Sharon Dewar Obituary

I miss my girl everyday . T.S. Elliot said April is the cruelest month . True

Its your birthday and Ive been thinking of you all day. Miss you ,Love You ,ALWAYS Love Mom

I miss you Sharon, every day I think of you and wish we could talk. Boy !!! we would at least need a year to just talk talk talk. We could go to the Lazy River Pool and have a grand old time! I guess we have to wait a bit longer.

Oh! how I miss you Sharon. Just want to talk to you about all the problems of the day . The biggest of course is your not being here. MOM

Sharon, Happy Birthday Thursdays Child. It seems like just yesterday you were out side with your girlfriends, playing with your Barbies or I dream of Jeanie! Love and miss you beautiful daughter. LOVE MOM

Sharon , Its 7 years today. You are gone ,but you will never be forgotten. we all miss you,love you, and think of you every day.

WE LOVE AND MISS YOU SHARON . I THINK OF YOU EVERY DAY AND WANT TO TALK TO YOU. AREN'T THE BOYS ALL DOING GREAT? WHATS HAPPENING TO OUR GOVERNMENT ? WHAT A BARGAIN CINDY FOUND AT CARSONS , HOW WONDERFUL JOHNNNY WAS IN OLIVER ! MISS YOU SO . LOVE MOM

Sharon, Thank You , We all think of you everyday. Miss you , love you, and wish you were here. But you are still here, in our hearts and in our minds and most important in our prayers. LOVE MOM

Sharon,Its 3yrs today.But it could just as well be 3days or 3hours.We love and miss you and talk about you every day.

DEAR SHARON, We miss you terribly, as you well know. Mike has said several times that when he grows up he wants to build a time machine, then go back to the morning of april 29, 2004 and make sure you take your heart medicine. LOVE MOM

Sharon,



You've opened the door we all must go through.

For me it will be easy. I'll be going to you.

You showed me a place some aren't sure exist.

What a wonderful vista I see in the mist,

where we will all laugh and play, and learn,

when our heavenly Father says we must return.



Love, Mom

Sharon,



A year ago you went away that left a big hole in our hearts. We love you and miss you, want to hug you and kiss you and tell you things, but wouldn't know where to start.



The memory you leave us with are God's gift and will never fade away and so our love is always with you, until that joyous day we come home to heaven with God and you and altogether we will stay, forever, day after day after day.



Love: Dada, Matt & Mike

Sharon,



You and Cindy have a role in every childhood memory of mine: the summers we spent at Fox Lake; the ice cream sandwiches we saved for watching Night Gallery; the time we learned you really can put too much butter on popcorn; our matching outfits; yelling "sock it to me" as we jumped off the high dive; all the sleep overs at your house and mine; dancing to Herb Albert and the Tiajuna Brass; taking Snoopy and Pierre on neighborhood dog walks; shopping excursions at Korvettes; our count-downs to Christmas. My childhood was rich because you were a part of it. My heart goes out to your family.

To My Wonderful Sister, Sharon:



I am so thankful my sister lives upstairs from me.



It's been a difficult day today. I drive home from work and run upstairs to say "hello" to my sister and share my day.



I am glad she is home. I tell her my problems and things that happened to me today. She listens patiently and gives me advice. She says a few words and now I feel "OK" again.



I go downstairs to see what is on Lifetime TV Channel, then run back upstairs to tell my sister, Sharon, what is on. She replies "Thats a good movie. I'm watching it too." I smile and go back downstairs. Then I remember I picked up her favorite giant grape gumballs and run upstairs to give them to her. She thanks me for them.



I wake up in the morning and notice my sister's car outside my basement window. I feel good knowing my sister is at home and upstairs from me.



Now I come home from work and run upstairs to her bedroom, but she is not sitting on her bed anymore.



I try to watch Lifetime TV but my heart aches because I knew it was one of my sister's favorite movie channels.



I wake up in the morning and see her car and forget for a moment that she is not at home. It saddens me deeply.



She will never know how much I miss her and how much I think about her every day.



Now she is upstairs in heaven and I am downstairs on earth, but I wish she was home today. I won't be afraid when the day comes for me to be upstairs in heaven forever with my beautiful sister, Sharon.



I love you and miss you Sharon,



Cindy

Sharon,



I know you are looking down and smiling on all of us as we deal with our grief by writing about you. Life is funny isn’t it? When we lose someone we realize all the wonderful things that we are going to miss. That beautiful smile. There isn’t one time that I can remember seeing anything but a happy, beautiful child, girl, woman………….! 43 years is not long enough to finish all the things you wanted to do.



I remember when you were so young. Playing with your friends, going to the pool, getting so tan every summer. I will remember the day you and Mark married. The birth of Matt and Mike. The trip you, Mark, your Mom and the boys made to Pittsburgh to visit us………



Three fine sons.!! Steven has grown to a wonderful young man and truly a testament to his mother. Weren’t you proud of the elegant eulogy at the funeral mass? Two young sons now must face a life without the physical presence of you. Mark, your Mom and the family gather now to try to fill the void you have left. They struggle with their grief and I know the pain will remain sharp for a long… long… time.



Life dealt you many ups and downs. You made many decisions that were so absolutely right. I will remember you most for the difficult times when you got it right, even when your choices weren’t easy!



Most of all, I will remember the last time you were at our home. It will never fail to bring a smile to my face as I remember your sense of humor and absolute joy in sharing life’s events with me. Thank you for all the good times Sharon. I will miss you more than you could ever realize.



Love,

“Auntie Sandra”

I am lucky to have a wonderful mom that takes care of me.



When my mom wakes me up in the morning, it makes me feel so good to see her beautiful face when I get up. Then my mom says "Do you want me to make you breakfast?" And I answer "Yes, please." Then she takes time from watching the "Nanny" or "Golden Girls" and makes me breakfast. Then I tell her that I love her and go to school.



Then when I am in school I think about my mom. I also think about having fun with my mom. On my way home from school, I get all excited to see my mom at home. I think about how much I love her and sometimes when we get in arguments in the morning, I always come home and say I am sorry to my mom.



Then when I get home I look for her and tell her I love her. Other times I tell her she is the best mom ever. Then I give her a big hug. Then I watch TV with her for a little bit then right before I walk out of the room she says "Can you make me popcorn?" Then I say "Do I have to?" and she says "please" and I say "OK". Then I pop the popcorn and bring it to her and she says "Thank you" and I come in the room and ask her for some popcorn and she says "Can you make your own popcorn?" Then I would say "OK". Then I sometimes made myself popcorn. Sometimes I don't make myself popcorn. Then I tell my mom I am going to bed and she says "Good night".



Now I wake up by myself. One reason I wake up by myself is because my mom is not there to wake me up. I make my breakfast by myself and think about my mom. Then I eat my food and don't say goodbye because my mom is not there to say goodbye to. I go to school and only think about the memories I had with my mom. I come home and talk to my dad because my mom is not there. I go to her room and miss her so much. Then my dad gets me supper because my mom is not there. Then I watch TV and think about my mom. Then I go lay down and then think about all the memories I had with my wonderful mom. That is how it was like with my mom. Now it is different without my mom.

My daughter Sharon,



I'd give my life to have you back with your sons, Sharon.



I hope your journey was swift and you are now in the loving care of Uncle Davy, Aunt Elsie, Grandma Siedschlag and Grandma Bernice.



I know our lives will never be the same. We will miss you always.



I can't believe I'm walking around, cleaning, shopping, cooking, talking to people. All the things people do everyday. But I'm not a person right now. I'm a robot. Doing the things that must be done, saying the things that must be said. But inside there's a void, an empty dark place that I try to fill with warm memories of my beautiful daughter.



When you were little, the way you always sat right against my tummy if I was lying on the sofa.



The big smile on your face when you came home for lunch and I said, "How about Mickeys (McDonalds) today?"



The night we looked in wonder at the moon shining in your bedroom window, as the glow formed a perfect cross.



Christmas mornings, Easter Sundays, your First Communion. The happy summers with your friends and cousins swimming in our pool and eating cool pops. You and Cindy always beating that poor boy out of first and second chair in band. Your excellent report cards. The giggle of delight you gave when your Dad and I first brought our dog "Snoopy" home. Playing with our cat "Tiger Boots" and her kittens. Playing Barbies with your sister for hours on end. Oh yes, Sharon, you brought me some sorrow, but you also brought me great joy.

Most of all, three wonderful grandsons and so much more.



Thank you Dear Sharon.



Love, Mom

5/8/04

GOODBYE SHARON - HELLO MY ANGEL!

I lie awake in bed late at night, my thoughts of you under soft starlight.



You left to soon....in the blink of an eye, now all I can do is cry and cry.



I long for your sweet voice and soft tender touch, now....the hole in my heart is so painful...and truly too much.



Now I'm a lost and a drifting broken soul, without you beside me I'll never be whole.



You were my best friend, my soul mate and wife, the maker of three beautiful lives.



You showed us all love and friendship in an unconditional way.



We all loved you and will continue to each and every day.



So my angel, smile down on us who hurt so bad, and comfort us with the good times we had.



Until we meet again, I'll keep looking up in the sky with tear drops on my cheeks from my eyes.



My eternal love to you my angel,

Your husband/Soulmate

Mark

I am so sorry to hear of Sharon's passing. She was a wonderful mother who always talked so highly of her three sons. I worked with Sharon at Interim Personnel. She was such a hard woker and ALWAYS had a smile on her face. She never complained and always did a wonderful job whether it was 6 pm on a Tuesday night or 2 am on a Saturday. (She worked the craziest hours.) She was so dedicated.



I had not seen her in awhile but I thought of her often because we both had sons named Michael born at the same time. I am so sorry to both the Dewar and Miliewski families. She was a great lady.

What a shock to hear of Sharon's passing. I worked with her at Interim Personnel and we had many conversations both personal and otherwise. My sympathy to you all.

Sharon Milewski and I have been best friends for 35 years. We had great times together growing up, from the gigantic bowls of popcorn she would make when I spent the night and we'd watch scary movies, to the package of Hostess cupcakes we each got to have in the morning for breakfast! We would laugh over anything and everything! How many friends are lucky enough to know each other this long. We hadn't been in contact up until recently when I sent her an e-mail to tell her what a special friend and person she was to me, and I received an e-mail back from her saying the same,but how I will always regret not having more time to spend with this very best friend anyone could have, I thank God for all the great times we shared as friends. I will miss you everyday up until the time we meet again! I love you Sharon, God bless you and thanks for all the wonderful memories I will always have,and always cherish. Love Tammy Verschoore (Steen)