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Peter Billings Obituary

Peter Watson Billings, Jr.

1945-2024

Salt Lake City, UT-Peter Watson Billings died June 29, 2024, of prostate cancer. He is survived by his wife Margaret "Marney" (Dewey); children, Molly (Sandeep) and David (Irene); and grandchildren, Theo, Navya, and Josh.

Peter was born to Peter (Sr.) and Marjorie "Peg" Abbott Billings. He grew up in Salt Lake City with his brothers, John, Tom, and Stuart. He was student body president at St. Mark's (later merged with Rowland Hall) and head of student government at Brown University. At age 24, Peter was the youngest person to have ever been appointed to Brown's board of trustees. After college, Peter won a fellowship to King's College Cambridge. There, he played tennis and rowed in the "gentlemen's eight." He drank tea between tennis games and formed a love of being on the water in a scull or kayak.

In 1968, he entered Harvard Law School. A year later, working in Washington, DC, for Senator Frank Moss, he met Marney. They married less than a year later. For over 54 years, Peter and Marney were rarely apart. Peter graduated cum laude from Harvard Law School and then returned to Washington, DC, to practice law for two years before returning to SLC to be manager of Wayne Owens' Senate campaign. Peter practiced law at Fabian & Clendenin (later Fabian VanCott) for over 45 years, including 25 as President of the firm. He worked with his father for decades and, briefly, with his son.

Among his many accomplishments and leadership positions, he liked to joke that he had held two of the toughest (and unpaid) jobs in Utah: Chairman of the Utah Liquor Commission and Chairman of the Utah Democratic Party. When his children were in grade school, Peter also served on the Board of Trustees and as Board Chairman of Rowland Hall. After he retired, Peter served as President of the Salt Lake Country Club, overseeing difficult times during the pandemic while undergoing cancer treatments.

His children remember him teaching them to ski and to appreciate the outdoors, including Utah's red rock country. Peter loved to compete with everyone on everything, whether it was in the courtroom, on the golf course, about the number of steps you took in a day, or the New York Times word puzzles. More often than not, he would win. His grandkids remember him as Papou, a name his mother claimed he gave himself as a toddler. Peter loved being a grandfather. He upped his bedtime story-reading game, taught them how to drive (the golf cart), and how to play pickleball. He gave them unconditional love, and they returned it.

Peter and his family would like to thank Dr. Benjamin Maughan, who listened to his questions, answered them well, and was kind and extraordinarily able in caring for Peter. We will be forever grateful.

Services will be held at St. Mark's Cathedral at a later date. In lieu of flowers, the family asks that you send donations to Huntsman Cancer Institute.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Salt Lake Tribune, The Salt Lake Tribune from Jul. 8 to Jul. 14, 2024.

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Jeanne Jardine

July 28, 2024

We admire Peter and Marney Billings for their love of family, their dedication to the Democratic Party, and their love of adventure. We feel so lucky to have had them for friends for many years.

Jay Jaffe

July 15, 2024

In the fall of 1987, I was a senior applying to colleges, and as part of the application process, I had to undergo alumni interviews. I only remember two of them. The first, for Yale, went fine, but ultimately I did not get accepted. The second, for Brown University, was conducted by Peter Billings.

When I went to his downtown corporate office in Salt Lake City, our interview began before I even sat down.

"So, do you ski much?" he asked.

"Yes, sir. Since I was six."

"Well, don´t take your skis back east, because it´s all ---- compared to here. Too icy!"

We shared a hearty laugh, which instantly put me at ease. I don´t remember anything else about the interview except that it felt like a breeze, and it must have gone well because I was accepted to Brown (statistically improbable though that was). I loved my time there, and I´ve largely followed Peter's skiing advice, reserving my time on the slopes for my trips home to Utah and its incomparable snow. And although we never crossed paths again, I retained a spot in my heart for the man who helped changed the course of my life in one encounter.

RIP, Peter. My condolences to his family and friends.

Katy Wisniewski

July 12, 2024

Dearest Marney, Molly, David, Theo, Navya, and Josh,

Peter left a beautifully permanent shaping of my soul, for which I'm grateful to this day. I spent all my formative years on holidays with him - river trips, picnics at Doughnut Falls, Christmas Eves, Easters, Fourth of Julys, Memorial Days, and much later on, at funerals and weddings of family members. Peter lives on in my memory as a kind, smart, clever, generous, and principled force; a sensible and courageous leader for Democrats and nonteetotalers in Utah, plus one of the few people who understood and appreciated my favorite school, St. John's College.

Peter is loved. May the memory of his passing be a blessing.

nonstop hugs,
Kates

Brett Clifford

July 12, 2024

I first met Peter Billings during his tenure as Chairman of the Utah Liquor Control Commission (as that thankless agency was then known) in 1979. He called me and my boss Ken Wynn into his office to insist on our opening Utah´s first Wine Store. We secured a space on the southeast corner of Trolley Square, I scrambled to purchase wines wholesale from suppliers who had never considered this market, and we opened the first of December that year. Needless to say, Peter´s foresight was a great success!

Max Roth

July 11, 2024

My mom and dad, David and Nancy Roth, were so sad at the news of Peter's death. I'm making sure we get it on the news tonight (I work at Fox 13 in SLC.) Anyone here have a good personal photo of him you like? I only have the official pictures. Thanks!

Beverley Cooper

July 11, 2024

I was sadly surprised to read of Peter´s passing. For a time, I was able to call him friend and mentor in politics. I counted on his guidance as a Board Member of Planned Parenthood Action Council and in our work with candidates. He was always willing to engage in a deep and friendly manner. I wills miss him. Sending love to Marnie and his family.

Michael Sibbett

July 11, 2024

Know one will know the true impact Peter had in our community and all the back rooms he quietly influenced public policy. RIP

cary jones

July 11, 2024

Peter was such a dynamic friend and leader. We will miss his daily mark on our lives and his decency in all he accomplished.

Karen Shepherd

July 10, 2024

Peter never saw a problem he couldn´t solve or a country he didn´t want to visit. A remarkable politician (my mentor and colleague always) and a gifted lawyer, he was determined to beat cancer and set a record of doing it for eight courageous years. You left us with grace and dignity, Peter. I will remember that and you always.

Jess Agraz and Olivia

July 9, 2024

We are so sorry for your loss
Jess and Olivia Agraz

Becky Youkstetter

July 9, 2024

I was lucky to know Peter (and Marney) during my time at KUER. I always found Peter to be extremely intelligent, personable, and kind. I am so sorry to hear of his passing. Much love to his entire family.

Becky Youkstetter

Holly Mullen

July 9, 2024

To Marney and family:

It's so difficult to say goodbye to the best humans. I send condolences for your loss of Peter, for myself and my recently deceased husband, Ted Wilson.

Ted went much further back with Peter than I, of course, on the tough path of Utah politics. I know we both always enjoyed seeing him at many Democratic candidate fundraisers and other events. He was smart, kind, wise. And so smart.

If the universe is kind, Peter is sitting with Wayne Owens and Ted at this moment, solving climate change, the crisis in the Middle East, and everything else that matters!

Peace and comfort to all.

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