Nancy Carr Obituary

I shared a few classes with Nancy in High School. I am very saddened Nancy was positive lively person.

It has been two years since we lost Nan. Not a day goes by where I don't tear up thinking about what an immense tragedy this is. Cate and Margaret are such beautiful little girls and I see Nancy in them more and more each day. I will forever keep Nan in my heart (and in my cell phone).

Mary, I am deeply saddened to learn of your family's loss. I remember Nancy's infectious smile and charismatic style. It has been many years but I will never forget the love and closeness your family shared. God bless.

Nancy was a great person with an exciting personality.

Peter,
Nan is always on my mind and will always be in my heart. It is still so hard to believe - I miss her so much. You are an unbelievable father, Peter. Cate and Margaret are two beautiful and smart little girls. We are always here for you.

We are so sorry for your loss.
Stacey (Long) and Dennis Endres

My heart aches for your family. I am deeply sorry for your loss. I pray that the Lord give you the strength and the peace you need to get you through this terribly painful time.

I have been thinking about Nancy for such a long time. I went to Maggiano's today and got a chopped salad in her honor for her birthday. I have such fond memories of her happy face...always smiling. Nancy you are missed.

While little time has passed, your family, and our dear friend Peter, remains in our thoughts and prayers. We think of you often.



Brad and Amy Gardner

I was incredibly saddened to hear of the loss of Nancy. Although I only met her once, I distinctly remember a warm, kind, vivacious girl with a great sense of humor. Looking through all the guest book entries, it is clear that Nancy touched so many lives and was admired and loved by everyone she met.

Please accept my deepest sympathies for the loss of such a beautiful person in your lives. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Dear friends and family,



I'm very sorry to hear about Nancy....I haven't seen her since college, but I will always rememeber how happy and enthusiastic she was. I always felt better after being around Nancy.

Dear Sue and family- My family wants you to know that we are thinking of you. Please remember that a smile like Nancys shines forever. We love you

Nancy's time in this world was too short. My sympathies to the families. She was a kindred spirit.

To the entire McLinden and Carr families: My deepest sympathy goes out to all of you for your loss.



The McLinden family is well known throughout the Homewood-Flossmoor area no matter what year you graduated in. Well known for their kindness, happiness, charity, and family values. Nancy could not have been a better example of these characteristics as they resonated throughout the entire Homewood-Flossmoor District while I lived there.



I feel proud to know and be associated with the McLinden family and am truly sorry for your loss. May the power of prayer from family and friends heal you in these trying times.

I am so sorry about your loss! Your family is in my thoughts & prayers!

To Bill, Karen and the entire McLinden and Carr families,

We are so sorry to hear of the tragic passing of your beloved, Nancy. Please accept our deepest sympathy and know that you are in our prayers.

To the McLinden and Carr family :



My thoughts and prayers are with everyone in your family.





Remembering your Angel today...



I hope your memories

bring you comfort.



Please know I am thinking of you.



Megan Starsiak

My prayers are with the McLinden and Carr families. It was such a pleasure to know Nancy. Her smile and laugh will be missed by more people than you can ever imagine.

To the McLinden and Carr families,



I want you to know how saddened I am to hear of Nancy’s passing. All of you continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. I did not know Nancy all that well but to both Sue and Corinne, please know that I am thinking of you both. I hope that all of you find comfort in your faith and in each other and that in time, I hope that the memories bring you peace. Each message posting is a testament to the person Nancy was and strived to be. May God be with all of you.

To the McLinden and Carr families, may you find the strength in each other to get through this incredibly difficult time. I can only take comfort in the fact that Nancy and Liz are together looking down on their incredible family. You will be forever in our prayers.

Dee and Family,

I am so very sorry for your profound loss. I have always admired the McLinden family. You are a family that provides hope that there is goodness, and people must strive to do better. Nancy helped communicate these ideas, as she touched many lives. My thoughts are with the McLinden and Carr families during this painful time. May you be blessed with memories and strength as you take what is painful and make it powerful.

Sue and the McLinden & Carr Families - I was so shocked and saddened to hear of Nancy's passisng. May God help you find comfort and peace during this time of overwhelming sadness. My deepest sympathy, thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

Peter, Catherine, Margaret, McLinden and Carr Families -

Words cannot express how sorry I am for your loss. Anyone who met Nancy, even if it was just once, never forgot her. Her smile, friendliness and ability to make everyone comfortable were a special gift. She had a wonderful sense of humor and she was so much fun to be with. There are very few times in our lives that we meet someone who has that kind of impact -- someone who makes you feel so good and so happy. Nancy did that to everyone she met, personal friends and casual acquaintances -- she will be greatly missed.

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Dear Peter,

I'm so very sorry to hear of you and your family's loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

May the immense weight of your grief be lightened by the friends and family who share in your sorrow.

May your hearts heal as you see Nancy's light still shining in the faces of her beautiful daughters.

Peter: I am so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you, your children, Michele, and your family. I don't really have any words of comfort--if there even are any--but I wanted you to know that you are in my prayers.

My sympathy goes out to your families, and to all of the people that Nancy touched during her life. Her smile and bouncing ponytail will not be soon forgotten.

The history and legacy of growing up with the McLinden Family will forever remain and that is why we are touched so deeply by your loss. Nancy has a beautiful spirit that will continue to shine and a family that embraces the true definition of love. Please accept our heartfelt sympathy, our thoughts and our prayers to the McLinden and Carr family. With Love, The Schwartz Family (Derek, Danielle, Dana & Dara)

I am very sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts are with your family.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you -- we are so, so sorry for your loss. Our warmest prayers go out to you and big hugs and kisses to all the children trying to understand. With all of our love -- your Flossmoor friends and neighbors,

Dear Peter, John and Nancy,



Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

The Faith that binds your family together and the closeness you share inspires others to live their lives meaningfully, every day, always remembering we are part of something bigger than ourselves. The moments I shared with members of your family are ones that shaped my life. Nancy and Sue opened their arms and included me as part of an extended family. Nancy holds close to the heart, a fun-loving, hard working spirit. She remained true to herself and showed others how to realize their dreams. What my heart would give so that this world and your family wouldn't have to suffer such loss. You are in my unending prayers. Semper Fi,

To the McLinden and Carr Family,

Please know that you will remain in our hearts and prayers. On behalf of the Lambert and Keivan family, we are truly saddened by your loss. Nancy was genuine and had a smile that was truly contagious. Her spirit and overall loving nature will remain forever in our memories.

Dear Peter (and family), Please know that you are in our thoughts each day. Keep smiling for Catherine and Margaret and I know their smiles will keep you going too. Love, Cynthia, Chris, Francesca and Eloise Beaulieu

I am so sorry that I missed the services. We will keep your entire family in our prayers and pray for the strength to get you through this difficult time.

This is too hard to beleive. I haven't seen Nancy since high school but always thought that she had a great heart and drive for life. I am sure her warmth and great qualities are in her children to share with others. My deep sympathy to both families as you should not have to experience this kind of loss.

Suzanne, I was so sorry to hear about Nancy. I know how much your family means to you. Please know that you and your family are in my prayers.

Peter, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Peter, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I want extend my sincerest condolences to you and your family. I will keep you all in my prayers and thoughts.

We are sorry. We are so sad. But we are thankful that we had the chance to meet Nancy recently and spend a night of laughter with her.



Peter, you have one of the sweetest, loveliest spirits I know, and I hope very much you are able to maintain that spirit during these difficult days.



There's a house in Los Angeles always open to you if you ever need to get away.



Much love,

Michelle McNamara and Patton Oswalt

Peter, Know that you are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

Dear Peter and the McLinden Family,

Jack and I were devastated when we heard of Nancy's accident on Sunday. The entire St. Teresa's community mourns your loss. We feel so bad that we did not know sooner. Our prayers are with all of you at this very difficult time. Please know that you have a special place in the prayers of all.

Jack and Marilee Halpin

Prepare Ministry

St. Teresa's Church

Our hearts ache for your families. We have no doubt that the memory of Nancy will live on in the lives of Peter, Catherine, and Margaret. We pray for strength for all of you.

To the Carr and McLinden Family,



My deepest condolences to you. Nancy was a good friend and will be well missed.

Donna & I just heard the terrible news yesterday. We could not believe it until we read this notice. We will always treasure the memories of Nancy, Sue and Rachel on the Flossmoor softball fields and will forever remember her beautiful smile. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of the Carr's and McLinden's. God Bless all of you.

Greg & Donna Berk

Nancy and I played on the HF fieldhockey team together. She was a great athlete, and I always thought highly of her. I will remember her with a smile on her face. I am so sorry for your loss.

The Carr and McLinden families are being overwhelmed with God's love, the prayers of thousands, and the service of hundreds of their close friends. It is helping us to keep Nancy's bright light lit in our hearts and her big smile in our memories. Please keep praying for all of us (and there are a lot of us) as we need an abundance of prayers to somehow, someday, accept this huge loss from our earthly lives. Pray that we may all eventually accept her loss without anger and bitterness. Pray that we may continue to follow her bright light, reflecting the light of Christ, to her new home in the tall grasses of heaven. We are forever grateful and humbled by the outpouring of support for Peter, Catherine and Margaret. THANK YOU SO MUCH. We have never seen so many tears, nor felt so much pain, or witnessed such a powerful community of Christian service. Please know that we feel so blessed and comforted in our deep and profound sadness by that outpouring. Keep praying with us to keep our hearts open to continue receiving the abundance of love and prayers coming our way. May we all keep Nancy's bright light burning in each and everyone of us for Catherine and Margaret throughout the years.

My thoughts and prayers go out to the McLinden and Carr family.

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

I sat at many a field hockey game watching my daughter Kim play beside the McLinden Sisters. I am so sorry for your loss. May your closeness help you through this difficult time

I've been grieving Nancy's death since I heard the news and as incomprehensible as it seems now, I unfortunately will swallow the truth one day. My love and compassion go out to not only my good friends the entire McLinden family, but to Peter and the girls and the whole Carr family and everyone who has felt the pain of losing Nancy.

The sadness will linger forever, but I have to remember what a remarkable person she was and will remain.

Nancy was the quintessential heroine. Much more than a Hollywood type heroine since they could never capture who SHE was in a 2-hour movie, Nancy was so much more real than moviemakers could ever invent. Her entire being, her every decision and action and comment should lead us all to answer “Nancy McLinden Carr” to that interview question we all someday are put upon the spot to answer “Who is the most inspirational person in your life?”

An outspoken and witty charmer; the best friend you always dreamed of (she dished the truth like you didn’t really want to hear it then told you how awesome you were in the next breath); the stellar athlete and brilliant thinker that had accolades wallpapering every room in her soul; the positive leader that won you over with her genuine sense-of-self and the world around her; the beautiful wife and mother who loved unconditionally her entire extended family, her sisters and brother Billy, her parents Bill and Marge, her friends and co-workers and anyone she crossed paths with at random. She was the real deal wrapped up in a big toothy, dimpled smile and red hair and her loss is the most powerful and gut-wrenching emotion I've ever experienced.

My thoughts and prayers go out not only to the wonderful McLinden and Carr families, but to everyone whose lives have been touched by such a beautiful spirit we know as Nancy McLinden Carr.

Side Note: I've added a never before published picture of Nancy in Boston to the picture section of the guestbook. She is 17 or 18 years old and on "free time" at a National Futures Tournament for field hockey, an invite only event for the best players in the country. Deirdre (Dee), her younger sister, was also invited for a younger age group. McLinden = Great Athlete. Nancy has climbed on a statue of Red Auerbach, former Boston Celtics coach, for the picture. I miss you Nance, you, your corniness, your big heart … you will never ever be forgotten.

We are so sad for your loss. May the Lord comfort your families.



Elaine P. and Thomas F. Mulligan

Our deepest sympathy. May you find comfort in your new angel up above!

Peter-Although I didn't have the pleasure of meeting Nancy, I am sure she was a great woman and mother, as you are a great person yourself. God is with you and will continue to help you though your grief. My family is praying for you and your children.

Love, Mary Beth (Butler) Groom, Peter Groom, Maura Groom, Jimmy Groom and John Groom

Peter: We are so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in our prayers.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this sad time.

Please accept our deepest sympathies. We will keep the McLinden and Carr families in our thoughts and prayers.

We are deeply saddened by the news, our thoughts and prayers are with the McLinden and Carr families.

Our hearts are broken for one of the nicest families we've ever known. Although we've only seen Nancy a handful of times over the past few years our everlasting memory will be her huge smile followed by her unique ability to tell a 5 minute story in 12 seconds flat. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Peter: You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Aimee Basa (Jers from Marquette).

I was shocked to hear the news of Nancy's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Suzanne, My heart goes out to you and all of the families and friends affected by the loss of your sister. I know exactly what you are experiencing right now and I am really overwhelmed with sadness. I know how close your family is from all of our conversations we had in the past. I hope you can find a place to put this in your own time. There is never a way to make sense of it so just try to be strong for your family. Thanks to you and your parents for allowing me a way to express my condolences.

Suzanne, My heart goes out to all of the families and friends affected by the loss of your sister. I know exactly what you are experiencing right now and I am really overwhelmed with sadness because I know what a close knit family you have from all of our conversations. I hope you can find a place to put this in your own time. There is never a way to make sense of it so just try to be strong for your family. Thanks to you and your parents for allowing me a way to express my condolences.

Peter, I am so sorry for your loss. I wish I had the opportunity to know Nancy - from everything I've heard about her, she sounded like an amazing person. You, your family and the McLinden family are in our thoughts and prayers. Please know you are surrounded by love and support.

Our deepest sympathies to both the Carr and McLinden families.

Dear McLinden and Carr Families,

Nancy leaves behind the memories from a vibrant life that touched so many people. It's impossible to remember her without smiling. Please know that our prayers ask for strength for all your family members at this very sad time.

Peter-

We are sorry for you loss. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.

Nancy was one of the first friends I made when I moved to Flossmoor many many years ago and I consider myself incredibly lucky for that. She was self-assured, funny and knew what it meant to be a true friend. Her amazing spirit has touched so many people and that spirit will remain in our hearts for the rest of our days.

My heart aches for the McLinden and Carr families. May you find peace and strenth during this very sad time.

We were shocked and saddened by this terrible news. Our deepest sympathies go out to your family. Nancy was a wonderful person and a great help to me. When I wanted to play college field hockey Nancy did everything she could to help me. I really appreciated her help and I couldn't have done it without the help of the always generous McClinden family. Our hearts go out to you at this very sad time.

Dear Peter: Both Peter and I want you to know that all our prayers and thoughts are with you at this very difficult time. We are so sorry. Carole and Peter Hart

Nancy was always a great teammate & a true competitor. I think she helped bring out the best in a lot of us. Our deepest sympathies to the many family members and friends who will miss her dearly.

Nancy's smile, genuine kindness and warmth could light up a room instantly. When you were in her presence, you simply could not feel more welcomed and loved. Peter, please know that you are in our hearts and prayers every day. We send our deepest sympathies to the Carr and McLinden families.

Peter, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I knew Nancy as a child (as her family lived by my cousins). Later, I had the pleasure of spending time with her as an adult at the Doran/Pezza house in Roscoe Village (Jenny Doran is my sister). When I think of Nancy I picture her big smile and a sparkle in her eyes that one rarely sees. I'm so sorry for your loss.

Peter:

Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.... I am very sorry to hear about your lose...... don't know if you remember me from my visits to AKA... Susan Lokaj gave me the information.

Dear Carr Family,



Please accept our sympathy and prayers at this very dificult time. What a loss for all of you....



Wayne Andersen & Sheila O'Brien

Our deepest condolences.

You are in our thoughts and our prayers. May faith in God help you through this loss.

To the Carr Family and the McLinden Family,

Please know that many hearts are breaking for you in the Homewood-Flossmoor area. We are deeply saddened by your tragic loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

May God bless you all during this most difficult time. Your families are in my thoughts and prayers. Please accept my deepest sympathy.

I was shocked and saddened to learn of Nancy's passing. She truly had a heart of gold. I pray that her family will, in time ,find some peace in knowing just how many lives she touched. May God watch over her entire family during this difficult time.

To the Carr and McLinden Family,

You are in our thoughts and our hearts.

With Love,

There are certain people--special people--who come into our lives and make them better. Nancy is one of them.



Her face and smile lit up every room she entered. That glow will never be extinguished.



My love to the McLinden's and Carr's.

Peter,

My heart breaks for you and your family. You will be in our thoughts and prayers.

Peter...Lara and I want you to know that your family is in our thoughts and prayers. We are so very sorry to hear about your wife.

I will forever have fond memories of Nancy...especially her smile. Over the last few days I've seen such an incredible outpouring of love and support and hope that may provide you comfort during this difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Peter and family,



I am so sorry to hear of your loss. You are in our thoughts and in our prayers.

Heartfelt thoughts and prayers are with you, Peter, and all those who knew and loved Nancy. Your loss is great. May your faith sustain you at this difficult time.

All our sympathy, words cannot describe how sad we are for you.



Our thoughts and prayers are with you.



The Bruni Family

The entire McLinden and Carr Families: Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this hard and trying time.

Cathy Mears (Ruschhaupt) and the Ruschhaupt family

Dear Mr. and Mrs. McLinden and Peter: I’m so very sorry to hear about Nancy. She was a good friend when we worked together at the Assessor’s office and I’ll always regret the lost time we had after falling out of touch. News of her death really stunned me. My sincerest sympathy goes out to you. Please know you’ll be in my thoughts and prayers.

My thoughts and prayers are with the McLinden and Carr Families.

Peter and the entire McLinden Family,



Nancy's passing is far and away one of the saddest things that I have ever experienced. She touched the lives of so many people. I will miss her. My thoughts and prayers go out to all of you.

Peter, I am deeply saddened to hear of your loss. Though much time has passed since we were kids and since we embarked upon our separate paths, know that you and your family are very much in my thoughts today. It is obvious from the surrounding comments that Nancy was a remarkable person. May you and your families find some comfort in the warmth and goodness she leaves behind.

Please accept our deepest sympathies.

May God bless you all during this most difficult time. Your families are in our prayers.

Peter,

I never had the pleasure of meeting your wife, but from the entries in this book, it sounds like she was a wonderful person. Take care of yourself, you will be in our thoughts and prayers.

Nancy was-a bright star- a glass of champagne, or fresh squeezed lemonade. She was all the things that you can think of to describe the best of days. I smile to think of her in the office- bursting with -"Hi how are ya's" and "Oh so good to see you". And she meant it. And, as a friend noted-Nancy's fashion comments "Nice necklace, cute shoes..." She was a breath of fresh air and so much more. She had depth, integrity, and passion. She was and may she always remain, a sign of hope to us all. Love endures. Bless her, and all who love her.You are in my thoughts and prayers.

I am extremely saddened to hear of Nancy's passing. My deepest sympathies go out to the McLinden and Carr families. I will always remember Nancy's smile and warmth. She had such a beautiful spirit that will truly be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you all in this difficult time.