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Robert Gonzales Obituary

Gonzales, Robert "Bobby O" age 69, of Elmwood Park, loving life friend of Carol Kolek, loving father of Joseph Gonzales, proud grandfather of Lauren and Anthony Andres, former spouse of Betsy Karp, extended family of Victoria Whiteagle, Eugene, Michele, and Amanda Kolek. Served in the military, member of American Legion Tattler Post #0973 on Western Ave. Longtime owner of O'Lanagan's Bar and Grill on Montrose Ave. Visitation at Cooney Funeral Home, 3918 W. Irving Park Road, Chicago, Friday, from 2:00 to 9:00 p.m. Funeral service Saturday, 10:30 a.m. Interment Resurrecrion Cemetery. For info 773-588-5850 www.cooneyfuneralhome.com

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Published by Chicago Sun-Times from Oct. 7 to Oct. 8, 2009.

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Emily Gonzales

May 18, 2024

Hey grandpa. It's me, your youngest granddaughter im already a teen...I know I wasn't even born yet when you died, but I heard so much from grandma on how such a great guy you were...even though I never saw you, I still try to pray to you some nights to nights, I hope one day I can come to your grave again... I love you so much...

The Fischer Family

October 12, 2009

To Bobby's Family,please accept our sincere condolences at the loss of a very sweet and caring man.Bobby will be missed by many people,young and old alike.He was always caring and always brought a smile on our faces.We will miss him.
John,Peggy,Samantha and Chris

Linda Tidwell

October 11, 2009

Carol & Joey, I am so sorry for your loss. Bob was a great guy. He kept me informed all things going on. Will be missed by a lot of friends.I will keep you in my prayers.

Ricky Lewandowski

October 11, 2009

To Roberts family, please accept out deepest condolences at this very difficult time. I met Bobby about 20 years ago and I must say, he hasn't changed one bit. Gentle, caring and funny, Bobby would always keep us coming back (but not for his burritos)way too big to finish.

Be strong now and forever, for Bobby is looking down on all of us in this, his final resting place.

Cora Daplyn (nee Frio)

October 10, 2009

I didn't ever meet cousin Bobby but I have heard lots of nice things about him from my sister Precy and brother Bert.
To Carol and Joe, and all who knew or worked with cousin Bobby, please accept my deepest sympathies.
May he rest in peace!

October 10, 2009

Carol- I am so very sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you. Bobby was such a good friend to my late husband Jim Enright. I am sure they are both recounting their good times together now. Anne Enright

sue speropoulos

October 9, 2009

Carol and Joey, I am deeply saddened for your loss. Bob was a great guy. I will miss the talks we had on the phone.I thought of him as part of my family even after Joey. My heart goes out to you both.I will definitely miss him

eddie reed

October 8, 2009

Dear Gonzales family:

I am very sorry to hear about Bobby O. You are in my thoughts and prayers during your time of sorrow.

I will always remember the times when I came to the bar and Bobby would laugh about my little arms.

I will miss you Bobby O.

Popeye
Eddie Reed

Bonnie Terry

October 8, 2009

Carol,
I was shocked and saddened by the news. One of my best memories of Bobby is him saying "what I am, an orphan?" That's the way I'll remember him. Carol, you're in my prayers.

Johnny Gonzales

October 8, 2009

Please accept my deepest sympathies.

Donna & Kathy

October 8, 2009

Carol,
Please accept our Deepest Sympathy, dear friend! May God's Blessings and our Prayers help you through this difficult time and help you to cope with your loss!

Donna & Kathy

Camille Starchvill

October 8, 2009

My Deepest Sympathy Carol so sorry to hear about your loss!
Your High School Classmate, Camille

Neil Pantelis

October 8, 2009

Carol and Joe,
I am very sorry for your loss. Bob was a great guy. I will miss him very much. I never told him but I often took advice from things he said during our conversations. His opinion was important to me.
Neil Pantelis

October 8, 2009

Carol and Joey,
I am so sorry for your loss. It was a great shock to all of us who knew Bobby - this just wasn't the way we figured he'd go out. I have many fond memories of working for Bobby both at Southport and Broadway. Cruz and I have been sharing stories all week - laughing, crying and thinking. I believe he's raising a toast right now with Dawn, Christine and Cowboy.

We are keeping you and your families in our prayers. Bobby will be missed.

Deb During Brown (and Kevin Brown too)

Bob LaRocco

October 8, 2009

Please accept my deepest sympathies. Bob will be missed by all who met him. our thoughts and prayers will be for the comfort of the family.

michael pineiro

October 7, 2009

Iam sorry for your loss bobby was a great man and will be missed ,sorry to his family and friends, sleep well old friend

October 7, 2009

bob was a good friend thanks for all the good times god bless kevin the painter

Julie J. Yonkers

October 7, 2009

I would like to start out by saying that I am a former longtime bartender that worked at O'Lanagan's on Montrose. I am shocked and saddened by the sudden loss of Bob. I guess I just took it for granted that he would always be there.

I was pretty young when I started there and my first impression of Bob was that he was mean and didn't like me; but the longer I worked there and got to know Bob, I realized that underneath his gruff exterior was a kind and caring person -- especially if you really needed help. Not to mention that Bob could be really funny (even though he didn't mean to be)! Many, many times the customers and I would laugh till we cried at some of the things Bob said or did. I will always have fond memories of working at O'Lanagan's.

One of the things I am saddest about is that I won't be able to tell Bob once I finally become a Court Reporter. Bob was one of a handful of people that truly believed that one day I would become a Court Reporter (I was attending school while working there). Although one of his favorite sayings was I'd be eligible for Social Security by the time I passed the test to become a reporter (joking of course).

As many bartenders before me and, I'm sure, many after me, I quit working at O'Lanagan's after starting to date one of the former customers. Bob's motto was boyfriends and bartending do not mix, and he sure was right! I really regret not coming to visit more often after I quit. Never in a million years did I think I would never see Bob again.

So let this be a lesson to all of us. Keep in touch and be sure to call and visit family and friends often because they can be taken away from us at any time.

Bob, may you rest in peace. You will be greatly missed!!

Bert Frio & Family

October 7, 2009

Carol and Joe, there is no words to describe what you are going through with the loss of cousin Bob. He will be surely missed deeply. We are with you in your time of grief and sadness. He will always be remembered as that very loving and kind hearted person. We will always keep you in our prayers and may cousin Bob rest in peace in his eternal place.

Ricky & Ann Lewandowski

October 7, 2009

May all remember the hopes & dreams you instilled in your friends. By friends anyone who came thru your doors, you were quick with wit & smiles. Cheers to the laugher and good times which brought us back again and again. You were a light to our fair community and now we say good night our dear friend it's closing time and you have to go home to your final resting place in our hearts.

Ashli Newfield

October 7, 2009

Joe and Family

We are so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.

Tom, Ashli, and Kaylee Newfield

OMAR SANTOS

October 7, 2009

"Yea though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil; For you are with me; Your rod and Your staff, they comfort me."

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Omar Santos and Family

David and Rhonda Robbins

October 7, 2009

we are sorry for your loss, he will be missed dearly. he was a great man we will keep your family in our prayers

Kelly Nielsen

October 7, 2009

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2009

Elizabeth Dickson

October 7, 2009

Please accept my deepest sympathies.

Sandi Haimann

October 7, 2009

Is Robert related to: Alfredo, Bill, Manuel Gonzales? Sandi Haimann

Al & Chris Hess/Domaille

October 7, 2009

Bobby"O" was a man of outstanding compassion and feeling who will be sorely missed, One can only hope justice will prevail in this sometimes unjust world, if anyone deserve's that it is Bobby"O". You will be missed we will remember you fondly and with Love

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