Thomas Gilbert Obituary

Tommy,

16 yrs have come and gone. Yet, you are still remembered. You are remembered because of the man you were, the example you set, and the love that you chose to display.
You were a great Marine, but you were an amazing person. Whether that mischievous smile, bringing joyful wonder and anticipation, or the heartfelt stories of family, friends, and the passions of your life, there was always hope and optimism, radiating from your very being.
God gained a fine warrior, in Heaven. We lost an amazing brother, too soon!

Semper Fidelis, brother!

Jd

Hey bud. I really miss you man. Every month or so, you pop into my dreams and we're on an adventure together.

Maybe it's ripping around on our bikes...with too big engines or us doing the work on the trails of Palos. Sometimes we're out picking up chicks in that bar that saw many our shadow. Hell, it could even be us being the outcasts of the football team. Those dudes that would put everything we could into it, but only end up on the kickoffs.

I wish you were here to tell me the crazy adventures you've been up to. I wish you were here so I can tell you the crazy adventures I've been up to. I wish we could have those adventures together.

You are never forgotten. Your loss changed everything for more people than you could even imagine. My whole world changed in an instant when I found out you were killed. It was the only thing that mattered, everything else could be clearly seen in the trivial nature that it truly was. Your loss laid bare the fragile existence we have and I genuinely hope others paid heed.

I write this, 15 years later, with the biggest tears running down my checks since the gun salute at your funeral. I want you to know that you have made a difference, and that you still affect peoples lives, hopefully for the better.

Hey bud. I really miss you man. See you in a dream soon.

Thinking about you and your family, Tommy.

I knew Tom in high school through track & field, and I think about him every year around this time. It been over ten years now since his death, but I will always remember him as a thoughtful, outgoing, charismatic young man -- full of energy, optimism and a great sense of humor. I'm grateful for his service to our country and wish I could tell him so today. He was a truly quality person, and I can't help but wonder what he would be doing today. Thank you to the Gilbert family for raising a fine man.

Another Saint Patrick's day. You are and will continued to be missed by all that knew you, God Bless

one of the best men you will have ever known and leader semper fi love you and you family -auto-

Not forgotten

In remembrance of Thomas affinity for his Irish heritage, I offer him a "Happy St. Patrick's Day." I remain indebted to Sgt Thomas Gilbert for his service and sacrifice for this Country.

Being so far away, in the Seattle area, we were delayed in finding out about Thomas passing on to heaven and just now found this guest book. Please know that we care deeply for you and can't imagine how devastating it must have been and continues to be for you. We are praying that the memories will comfort you, like a warm blanket on a cold bitter night. We found a quote "To live in hearts we leave behind is not to die." Thomas Campbell.

To the family and friends of Sgt. Thomas M. Gilbert:
Please accept my remembrance of Thomas on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.

Thinking of you and your family this Memorial Day.

Up late again. Miss you brother. Just was thinking about you. May the wind be always on your bake, the sun always on your face....

Thinking of you on this Veteran's day. You were always kind to me at DGN. Much love to the Gilbert family.
Tommy, thank you for your service.
Becky (Roder) Kusen

To the family and friends of Sgt. Thomas M. Gilbert:
Remembering Thomas on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

Today, I saw a photo of your son’s bedroom in “The Shrine Down The Hall” www.nytimes.com Seeing his shoes under his bed and faithful dog napping on the bedspread made me cry. I feel pain that Thomas can never return to his bedroom. God bless you.

I first met Tommy in Germany on his way to Africa for his first deployment.He was kind,warm and very much a gentleman.
To the Gilbert Family,please accept my deepest sympathies.
Tommy,you will always be in my heart.

An Irish Blessing
May the road rise to meet you
May the wind be always at your back
May the sun shine warm upon your face
May the rains fall soft upon your fields
And until we meet again
May God hold you in the palm of his hand.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

This is a late entry but I had the opportunity of working with Tom on a civilian level. He was a Marine reserve at the time. I am a supervisor for a contract security organization. He was an exemplary member of my supervisory team and I am proud to have known him. It was an honor to have worked with him. Many thanks.

Tommy and his family,

You are missed brother. I think back to your sense of humor, even on the bad days, especially on the bad days, and it still makes me smile. It was an honor to serve with you.

Doc Turman

Gilbert Family, Tom, thanks for your service and ultimate sacrifice, I met your Dad at Wild Fire Harley at an event and after we chatted, he offered me one of your patches which I had put on my leather coat so you can ride the harley with me! We have gone many miles. Thru unforseen circumstances I am going on a run with the Patriot rider group on sunday and I thought of you. I looked on their webpage and there was pics of all the bikers who came to honor and respect you. My Gilbert,I would love to talk to you again, Please email [email protected]

Gilbert Family,
I still think about Tommy quite frequently. It isn't such a painful, sad feeling anymore. Now it is with happiness that I remember Tommy and his soul. He was a gentleman through and through!I just wanted to let you know he will never be forgotten. Neither will you. Neither will his brothers.

Tommy,
I never had the chance to talk to you or see your smile, but I knew the people that loved you the most, and were so sad when you left us. I lost a friend on Feb. 20th to the war, and in this respect, I want to thank you for your service, and the honor that you provided for your country. You are truly a hero, and I am sorry I never got to tell you this you while you were here. May you rest in heaven and look down on those that love you the most, as they look up at you.

We love our Soldiers! We love our country and we cannot express enough love and compassion to the families of our fallen heroes. War does not discriminate – It breaks our hearts to see the faces of the fallen. We want to give this gift to you. We are a 501c3 nonprofit organization! Over 1,450 portraits have been completed and shipped to the parents and or spouse - at no cost as this is a gift from one American to another!
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Sincerely,
Kenna

Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.


The Wind on The Downs

“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”

(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )

Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….

“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”


I did not know Thomas, but I am remembering
his service and sacrifice. He is my hero. !

~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~

The Other Side

i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.

can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.

i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.

it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.

i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side

the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.

i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.

Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)

“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008


The Other Side –
(To hear the song)
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Sincerely,

Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Proud Air Force MIL SrA Dana – Randolph AFB

Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55

Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
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To the family of Sgt. Thomas M. Gilbert:
Thomas gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

Dear family of Sgt. Thomas M. Gilbert,

We want to say thank you. We understand that no words can be adequate for your sorrow. We certainly do not want to intrude upon your privacy. As Americans we want you to know that we deeply appreciate the ultimate sacrifice your loved one has made for all of us. We also would like for you to be aware that with this letter comes our special concern and prayers for you. We are all safer because young men and women who love their country, and know the value of a free nation, are willing to put themselves in harms way, and lay down their lives to keep this nation free and safe for all of us.
Your sacrifice is also very great. We know that we can give little comfort; however, the knowledge that your loved one did not die in vain, but died in the service of our country, gives each of us a noble example of the value of life, and the responsibility of freedom. We hope this will bring pride and comfort to you.
We at Gethsemane Church believe that there is purpose to life. We send this letter with our deepest appreciation for the greatest of sacrifices, you and your loved one have given to this country. We know it is not enough, but please allow us to assure you that your loved one is not forgotten.


Very Sincerely

Frank G. Noyes
Frank G. Noyes (Pastor)


Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends.
(Jn. 15:13)

I just joined the Run for the Fallen this week in Southern Illinois on Monday and Tuesday. They are running a mile for every service member that has fallen in Iraq. I thought of Tommy like I said I would. Unfortunatley, I was not able to stay down there for Tommy's mile, which was on Thursday. Please view the website for further information: www.runforthefallen.org

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

A bonnie lad, your Tom. That's the finest photo of a Marine I've ever seen online, and I work w photos for a living. And lost a 20-yr-old brother; and have a Lance Cpl Marine son now, too.

Add my thanks to Tom and his supportive family and friends for his ultimate service.

"A long Life may not be good enough, but a Good Life is long enough." ~ Ben Franklin, From Poor Richard's Almanack - 1755
.

You are remembered and respected. Thank you Sgt Gilbert!

My heart and prayers are with your family. One of my brothers was a marine in Viet Nam, at LZ Russell, and I understand the pride because a loved one was willing to serve, and the sorrow in losing them. May God continue to comfort you, and bless you.

semper fi devildog now you have heaven to take care of. your a brother in arms and a hero in my heart ooooh rahh. I'm a former marine and always in support of my brothers R.I.P

I am an old army vet (VIIth Army HQs 73-76)and live in Orchard Brook. Thank you, Gilbert family, for all that you've sacrificed. Thank you Dan G. for doing the right thing for the remberance of this soldier and the others from our community who have followed in Sgt Gilbert's footsteps. They deserve to not be forgotten.

Mr. and Mrs. Gilbert and family: I know that yesterday was the sad first anniversary of Tom's passing. I can honestly tell you that not a day has gone by that I have not thought of your son and the great sacrifice he and you have made. Although I only met you at Tom's funeral, I know of your family's kindness and goodness through my son, Chris Maks. I can only begin to imagine what this year has been like for your family without Tom, but know that his sacrifice and goodness live on in the memories of so many people. He will never be forgotten. Semper Fi. God bless your beloved boy Tom and may God bless all of you.

Thomas,
Thinking and praying for you on the 1st year of your passing into eternal glory. May God hold you in the palm of His hand. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Rode with the Leatherneck MC as an honorguard yesterday as A-1-24 buried another, due to an auto accident. Can't help but give my deepest sympathy to Tom and all the brave Marines and serviceman/women who had to pass to early for thier time. Forever Young, Never forgotten!!!

Mr. & Mrs. Gilbert and Family,

I have not yet posted an entry on this page,reason being I still have yet to find the right words to tell you how sorry I am about Tommy. I'm sure you don't remember me...I knew Tommy. I have a lot of great memories of him. Him and my brother actually were on the same Football team at DG North- I grew up on Highland Ave. and my mom and I were talking about how we use to watch Tommy and my Brother walk home from football practice...Just one of the memories that I have from Tommy. It's funny that in later years Tommy and my brother would both walk down the same path and both become Marines. I can't even begin to explain how proud I am to say that I know both of them...That I was able to know Tommy. To this day are NO words that I can even begin to tell you how proud I am. I want to Thank the both of you though- My entire family would like to....Tommy was an amazing man and a great friend. You both did an amazing thing with him. And again I will say that there are no words that I can even begin to express How much I am Thankful that I had a moment to actually know your son. He has become a saint in my book. He I believe saved my brother. I have put myself in your shoes for well a long time now and my brother served in Iraq and I can't even begin to tell your family Thank you and How soory I am. Coming from a family of Marines and service men there will never be any words that I could hear that would be able to put any of it in to words...So Thank you, Thank you for allowing your son to be one of the few and proud because I know that I will always be proud of him - and He is still the best of the best!!! Semper Fi!!!!

Stand down Sgt. Gilbert your watch is now over. You have served as one of Americas Finest with Honor, Dignity, and Respect. You are a HERO. Rest in Peace.


Friend of the LZ Russell Assoc. and Patriot Guard Rider.

There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.

Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.

I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.

REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!

PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)

I just read about this young man whom I never knew. When I saw his photo holding the fish when he was jsut a little boy my heart just breaks. To his Mom and Dad your son is a hero. I am thankful for his service to protect our country.

Thank you for the sacrifice made by Sgt Gilbert and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!

I was fortunate to have had the opportunity to lead Tommy for over three years as his platoon commander. On the morning of 25 October, 2006 I lost not only a great Marine, but a friend. Tommy served with dignity and true faithfulness. I will never forget the great times we had, and I could not of asked for a better all around Marine. I wish Mike and Terri to continue to be blessed by God as they go through this very hard time. Semper Fidelis to the Gilberts, and you Tommy, take care up there and keep rooting those Cubies on.

"There not dead,there just sleeping."

Another Fallen Hero ~

My heart breaks as I sign another guestbook of such a courageous soldier who gave his life so selflessly. May he rest in peace knowing that he is loved and remembered by those who knew him. God Bless this soldier and family who gave all and made the ultimate sacrifice. My deepest condolences and prayers go out to the entire family. May God grant you peace, strength and comfort in such a difficult time. My prayers are with your family.

We understand what you are experiencing and feeling. No amount of words can ease the pain of your loss. We know first hand there are no words of comfort at this time. We lost our only son 9-3-2004 at the age of 19 and it fells like yesterday. Just know that there are families across the USA who is experiencing your loss and pain. You are not alone. We will forever be united in the loss of our Heroes.

I still fly my Marine flag and have my Marine tag and sticker on my vehicles because I'm PROUD of my SON and DAUGHTER, and all the SERVICE MEN and WOMEN out there. I will always be a MARINE. We are proud of you all. “Land of the Free, Because of the Brave”

Thank you Legacy.com for setting up this website so families can quickly share their condolences and prayers with others like themselves across this great nation.

Once a Marine, Always a Marine!
Yesterday, Today, Forever – Semper Fi - Marines!

Proud Marine Parents of an American Hero
LCpl. Nicholas S. Perez – KIA 9~3~04 – Al Anbar Province, Iraq

REST IN PEACE MY FRIEND, TO YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS MAY THE MEMORIES OF THIS WONDERFUL SOLDIERS LIFE FILL YOUR HEARTS WITH BEAUTIFUL MEMORIES
GOD BLESS YOU

Please accept my deepest sympathies.

Father we entrust our brother Thomas to your mercy. You loved him greatly in this life: now that he is freed from all its cares, give him happiness and peace forever. Welcome him now into paradise where there will be no more sorrow, no more weeping or pain, but only peace and joy with Jesus your Son, and the Holy Spirit forever and ever.
May God hold Thomas in the palm of His hand. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. My deepest sympathy.

Mr. & Mrs. Gilbert,
Our hearts go out to all those who have lost their lives and continue to fight for our country this Memorial Day. As residents of DG, we are thinking of you and your family. Not only did we lose a fine Marine but we also lost a hometown hero. May the memories of Tom help you keep his spirit alive...God Bless!

Mr. & Mrs. Gilbert,

I was in Sgt. Gilbert's platoon in boot camp. The days were long and tough, and honestly, I can't remember many specifics of our time spent there. I do vividly remember how charismatic and friendly your son was. He was a wonderful Marine and will be justly missed. I am sorry for your loss. Semper Fi

I had the privilege of serving with Tom in Africa. I'm sorry that I didn't find out this tragedy until now. He was one of the nicest, kindest, funniest... he was the best of us. I pray that you find peace knowing the joy that he brought into the lives of others.

Semper Fi

MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. I HAVE JUST LEARNED OF YOUR GREAT LOSS AND WISH TO EXPRESS MY DEEPEST CONDOLENCES. PLEASE KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE AND YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE ON. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOEMDAY. STAY STRONG AND GODSPEED. SEMPER FI

A PROUD MARINE MOM

I remember Tommy as tiny and tow-headed and driving his sisters and I nuts. How wonderful to see he grew into such an honorable young man. Our thoughts and prayers are with you!

Dear Mike and Family,
I am so sorry to hear about Tom - what an outstanding young man. May he rest in peace with God and God go with you all.

David Rice, former sgt USMC

Mike and family,
I am writing this to thank you. I met you at dupage airport on your first mission. I am kevins uncle,rick. Your sincere words to Rich,kevins dad meant so much to him and myself. I have a son 21 and he is my world. I live in Australia and have not visited the US for 16 years. you touched me so much that I had to contact you some how. Your words to rich will stay with me forever. Your son would be proud of you. these words are hard as you know but I hope this makes sense. Rick Heins

To God be the Glory! I pray for God's Compassion and Grace to cover you in this time of loss. But don't mourn over your Thomas' homegoing. He is in Heaven with God and at true peace. Although he suffered death he will never die... for no man dies as long as he is remembered and he will be remembered. Semper Fi,
from an old USMC veteran

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. Your family will be in our thoughts and prayers.

Donna Eberhart

To the Gilbert family,

My thoughts and prayers are with you. Tommy was a great friend who always knew how to make you smile. Tommy, you are a true hero and will never be forgotten.

The soldier stood and faced his God
Which must always come to pass
He hoped his shoes were shining
Just as brightly as his brass.
"Step forward now, you soldier,
How shall I deal with you?
Have you always turned the other cheek?
To My Church have you been true?"
The soldier squared his shoulders and said, "No, Lord, I guess I ain't
Because those of us who carry guns
Can't always be a saint.
I've had to work most Sundays
And at times my talk was tough,
And sometimes I've been violent,
Because the world is awfully rough.
But, I never took a penny
That wasn't mine to keep...
Though I worked a lot of overtime
When the bills got just too steep,
And I never passed a cry for help,
Though at times I shook with fear,
And sometimes, God forgive me,
I've wept unmanly tears.
I know I don't deserve a place
Among the people here,
They never wanted me around
Except to calm their fears.
If you've a place for me here, Lord,
It needn't be so grand,
I never expected or had too much,
But if you don't, I'll understand."
There was a silence all around the throne
Where the saints had often trod
As the soldier waited quietly,
For the judgment of his God,
"Step forward now, you soldier,
You've borne your burdens well,
Walk peacefully on Heaven's streets,
You've done your time in Hell."

To all that serve ...

“Paid in Full”
In Honor of The War Against Terrorism’s Fallen and Injured Marines


Marines through and through, they paid the price
Six thousand miles away, we live the life
For which they paid with their blood, spirits and bodies
We will never forget what they paid in full

We hope and we pray that somehow their loved ones find comfort
In God, in the flag, in the memory of their loved ones’ bravery
They’re gone now but we see them still…proud, strong, willing
Covering each other’s backs… courageous, moving forward

What kind of love did they have for us to be willing
To give it all for the Black, White, Jew, Christian, Muslim?
We don’t comprehend but we honor you now and forever
You are Our Marines…some living…some not
Forever in our minds we will cherish your lives

Lives too short yet immortal they’ll be
Highest brotherhood of the few, the proud
They stand at attention, and we gaze with awe
Some know their names not, but our admiration for them
Flows limitless within us, between us

They sacrificed their limbs or their lives
Freedom still rings, a soft sound across the miles
It tolls slowly; all of creation takes note
Of the lives that were lost for people unknown

Out of sight but not lost; forever among us
The starched blues marching straight
Toward the place where we will meet them
Many years from now…how we loved them…
Well done beloved Brothers and Sisters…You’ve paid it in full
Always Faithful Marines, You Have Paid it in Full

There are no words to express my heartfelt sympathy. Just know I care, and am thinking of you.

Gold Star Mother
Lcpl Philip J Martini KIA 4/06

To the family and friends of Sgt. Thomas M. Gilbert: The pain of your loss will take a long time to subside, and days like today will be especially hard. No one can change that for you, but please be aware that millions of Americans you will never know read Thomas's story, respect him as a true American hero, and share your grief.

my son Chuck was with your son the day they were all killed, he was driving the humvee, I know your grief and also know that our God will carry us through this time. I miss chuck greatly as you must miss thomas. know you are in my prayers daily.

The Gilbert family is in our prayers and may you find peace and strength to get you through the holiday season. Thomas was a true Hero.

Hi, this is to the immediate family of Sgt. thomas Gilbert... um, u don't really know me, but I'm a really good friend of Nick fulco's, and I was told wut happened and I just wanted to tell u how sry I am, but also that he died for noble cause, and it was a true act of bravery. And I, as and American respect to the highest of my body's capacity that he did wut he did. What he did was a true act of loyalty and love. My heart goes out to you, and I will pray for you, but just remember that he's in a better place now, and I'll always remember him as a TRUE AMERICAN HERO...

Sgt. Giblerts Family,
I want to start off by sending my heartfelt condolences with the loss of your son. My husband, LCPL Jonathan B. Thornsberry died with your son on that horrible day. They were true heros. I want you all to know that I am not only heartbroke due to the loss of my husband but due to the loss of your son as well. I keep you all in my prayers.

Toni Thornsberry

Dear Mike, Terri and Family

We are deeply sorry for your loss. Tommy was a wonderful preson and did not deserve to have his life cut short. Karen and I as well as the rest our family will truly miss him. The lake won't be the same without Tommy fishing with Mike or Grampa George. We will continue to pray for Tommy and your family.

I am the wife of a Texas Marine that is attached to 1/24. Some of our Marines have not only lost a Brother in Arms, but have also lost a friend they had become close to.

I'm sure I can speak for the rest of the families here that we were saddened to hear the news about the death of Sgt. Gilbert.

Please know that our thoughts are with you and your loved ones during this time of loss. You are in our prayers and may your heart mend and your memories stay strong.

You have more strength and courage than you may realize now, but I see it as it was inherited by your brave son and know that it is that great strength, family and friends that will help you at this time of loss.

Remember that "Those who live in the hearts of others never die."

Semper Fi-

God Bless You and Thank You for your service! Though I never met you in person, I know that I will meet you in Heaven someday, and I greatly look forward to having that honor. My condolences to your family and friends. God will surely bless them!

My thoughts and prayers are with Sgt Thomas M. Gilbert and his family and friends. I am so sorry for your loss. I can't imaging the pain you feel for the loss of a son, but I do feel the loss of a brother. May God be with you as you continue on remembering your son and all of the joyous times. Know that he is looking down on you and Thomas will forever be in your hearts for he still lives on in you.

My brother PFC Sean T. Cardelli, KIA 1 Feb 2006, Fallujah Iraq. They are together guarding the gates of heaven. Peace be with you. I am so sorry.

Proud sister,

"Greater love has no man than this, that a man lay down his life" John 15:13 How I wish I'd had the privilege of knowing your brave Thomas. I grieve your loss and am humbly, unspeakably grateful for his sacrifice. Your entire family has my prayers not only today as do all the selfess, honorable, courageous men and women serving this country. May God strengthen their loved ones and bless and comfort your family and all those who mourn Tom's memory.

Mr. and Mrs. Gilbert, Tammy and Trisha,

I express my deepest sympathy. I am blessed to have known Tommy for most of my life. I will never forget our family vacations and how Tommy was always by myside, either getting into trouble or just being my buddy. My buddy, who lived his dreams. He will always be in my heart and I will honor him for the rest of my life. He is a hero, a true hero. I miss him greatly.

My heartfelt sympathies to your family. My heart breaks with each new name added to this list, and I am saddened by your loss. Know that you are surrounded by prayers, grace and the deep gratitude of all who live in freedom. My God hold you in his arms and grant you peace. Please find joy in the memories of your loved one and comfort knowing so many are holding you in their hearts. We are the land of the free because of the brave.

I wanted to express my heartfelt sympathy to your family on the loss of your beloved son. I have the privledge of serving on the Abraham Lincoln National Cemetery Memorial Squad. We are a group of volunteers who give final military honors to our veterans at the time of their burial. I was at the cemetery on Thursday Nov. 2, 2006 when Tom was buried. I had the privledge to stand in the background and humbly pay my respects with a salute and a prayer. May it be of some comfort to know that a grateful nation mourns your loss and cherishes his memory. With deepest gratitude for the sacrifice your son made for his country...... Susan Zumbahlen

To Thomas's family and friends-
My family and I are praying for you and your family during this difficult time. We send our deepest empathy as we lost our Marine on 11/30/05 in Fallujah. We are comforted to know that our Marines are serving their country with such honor and bravery. We are so proud of our Marines and all of our other service men and women for all that they have done and continue to do to keep us safe and to give us the freedom we have that so many take for granted.
They are true Heroes and need to always be remembered for their selflessness and sacrifice to better our world. We will forever be united in the loss of our heros. We are so sorry for your loss and hope our words will ease some of the pain, and maybe fill some of your emptiness.
Yesterday, Today, Forever – Semper Fi - Marines!
Our sincerest gratitude for their bravery-
The family of Cpl. William "Billy" Taylor
2/6 WPNS
KIA outside of Fallujah 11/30/05

My heartfelt sympathy to the Gilbert family in the loss of Thomas. I did not know Thomas, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. Thomas you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom

To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~

To the Gilberts,
I cant say that you all will remember me but my name is Greg Birch. I was on the track team with Tom at North. I currently am in the Air Force and stationed out in Texas. I was told the news from my mom recently and cannot begin to express my sympathies. Tom is a great hero even though he wouldnt say so. I am at a loss of words because to me its a loss of a brother in arms. I wish you all the best even in these down times and again I am very sorry.

To the Gilberts:

Although I've never met you, or your son, my husband will not stop singing the praises of your hero. He served in Africa and also Iraq with Tom. Tom will never be forgotten and his sacrifice will never be taken for granted. This earth was a better place because of Tom, but God needed his angel back. May you feel Gods loving arms around you during this difficult time. Semper Fi and God Bless.
- Anne Jansen, wife of Cpl. Ron Jansen, A. Co. 1/24

Mike and Terri,
I don't know if you remember me. I am Bobbie Abare, friend of Andrews mom Robin Music. I met you in Grand Rapids for the family day the Marines held, then we all went to lunch. That was the first time I met Tommy. What an honor to say the least. I can't tell you how hearbroken we all are here in Michigan. That day, when I hugged all those boys goodbye and said stay safe. I really wanted to believe that would be the case. I feel so priveledged to have met you and your wonderful son. I hurt for you, I hurt for Andrew, I truly hurt for anyone that is going through what you are experiencing right now. To know that you and your family mean so much to Andrew, makes it hurt that much more. As a parent, our kids always make us proud, you can't get any prouder than this. Please know, through Tommys friendship with Andrew, there is a magnitude of people on this end that are praying for your family. I believe in the power of prayer and hope that with that comes some comfort. We will continue to pray for you. May God bless you, and comfort you.
Until we meet again
Bobbie

To the Gilberts:

I knew Tommy since Jr High School. He was such a great guy with such a kind heart. He impacted so many lives with his kindness and passion for life. He will be greatly missed but he will forever be remembered. I am so glad I am able to call him my friend. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Dear Terri and Mike i just wanted to let you how awesome tommy was, he taught me how to play pool at your house and it was cool to play and just joke around with him. he was truly an American Hero

god bless your family for the lose of your son. I am marine also once a marine always a marine.you well always have family because when a mman becomes a marine his family is also one also,welcome to your big family .

Dear Gilbert Family,
Even though we have never met, I feel as if we are a part of a "family". My daughter's fiancee was killed in Iraq by an IED on Oct. 3, 2005. It is my prayer that you will feel God holding you as close to His heart as He has held my family this past year. May you feel His comfort and peace as you travel down this difficult road.

Mike, Terry, and family:
I wanted to express my deepest sympathy to your family. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Mike and Terry, I have known you for 10 years now through our business relationship. I had only met Tommy once. Mike, I can think of so many times when you spoke of Tommy with such pride.

Parents should not have to feel a loss as deep as this. Please know I thank God every day for people like Tommy. Men and women who lay down their lives for my protection and freedom. Tommy is a true hero.

I am truly sorry you had to lose him so soon. I believe he is in a wonderful place and eternally grateful that he is your son.

May God Bless you and give you strength and peace in your days ahead.

I have only met Tom's father Mike once or twice through various industry functions, but wanted to express my deepest sympathies to the family, and also thank Tom for his courage to fight for our country. My thoughts and prayers are with all of Tom's friends and family. I'm sure Tom will continue to watch over all of us.

Dear Mr. & Mrs. Gilbert,
As the mother of a Marine Reserve myself, my heart breaks for your family. You are in my thought and prayers.

To the Family of Thomas M. Gilbert, I was one of the Patriot Guard Riders who escorted your funeral party through your neighberhood on our way to the burial site at Abraham Lincoln National Cemetary. I was struck by all of the people who stood by the roadsides, in memory and respect for your son. My thoughts will always drift back to the many elementary school children, running from inside their classrooms, eager to get to the roadside to stand in rememberance of Tom. They boldly held flags and other papered artifacts depicting our country's colors. It will be an image I will always cherish as a lasting memory in my heart and in my mind. Although I never personally knew your son, I have a better sense of him as I watched his neighbors and friends, as they expressed their deep feelings of support and respect for your him, and all that he accomplished in his life. The experience although sad, was so inspirational as well. I feel sad for your loss, yet I am so very proud of your son. When I get to heaven I will thank him personally!

My heart and prayers go out to your family. We will all miss Tom and he will be in our thoughts forever. I love you guys.

To The Gilbert Family:

Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Also, please accept our sincere thanks for the sacrifice your family has made for our country. You should be very proud. God Bless....

The Hall Family (Gregg, Brenda, Taylor and Matt).

I have known him since we were about 8 or 10 years old. We went to school together, played football together and had a hell of a time doing it. He was a good person to know and a great teammate also. He will be missed but his memory will live on forever!!!

It was an honor to know Tommy and being a friend of his father, Mike Gilbert, has always been a highlight in my life.
In 230 years the Marines have never lost a battle and as long as there are men like Tom Gilbert, it never will.
God bless you and you are on my heart and mind Tom.

I love you all, may the lord be with you

you all are in my thoughts and prayers, all my love

Dear Gilbert family,
My heartfelt sympathies goes out to your family. I know how difficult this is, for I am a military mom of a 23 yr old young man and we lost one of his childhood friends , 2 yrs ago , also a Marine in Iraq . I know how the world has stoppped for you , and such an awful thing to loose a child .your son was a brave young man and sacraficed to keep us safe. He stood proud for what he believed in . and we as Americans and Parents also stand proud behind our young & women in the Military.. God bless you and give you strength . my thoughts and prayers are with you , I AM Sorry

Dear Gilbert and Cooper families and all your relatives, my prayers are with you. I didnt know Tom or your family, I am a friend of Gary and know of the difficult year its been for the extended family. Better days lay just ahead. With strength in numbers, having that large extended family is a blessing.

So sorry for your loss. Tom was such a nice person.

Mr. & Mrs. Gilbert,

Please accept my deepest sympathy. Your family will be in my prayers. May God bless you in this time of sorrow.

I am sure he will be missed by all his friends and the rest of the Marines. I can't imagine how you must feel, my son Eduardo is also a Marine currently in Iraq.

My deepest sympathies go to Sgt. Thomas Gilbert's family, friends and fellow marines. Tommy was a wonderful man filled with the brightest light. He could light up a room with his smile and sparkling eyes. His laughter was contagious. He was a great soul. Tommy, rest in peace. Your mission is complete here. May the love of all who knew you guide you. You are an AMERICAN HERO. I am honored to have known you.