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Paul Stokes Obituary

KINSTON - Paul Anthony Stokes of Kinston, N.C. passed away November 12, 2012, while on vacation in Maggie Valley, N.C. - a place he truly loved. He was born September 9, 1930, in the community of Stokestown in Pitt County, son of the late Eva Paul and Mark Chapman Stokes. He served in the United States Navy for four years and was honorably discharged on June 6, 1952. He retired from DuPont on April 30, 1985, after 32 years of service. He was a member of Westminster United Methodist Church, Kinston, N.C. Paul is survived by his wife Marie L. Stokes, of the home; five daughters, Catherine S. Heath and husband Steve, of Baker Fla., Paula S. Clark of Auburn, Ala., Helen H. Townsend of Durham, Deborah A. Hill, and Jimi H. Pope and husband Mark, of Kinston; one sister, Ann S. Castellow and husband Earl, of Greenville, N.C.; sister-in-law, Marjorie L. Lewis and husband Jerry, of Kinston; brother-in-law, Harry G. Lilly and wife Lynne, of Arlington, Va.; grandchildren Anthony Bailey Heath, Heather Megan Heath, Taylor Clark, Cameron Pope and Mackenzie Pope. Many special cousins, nieces, and nephews also survive Paul. A celebration of his life will be held on Thursday, November 15, 2012, at 2 p.m. at Westminster United Methodist Church, Kinston, N.C. with the Rev. T. R. Miller officiating. Visitation will be from 6-8 p.m. on Wednesday evening November 14, 2012, at Edwards Funeral Home, 702 N Queen Street, Kinston, NC. Memorial contributions may be made to Westminster United Methodist Church, 1001 Westminster Lane, Kinston, NC, 28501, or to your favorite charity. Edwards Funeral Home is assisting with arrangements. Sign the guest book at kinston.com (Paid obituary)

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Published by Chicago Sun-Times from Nov. 14 to Nov. 17, 2012.

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Jackie Dudley

December 14, 2012

I was so sorry to hear about Paul's passing. I just learned of it yesterday (December 13). My mom called his sister to get his address as she and my brother had tried to find his house in Kinston yesterday to visit. Mama has been mentioning for about 2 weeks now that she wanted to see Paul. I wish we had known about his passing so we could have payed our respects. I think his sister said it wasn't in the Greenville paper. Come to find out Paul's sister lives right around the corner from me - right next door to a good friend of mine. I have many happy memories of Paul, Paula and Catherine Ann cooking steaks or at the beach. I know he and dad are reunited in heaven now.

Paula Stokes-Clark

November 27, 2012

In loving memory of you dad...
God looked around His Garden, and found an empty place.
He then looked down upon the earth, and saw your tired face.
He put his arms around you, and lifted you to rest.
God's garden must be beautiful, He always takes the best.
He saw the road was getting rough, and the hills were hard to climb, So He closed your weary eyelids and whispered, "Peace be thine".
It broke our hearts to lose you, But you didn't go alone, For part of us went with you, The day God called you home. Love, Paula.

Harry & Lynne Lilly

November 17, 2012

Dear Marie, Helen, Deborah, Jimi, Cathy, Paula, and Ann, Our sympathy and sincere condolences to you and your families as you grieve the loss of Paul. Weep no more. Celebrate Paul's life for the priceless gifts of love he shared with each of you and all who knew him. He found great joys in the mountains and at sea, and he treasured the time he spent fishing & golfing & sharing special times with the people he loved and met on his journey here. All were treasures in their own special way As you continue your own journeys, know that you can now take Paul with you any time you choose – with the precious memories of things and times shared. Paul was very special to us. We think your sendoff was a loving and touching tribute to a life well-lived. Our love and best to all of you as you march on knowing Paul is now free, exploring the stars, touching the waves, and painting the rainbows! Look for him when you catch or eat a fish, cast a net, tee off at Maggie Valley, or walk barefoot in the warm sands along the beach - and smile – because he will!

Gary & Rosemary Hill

November 16, 2012

Aunt Marie, Helen, Debra, Jimi and family
May our thoughts and prayers be with you
during this most difficult time. May God give you peace.

Love Gary and Rosemary Hill

Debbie Hill

November 15, 2012

I believe that tears can heal, memories will comfort, and love lasts forever. Good night, dear Paul.

Gretchen Hill

November 15, 2012

Dear Marie and Family,
You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. May God be with you during the days ahead.

Bobbie McLawhorn Tilghman

November 15, 2012

So sorry to hear of your loss. May God give you comfort and peace to sustain you in your hour of grief.

Joshua Franks

November 14, 2012

Thinking of you and praying for God's comfort, peace and understanding.

Mariane Franks

November 14, 2012

In memory of Paul forever.

Mariane & Windall Franks

November 14, 2012

Marie, Debbie, Jimi, Helen, and family, I am so so sorry to hear about Paul. There is never adequate words to convey in a time such as this. May you feel God's comforting presence during this time of sorrow. Just remember that your tears are sweet notes of love rising to the heavens for those you love. With sympathy, love and prayers always. Psalm 116:15 Precious in the sight of the LORD is the death of his saints.

Jean Morris

November 14, 2012

Marie: I am sorry about the loss of
your husband.Think on your good
memories.You're in my thoughts and
prayers. God Bless You. Jean Morris

November 14, 2012

Marie: I am sorry about the loss of your husband.
Think on your good memories.
You're in my thoughts and prayers.
God Bless You. Jean Morris

Wanda White

November 14, 2012

I am so sorry to hear of Paul's passing. I know he will be missed. Your family is in my prayers.

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