Di Silvestro, Robert F. age 71, attorney, at rest December 18, 2003, beloved and devoted husband of Theresa (nee Grosso), loving and caring father of Robert J. (Felicia) Di Silvestro and Stephen P. (Catherine) Di Silvestro, loving and proud "Papa" of Michelle Rose, Stephen Robert and Kathleen Marie, dear brother of Anita (Elio) Vento, Angela (Ernest) Santangelo and the late Anthony (Marion) Di Silvestro, fond uncle of many nieces and nephews; counselor and friend to all who have known him. Robert was the son of Pietro and Rosina Di Silvestro, who emigrated from Castel San Vincenzo in the region of Molise, Italy. Robert attended St. Ignatius High School, Loyola University and Loyola Law School. He accepted a legal position at the First National Bank of Chicago where he became vice-president and trust counsel. Robert drafted the bank's estate planning documents and trained numerous attorneys in estate planning throughout his 33 years at the bank. On October 11, 1958, Robert married his long-time love, Theresa, in what was the beginning of 45 years of mutually devoted love. Bob and Theresa had two sons, Robert and Stephen, both who are lawyers like their father, with whom he proudly practice law since 1987 on the northwest side of Chicago. This was his love and enjoyment: being with his wife and sons on a daily basis; helping others in time of need; and providing practical resolutions to his client's problems which he viewed to be an attorney's primary responsibility. Robert was a devout Catholic throughout his life. Beginning at Notre Dame Parish on the near west side, then at St. John Bosco Parish in Chicago and later at St. Norbert's Parish in Northbrook, he was an active parishioner, often attending daily Mass. Bob and Theresa developed life long friendships with numerous priests and nuns over the years. Bob was an active member of Ridgemoor Country Club and the Columbian Club of Chicago, a philanthropic organization of Italian American businessmen where he was elected President and a life member. He was also an active member of the Chicago and Illinois State Bar Associations, the Justinian Society, the St. Stephen and St. Vincent Society and the Molisani nel Mondo. Bob's grandchildren, Michelle, Stephen and Kathleen, were his pride and joy. They will have everlasting memories of their proud "Papa". Robert was a true servant to his family, friends, clients and God. He will truly be missed by all. Funeral Tuesday, 9 a.m., from Cumberland Chapels, 8300 W. Lawrence Ave., Norridge, to St. Norbert Church. Mass 10 a.m. Entombment Queen of Heaven Mausoluem. Visitation Monday, 3 to 9 p.m. In lieu of flowers, donations to The Columbian Club Charitable Foundation, c/o Di Silvestro and Associates, 5231 N. Harlem, Chicago, IL., 60656. For info., 708-456-8300.To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Frank and Dorothy Buti
December 25, 2003
Bob, our dear friend for many years. We knew you since we got married and that was over 50 years. You were in law school at that time. Bob, we will never forget you, not only as our lawyer but a true friend. Thank you for leaving us your two sons who will carry on for you and will be there for us along with your Theresa. May you rest in peace.
Ted Kiewicz
December 23, 2003
My deepest sympathy to the DiSilvestro family!
I had the pleasure of working with
the "Counselor" over a 20yr span as
an employee of Cragin Bank and His
contribution to so many people will
live on forever!
" A Gentleman and a Scholar "
Peter Haleas
December 22, 2003
You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Peter J. Haleas
Tom & Jeanne Niemczyk
December 22, 2003
Our sympathy to you and your family. Our older boys, Jim and Bob went to school at St. John Bosco...I remember your wonderful family well through Scouts and Church.
ANTHONY & DOLORES SABATINO
December 22, 2003
BOB WILL BE MISSED AS A COLUMBIAN CLUB MEMBER AND A DEAR FRIEND.
IT WAS A PRIVILEGE TO HAVE BEEN ASSOCIATED WITH BOB ON DIFFERENT
COMMITTEE'S.
Dawn Gould
December 22, 2003
Di Silvestro family,
Our deepest condolences to all of you. Just spending the short amount of time with you at Bob and Felicia's wedding showed what a loving and caring family you all are. What a wonderful legacy Bob has left. I'm sure he will be sorely missed but we all can have great peace that he touched so many! God Bless all of you while trying to get through this very difficult time your life.
Our best regards,
The Gould Family
Tom, Dawn, Lauren and Katie
John Alfano
December 22, 2003
My deepest Sympathies to all of the Di Silvestro Family, he will be remembered as a dear friend to the Alfano Family.
Robert Donatelli
December 22, 2003
Was a day in mid September and as well as I remember I was walking down the street with manly pride... Loyola, Sigma Pi Alpha Fraternity Song ; Bobby D.'s cool calm manner was a great role model for a Mouse(Pledge) even at Whitey's Lounge!!
The Staff of Cumberland Chapels
December 22, 2003
Offering our deepest condolences during this difficult time.
Dr. Michael Rosinia
December 21, 2003
I grew up with Bobby,went to St. Ignatius and Loyola with him. He was a great guy and I am sorry to hear that he is gone. My deep sympathy.
Dr. Michael Rosinia
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