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Raymond Budner Obituary
Budner, Raymond J. "Big Bud", age 72, of Monee, IL, formerly of Lansing, IL, passed away Wednesday, January 3, 2007, he is survived by his loving sons, Brad (Melissa) Budner, Thomas (Janene) Toft; and daughter, Barbara (Michael) Gaffney, loving grandfather of Megan, Nicole, Jennifer, James, Joshua, Allison, Natalie and Stephanie; one brother, Al (Shirley) Budner; and one sister, Alice (Lou) Bolzan, many nieces and nephews. Raymond was preceded in death by his wife, Joan of 26 years; parents, Martin and Martha Budner and brothers and sisters. Funeral services will be held in Tuesday, January 9, 2007, at 8:30 a.m., from the Schroeder-Lauer Funeral Home, 3227 Ridge Road, Lansing, IL to St. Ann Church, 3010 Ridge Road, Lansing, IL for a 9 a.m. Mass of Christian Burial. Interment Oakland Memory Lanes Cemetery, Dolton, IL. Friends may visit with the family on Monday, 2 to 9 p.m., at the funeral home. Raymond enjoyed golfing, he retired from General Mills after 38 years of service and proud to be a United States Army Veteran. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Raymond's name to the American Cancer Society. 
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Jimmy Gaffney
January 30, 2007
My grandfather was the best friend a man can have, he was loving and he always put everyone before himself. I have so many good memories, but the memory that kills me is January 3rd, 2007, I had the chance to go and be with him but no I was to selfish I wanted to stay home and sleep! rather than be with him! Not a day goes by without me thinking of him! When I heard he was gone my heart was literally ripped out of me!!! I'll always love him
Melissa Budner
January 16, 2007
My father in law was a strong man with many talents. He was a man who is respected by all, a football player, a leader,a father a husband, a grandfather, an Army man and so much more. He overcame adversity with grace. His smile always entering the room with him. He was strong, but sensitive. He could be stern, but fair. He loved with all of his heart and was very much loved back. He was thoughtful, kind, funny, intelligent, handsome and full of memorable stories. Ray Budner is the kind of man that others strive to be. I am so happy that I am his daughter. I am so proud to have known him and love him. I will always try and smile through the tears when I think of him.I will remember his love and kindness.He used to call me one of his angels...now I call him one of mine.
Nancy Wasily
January 11, 2007
Brad and Family
My deepest sympathy. I'm glad we were able to do lunch last spring and reminisce about times at the General.
Nancy Wasily
frank rys
January 8, 2007
team mates in the 50's @ c.v.s. joe's a.c. & st. michaels boys club. a great ball player & team mate.
MARILYN BAILEY
January 8, 2007
Dear Brad and family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. May your memories bring you comfort.
Scott Hagedorn
January 8, 2007
Mr. Budner was just like another father to me. From the day that my family and I drove to Lansing, IL. to meet my future College roommate (Brad and his family) back in the summer of 1984. What a guy!!
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