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Betty Meyer Obituary
Betty Lou (Griffin) Meyer, 85, of Higganum, beloved Mom, Grams, Nana, Aunt Bet, Grandma Betty, passed away after a short illness surrounded by her loving family on Friday, August 13, 2021. She was born on August 3, 1936, along with her twin sister Barbara as the youngest of the ten, to the late Winfred Griffin and Jenny (Watrous) Griffin. She graduated in June, 1954 from Morgan High School in Clinton. On October 31, 1954, she married the love of her life, Bernard V. Meyer. They moved to Hidden Lake in 1958 and made their home where they raised their family. They were able to share 55 years together before his passing in 2009.
Betty worked for more than 25 years at the former Cheesebrough-Ponds in Clinton in various positions, before taking early retirement in 1991. She loved watching her Hallmark channel shows and was very supportive of our active service members and veterans. Betty was a very strong person of faith and as a member of her church, taught Sunday School, was worship committee leader, help to established the food bank, Red Bird missions, holiday food baskets for families in need and her homemade goodies were a staple for the weekly coffee hour. In addition, her jams and jellies and hand-made items were always a highlight at the annual church fair. She was recently inducted into the Haddam-Killingworth Hall of Fame for all of her volunteer service. She did not like the spotlight and so often she privately would be "taking care" of things for her neighbors, friends and family. Grandma Betty had a gift of being encouraging, thoughtful and caring which is why she was adored and loved by all who knew her.
Betty's family was first to her. She was a devoted Mom and Grandmother who had an amazing love that touched each and everyone one in a special way and will be dearly missed. She is survived by her four children, David of Higganum, Linda Mascaro and her husband Peter of Middletown, Malcolm and his wife Elisabeth of Haddam, Douglas and his fiancé Heidi of Higganum; her grandchildren, Shannon Zarger and her husband Stephen, Michael and his wife Lindsey Ravizza , Kelley Anne Meyer, Stephanie Buote and her husband James, Chanelese Meyer and her fiancé Andrew Norris, Joshua Meyer and his partner Kaleigh Griffith, Nathaniel Meyer, Bethany Meyer and her fiancé Nathaniel McCann, Skyler, Lillian, Matthew, Elizabet and Jacquelyn Meyer; Adam Mascaro and his wife Sheri; her great-grandchildren Paige and Lauren Zarger; Bradley, Logan and Mayelle Buote, Kit Ravizza-Meyer, Alivia and John Mascaro, Mason Mascaro and a great-grandson due in October; her special nieces Marilee, Gail, Wanda, Janice, Robin and Miranda, and many more nieces and nephews. She was predeceased by her siblings, Doris Kelsey, Emily Slye, Winfred, Harry, Charles, Carl and Roger Griffin, Naomi Foley and her twin sister Barbara Bronke, who passed on the same day, 5 years earlier and grandson Peter Mascaro, Jr. Burial will be private. A celebration of her life will be held on Saturday, August 28th from 12 p.m.-3 p.m. at the Haddam Fire House, 439 Saybrook Road in Higganum. Per Betty's request, In lieu of flowers, the family asks that you make memorial contributions to the Higganum United Methodist Church, PO Box 475, 248 Saybrook Road, Higganum, CT 06441. Oak Grove Cremation Services in entrusted with arrangements. www.oakgrovecremation.com.
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Janet Lemond
May 18, 2025
Betty was loved by all she encountered. Her life was proof that love never dies.
Craig W. Ramsay
May 17, 2025
Betty was the hardest working Grandma and she loved the Lord Jesus with all her heart.
Janet Lemond
August 16, 2023
Betty will never be forgotten.
Janet Lemond
August 16, 2022
On the first year of her passing Betty is still missed very much. We all now have an angel in heaven looking out for all of us. God bless.
Terri Moody den Outer
September 6, 2021
David, Linda, Malcolm, Doug & family,
So sorry to hear of the passing of your Mom. As you have written so wonderfully, your Mom was a wonderful, caring and thoughtful person! She could always put a smile on anyone´s face that she spoke with! We all (the Moodys) remember your Mom and Dad very fondly, and how they were very dear friends with our parents! Both worked with our parents and in the early day at the lake.We can remember our Moms having coffee together and my mom carpooling with your mom and Mrs L. to work in Clinton. How they would be on the bowling team with our parents. How thoughtful your Mom was to feed all us Moody´s when our Mom passed. She meant a great deal to our family. You are all in our hearts and your Mom and Dad will always be in our fondness memories growing up at the lake!
Louis Lemond
August 26, 2021
Betty was an extraordinary and sweet lady. I have never known anyone to do so much as Betty did for church, her community, and the many lives she touched. Betty most always had a beautiful smile on her face and kind words to say in making those around her happy. God has surely welcomed his newest angel.
Jenell Smith Janes
August 26, 2021
Linda, Doug & Family - I am so sorry to hear of your Mom's passing. She always wore a smile and her laugh was contagious. Her generous and warm spirit will live on in each of you and all whom she touched. I have fond memories of her and still now, just thinking about her puts a smile on my face. May she rest in peace. Thinking of you and keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers.
Lori Gilbert
August 24, 2021
Linda and family, my deepest sympathies to all of you. Heaven has gained a beautiful angel. May she Rest In Peace.
Tracey Strom Grant
August 21, 2021
So sorry to hear about Betty. My thoughts and prayers go to you all. I remember hanging out with you all. Growing up as neighbors was a blessing. She will be missed.
Gerry Morrissette
August 20, 2021
Linda,
I am so sorry to hear of your Mom's passing.
She is now at peace.
God Bless.
Carol Spencer of Haddam
August 20, 2021
Dear Linda & family,
Nothing is ever quite the same after our moms leave.
May her heavenly light shine brightly upon you, family, loved ones and friends.
Praying happy memories of days gone by bring you a smile before a tear.
God Bless
Janet Lemond
August 19, 2021
Betty was a beautiful person in every sense of the word. She was kind, caring and giving. Whenever anyone was ill or alone, Betty was always there to lend a hand. She was also very welcoming to the new church members of her beloved church, Higganum United Methodist. I know this first hand as I was new church member in 2018 and Betty was the first to greet me and make me feel at home. She was a great baker & she created wonderful crafts for the church fairs. Her handcrafted jams & jelly are still being savored by me as I write this message. Lastly when I had to undergo surgery, Betty brought these wonderful treats to me at home while I recuperated. She was like a second mother to me and I will miss her. Sincerely- Janet Lemond
Sandy Zajac
August 19, 2021
Sending sincere sympathy to you and your family. Grandma Betty was an exceptional angel here on earth and I believe that God needed help in heaven with His jams and jellies. Sure will miss my little surprises left on my doorstep. Praying that a lifetime of warm and loving memories will help ease your sadness. God bless! It has been a privilege to have her in my life.
Hugs, Sandy and Jack Zajac
Brenda Buzzi
August 19, 2021
My love, prayers, comfort, and positive vibes are being sent to you all! Grandma Betty was beyond special and loved. May her kindness and generosity have a ripple affect to everyone who she touched and beyond!
Peace! -Brenda
Cindy Hoover Miller
August 19, 2021
Reaching across the many miles to hug you Linda. Your Mom was the best, I remember how loved I felt at all those sleep-overs at your house, like I was one of her own.
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