Steven Mabry Obituary

Ah geez, Babs. Had a LT Alumni golf outing with the Lane Tech Hockey boys...Russ, Gary, Danny, Jeff and a few other players from the 70's team. We had some good times playing hockey in those days. You were one good defenseman and teammate. I was saddened that you when I heard that you passed away. Hopefully we'll all be young again and be together on that rink in the sky some day!

Steve and I shared the same shop classes in Mr. Montleone's pressroom. Steve and I also shared our first job together at Argus (I believe) in Niles, IL. He had 2nd shift, I had 3rd. Steve was always around people and had an infectious laugh. You're right, he jammed his thumb on a freak accident and was good at that sort of thing. All of us in that class were right in between a lot of things going on around us, so it's no wonder we got to know each other well. Steve was very likeable, and easy going then. Lost touch after a few years but am truly saddened at his passing. It's like a piece of us is missing. My condolences to you, Lisa, and family. A light has gone out.

On this day, May 16, 1998 Steve shared one of the most memorable times of my life with me. A couple months earlier he had asked me to join him for a Broadway show, "Jekyll and Hyde". I hadn't been to a play since my college era and was very excited to have been asked to go. Steve told me his friends always dressed to the hilt for the occasion and I found a beautiful, off the shoulder Jessica McClintock evening dress to wear. A few days before the play, Steve wrenched his already bad back when he gagged on his toothbrush. (Steve had a knack for hurting himself in the most unusual ways…) He could hardly move and couldn't work, but he was not going to miss our date.

When I met his friends it was apparent that Steve misled me a bit as I was severely overdressed for the occasion, but it didn't matter. I felt like a million bucks wearing that dress holding onto his arm while he/we slowly hobbled down the streets of NYC. What a pair we were! The play was fun and exciting. We all went to dinner afterward which was equally enjoyable. Steve and I shared chocolate mousse for desert. Shortly afterward, Steve's friend discreetly handed me a cloth napkin and whispered into my ear, “you have chocolate on your chest". There I was, all dressed up wearing chocolate as an accessory. It was an embarrassing moment that Steve and I have laughed about many times since.

We topped off the evening with a romantic carriage ride in Central Park. The picture enclosed was taken by our coachman. He looked at us and asked if we were celebrating our honeymoon. He said, "You two are truly in love". He was absolutely right.

Every year since, we have experienced Broadway and a memorable evening in NYC with good friends. It is one of the many gifts Steve has given me over the years.

Thank you Steve.

I love you.

Today I had a thought of Steve as someone walked by. It sounded like Steve's footsteps. For all who knew him, he had a very distinguished walk and you could hear him walking when he entered the room. He was always deep in thought. I've heard those steps many times and thought, "Oh no, here he comes for a favor," or "what does Steve want now?". Steve and I worked together on many book covers since his arrival at OPM. He looked to me for advice with the Mac or for ways to solve the many obsticles we faced. And I looked to him for the technical advice he was always willing to offer. Steve always would seem to show up at my busiest times of the day with a "HEY DUDE, ARE YOU BUSY?" I would sarcastically reply, "NOT TOO BUSY FOR YOU, STEVE." It wouldn't take long for Steve and I to come up with a plan or to run a test or just fix a .04mm trap. (Steve lived for attaching special instructions for the Pre-Press department.) Steve was so dedicated to his work and always wanted to make the process better for the pressmen to achieve a quality product.



I think it is obvious that Steve inspired all of us and has left his mark here at OPM. I never thought I would miss doing so many "favors". I still label my 4/c blacks as MABRY BLACK, just like I always had.



So Steve, I hope to some day see you in another place and once again hear the sweet sound of those footsteps !!!! Thanks for all of the memories (Christmas parties, conversations, lunches, and "hey dude's")

We miss you.

Hi Steve,



We only worked together for a short period of time and I didn’t get to know you that well. However, I know Lisa, and during dinner with her recently, I came to know you. Who would have guessed that you were such a romantic? I regret that you were taken from Lisa so early in life, but the one above obviously has greater plans for you.



This year will be a very difficult one for Lisa, and your friends and family, but the wonderful memories that they have of you will help to see them through. These memories only speak to the wonderful man you must have been. Thanks hanging in there with me during my first golf lesson. I had so much fun that day.



Rest in Peace

Dear Steve,

I can hear you say, "It's just another day, like every other day." But today is the day you graced us with your presence 46 years ago. I was blessed to be able to spend the last six birthdays with you. Our usual routine on this day had been to share some time, dinner and a glass of wine with each other - often with friends. I recall past birthdays and I can still hear your laughter, see your smile and those intense, sparkling blue eyes. I can still feel your love...

Tonight I had dinner with a friend. We toasted to your birthday. We cried, we laughed, we remembered you, we missed you.

I am grateful for this day. I am grateful that God put you into this world and that your gentle,loving spirit has touched so many others and made a difference in their lives - especially mine. It's those precious memories of you that help all of us get through "just another day".

Love and peace...

I have worked with Steve here at OPM for many years. There were many days when we would disagree over a job or color match, with both of us thinking the other was wrong. In the end we would always compromise, probably still thinking the other was wrong. I was very fortunate to have the chance to work so closely with Steve. Steve was a "get it right" type of guy and he always had the best interest of the customer at the forefront. Steve had a unique willingness to educate as well as to listen. Over the years Steve had taught me alot, every extended conversation was a learning experience. A great friend and co-worker will surely be missed.

I have worked with Steve here at OPM for the past eight years. Since January of 2003, I had the pleasure to work closely with him as his Assitant Technical Sales Rep. He was a man of very high integrity, intelligence and manners. He always ended a telephone conversation with "I look forward to talking to you soon". In this day and age, that is a rare occurance. We here at OPM, were blessed to have heard it every day. Steve also had a habit of saying some very funny things as well. Many mornings, he would begin his day checking proofs with "Ok, sports fans!" For someone who was so serious about his work, he sometimes shocked us with his wit! I loved working with him and I am very thankful for all of the knowledge he shared with me.

When I met Steve many years ago, he seemed a bit lost to me, like something was missing in his life. Well, that changed when he began his relationship with Lisa. I never saw them be anything but kind and loving with each other. It was very obvious how much they adored each other.

Each time I had the opportunity to open the guest book of Steve's, I have read the many passages written by my collegues and co-workers. And each have expressed in their words what a truly fine gentleman Steve was.



I remember Steve coming to my office, a polite knock at the door, "Mr. Grebeck,...may I set up a time with you to go over......".

Polite and courteous, every time.



Steve assisted my staff and I in educating us in the prepress area at OPM. I am very thankful of his assistance to us.



He will be sadly missed. If angels have to earn their wings, I am sure Steve already has his. With his enthusiasm and determination, he most certainly has earned them.

My Dearest Friend Rosebud:

Steven will always be in your heart. You

raised him well. When you met all of his

friends and the stories about him you knew he lived his life to the fullest. He had values and respect from all who knew him. He

met and fell in love with Lisa. That made

his life complete. God Bless. All my love,

Phyllis

First, my deepest condolences to Steve's family and to Lisa, my mentor, my friend. I only knew Steve for a few years through work. But, what a teacher! What a gentleman! He gave everyone the utmost respect.

I know that right now, words aren't always a comfort. But one day, the sun will be brighter, the grass greener and the sky bluer. And it will be because Steve is in heaven, looking at it all, saying...'this neeeds more Cyan' or 'that needs more yellow'. That's what Steve did, made things 'better'. No only at work, but in LIFE. And that is what really counts. I will never forget him. God bless

I received the following at another memorial service and was taken by how much it reminded me of Steve. I find some solace in the message and thought it appropriate to share. Steve is gone but will not be forgotten. He epitomized the best ---- a gentleman, a colleague, a friend!!!!



“Do not stand at my grave and weep

I am not there, I do not sleep

I am a thousand winds that blow

I am the diamond’s gift of snow



I am the sunlight on ripened grain

I am the autumn’s gentle rain

When you awaken in the morning’s hush

I am the swift uplifting rush



Of quiet birds in circled flight

I am the soft stars that shine at night

Do not stand at my grave and cry



I am not there

I did not die.”

I recall Steve's periodic phone calls asking if "I had a few minutes for him and could he meet with me at my convenience..." As a self-motivated and problem-solving type of person, Steve seldom required assistance on issues relating to customers. When he did, the issues were usually out of his direct control.

Steve was a dedicated and a passionate individual. He treated everyone -- customers, co-workers, friends, new acquaintances -- with respect and dignity. He was a wonderful person and a dedicated professional. Truly, a lost art.

If only he could call me one more time and ask if I had "a few minutes for him." I would say "absolutely" in a heartbeat and cherish every minute of it.

I worked for a few years about ten feet from the light booth where Steve checked color proofs.As busy as Steve was he was always happy to answer any question in as much detail (or even more) than needed. Steve was one of the most precise and well spoken people I have ever had the honor to know. I will miss our discussions of literature and vegetarianism.

I will just plain miss him.

I extend my deepest sympathy to Lisa and all of Steve's family.

I have come to this page several times and each time wanted to leave a message but never knew what to say. Steve was a very unique person and he will surely be missed both personally and professionally by his friends and by all of us here at OPM. I was shocked the day I heard he passed and my heart was saddened because I knew that none of us expected it to happen so quickly and a lot of things went unsaid. Personally, I was always able to rely on Steve to provide answers whenever I needed them. In fact, most of the time he provided me with much more information than I asked for to begin with. But that IS Steve. So I guess I can take comfort in the fact that Steve is now exploring a whole new level of consciousness and perhaps the next time we meet he will be able to, once again answer some of my questions in all the overwhelming detail that only he can.



God Bless You Steve and God Bless You Too Lisa.

My deepest sympathy goes out to Lisa. I know that no words can help in your time of loss. Have faith and and the sun will shine for you again. Lots of Love.

Steve and I have been friends since he started working at OPM. We spent countless hours discussing jobs crammed in a light booth, huddled around a computer screen or just sitting in my office. As anyone who knew Steve knows, you didn't ever have a brief conversation about anything.

We butted heads many times about how a job should or shouldn't be done, but eventually one of us would say "uncle" and we would get on with things. The greatest compliment you can give a man is to call him a gentleman, Steve was a gentleman, in every sense of the word.

To Lisa and all of Steve's family, you are in our prayers. May God bless.

My thoughts and sympathy to Lisa and Steve's friends and family. I got to know Steve through working together on HarperCollins account. Steve was an ultimate professional, passionate about his work, dedicated to doing the best he could. I admired him for his enthusiasm in tackling new and challenging tasks with a determination to "get it right".

He will be missed.

On behalf of the Laudani Family, I would like to offer our sincerest condolences to the Mabry Family for the loss of their son & brother, Steven. You will be in our prayers, and may God bless, and watch over you all during these trying times.



With our deepest sympathy,

The Laudani Family

God Bless you and may you have enternal happiness!

We were saddened and grieved to hear of our cousin Steven's death. Our hearts go out to his family, fiancee and friends. We will always treasure our memories of him as a child and as the young man who grew up to be such a special person. He will always be remembered with love by all of his Oklahoma family.

I HAVE BEEN TO THIS PAGE A FEW TIMES.IN THE PAST TWO WEEKS AND HAVE NEVER BEEN ABLE TO PUT INTO WORDS JUST ,HOW SORRY AND SADDEN I WAS WHEN I HEARD ABOUT STEVE. HE WAS A BIG PART OF MY CHILDHOOD ,BECAUSE MY BEST FRIEND IS HIS BROTHER JIM,AND I WAS AT HIS HOUSE MOST OF THE TIME.THE MEMORIES I HAVE MOST OF STEVE IS HE ALWAYS HAD A GREAT SMILE ,WHEN HE WOULD COME HOME AT NIGHT AFTER WINNING HIS HOCKEY GAMES. BUT THE FUNNY PART WAS ALL HIS ACHES AND PAINS.HE WOULD TELL YOU ABOUT THEM FOR DAYS AFTERWARDS,I NEVER REALLY THOUGHT HE WAS,CUT OUT TO BE PLAYING HOCKEY,BUT THAT WAS ANOTHER THING I GUESS,I LOOKED UP TO STEVE FOR,HE NEVER QUIT,AND HE WAS VERY COMPETIVE.I WILL MISS HIM DEARLY,GOD BLESS HIM ,AND MAY WE CROSS PATHS AGAIN SOMEDAY.IN CLOSING, I WOULD LIKE TO EXPRESS MY DEEPEST SYMPATHY ,TO THE MABRY FAMILY ,WHO ARE MY DEAREST AND BESTS FRIENDS THAT ME AND MY FAMILY HAVE. VIA CON DIOS,GO WITH GOD.

I will miss Steve as a co-worker and a friend. Though we didn't work on the same projects at work, we worked right next to each other in the same area - he taught me a lot. The absence of his voice and his presence has been difficult for all of us. I will always remember playing golf with Steve as well...he made Sergio Garcia's grip, regrip...regrip setup seem fast! :) But all he was doing was taking his time to hit that perfect golf shot.... This was what he strived for in everything he did - perfection. Steve, you've touched all of our lives in many ways, especially Lisa's. I remember one of our coversations from this past November or December when you said, "you know Wally, next Summer I'm going to take advantage of living at Newberry and play more golf". Steve,right now I hope you're hitting that perfect golf shot onto the greenest of greens in heaven....

No one knows as much as I do the difficulty Steve faced when he came on at OPM as the technical sales rep for Bantam, Doubleday, Dell. In little time, however, he gained their complete confidence and respect. Steve showed not just the knowledge, but the patience, and, more importantly, the integrity that endeared Steve to all who worked closely with him. Integrity was a very powerful ideal to Steve, and I know of no one who demonstrated this ideal in his day-to-day activities more proudly, more professionally, more passionately, than Steve did.



Steve also was a wonderful and patient teacher, as all of those he helped at Random House would attest (I, too, can attest to this, as one who followed him around the plant trying desperately to absorb as much as that knowledge as I could). Steve gave each and every one of us his time (at a premium for him as many of us know) without a hint of annoyance or impatience. One word: class.



I will miss his companionship; I will miss his trust. Anyone lucky enough to know him, to work with him, to love him, know exactly what I mean.

George McCloskey (New York, NY)

I was lucky enough to work with Steve for the past nine years or so. I can't even begin to count the times I called on him in a panic for help with something. As busy as he always was Steve never hesitated to stop what he was doing to help and teach me. He was a patient and kind man. A wonderful teacher and a gentle soul. I will miss him greatly. To Lisa and all of Steve's family I hope you find some comfort in your good memories and in knowing that Steve was loved and respected by so many. You are all in my thoughts and prayers, as is Steve.

We would like to send our sincere symphathy to all of Steve's family and special freinds. Steve was my brother Michael's dear friend. Besides sharing the same field of work for all those years he remained a very close friend. We want to remember Steve for what I think was one of his best qualities. He could fill a room with his laughter and of course that great smile.During frequent visits to Chicago, Steve and Michael would always be up to their old tricks. We have many great memories. I read Lisa's message and she said it best. He was a very special person. When we think of him it will always be with a smile. You will truly be missed.



Peggy & Jim Boyle

When I first met Steve, I thought he was a really nice guy. After getting to know him better through work functions/activities, I realized he was a great guy.



He was always ready to give you all the information you needed to any question you may pass his way. Sometimes too much information!



He was funny in his dry sense of humor. He was a true gentleman.



He will be missed.



I send out my condolenses to his family and especially Lisa.



I am filled with sorrow for Lisa who has lost her knight in shining armour, to his family who lost a wonderful member of the clan and for myself for losing a friend.

I met Steve several years ago when George McCloskey brought him to New York when OPM was interviewing him to work on Random House's account. Steve's initial enthusiasm never waned in all the years thereafter as we saw and talked with each other on professional and personal levels. Steve was a kind-hearted man who cared deeply for his work, his customers, and his friends. There was never a time when he was not ready, willing, and able to resolve problems that we put before him -- and he resolved those problems with grace. My sincere condolences to Lisa, his mother, and his siblings.

Steve was my brother Michael's best buddie and wing man for 30 some odd years. My wife and family were able to see Steve on his occasional trips to Calif. We're deeply saddened of his passing and will keep his in out thoughts. His picture from Mike and Suzanne's wedding reminds us of what a great guy he was. May the angels ever guard him.

Pat, Jan, Lauren and Chris Roche

I wish we had a chance get to know Steve alot better too. We never knew he was so active in so many sports and activities. He was always so quiet and reserved at the family gatherings. But just looking at all the pictures, you can tell he and Lisa had a blast wherever they went. I'm glad he had that time with Lisa and the boys. You could see how happy they were together. We loved all the stories about the trips they went on.

We didn't get to spend too much time with him except when he would come home for the holidays or "up the hill" to borrow a tool, or camping equiptment(Always wondered how they kept the tent so clean!). At least we got a chance to play golf with he and Lisa. What fun, and the round only took about 6 hours!!!! Ha.

Our condolences go out to Steve's family, to Lisa and her boys, and to all his friends and co-workers.

You'll be missed greatly.

Albert, Sandra, Dan and Chad Dymond

I worked with Steve for years. We spoke on a regular basis. He was always professional and had a positive attitude.

My condolences.

I knew Steve as my sister-in-law Lisa’s boyfriend. Since we never lived near each other I mainly saw him at family gatherings around the holidays. And it’s tough to really get to know someone at the Thanksgiving table with twenty or so other people. I have since come to learn much more about Steve from the people who loved him, from the stories about him, and from the pictures of his life. I know that as the years pass, my memories of Steve will be a blend of my personal experiences with him and what I learned from the people who were part of his life. I can already see many good memories. I also learned he was much more than just a boyfriend to Lisa. I can see from the smiles on the faces in the many, many pictures of Steve and Lisa they were truly soul mates. So if making a daughter happy counts in the most-favored-son-in-law competition, Steve certainly set the standard. I’ll miss Steve and I’m glad I finally got to know him.

Steve was my sister’s fiancé. While I can’t say we were close, I know he was a major influence in Lisa’s life. After they had been dating for a while, I realized how much Lisa had grown as a result of her relationship with Steve. When we were going through the pictures for his memorial, I noticed all the pictures of both of them wearing these huge smiles and realized how much they meant to each other. I’m truly sorry I didn’t get to know him better.

When I first met Steve, I was like oh...he's a good guy. The more I got to know Steve I figured that he isn't a good guy.....he's a GREAT guy. Steve always came to our family get-togethers and was treated as if he was one of the family. He helped Aunt Lisa through so much in her life, and made it great for the boys. We all had alot of fun together. At our next family gathering there will be a void in the occasion, and can't wait to see you again Steve.

We are so sorry for your loss. We

only had a chance to be with Steve

a few times, but we know that he

was a person with special gifts.

He will me missed.



Our deepest sympathy,

Lisa's Aunt Nancy and Uncle Bart.

I never really had a chance to work closely with Steve, but I always knew if there was any type of technical question or problem I may have had with a job, he was always ready and willing to help, all you had to do was ask. His knowledge of printing will be sorely missed at Offset, as well as his hearty laugh and broad smile. My prayers are with Lisa and with Steve's family.

Steve

We are so thankful that we met you. You came into Lisa's life at the time when she needed someone like you. We appreciated the way you treated her with such love and respect. The many new things you introduced her to, such as the white-water rafting, hot air balloon ride, golfing, andthe broadway shows to name a few. We will always miss seeing your smile, but we know we will meet again in a far better place. Lisa' Mom and Dad

I have known Steve for 27 years. We grew up together. He was my surrogate uncle, my surrogate brother, and my friend. He is the only family we had in Pennsylvania for a long time. His loss will be felt by my family forever, and the gap he left can never be filled. I love him, and I am happy that he is finally at peace. I hope he is skiing a double black diamond right now. I love you, Steve. You will be missed.

I first met Steve when I interviewed him for a position at OPM. It was an easy decision in wanting him to join our company. Steve was a kind and considerate person who everyone would enjoy being around in a work atmosphere. He was knowledgeable and caring about his work. All of us who worked with Steve will miss him.

To Steve's family, I offer you my most sincere condolences. I worked with Steve for many years and have found him to possess great character and integrity. He always treated people with respect, and I trusted him completely. He always gave me great confidence in my work and when charged with a task, you knew it would get done. By the way, these attributes are rare! On the personal side, I am from New Jersey and enjoyed conversations with Steve about Lake Hopatcong, where I spent many childhood summer days. I am also friends with Lisa and consider her with the same high regard. I am devastated for her and for you. Please know that your son/brother will sorely be missed!

I unfortunately never had the opportunity to appreciate Steve as a person or co-worker. Recently I lost my sister to Brain and Lung Cancer, and I recognize the pain and loss all of you have experienced. When returning home yesterday, I was saddened to find the card I had sent to Steve in the hospital had been returned. As we do not walk alone, I hope he knows my heart and prayers were with him and hoped maybe that my sister helped him cross over. Peace...

What a wonderful way to let Steve and family know how much he meant to all of us. I met Steve years ago here at Offset Paperback. Most of our dealings were just the puschasing of items he needed, but then we went to a few classes together...and how intelligent he was! Everything at class was soooo easy for him and he was so quick with the right answer and always something extra to add. Funny, bright, addictive smile. Wow! - how fortunate were all of us to have known Steve. Lisa, family and friends have many, many good memories of Steve.

I have known Steve for 8 years. For the last 2 years we worked very closely together to satisfy a demanding client. Steve was a rock. He was tireless and determined when tracking down solutions to challenges, and inflapible when facing problems. He was a source of great knowledge about his field and a huge support. And yes, I have to add what a gentleman he was, and what a wonderful dry sense of humor he had! He is sadly missed by everyone who worked with him as well as by his friends and his loved ones...

I miss Steve's laugh and his jokes. I am blessed to have had the opportunity to know him.

When I first met Steve, I thought he was extremely serious and I didn't really joke around with him. I only knew him as a person who ALWAYS said hello (by name) in the hallway, and was very polite and professional any time I needed to discuss something with him. Then I started new job responsibilities, and sat with him in meetings daily. I remember two quotes of his in particular regarding a certain annoying person and a certain amusing job title that still make me laugh like crazy when I think about them. I regret that I didn't get to know him better. His dry humor will be missed each day at 10:15 a.m. My condolences go to his family and those who were close to him.

If I could have one wish...I'd wish that I had known Steve better than I did. He meant so much, too so many individuals, and he will be sadly missed. My sinceriest condolences to his family, and my sister, Lisa. Some day you will have a marriage in heaven, as I know that Steve is watching over you and will guide you back to him.

I came to OPM two months after Steve, and together we were assigned to service one of our larger clients. After 8 plus years of a successful partnership, Steve and I moved on to new assignments. Over the last 10 years Steve and I together have, played golf, softball, wallyball, tennis, cards, darts, pool, ate lunch, ate dinner, ate late nite messy pizza in the city, ate leftovers from holiday dinner, together we have attended trade shows, knick games, ranger games, Broadway shows, movies, holiday parties, bachelor parties, happy hour parties, together we used to laugh, joke, talk, bitch, fight, scream, agree to disagree, all kinds of stuff!!

When called “onto the carpet” in the city, my friend was there with me. I miss my friend, I will always miss my friend, and I missed that last opportunity to say “Steve, I love you”. I will always remember Steve, and hope that someday we will continue our friendship.

Steve

We didn`t get to know you very

well, but we do know Lisa loves you

very much, which tells us a lot.

Your absence leaves a big hole in her heart which I doubt any one else

will be able to fill the way you did.

Sadly you are too soon gone.

Aunt Mona and Uncle Carl

Steve, a rare and special man, kind, thoughtful and very intelligent. He had great integrity and character and I feel enriched to have had the opportunity to meet and learn from such a person. My heart goes out to Lisa De Leo, his fiance, and my prayers and thoughts are with them for guidance and strength.

I have always had great respect for Steve. His attention to color, detail and dedication to the customer is an admirable trait. I can picture him calmly, patiently and explicitly explaining just what he needed to see happen on the printed sheet. He was always the gentleman. He could speak eloquently yet chose not to. Eight years ago I was suffering from "first trip away from baby" syndrome. He made a concentrated effort to help me through the difficult hours traveling. We spent what could have been monotonous travel time relating our educational experiences, discussing printing processes, color measurement, and the like. He was forthright, interesting and had much to share. I have always appreciated his kind and quiet way. Truly his time with us was shortened but the memories will always remain. Thank you Steve.

Although I only knew Steve as a co-worker, he was a special person. He was extremely contientious and always made sure that he gave everything he did 100%. He made a great difference in the life of Lisa and I know that she did likewise for him. I would like to express my deep sorrow at you loss. You and you family as well as Lisa will be in our prayers.

Your smile and zest for life will be missed all. We will never understand why.



Ken and Carole Chapple

To be honest i dont where to start..... Steve and I never got the chance to really get to know eachother all that well.. but i knew him good enough to learn that he loved Lisa with all of his heart and much more.. and i know his love will continue on and on, until they meet again one day in heaven....

He was heaven sent and only visited for a short time with me... too short. He taught me and my children the meaning of true love, respect and honor for each other. Steve was a gentleman, intelligent, loving, thoughtful, hardworking and tons of fun. He was loved by many - more than he ever knew. He opened the world for me and taught me how to live again... his passing is the biggest challenge I have ever had to survive. I miss my friend, my companion, my true love. I am comforted to know that his love transcends even death and that one day we will have that marriage in heaven.

I love you Steve! Your devoted fiancee, Lisa.