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Wayne Walter Whalen

1939 - 2022

Wayne Walter Whalen obituary, 1939-2022, Chicago, IL

BORN

1939

DIED

2022

Wayne Whalen Obituary

Whalen, Wayne Walter

Wayne Walter Whalen was born in Savanna, Illinois on August 22, 1939 to Leo and Esther (Yackley) Whalen. The oldest of five, Wayne grew up in Hanover, Illinois on his family´s mallard duck farm, Whistling Wings. Wayne´s early jobs, beginning at the age of nine, included detasseling corn and shining shoes. He was the first in his family to go to college, graduating as a member of the United States Air Force Academy's third class in 1961. While serving for three years as a missile launch officer, he would emerge from the silo at Sheppard Air Force Base in Wichita Falls, Texas to teach high school math on his days off.



Wayne graduated from Northwestern University Law School in 1967. Believing he could help end the Cold War, Wayne was a summer intern at the Arms Control and Disarmament Agency in Washington, D.C. However, after spending his next summer in corporate law, Wayne joined Mayer, Brown & Platt upon graduation and practiced there until 1984. His commitment to the rule of law extended to serving as a delegate to the 1970 Illinois Constitutional Convention; serving as one of the first members of the Illinois Judicial Inquiry Board; assisting in both of Harold Washington's campaigns for Mayor of Chicago; and working with others to organize credentials challenges during the 1968 and 1972 Democratic National Conventions that eventually culminated in an argument before the United States Supreme Court. In 1984, Wayne and five partners founded the Chicago office of Skadden, Arps, Slate, Meagher & Flom. He served as the managing partner for 25 years. During that time, he proudly represented an eclectic group of clients ranging from Fortune 500 companies to Southside lottery winners providing expert legal advice, strategy, and judgment. In keeping with his commitment to the common good, Wayne also served on numerous boards including the Abraham Lincoln Presidential Library and Museum Foundation, the Adlai Stevenson Center on Democracy, and the United States Air Force Academy Endowment.



Wayne met the love of his life, Paula Wolff, at the 1970 Illinois Constitutional Convention. Surprising everyone who knew them, they eloped on the original Earth Day at the Springfield courthouse. Married for over 52 years, they have five spectacular children and eleven even better grandchildren whom Wayne took incredible care of and loved dearly.



Wayne was an avid reader who loved to share books with his friends and took great pleasure in watching his Chicago Bears. Despite all of his work and civic commitments, he rarely missed a game, meet or concert featuring his children. He enjoyed snorkeling, scuba diving, bird watching, and taking serious naps while on vacation.



Wayne, who died at home on June 20, 2022, is survived by Paula, Amanda Whalen (Jim Stewart), Clementine Whalen (Daniel Lieberman), Antonia Whalen (Phil Fager), Nathaniel Whalen (Molly Greenwood), Daniel Hodges, and eleven grandchildren. He is also survived by his siblings Marianne Murphy, William Whalen, and Catharine Eisenhofer. He was preceded in death by his parents and his sister Barbara Houseman, and an infant daughter Cordelia Whalen.



In lieu of flowers, donations in memory of Wayne may be made to the University of Chicago Medical Center for Parkinson's/Progressive Supranuclear Palsy research (http://giving.uchicago.edu/wayne-whalen) or the Lincoln Presidential Foundation (https://www.lincolnpresidential.org/giving/).

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Published by Chicago Sun-Times from Jun. 23 to Jun. 26, 2022.

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Brenda George

July 13, 2023

My deepest condolences for Mr Wayne Whalen. My mother, Willie Mae McLilly-Morgan always viewed you and Paula as wonderful family and your beautiful children.

Glenda Lamon Arnold

June 17, 2023

Rest in peace. Mr. Whalen, Was always pleased when I was assigned to work with you.

Graham Grady

June 17, 2023

Thank you Wayne Whalen for your service in making Chicago a more fair, open and equitable place to live, work and play.

Olufunmilayo Olopade

April 22, 2023

We lost a great neighbor and legendary Attorney. May his soul rest in peace.

Sola and Funmi Olopade

Caroline P Cracraft

September 28, 2022

Deepest sympathy.
A very great man.

Mark Miller

July 8, 2022

My deepest sympathies to each of you and your loved ones.

Wayne was simply a tremendous person. He was a man of sound judgement and good advice. He possessed a unique capability to express a phenomenal amount of significant insight and import with very few words. He possessed the courage to stand up the right thing and for those who needed help even if they were not big shots or established powers. This was true not only of Jesse and Harold, but many others as well.

Wayne touched many lives in positive ways. He was always willing to talk and to provide genuinely well-thought and useful input. Beyond that, he genuinely conveyed a humanness and humility as well as a dry sense of humor.

You all have a great deal of which to be proud.

All in all, Wayne is already truly missed.

Benjamin Ruddell

June 28, 2022

My deepest sympathy to Paula and to all Mr. Whalen's family and loved ones.

Carrie LeFlore-Martin

June 27, 2022

Rest in Pease, Mr. Whalen.

William (Bill) Donnan

June 27, 2022

I am a class of Hanover 1953 knew his family as well as him. We talked several times in early years, I will miss him. Bill Donnan

Bridget Lee

June 24, 2022

I am grateful for his friendship to me in the last few years. He was a treasured friend.

Graham Grady

June 24, 2022

Mr. Whalen's leadership to help Harold Washington become the first Black mayor of Chicago was characteristic of his and Paula's social justice efforts leading to impactful change and the betterment of society. May Mr. Whalen rest in peace as his legacy lives on.

Brigid Leahy

June 23, 2022

My mom, Mary Lee Leahy, served in Con Con with Wayne and remained friends after. I was little. But, I do have happy memories of going with Mom and Dad (Andy) and my sister to fun parties with lots of politicos and Wayne´s warm personality and laugh. Lots of lively debate and laughs. Those were good times.

JoAnn Buss

June 23, 2022

A truly great, kind man. I enjoyed working with him.

Max James

June 23, 2022

The great contributions that he made to the Air Force Academy through his leadership will not soon be forgotten.

John Maciejczyk

June 23, 2022

I never met Wayne, but know his son Nate well. Nate is very much a credit to his father's parenting. My sypathies for the family's loss.
John

Glenda Gay Lamon Arnold

June 23, 2022

Enjoyed working with Skadden, Arps for around 15 years and mostly with Mr. Whalen and his knowledge and expertise in law and the State of Illinois. Most interesting was The Lincoln Library since my Great Grand Uncle, Ward Lamon, was President Lincoln's closest friend and confident. My prayers and condolences to Paula Wolff and Family.

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