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Thomas J. Meskel

1940 - 2021

Thomas Meskel Obituary

Thomas J. Meskel, 81, a resident of Grayslake, IL, passed away December 29, 2021 at Northwestern Medicine Lake Forest Hospital, surrounded by family. He was born November 9, 1940 in Oelwein, IA to Patrick and Virginia Meskel. Tom is survived by his three children, six grandchildren, sister and many relatives. He was preceded in death by his parents and infant sister, and most recently, wife Mary.

Tom attended Catholic elementary schools in northeast Iowa, graduated valedictorian of North High School ('58) in West Union, IA. He graduated in 1962 from Marquette University under a NROTC scholarship. As Lieutenant in the Navy, he met his beloved wife, Mary Ellen Smith, of 56 years. Tom attended the University of Iowa to earn a M.A.T., and was a Math teacher and department head at Mason City High School (IA.) Tom concluded his career at District 219 Niles West High School (IL) as Director of Math & Science. He earned many accolades during his dedicated career in education.

Services will be held on Saturday, February 5, 2022, 1:00pm at St. Mary of the Annunciation, Mundelein, IL. All funeral arrangements are entrusted to Strang Funeral Chapel, Grayslake, IL. Memorials may be made to: Wounded Warrior Project, Foundation46, Red Cloud Indian School. Final resting will occur June 25, 2022, in West Union, IA.

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Published by Chicago Tribune on Jan. 16, 2022.

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Mike Kantaris

November 12, 2022

Mr. Meskel was the greatest, best, and funniest math teacher that I had at Mason City High School. I loved his statistics class and his bonus joke at the end of each test. What a sense of humor and I loved the Black Jaks in concert at MCHS. I followed in his footsteps as an officer in the Naval Service. A truly great man and the world is worse off without him in it.

Francis Bernier

July 30, 2022

I was Tom´s freshman roommate in Schroeder Hall at Marquette U. We lost track over the years, but many great memories remain.

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Andrea Johanns

February 9, 2022

My deepest sympathy. I have so many wonderful childhood memories. I have so enjoyed our Christmas card exchanges through all these years. Two extraordinary people who will be cherished and remembered always.

Shelley Chipkin

February 5, 2022

Tom was my boss at Niles West HS for 15 years, where he was Director of the Math and Science Departments. As his 'executive secretary,' there was rarely a dull moment. The demands of his job were daunting, to say the least, and I like to think that I helped him by being a good assistant.
I learned so much from Tom! We had lots of laughs and lots of challenges. I admired Tom's sense of humor and overall cheery disposition, even during times of adversity. He used many expressions that I had been completely unfamiliar with prior to working for him, many of which I found quite amusing. One example, which taught me to not always take him literally, was whenever he returned from a meeting or somewhere, he'd ask me if there were any fires. I'd look at him as if to say, 'Did you really just ask me that, because I'm sure you would have heard about it...' No one could 'take the Navy out of the guy, so I quickly learned, that his lingering passion for everything Navy, would infiltrate numerous aspects of our working relationship. I could probably write a book....
Tom was a talented mathematician. He loved his family fiercely and talked endlessly about them; particularly, about fun times in the good old days with his beloved Mary, aka "his bride." He used to say they deserved each other :-).
I had the good fortune of speaking to Tom about a month before he passed away. I wanted to express my condolences about Mary's passing. We had a wonderful 'catch up' conversation. I already understood what a close couple Tom and Mary were, so I think it 'added up' that he needed to keep her close. Tom told me the key to their happy life together was that they always managed to 'keep it fun.'
My sincere condolences to the entire Meskel family.

Nancy Feely

January 25, 2022

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Nancy Feely

January 25, 2022

Thank you for sharing your memories and kind words of my father. He is truly missed.

Ray Ciscon

January 25, 2022

Tom, was an fellow "Counter Critter" at Fred´s Diner in Grayslake, and he was a wonderfully friendly man. Always telling wonderful stories about his time as a teacher. He was a good man, and he will be missed.

Maria J (Vlahos) Vasilopoulos

January 24, 2022

My condolences go out to Tom's family during this difficult time. I knew Tom through many "math" circles and have spent many meetings admiring all that he's contributed to mathematics and leadership. Tom was a true leader, and a mentor to many. Above all, he was a wonderful person that truly cared for others. He's inspired teachers and has made all of us better at what we do. He will be deeply missed. May his memory be eternal.

Phillip Gartner

January 24, 2022

Tom was a dear colleague in the math education community. I knew Tom as a fellow math department chair / director. As part of our group, his professional contributions and personal interactions were just wonderful. I am so sorry for your loss. A memory -- when frequent testing was becoming more of a thing, Tom relayed his wisdom from his experience -- weighing a hog more often doesn't make it any heavier.

Sandra Dawson

January 23, 2022

I was so sorry to hear about Tom and my heart and prayers go out to his family. I knew Tom through various mathematics education organizations in the Chicago area and the state of Illinois. He was a wonderful friend and mentor to many students and teachers. He was such a leader. He will be missed.

Steve Foerch

January 18, 2022

My condolences. Tom was my boss for many years at Niles West HS. His gentle, firm and fatherly style of management helped shape many successful careers. The world has lost a kind and sterling individual.

Dale (Vogler) Corboy

January 16, 2022

So sorry to hear of Tom's passing. I knew both your mother and Tom. Tom and I worked together at Niles Township HS District 219. He was a wonderful mentor to me when I was hired there. His contributions to the math department and 219 students, can still be seen - a lasting legacy.

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1:00 p.m.

St. Mary of the Annunciation

Mundelein, IL

Funeral services provided by:

Strang Funeral Chapel & Crematorium Ltd

410 East Belvidere Rd, Grayslake, IL 60030

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