Robert Brcka Obituary

Hello brother how are you doing? I guess you are doing good because now you have my mommy up there with you. I realy did need her Bobby, and not just for warching my kids like everybody thinks. Mommy use to help me when I had to talk about my problems, and she use to give me good advise about my kids. Now I am left here alone with my kids and I am so scared. The only person that I have is Melissa. I still can't beleive that mommy is not here. I don't understand how any body could take a good person like she was, away from me. Just do me a favor and take good care of her. I hope that you, mommy, and daddy are all happy to be together. There are times that I wish that I could be with you all again, but down here. I know that you were sad to see mommy going through all that pain in the hospital that's why you took her into a better place, but Bobby I am so lost without her. The kids always talk about her and always cry because they miss her. I also miss you and the funny things that you use to do at the family parties. You were and will always be a great brother. I just wish that we would have had more time to spend together. Well I will let you go now. Please give mommy and daddy a kiss for me and tell them that I love them. Please watch over me and the kids because we need all three of you more than ever. I Love you..From your sister Jeannie

Bobby,



We know that you missed mommy as much as she missed you and now you have taken her under your wings....Thank you for giving us this last week to express to her how very much we love her. Although we will miss her deaply, we know that she is safe and happy to be with you and daddy once again. We love you and miss you all very much!!



Love Rich & Janet

Christmas Day is getting closer

But there's sadness mixed with joy

Every day a few more questions

From the little girls and boy's

Not alone, but they'll be lonely

For their little brother won't be here

And just like the air at Christmas

There'll be a chill upon the chill



Christmas without Bobby

Will be such a lonesome day

We'll send a prayer and

All our love to you so far away

Your family just wrote to Santa

Asked him to send you home

Yes Christmas without Bobby

We'll be blue and all alone



Christmas without Bobby

I don't know what we're gonna do

On the present from your family

We wrote, "Bobby, We love you"

Your family just wrote to Santa

Asked him to send you home

Yes Christmas without Bobby

We'll be blue and all alone

Bobby,

I have not written to you in a while because I have been so busy working overtime this past two months. I realy miss you a lot brother. I guess now with Christmas coming I miss you a lot more because you always made the holidays fun for everyone. It just seems realy weird that I lost someone in my family that was so close to me. I have not lost anybody in my family in a very long time I guess the last death in my family I had to deal with was Daddy's. I wish that you and Daddy could be here for just one more Christmas because it would be the best Christmas ever. Sometimes I want to talk to both of you because I have so many problems right now that I don't even think I can deal with. It's hard to talk to anybody because I feel like they don't care and I don't want to bother anyone with my problems.

Well Lupe is sick right now, I guess because of the weather. She has been talking about you a lot lately she wanted you to be here for Christmas, but I told her that you were still watching over her and that you are everywere that she goes.

Well brother, I will let you go now. I want to wish you and Daddy a very merry Christmas, and please don't cry and be sad that day because your family will never forget either one of you and we will always love you. I will write to you soon okay. Please give Daddy kisses and hugs from me. I love you both very much.

The kids send kisses and hugs to both of you.

Love you Both,

Jeannie Brcka

BOB,

I THINK ABOUT YOU EVERYDAY, I GO TO PICK UP THE PHONE TO CALL YOU AND THEN...I REMEMBER. I GO TO MAKE YOU CHILI AND THEN....I REMEMBER. SOMETIME IT DOESN'T SEEM REAL, AND THEN...IT HURTS. I MISS YOU, MY YOUNGEST SON. THANK YOU FOR ALL YOU DID FOR ME. I WILL LOVE YOU FOREVER AND WILL NEVER, EVER FORGET.

WITH MY DYING LOVE, MOTHER

HEY BOBBY, I NEVER KNOW HOW TO START THIS OUT, IT WAS BAD THANKSGIVING WITHOUT YOU HERE WITH US, AND I EXPECT CHRISTMAS WILL BE EVEN WORSE. I MISS YOU, WE ALL MISS YOU, I GUESS THATS WHY I WRITE IN YOUR BOOK HERE , I KNOW YOU ALREADY KNOW HOW VERY BADLY YOU ARE MISSED, ITS JUST THAT I FEEL LIKE I AM STILL"TALKING" TO YOU, YA KNOW? HAVE YOU SEEN BILL C? HE HAS COME TO JOIN YOU AND DADDY. TELL DADDY I MISS HIM HORRIBLY, AND I WOULDN'Y MIND IF YOU BOTH CAME TO VISIT. FOR REAL. WELL, MERRY CHRISTMAS BOBBY AND TELL DADDY TOO. WE ALL LOVE YOU BOTH AND WILL CELEBRATE THE SHORT TIME WE HAD WITH YOU. STAY CLOSE WE ALL NEED YOU BOTH.

WITH LOVE FOREVER

KAREN

Hello Brother,

I am sorry that I haven't written to you lately and I know that their is no excuses for it either. But you know that I miss you a lot. I guess the hard times are yet to come in these following two months, with Thanksgiving and Christmas coming up. I know that you are going to be here with us, but it's not the same like having you here in person. I keep on thinking about all the Holidays when you were here and how much fun everyone use to have with you. It's just not going to be the same anymore.

I went to the cemetary last week and I took everything off yours and Daddy's grave, or else they were going to throw everything away. I tried to make it look nice with nothing there but flowers that I bought for both of you. Everything looked so bare and so lonely at the cemetary with all the trees without leaves and with nothing on the ground. I got kind of sad because I kept thinking that you and Daddy were cold, but you are in a better place to where you do not need to worry about jackets or anything. I just ask you and Daddy to take care of each other.

The kids told me to tell you that they love you and miss you. Ezzy keeps on calling her dolls Uncle Bobby, just like she did when you were here with her. Lupe and Bianca made a memory book for you and they put in on top of their dresser. They are the ones that remember you good, I guess you can say Lupe a little bit more.

Well brother I will write to you soon. Please watch over mommy, and all the family. Please just rest now Bobby because you really need to. You are the best brother in the whole world, and I would never want to replace you.

I love you and miss you a lot.

Love your little sister,

Jeannie

Hey BOO! I mean BOB, Happy Halloween! One of my favorite holidays was this week-end, and altho we had a great time, I know that something is always aching inside of me, and it's not the same. That's alright though because maybe it's not a bad feeling, maybe it's more like a full feeling, like you are right there with me, having a great time like you always did. So, maybe I was taking all those feelings and putting them in the wrong place.........I wasn't feeling sad and lonely.......I was feeling happy and smothered! LOL. Please do not stop, because I HAPPEN TO LIKE THAT FEELING MORE THAN ANY OTHER!

I was "Kitty Liter", and we did have fun didn't we? until I broke my toe. That still hurts. Oh well, hope you and Daddy had a HAPPY HALLOWEEN, and knowing you both, you had way too much chocolate, and you had a tooth-ache, so daddy ate the rest of yours! LOL



Talk to you,

Love and miss you!



Sister Kitty "KAT"

Hi Bob!

I'm late writing in your book, but I didn't forget your birthday. In fact, we celebrated quite a bit that night. I only have this PC at work so I was not able to do that on the 25th. It was a day of a lot of different emotions. Mostly sad, but I did have a lot of happy memories. Which then, of course, made me sad. Things will never me the same, I know that, but it's still so strange because you are still VERY much a part of my everyday. We talk, laugh, cry, and remember every day together, so except for me not actually being able to touch you, I still hear you, (even tho sometimes I don't listen) and you are still, and will always be in my, and Billy's life and heart. So, dear Uncle and Brother, Happy Birthday from us, and your entire family, who still misses you more than anyone else will ever realize even as we all know that you walk by our side every day. Hugs and Kisses to you, AND our Wonderful and Loving Father,

WE LOVE YOU!

Your sister and nephew,

Kathy & Billy

BOBBY,

HELLO BROTHER. I THOUGHT THAT I WOULD WRITE TO YOU TODAY BECAUSE YOU WERE IN MY THOUGHTS ALL NIGHT. I KNOW THAT YOUR BIRTHDAY IS COMING UP AND I REALLY WISH THAT YOU WERE HERE. BUT ON YOUR BIRTHDAY I AM GOING TO GO TO THE CEMETARY WITH A LOT OF MY FRIENDS TO SING TO YOU AND TO HOPE AND PRAY THAT YOU WILL ALWAYS WATCH OVER ME UNTILL I JOIN YOU IN HEAVEN.

THINGS ARE GOING OKAY WITH THE FAMILY. I REALLY DON'T SEE ANYBODY ANYMORE. I GUESS IT'S BECAUSE EVERYONE HAS THEIR OWN LIFE. i MADE A PROMISE NOT TO FIGHT WITH ANYONE ANYMORE BECAUSE YOU NEVER KNOW WHEN SOMEBODY IS GOING TO BE GONE. SOMETIMES IT'S BETTER THAT YOU STAY AWAY BECAUSE THEN YOU DON'T BOTHER ANYONE WITH YOUR PROBLEMS. I WISH THAT I COULD BE LIKE YOU WERE AND NOT WORRY ABOUT ANY PROBLEMS, AND BE HAPPY ALL THE TIME. YOU WERE ALWAYS SMILING AND HAPPY, EVEN IF YOU DID HAVE ANY PROBLEMS YOU WOULD NEVER SHOW IT.

BOBBY I KNOW THAT THEIR IS NOT MUCH YOU CAN DO BUT KAREN HAD A BAD LIFE BEFORE WITH ALL THE PROBLEMS THAT SHE USE TO HAVE AND I WANT HER TO HAVE A LIFE RIGHT NOW WITH NO PROBLEMS AT ALL. PLEASE HELP HER THE BEST WAY THAT YOU CAN TO GET HER ON THE RIGHT TRACK OF HER PROBLEMS TO END. AS FAR AS MOMMY SHE IS TRYING SO HARD FOR EVERYONE, NOT TO SHOW HOW HURT SHE IS BUT SHE NEEDS TO CRY AND LET IT OUT. SHE IS TRYING TO DEAL WITH THIS BUT I KNOW DOWN INSIDE SHE IS HURTING BAD. THE MOST IMPORTANT THING IS TO WATCH OVER MOMMY FIRST AND MAKE SURE THAT SHE IS OKAY AND THAT SHE IS DOING THE RIGHT THINGS. RONNY IS ALSO TRYING TO STAY CALM AND DO EVERYTHING THAT HE HAS TO DO, AND TAKE CARE OF MOMMY TO. HE IS DOING SUCH A GOOD JOB ON TAKING CARE OF MOMMY AND EVERYTHING ELSE HE HAS BEEN TAKING CARE OF.

WELL I THOUGHT I WOULD WRITE TO YOU SO THAT I COULD FEEL BETTER. I MISS YOU A LOT AND I LOVE YOU WITH ALL MY HEART. I WILL TRY AND DO MY BEST TO BE HERE FOR EVERYBODY IF THEY EVER NEED ME.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY BROTHER

I LOVE YOU, AND THE KIDS TOLD ME TO TELL YOU THAT THEY LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU. EZZY STILL NAMES ALL HER DOLLS UNCLE BOBBY.

SEE YOU SATURDAY,

LOVE, YOUR LITTLE SISTER,

JEANNIE BRCKA

BOBBY,

I REALLY MISS YOU A LOT. I AM SO SORRY THAT I NEVER WENT TO SEE IF YOU WERE OKAY AND IF YOU WERE EVEN TAKING YOUR MEDICINE. I LIVED SO CLOSE TO YOU AND I NEVER EVEN THOUGHT ABOUT SEEING IF YOU EVER NEEDED ANY HELP. IT DON'T EVEN FEEL LIKE YOU ARE GONE, UNTILL I DRIVE PASS YOUR APARTMENT OR I GO TO THE CEMETARY TO SEE YOU EVERY SATURDAY. WHEN DADDY PASSED AWAY I GUESS I WAS TO YOUNG TO BE THIS HURT ABOUT LOOSING SOMEBODY SO CLOSE TO YOU. BUT NOW I KNOW HOW IT FEELS BECAUSE BELEIVE IT OR NOT I CRY SO MUCH JUST THINKING ABOUT THE DAYS WHEN YOU WERE HERE. WE SPENT A LOT OF TIME TOGETHER WHEN WE WERE YOUNGER, POOR YOU RIGHT (HA HA). I REMEMBER WHEN YOU USE TO TELL ME ABOUT BABA EJEC.

AS FAR AS LUPE IS CONCERNED, SHE REALLY LOVED YOU A LOT. I AM SO HAPPY THAT I HAD MADE YOU HER GODFATHER BECAUSE YOU CARED SO MUCH ABOUT HER. WE ARE GOING TO BAPTIZE SEAN SOON, AND I WISH THAT YOU WOULD HAVE BEEN HERE BECAUSE WE WOULD HAVE BOTH BEEN THE GODPARENTS. DON'T WORRY THOUGH, I BOUGHT HIM A REALLT NICE SUIT AND SHOES FROM ME AND YOU. I ALSO PROMISE I WILL TAKE EXTRA CARE OF HIM AND SHOW HIM EXTRA LOVE FROM ME AND YOU.

WELL BROTHER, I WILL TALK TO YOU AT CHURCH ON SATURDAY NIGHT. JUST REMEMBER I WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER YOU AND I WILL ALWAYS GO AND SEE YOU.

PLEASE WATCH OVER MOMMY BECAUSE SHE REALLY MISSES YOU A LOT. AND PLEASE WATCH OVER OUR SISTER KAREN WITH ALL THE PROBLEMS THAT SHE IS HAVING RIGHT NOW.

PLEASE WATCH OVER ME TO, AND GUIDE ME IN THE RIGHT DIRECTION AS TO WHAT TO DO WITH MY LIFE BECAUSE I AM SO CONFUSED. I LOVE YOU BOBBY AND I MISS YOU SO MUCH. PLEASE GIVE MY DADDY A KISS AND A HUG AND TELL HIM THANK YOU FOR TAKING CARE OF ME SO MUCH AND NOT LETTING ME GET TAKEN AWAY TO ANOTHER FAMILY.

I WILL WRITE YOU SOON BROTHER.

LOVE ALWAYS,

YOUR LITTLE SISTER

JEANNIE BRCKA

BOBBY,

AS I SIT HERE AND READ ALL THESE THINGS, ITS HURTS SO BAD. YOU SHOULD STILL BE HERE ON EARTH WITH US. I CRIED & CRIED AT THE POEM YOU HAVE BLESSED US ALL WITH, MAYBE SO MUCH SO THAT BEING WITH YOU & DADDY SEEMS TO BE MOST IMPORTANT RIGHT NOW. ESPIECALLY ME. AS YOU KNOW, THINGS ARE REALLY BAD FOR ME NOW, AND I CANT THINK OF ANYONE TWO PEOPLE ID RATHER BE WITH THAN YOU & DADDY. BUT YOU NEED TO HELP ME. BOBBY, I MISS YOU & DADDY SO MUCH, SO MUCH SO THAT I THINK I COULD NEVER BE HAPPY HERE ON EARTH. ITS TOO HARD, TOO PAINFUL AND I AM WEAK. YOU BOTH KNOW THAT. THE POEM. CAN I USE THAT AT MY WAKE? WHENEVER IT IS? ANYWAY, PLEASE KISS DADDY FOR ME, TELL HIM I MISS HIM TOO MUCH EVEN NOW. THIS FAMILY WILL NEVER FORGET NEITHER OF YOU, IN FACT, WE ARE INSPIRED BY YOUS. YOU ARE THE THREADS THAT WILL ALWAYS HOLD US TOGETHER. THANK YOU. BECAUSE EACH MEMBER OF THIS FAMILY IS AS IMPORTANT AS THE NEXT. WE LOVE EACH OTHER BOBBY, DONT GET FOOLED BY THE FIGHTS. WE ARE HERE FOR YOU, DADDY AND EACH OTHER. ALWAYS.

HUGS & KISSES,

KAREN

PS HAVE A RUM & COKE ON ME AND HAVE A MICHELOB ULTRA LIGHT READY FOR ME.

SOON BOBBY, SOON.

See Bob, I think you never realized how much your family really loved you. You have a great family and really good friends.

I will talk to you soon,

as always, and as you know,

you are my soul, and my inspiration!



Love for eternity, and if it's possible, miss you even more!



Kathy

OH! and BOB? GO CUBS! And the Bears could use a little lightning themselves!

Scripture: And God shall wipe away all tears from their eyes, and there shall be no more death, neither sorrow, nor crying, neither shall there be any more pain. For the former things are passed away. Rev. 21:4

My Brother, Bob

April 4, 2003 was a day in my life that I will never forget. That is the day that I lost you bobby. You and I always had a very close relationship. You loved and respected me and I loved and respected you. Anyone who personally knew you knows that you always wanted to have a good time.



At first I wondered how God would let this happen to my brother. Someone who had so many friends that loved him. Someone that had a loving family, someone who could probably have any girl that he wanted, someone who was known as a comedian, someone who always had fun wherever they were.

I believe with all of my heart that when the time comes for me to close my eyes in death that I will open my eyes in heaven and my dear sweet brother will be there to greet me along with daddy the one that died so many years ago, but has never been forgotten.



I miss you and love you and until we meet again when we all can be together again.



Love your brother Rich

Remember Me (my family)



Family I'll see you all one fine day

Another place, another way

Hold me close deep in your hearts

And in that way we'll never part



Do the things we liked to do

If not for me than just for you

Tell the kids I love them so

And show them all the love we've known



Smile and let your hearts be free

Know you'll always be with me

Your love, it let me live again

And now anew you must begin



I'll be there for the things you do

And always be a part of you

You'll see me with each song you sing.....Just please Remember Me my family......

BOB I MISS YOU MORE EACH DAY. THE ONLY COMFORT I HAVE IS KNOWING THAT YOUR WITH DADDY .YOU ARE ALAWAYS ON MY MIND. SEE YOU SOON LOVE RON

BOBBY,

I JUST KNOW THAT WHEN I THINK OF YOU IT SOMEHOW TELLS ME THAT YOU ARE WITH ME. I TOLD RONNIE THE OTHER DAY THAT SOMETIMES AT NIGHT THE PAIN THAT YOU ARE NOT HERE IS UNBEARABLE. HE SAID HE KNOWS AND SOMEHOW I THINK HE DOES. I CANT PUT INTO WORDS HOW MUCH I MISS YOU, YOUR LITTLE GIGGLE AND THE WAY YOU CALLED ME KEEEEERRRRRIIIII, WHEN WE WERE IN THE STORE. I WISH THERE WAS A WAY FOR YOU TO LET ME KNOW THAT YOU ARE AT PEACE AND ARE WITH DADDY. CAM YOU DO THAT? WHEN THINGS GET REALLY BAD FOR ME, I JUST THINK OF YOU AND IT HELPS ALOT,

SO THANK YOU FOR THAT. SEAN WILL BE CHRISTENED SOON AND YOU WILL ALWAYS BE HIS GODFATHER. THANK YOU FOR THAT TOO. I MISS YOU, THIS WHOLE FAMILY MISSES YOU AND I CANT WAIT TO SEE YOU AGAIN.

I LOVE YOU BOBBY, PLEASE JUST HELP ME DEAL WITH THE PAIN,



I AM ALWAYS WITH YOU AND I KNOW YOU AND DADDY ARE WITH ME.



KISSES AND HUGS

MY BABY BROTHER,

KAREN

Hey Bobby!

I am letting you know how VERY VERY SORRY, I am. Like "two peas in a pod" huh? At least I still have you and Daddy...........



I miss you so much!!

I love you,

Kathy

Hi Bob,

I was missing you a lot this week, and when I write in here it makes me feel a lot better, and somehow like you are actually sitting by me and reading what I am writing, as I'm writing it... As I said, it's been a rough week, there is not a hour that goes by and you are not in my thoughts. Most of the time, that is a great feeling, this week, it's a sad, still wondering why, hurt feeling. We deal with it, and it does get better for a while, with a lot of happy memories. Those are our GREAT days! So....

We went to Veags in July, as you know. I was pretty nervous about going, with being there when everything happened. I didn't know if I could deal with it. It was hard walking in, and going to the room, but after that, saw Ronny and Marlene at the bar, sat down, and really had a very calm feeling come over me. It was like that was where I was suppose to be. Hope you came with me and Ron the first night I was there. We stayed up all night and had a real good time. One of the better nights I had there. Thanks for being with us.

Well, I can't write too long today, time to end work for the day. I will write again soon, just thought I'd touch base today, just a little more one on one than at night.

Miss you so very much, and love you the same.......

Always,

Your Sister,

Kathy

Hi Bobby, I know I haven't written to you in a while, but you probably hear enough of me every night. I hope not, I still have many more words to say.

I was thinking of you today, this being Daddy's 72nd birthday, and knowing the two of you are really having a party. Celebrate Bob! For me too! I can't give him a true big "kiss and hug" but if you could for me, I would have the first real touch that I have been able to feel, thru you. They didn't have this wonderful way of expressing our feelings, or just talking to you, when Daddy left us, so I get so much happiness and satisfaction when I come in here.

We miss you more than ever and love you as much as we always did. You are with me every day, as well as Daddy, and I do know that you are holding our hands and guiding us (your family) in our daily lives. A friend told me the other day that our family was getting so big, that Daddy thought he could use some help with watching over us. Maybe he did, but I will always wonder how did he came to that decision. I know a lot of your family who would have stepped ahead of you. But, you have been the chosen one, and I do trust that the two most kindest and handsone men are now together---watching, and guiding. Thanks!

Please, again, wish our DADDY a HAPPY BIRTHDAY, from his and your family, and with all my heart and sole, I love you, and miss you both so very, very much.

Your daughter, and sister,

Always with a empty, yet heavy heart,

Kathy & Billy

I will never forget you Bobby. My heart is in so much pain right now. I love you and miss you very much. don't leave me, baby brother, stay close to me forever.

With Love.

Your Big Sister

Karen

Forever Friends, Bobby will never be Forgotten and will always be in our Hearts...Thanks for all the Memories... :-)

Love,

Scott, Dianne and Danielle

You are my brother, my friend, my heart and my sole. Our love for you is that of a truely close family, and really close friends. Not many people get to experience the love we have in our family. That is one reason why this is such a hard time for us. My heart is heavy, yet very empty, my life goes on, but you are always with me. I cry because I miss you, and laugh because I remember you. You will always will always be with me, so either of us will ever be alone. Walk with me, and hold my hand, and I will hold the rest of our family, as we will be together forever.

I love you, Billy loves you,

I miss you, we all miss you,

You are my brother, you are my friend. Thank you for that!

Your loving sister,

Kathy & Billy

Beloved brother will missed and was loved so much as he rests in peace with his beloved father in heaven.