Phyllis Nestor Obituary

57 years ago today Phyllis was the sole witness to my marriage to Gerard Drouet in the Town Hall in Manhattan. Hardly a day goes by that I don't think fondly of her. My biggest regret is that I didn't find a way to travel to Chicago for her funeral. I keep her in my prayers daily.

Phyllis, you were sunshine.
All of our lives have lost a little of their brightness.

By a divine coincidence, a friend came upon Phyllis's obituary.

She called me immediately and we were both in disbelief.

We wanted to think it wasn't true. Then we saw her looking beautiful, as always, at the funeral home.

I hadn't talked to her in years. But with Phyllis things like that didn't matter.

She was so welcoming and sweet. She only saw the good in people.

I worked with her at ATA. We had our own little gang at Chicago Express.She was a riot!

Both most of all, she loved her children. While I didn't get to meet them all, I felt like I knew them.

She was a hardworking Irish Woman!!

Talk about a small world, but she worked with my younger cousins at Gaelic Park. She took care of my little mexicans!!

To Phylis's family, I am so truly sorry. She is at peace, but then to me Phyllis was always at peace!

She enriched my life in so many ways, that I didn't see, until now.

Phyllis, I miss you and can't wait to have a pint with you some day.

You made this little Mexican-American, feel like an honorary Irish woman.

The next time I go Dublin, I know I'll have your spirit guiding me.

God bless you, mi Amiga.

I wish to express my deepest sympathy to all the Nestor family. Phyllis was like a sister to me, we didn't talk often but when we did, it was like we never stopped talking. She lived with us in Queens and I remember on Sunday morning after breakfast she would be sitting at the table in her pj's and any time any of us (Donlon sisters) tried to get up she would tell us to stay another while. We talked and talked for hours. Often when we went out on Saturday night, we would stay up all night, go to an early Mass and then go to bed. We laughed so much whenever we were together. I remember when she invited me to stay at the Plaza with her. What fun we had. We put on the terrycloth robes and drank wine for hours. Her Christmas card always said "From Phyllis and Chicks" and this year was no exception. I've been praying for her a lot and hope she is at peace. I also hope the rest of the family finds peace without her, it will be hard.

Please remember your mom will always be with you in spirit and will be there to watch over and guide you. My prayers are with you.

So very sorry to hear the sad news. Years ago you shared an apartment with some of my sisters in New York and even though I had eight sisters of my own I also considered you as a sister! You always went to see my mother when you were visiting Garrafrauns and she enjoyed your visits. You had such a beautiful smile. You will be sadly missed. Condolences to family and friends.

Our deepest sympathy to your family.

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

We last met in Quinn's Pub(Colemans) in Garrafrauns. The Nestor and Donlon Clans filled the place. I will never forget your hearty laughter as we talked of the good old days. Deepest sympathy to all your Family.

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

To the Family and Friends of Phyllis Nestor:
My sincere condolences on the passing of a fun and lovely lady. I hope your memories will see you through this difficult time.
Phyllis and I shared many laughs together when we both worked at Fox’s Oak Lawn Pub. Last summer we ran into each
other at Gaelic Park and laughed again about the “Old Times”.
I am so happy that we had that little visit together but very sad
I won’t be seeing her again.
Sincerely,
JoAnn Ryan
Sun City, Arizona

Deepest sympathy to Phyllis's children and grandchildren,also to all the Nestor family in Chicago and Garrafrauns. I know she is dancing with the angels in heaven. Sorry we cannot be with you at this very sad time. Ron and Cathy Mellen

Phyllis will be missed greatly, but we have so many fond memories of her and her family when they came to visit durring the summers and all the parties we attended at her house. We will always remember the good times we had together. We will keep her and her family in our prayers. May she rest in peace. Garraufrauns,Co Galway, Ireland

To the Kissane & Nestor Families

Tom and I were so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire Kissane & Nestor families during this time of such sorrow.

May God Bless you and be with all of you today and all the days ahead.

Sincerely - Tom & Eileen Killarney
(Palos Park, IL)

I've known Phyllis since I was a little girl. She was always the same,young at heart both inside and out. We had the privelege of sharing special time with her just last month at a family wedding. Those are memories I will never forget. May you rest in peace Phyllis and always know how many lives you touched in a special way.

My deepest sympathy to the family of Phyllis; children, grandchildren, brothers and sisters. I know she will be missed by all of you.
Phillis was my sister Eileen's best friend. Eileen I know you will miss her a lot. I loved hearing the stories about Phyllis and her love of life.
Phyllis replaced me as a roommate when I moved to Texas. I know she kept that apartment in Queens a happy and fun place to be.

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

We are in shock to hear the sad news of Phillis' passing. I can't fathom that her warm smile won't greet us ever again on the south side.
She was the person whose loving, gentle, warmth and twinkling eyes brought the welcome to the Clancy's Pub and Grub for years when we were located at 12th and State. Uncle Paddy and I and our families are grieving with you. Until we meet again Phyllis, may God hold you in the palm of His hand.

We were shocked to hear of Phyllis's passing. We have known her for many years. She always had a smile and a big hello for you. She loved the "craic" and a good jive. She will be sorely missed around Gaelic Park. We extend our deepest sympathy to her family. We will keep you all in our thoughts and prayers.

For those of us who Love Phyllis this is a heartbreaking loss.But I know that as Kind,Gentle and Beautiful as she was so her spirit will be in heaven as our angel. I will keep her in my heart always.

Phyllis will be missed greatly. She always had asmile and a laugh for you. She rarely thought of herself,always of everyone else. Because of Phyllis we were able to have our Father's funeral luncheon at Galic Park. my sister just mentioned to her that we couldn't have it there and she said we'll see about that.Somehow she new what to do so we could have it.Anyone who meant Phyllis was truely blessed.May God help all of you through these sad times.Love Colette, Joe, and Bridget Pikosz

our sincere sympathy to the nestor family on the loss of a great friend and lady,she was a friend to many and watched out for everybody owner and customer in her years on archer ave,always in the same good humour no matter what,never seemed to have a bad day.she will be sorely missed by us all,so sorry we will be in ireland for her funeral. She will be in our thoughts and prayers.

Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Our deepest sympathy to you and your family.

The entire Oleskiewicz Family

To Phyllis's family:
My heart and prayers go out to your family in your time of sorrow. I am sure you will hear this over and over and you all know this....Phyllis was an Angel here on earth, a special person who was kind to all that came in contact with her. I will always remember her big smile and her warm heart. I was privledged to be her Manager at ATA Airines and can truly say she was one of my alltime favorite employees and I am also happy that I took the time to tell her that! All of the employees at ATA are brokenhearted, but know that she is in Gods hands and receiving the rewards that she so deserves...
I will pray that your pain softens as time goes on.....
Respectfully,

Always remember when Phyllis came to visit our house and her favourite singer was Buddy Holly and we used to play it full time while she was there and we would jive together before she left, fond memories From your school friend Carmel Howley

I haven't seen Phyllis for years but I have so many fond memories of the years we were roommates in New York. I especially remember her beautiful, generous spirit and her love for her family and friends. I regret I'm unable to attend her funeral.

Phyllis: We had many laughs - and cries - together. Thanks for doing my nails all those times in Elmhurst (I still can't do them myself!). I remember you every time I pass the Plaza Hotel as we had a lovely breakfast there one St. Patrick's Day when you were staying there. You were a fun person and a hard worker. My sympathies to your children, grandchildren, brothers and sisters. We will all miss you.

I've always loved you remember 111th. n laramie

PHYLLIS WAS ONE OF THE KINDEST SWEETEST, PEOPLE THAT I EVER HAD THE PLEASURE OF KNOWING. WE ARE SO HONORED TO HAVE KNOWN YOU.
SLAN AGUS BEANNACHT.
BREDA AND VINCE ATHY.

We were so sorry to hear the sad news. Our deepest sympathy to your family at this time.

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

To Phyllis' Family & Friends,
My heart crys with you and for you during this difficult time. I had the privelege of meeting Phyllis a handful of times when she visited with Marc & Eileen over the years. She was a real sweetheart and quite a "hoot" as well. When I heard of her passing my heart fell. I know how much Eileen loves Phyllis and the bond they shared. I've no doubt that holds true for all her family.

My prayers are with all of you. Trust that God knows exactly what He's doing and He will help you through this. "Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted" (Matt 5:4)

All my love.

One of the nicest people you could meet, and this is such a sad loss to any one that ever crossed her path. Rest in Peace Phyllis.

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. Please let us know if there is anything we can do to help at this time.