Search by Name

Search by Name

Mary Ann Barnard

1929 - 2024

BORN

1929

DIED

2024

Mary Barnard Obituary

Mary Ann Barnard
A lifelong reader, philosopher, and friend, Mary Ann Barnard, 95, died peacefully July 15, 2024. She was forever upbeat, interested, and optimistic.
Mary Ann was born in Alton on June 15, 1929, the only child of Emily (McPhillips) and Stan Meister. Always kind and empathetic, she chose to do the right thing all her life. She graduated from Monticello College in 1949, and the University of Illinois in 1951.
In 1955, she married Bill Barnard and they embarked on a long and happy partnership.
In the 60s they were transferred to New York, living in Connecticut and making great friends there. Coming back to Alton meant coming back to lifelong friends and family.
Mary Ann and Bill were gracious hosts who enjoyed welcoming and entertaining guests in their home, especially during holidays.
Mary Ann was always willing to listen and help. She especially appreciated her affiliation with the Hayner Library Jennie Ds, the Monticello College Foundation, and OASIS Women's Resources.
Mary Ann is survived by three children and their spouses; Ann and Paul Toftness of Saint Paul, MN, Jamey and Susan (Wild) Barnard of Onekama, MI, and Alice Barnard and David Schmalbeck of Alton; five grandchildren, Eric and Kate Toftness in Roseville, MN, Corson Barnard in Chicago, Louise Barnard in Los Angeles, Will Schmalbeck in Chicago, and Andy Schmalbeck in Alton; and two great-grandchildren, Charlie and Nora Toftness. She is also survived by a half-brother, Stan Meister and his wife Judy, of Chicago. She was preceded in death by her husband of 65 years, Bill Barnard, in December of 2020.
A reception to remember Mary Ann and Bill will be held on Saturday, July 20th, between 3-6pm, at The Evergreens on the campus of Lewis & Clark Community College.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Telegraph on Jul. 17, 2024.

Memories and Condolences
for Mary Barnard

Not sure what to say?





2 Entries

Single Memorial Tree

Sara Anschuetz

Planted Trees

Diane

July 18, 2024

Always a smile on her face, the cutest giggly laugh, her welcoming spirit, the absolute kindest heart! The last ones standing. We love ya´ll

Showing 1 - 2 of 2 results

Make a Donation
in Mary Barnard's name

Memorial Events
for Mary Barnard

To offer your sympathy during this difficult time, you can now have memorial trees planted in a National Forest in memory of your loved one.

How to support Mary's loved ones
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Poems of Mourning and Comfort

The best poems for funerals, memorial services, and cards.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
How to Cope With Grief

Information and advice to help you cope with the death of someone important to you.

Read more
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
Ways to honor Mary Barnard's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more