Aaron Collar Obituary

Ellen - I think about you everyday since hearing that Aaron is gone. I can't imagine what you are experiencing. I recently celebrated the birth of my son and now can't imagine the devastation of ever losing him. It has actually changed my perception of being a parent and made me look at what is really important. Still, my heart breaks for you over and over and over.



Aaron and I had so many good times together, mostly revolving around our mutual love of creating music.(although I can tell you it wasn't easy since our tastes in music were so different). I still listen to the tapes that we made, and it takes on a whole new meaning now when I hear Aaron playing guitar or 'trying to' :) sing. Treasured memories.



In the last 2 or 3 years we lost touch, but he always remained one of my best friends...the one that you could meet up with and not have to spend any time catching up on the past with...we could just pick up where we left off...like prodigal brothers...true brothers. I will always have a hole in my heart left by him.



Love,



Pete

Ellen, I have written a short song for Aaron after listening to his father speak at the memorial service. The words that lingered for me were "his body is broken, but his spirit soars". It was a lovely sharing of Aaron's life from his friends. I hope to continue sharing with you. I'll burn a disc and drop it in the mail for you. Hope all is well for your family. I think of you often and pray for you to have grace.

Some of my favorite memories include Aaron. We met at a time in our lives when we were discovering ourselves and realizing how good life was. My sympathy to all who miss him and all who love him.

It has been many years since I last saw Aaron, but I know how fortunate I was to have been a part of his life. I will always have sweet memories of him that make me smile. His love and talent will be missed.

He is in my thoughts and prayers.

Dear Ellen very sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts are with you.



Best Wishes, Nina

This is so sad and heartbreaking. The last time I saw Aaron was at People's Market in Evanston where he talked excitedly about becoming a chef. We had a standing engagement to eat at Charlie Trotter's one day. I will remember him always as a friend, a fellow lover of music and food, and as a creative force - I will miss terribly. My deepest sympathy to his loving mother and family.

Dear Ellen,

I am very sorry for your loss....at such a young age too. I can imagine the pain you and your Mom are experiencing and hope that somehow this will lessen with time, while retaining your fullest and best memories of Aaron.

Hi Ellen,

We are very sad about your tragedy. No parent should ever have to bury a child. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Sandy and Bob Simon

In addition to being a very talented musician and an outstanding chef, Aaron was a loving, kind and compassionate gentleman. The memories of him, along with special family times I was privileged to share, will always remain in my heart.

Our memories of Aaron include his sparkling music talent, his marvelous use of humor to spread good cheer, and his genuine friendship with our son John. We remember him with great fondness.

My darling, This is Jane, Hope you have my note.I will be here when you need to be somewhere quiet in my garden. Love you Jane P.

The world is and will continue to be a better place for having had Aaron within it... he spread his laughter and kindness to all he met and my memories of him are cherished. He will be remembered.

I am so sad to hear that one of the best friends I ever had is gone. I will always remember that he made me laugh more than anyone. I will always miss his kindness and his warm heart.

Ellen, My heart goes out to you as a mother. I am so sorry for your loss. Rest assured that Aaron will never be forgotten in our hearts. He is the part of our past that helps shape our future and he loves you dearly.

Ellen,



I am so, so sorry. No other words can begin to express my feelings upon hearing this news.



You are a fabulous, intersting woman and I'm sure Aaron was a fabulous, interesting man. He is in my prayers as are you.



Please know I am available, any time, if you ever need to talk, cry, whatever.



Love,



Sue Schell