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Natalie Heineman Obituary

Heineman, Natalie Goldstein a pioneering champion for children's welfare, died at the age of 96 on February 28, 2010, in her native city of Chicago, IL. She will be remembered by all who knew her as a persistent advocate for social services for children and youth, an expert on adoption and foster care issues, an independent woman of intellect who always followed her heart, and as a beautiful person, inside and out, devoted to family and friends. She was a kind and selfless person, beloved by all she met. Her remarkable marriage to Chicago business and civic leader Ben W. Heineman Sr. lasted nearly 75 years. She is survived by her beloved husband, Ben, her daughter, Dr. Martha Heineman Pieper (Dr. William Pieper) of Chicago, and her son, Ben W. Heineman Jr. (Cristine Russell) of New Canaan, CT, grandchildren, Thalia Field (Jamie Jewett and son Benjamin), Dr. Jessica Heineman-Pieper (Dr. Param Srikantia), Johanna Heineman-Pieper, Victoria Stein (Jotham and son Gershon), Zachary Heineman, and Matthew Heineman, and many nieces, nephews and other relatives. Natalie Goldstein was born on March 16, 1913, on the south side of Chicago and lived in the city throughout her life. She graduated from the University of Chicago and did graduate work there before becoming a medical social worker. Ben and Natalie married on April 17, 1935, and she went on to lead many local and national civic and charitable organizations. She became the first woman president of the Chicago Child Care Society in 1966 and later the president of the Child Welfare League of America, which named a national award for outstanding service to children in her honor. She was one of the first women on the United Way of America national board. Other local service included the Citizens' Committee of the Juvenile Court of Cook County; the visiting committee of the University of Chicago School of Social Service Administration, and the board of the Erikson Institute for Early Childhood Education. Natalie was an intrepid family photographer, a lover of opera and symphony, and an avid studio glass collector with her husband Ben. In 2006, they donated their renowned collection to the Corning Museum of Glass, Corning, NY. The family would like to thank Dr. Neil Stone for his devotion and care. In lieu of flowers, memorial gifts may be made to the Chicago Child Care Society, 5467 S. University Ave. Chicago IL 60615. 773-643-0452 or www.cccsociety.org. Interment will be at the Heineman family mausoleum in Wausau, WI. A private memorial service is being planned.

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Published by Chicago Sun-Times on Mar. 3, 2010.

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BETTY RUSSELL

March 11, 2010

DEAR BEN,
I THINK OF YOU AND NATALIE EVERY DAY. WONDERFUL THOUGHTS OF YOUR STAY IN SOUTHERN CALIFORNIA AND OUR VISIT TO CHICAGO. SHELLY, CRIS AND I HAD A HARD TIME KEEPING UP WITH THE TWO OF YOU.
WITH LOVE, BETTY RUSSELL

mamie spiegel

March 11, 2010

To Big Ben, Marty, and Benjy:

What a beautiful, loving, kind and wonderful woman Natalie was. I remember her laughing, and full of joie de vivre.

I send you lots of nostalgic love - Mamie

Mary Minow

March 6, 2010

I remember Natalie as vivacious, funny and the center of a fascinating group of family and friends. She is missed.

JoJo Martin

March 5, 2010

My condolences on the passing of your loved one.She and my mother Doris V.Martin)attended the same college-U. of C., and my mother retired from The Chicago Child Care Society in 1975, having worked there for many years. I'm sure their paths crossed. My mother passed 2 years ago at the age of 93. I do extend my sympathy.

Lisbeth Stiffel

March 4, 2010

Dear Ben,

You and your family have my deepest sympathy.

Sincerely,

Liz Stiffel

Marge Hayes

March 3, 2010

Mr. Heineman,

I remember meeting and chatting with your wife at the SOFA events. She was a very gracious lady. Please accept my most heartfelt condolences at this very diffcult time.

Ray and Pat Epich

March 3, 2010

My wife and I will always remember how well we were treated by Ben and Natalie Heineman. May she rest in peace. Ray and Pat Epich.

Carol Miller

March 3, 2010

Dear Mr. Heineman,

I was so sorry to read about your lovely wife's passing in today's paper. The devotion that you both demonstrated to each other and joy that you showed when speaking of your extended family is an inspiration to me. I know that the recent few years were a struggle for Mrs. Heineman with numerous health issues. Each time I attend the CSO I think of you both as we used to talk about performances during your visits to Diane Davis. Please accept my condolences to you and your family.

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