Rochelle Lane
August 14, 2008
Dear Rosie,
I was so sorry to read about the loss of your mother. I know that you gained such strength and maturity because of her. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Hope that high school has been good for you. Hang on to good things and wonderful memories. Email me when you can.
Fondly,
Mrs. Lane
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