Scott Biesterfeld Obituary

i'm so glad i got to see scott one last time at karen's 50th... even though kara told him i felt awkward around him (because the first time we met, kara and him were in the middle of some drinking game and she ran to throw up and scott and i were just sitting there laughing at her) :) but i'll never forget the goofy smile he made and how he thought it was ridiculous. through the years i've been friends with kara i've never heard anything but good things about scott and still to this day i'm still hearing only the best! <3

We will miis your smile but will remember it always, thankyou for being such a roll model for my son and others, I hope you knew how much you meant to all those who knew you. love the padula family

I came by today to see you
Though I had to let you know
If I knew the last time that I held you was the last time,
I'd have held you and never let go
Oh it's kept me awake night wonderin'
Lie in the dark, just asking "why?"
I've always been told you won't be called home until it's your time

I guess Heaven was needing a hero
Somebody just like you
Brave enough to stand up for what you believe and follow it though
When I try to make it make sense in my mind
The only conclusion I come to
Is that Heaven was needing a hero like you

I remember the last time I saw you
Oh you held your head up proud
I laughed inside when I saw how you were, standing out in the crowd
You're such a part of who I am
Now that part will just be void
No matter how much I need you now
Heaven needed you more

'Cause Heaven was needing a hero
Somebody just like you
Brave enough to stand up for what you believe and follow it though
When I try to make it make sense in my mind
The only conclusion I come to
Is that Heaven was needing a hero like you

Yes, Heaven was needing a hero...that's you.


missing you always...
<3 your little sister who will always have bigger muscles than you ;)

All of the postings are beautiful; I want to say "ditto" to everything posted so far.

I graduated from OLCHS with Eric, Scott's older brother. Throughout high school, Scott was "Scottie B," another kid in my little brother's (Hank Fear) crazy crew of friends. Watching them grow up was entertaining to say the least! When we lived through Eric's tragic passing, that group surrounded Scott with their love and support, and they were there for all of us (the older kids greiving for Eric and the Biesterfeld family). I never thought we'd have to do this again.

I've seen Scott on and off while that group grew up, went to college, joined the Army, Navy, and Marines, started families, and could not have been prouder of the strong and good-looking man he became. My father-in-law was a Marine and my brother-in-law just returned from serving with the Army for over a year in Afghanistan; my family often spoke of Scott and was so happy when he returned home safely. He didn't see himself as a hero, but we all know he was.

As the days and weeks pass, and as everyone returns to life’s routine, I know his family and friends will continue to feel comforted by the love and support of one another. The bond that group has is amazing, and Scott was a huge part of it. I'll think of him when I'm with them because they will absolutely keep his spirit alive; I'll think of him when I see an American flag; I'll think of him every time my father-in-law busts out an "Ooorah!" or "Semper-Fi!"

Bob, Karen, and everyone else-there are no words. Thinking of all the adversity you have faced and survive each day touches my heart and gives us all perspective on what truly matters in life.

Scott, we will miss you. Say hello to Eric for me.

You know, prior to writing this - I was not quite sure how I could put into words what the world will now be missing out on. It didn't take me long to realize that it is not "WORDS" that will explain how much Scott will be missed. No, instead I believe it is seeing the countless tears that have been shed by loved ones, or the gigantic smile that spreads across everyone's face every time they speak of him, or something as simple as an American Flag blowing in the wind. Scott and I have known each other since grammar school and while I am close friends with many that Scott held near and dear to him, I never really had the PRIVILEGE of getting to know him as well as they did. I will regret that for the rest of my life.

Scott, you are an inspiration to us all. You put your life on the line for all of us without even hesitating and for that I cannot thank you enough.

Bob and Karen you raised an absolutely exceptional young man who would put family, friends, and even an absolute stranger in front of his own well being. I'd say I wish there were more people out there like Scott, but he is the definition of the saying "one of a kind." You will be sorely missed Scott, but I PROMISE - NEVER FORGOTTEN!!!!

My prayers are always with you,

To the Family Of Scott,


I am so sorry for your tragic loss. May God comfort you during this most difficult time.
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I can not find the words to say
Exactly how I feel.
That truly describes the hurt inside,
For I know your pain is so real.
Your heart, so heavy, with so much pain,
for the empty loss inside.
The tears fall down like falling rain
That never seems to subside.
It's very hard to say "goodbye",
To the one you loved so much.
But if you go to God in prayer,
You'll feel His sense of touch.
Think of your sorrows calmly,
when daylight turns to night.
Go tell it all to Jesus,
For He will make it right.
He's always there to listen,
When your grief, to Him, you give.
You'll feel the burden lifted,
And again, your life you'll live.

The DeLorme Family
©Ruth Ann Mahaffey~Jan. 2005
Margie DeLorme (Tinley Park, IL)

I was blessed to have had the opportunity to meet Scott. A young man told me of his friend who wanted to be a Firefighter. I met this man, welcomed him home, and thanked him for serving our country. I interviewed him for the position of Candidate/Firefighter at Hometown. He was the best candidate that applied. He carried himself in a manner that showed respect for all that were around him. I could tell that he was what a good Firefighter is. My condolences to Scott's family and friends. He was an honor to meet. His name is spoken frequently in the Candidate class, and his fellow Candidates are well aware of who Scott was through the great stories his friends tell them. We will honor him through out these days.

Scott and I met when I married into the group a couple years back. We haven't known eachother very long, but it didn't take long to build a good friendship. Everytime we were all together and we had our children out with us,he was always the "big guy" to get down to their level and put a smile on their faces. Over time, he became Uncle Scott. One day my oldest asked if Scott can be his uncle and we just laughed. When we told Scott, he responded, " he can call me whatever he wants." And from that day on, that is what he was to our kids. One thing I have learned from Scott is, no matter how bad things got, he was always able to put a mask on and see the positive. I will cherish that forever. Scott, you would have been a terrific father! I will miss the times we had and I will laugh out loud thinking of how Hunter and Tyler thought they can wrestle you to the floor. You have inspired me to be a better mother and have a bit more patience b/c that is something you would have had. We love you and will always be thinking of you. I am honored to have a hero watching over us. You will be missed each and everyday!

I have sadly known a few fallen marines in my short life. During these times we always toast and find words to speak well about our fallen brothers. It is not always that easy to find good words to say about some. Many people just say the same generic quotes, smile and raise their glasses. Scott is not that marine. You really can not find a bad thing to say about the man. He has touched and will continue to touch many lives in unimaginable ways. You really can not ask to know a better human being. I consider it a distinct honor and privilege to have known Scott and to carry his memory the rest of my days. It really takes a special soul to impact the number of people as he did. It fills me with great pride to share the uniform and call Scott my brother. I send my prays to you the family.

If the Army and the Navy
Ever look on Heaven's scenes,
They will find the streets are guarded
By United States Marines.

...and you know who is first in line to volunteer.

Scott and I have grown up together. We meet in seventh grade, and ever since, he has been one of my closest friends. Needless to say, I could tell countless stories about this tough little boy turned Marine. One of my favorite stories though, sums up all the qualities about Scott that I loved: his laughter, his stubbornness, his compassion, and his humor. When we were younger, our group of friends called Scott “Scottie B.” I’m not sure who started this or when, but soon the nickname stuck. I think I called him Scottie B far more than Scott, and it became common place in our relationship: “Scottie B, PBR me a.s.a.p.!” One day, after an ordinary “Hey Scottie B,” Scott responded with a “Hey Erika A.” This caught me off guard. We called Scott Scottie B because his last name began with a B. My last name, Buys, also begins with a B. Erika A? After about ten minutes of attempting to explain this to Scott, he looked at me, smiled his famous Scott smile, and said “Well, I can call you whatever I want. So if I want you to be Erika A, guess what? You’re Erika A.” From that day on the nickname stuck.

Scott, I’m not really sure how I am going to make it without you. I miss you. But, I am going to honor your legacy for the rest of my life by celebrating your life, your laughter, and most of all your stubbornness.

I love you.
Love Erika A

Not much you can say about Scott, except that he was a massive man, with an even bigger heart. I like to think of him as my life size teddy bear, because thats what he was and he embraced it. A big old "tough guy," or so he liked to think.
He would have made the best Firefighter and an even better father, because he learned from the best. Bob and Karen you truly raised a magnificant person. His spirit will live on amongst all of us and make us all better people. We will miss you buddy.

There are no words to express the grief that an uncle feels when a wondereful youngman is taken from his family. The only consolation is he was aware of how his family loved hinm and always responded as if he knew, Adios from uncle Tom

So Sorry for your lost my prayers are with you.

Dear Family, we didn't know your son personally, but he was a friend and brother Marine of our son Sgt. Brandon Mueller. Our deepest sympathies for your loss.

Karen and Ed,
I am so deeply saddened for the Loss of your Son and My Cousin. In my heart even though I didn't get the Chance to really get to know Scott or Eric, Only through what Grandpa has told me and What I remember as a Child, Scott is a True American Hero, He bravely Fought for our Freedom and From being past military this is a Feet not made for everyone. He not only bravely did one tour but two wanting to go for three, What an amazing person, I am so sorry that he has been taken from us at such a young age, But what I know and have read he will never be forgotten. He has touched so many lives in his journey's that he will never be forgotten! Karen and Ed you will always be in my Family's Prayers, And Scott you are THE FEW, THE PROUD, ALWAYS A MARINE......Love the Green Family

Dear Bob,

Our hearts are breaking for you and all your family. The losses you have endured are beyond our comprehension.

Please know that there are many, many people who love and pray for you.

With love,
Aunt Carol & Mikki

Tribute to Scott Biesterfeld
April, 2008

How do you summarize the life of a young man that did so much in the short time he was with us? How do you narrow down into a few sentences what he meant to us all, and how he touched the hearts of so many? How do you explain why he was taken from us so early in his life, with so much more yet to accomplish? You really can't, but you strive to do so, because we have to do so.

From early on in Scott's life, you can see that he was special. Look around this room at the grief on people's faces. Talk to his family and countless friends , just to get an idea of how strong their emotions are, and how Scott will be so sorely missed. You understand the grief that a family goes through at times like these. But you also see the grieving on the faces of so many young people that have been Scott's friends since they were young children. He made an impression on their lives, and to see these strong relationships last from early childhood through the remainder of Scott's life is a testament to their loyalty to each other and the kind of bond that they formed and kept throughout their years. It is rare that we see that in young people lives today, but it is the way that Scott lived his life, that made people want to be and stay friends with him.

Scott loved sports. His junior football team won the national Super Bowl. He starred in three sports in High School. He was on the basketball, track, and football teams. He was a gifted athlete, and
extremely competitive. As an athlete, you are always tested, and you always want to do your best to win, and defeat your opponent. However, there was one competition, that Scott was forced into, that he really did not want to have to participate in. He had to compete against his own brother for playing time on the basketball team. This time, his natural competitiveness compelled him to do his best, as his brother had wanted him to do,but he didn't want to win, at the expense of his brother.

Later in his life, things that were happening in this world that affected our country, and our citizens, caught Scott's attention. His Aunt Sue and Uncle Bernie's influence on him, as well as his desire to
serve our country, lead Scott to enlist in the Marine Corp. He served two terms in Iraq, and although he wouldn't admit it, he was a hero to his family, friends, and fellow Marines . You can see the glisten in his eyes when he talked about the Corp. We wore his uniform as proudly as any marine ever has.

Yes, Scott was a competitor, but even more than that he he had a big heart, and was resilient. He was forced to deal with so much adversity, at such a young age, that many of us could not even comprehend. He lost his older brother and best friend, yet stood by his parents to provide the love and support they so needed. Only those that serve in the military could relate to Scott's experiences there, yet recently, out of loyalty to his country, he was considering volunteering to go back to Iraq for a third term. Most recently, Scott was moving in another direction in his life, pursuing his dream to be a firefighter. Just last week, he tested at the Hometown Fire Department, and we were advised that he ranked first in his class in the test results. Tragically, this was one dream that Scott will not be allowed to pursue.

Scott was a great friend, son, grandson, and Marine. We were all blessed to have had him touch our lives...and in that, we must take our consolation.

Karen and Family, You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Scott and Eric are now side by side watching over everyone. God must have needed one more hero....

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

Bobby,
We are so very sorry for your loss. Scott touched each of us in a special way and will be missed. I will never forget that contagious smile.

We love you and are here for you.

Susan, Terry, Alec, Colin and Samantha

We were so sorry to hear about Scott. There is so little we can say but our hearts go out to you. We wil keep all of you in our prayers.

Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.

Bobby, Cheryl, and Aunt Marie
I cannot know how you feel right now I just know that I hurt for you. I'm so sorry and I love you all very much.

My deepest sympathy for the family. In this most difficult time I pray that your fond memories of your son comfort you.
(mother-in -law of your sons friend Mark's brother Matt)

From all of us at "Durbin's" of Burbank, our deepest sympathy.

We enjoyed getting to know both he and his friends whenever they attended our "Bear's Specials" on Sundays during Football Season.

To one of our local heroes, we will miss you greatly and thank you for serving our country.

Scott, I love you and I will miss you, and I wish you were still here.

There aren't many words to say that would make you feel better except that Scott was truly a happy person. He was that way because he had many people in his life that loved him. His family, friends and fellow Marines. He will be missed in our everyday lives but he will be in our hearts always. How can you forget that big smile he always had on his face. He was a wonderful man.
Bob and Karen-we hope you both have the strength to get through this sad time but remember Scott loved you both so much and he will be with you always.

My deepest sympathy. I had the pleasure of working along side Biesterfeld, and he will be greatly missed. To lose such a great individual weighs heavy on my heart. Truly my deepest sympathy.

It has been my experience that Marines are largely optimistic, but Scott's passing is a terrible loss. It feels like the world has a way of consuming the very best of us, and leaves the rest of us lost.
But Scott did exist, and in the most profound way he left his impression on us all. His immense presence got larger the more he spoke and laughed. He appealled to our better selves, and made us all giants.

Dear Bob,
You have been asked to bear too many sorrows in this lifetime. I can't even imagine the depth of your pain on the loss of Scott. He was an honorable young man who served his country proudly-so belatedly may I say to him THANK YOU! Remember Bob that you are surrounded by the love and prayers of many people. May this knowledge bring you some peace, comfort and healing in the days ahead. My deepest sympathies.

We will always remember Scott as having a big smile with a gentle nature about him. He was a mountain of a man, and so it is a true loss for the world for what could have been. We will miss him dearly, but he will forever live on in our hearts.

My deepest sympathy on the loss of
your son. My thoughts & prayers be
with you & your family.

Our thoughts are with your family at such a difficult time. Our prayers are with all of Scott's family and friends.

Bob, words can not express the sadness I feel for your loss. Just please know you are in our thoughts and prayers daily. God Bless You, Annette & Bill Chalfin

To the family of Scott J. Biesterfeld.

I had the privilege to serve along side with Scott in Iraq. Although He was a fellow Marine to me his was first and foremost my friend.

I wanted you to know that everyday Scott and I spent time outside of work for 7 months. We would workout, watch movies and talk about family and friends. EVERYTIME he spoke of his family literally his smile lit up the room. I always thought to myself, to have that kind of pure unquestionable love is a rare thing in this world. I have never met anyone so sincere and caring about his family and friends.

This may be of no consequence, but I wanted you to know this. Almost every picture I had ever taken before knowing Scott I never smiled. I look back at all the pictures I have with Scott with fond memories. I noticed that in everyone I am in with Scott I have the biggest smile on my face. It may be a small thing, but this means the world to me. Your son taught me to smile! I will never forget him for that, and who he was.
God Bless

Scott
It was an honor to serve alongside a marine of your caliber.
We are all better people for have known you.

My thoughts and prayers go out to your family. God Bless All

We have lost our brother Marine. He was a good person and a great friend to everyone who knew him. We will always honor him and never forget him. I know that he will watch over all of us and protect us from above.

Semper Fidelis and God Bless,

Karen, my deepest sympathies and
prayers go out to you and you family. May God bless you and hold
you close in your time of need.

Tami Strand

We have lost a brother Marine far too soon. Keep watch over us.

Semper Fidelis

Biest,
You were a great friend and an outstanding MARINE! You will be missed brother. You’re in our thoughts and prayers.

Sincerely,

To the Family of Scott Biesterfeld:

My name is Dennis Cramer, a friend of Rich Green. Please accept my deepest sympathy on the loss of Scott. My thoughts and prayers will be with Scott,you and your family. I am truly sorry.

Scott was a great person with a loving heart. He will be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

(an old friend of Scott's)

Karen and Eddie,

What words can I write to describe the profound sorrow at Scott's loss, and my prayers for your peace. I hope you find some comfort in the hundreds of people globally that share in your loss, showing how many people Scott touched in his life. He will always be with you, in your memories and in your dreams. More importantly, he will always be with you in the most unexpected places...a soft breeze that lifts your hair, a star that twinkles just for you...or in the compassionate eyes of family, friends and strangers who share a piece of your sadness. You will know him when you see him, and I know you will get to that peaceful place where that recognition makes you smile. Until then, allow us to share in and help you through your grief.

Though I'm far away, I think of you often and wish that I had had the rare opportunity to know Scott better. You are blessed to have shared life with him, and have so much to be proud of. He was an American Hero. With love, and my sincere sorrow for your loss.

Scott,
I love you so much. I will miss you every day. I wish you didn't have to leave us so soon. I know you are in a better place; truly happy again.

Uncle Big Bob and Karen,
You are in my thoughts and prayers. You were not only his parents but his best friends. You raised a wonderful son. A true man with a great heart. He will never be forgotten. God has taken him to a better place.

My condolences and deepest sympathy for your loss. May you remain strong through this time of sorrow and may good times and good memories carry you through to brighter days.

Biest

You were a great friend and an even better Marine. Know that all Marines looked to you for guidance. It was my privalage to serve along side of you in Iraq.
You will never be forgotten.
My thoughts and prayers go out to your family, and may God guide them through this rough time.
SEMPER FIDELIS

Sgt Jason A Buskey
USMC
MWCS-48

We are so sorry for your loss. Scott was truely a hero and we will miss him. We were so blessed to have known him. Our prayers are with you all.

My condolences on your loss. You will all be in my prayers. If there is anything I may be able to do for you during this time please let me know

It is with great sadness that I express my sympathy to the loved ones of your beloved Scott.
I am a grateful American and will be forever indebted to this Marine for our security and freedom. Be comforted that your Marine will be present in God's everlasting light.

Our deepest condolences to you and your family. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Scott was a sweetheart and will be greatly missed.

Karen,
I am sorry for the loss of Scott. I heart hurts for your family and you. I will keep your family in my prayers, may God comfort and heal you.

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Biest,

You left us too soon brother. Im honored to have trained with you, honored to go to war with you, and I am privileged to have been your friend. You will be deeply missed. Semper Fi, Cpl. Biesterfeld.

Bob,

I was so sorry to hear of your latest loss. Scott was such a fine young man. I can only imagine your sorrow. I know that you and Sue were so proud of him. He will definitely be missed.

With my deepest sympathy,

(former co-worker of Sue)

Dear Bob, Karen and Family,
Our sympathies, thoughts and prayers are with you. Scott was such an amazing young man, you should be proud of the wonderful job you did in raising him. We are honored to have been a small part of his life. Scott and Eric will be in our hearts forever.
Karen Pinelli and Family

Karen,

I cannot express how sorry I am for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

I am very sorry for your loss, Scott was an amazing person. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time.

To the family,
Sorry for your loss

Dear Karen & family,
We are so sorry to hear of the loss of your son Scott. Please except our heartfelt sympathy. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Words cannot begin to describe how bad I feel for you.The world lost a great young man.He will be dearly missed by all who he touched in his life.I am truly sorry for your loss and hope you can gather the strength to carry on his memory.

Karen,
Bob and I were so sorry to hear of your loss. We will keep you in our prayers.

Karen & Eddie

Our deepest sympathy to you and your family. Scott was a wonderful man. I feel proud to have known him. You did a wonderful job raising him. You and your family will be in
our prayers.
Love Goerge & Sharon Matejek and Family

Karen, Bob and I were so sorry to hear about your loss. We will keep you in our prayers.