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Eliza Buttacavoli
October 13, 2023
Happy Birthday Beautiful . This is your auntie Eliza missing you is always honey. I think about your everyday love and just wish you were still here with us where you are supposed to be :-( Tell Daddy and Grandma hello for me I love you
Bear
October 13, 2022
Happy Birthday, Mel.
My Japanese maple is bursting forth in colors that chase away the colder temps -- just like your smile!
Missing you, Bear
MK
November 27, 2021
Missing you Mel
Tammy
November 25, 2021
Missing you sweet cousin on this Thanksgiving. You're anyways in my heart
MK
May 15, 2020
Missing you!
October 13, 2019
Happy Birthday, Mel!
You've got a full moon, but we can't see it behind the clouds at the moment. Big freeze coming again tonight, so I just spent two hours covering up the wildflowers. Might be able to squeeze another two weeks out of 'em. Meanwhile, I'm gonna tip back just one beer, while I remember your sunny sweetness!
Bear
Justine Flint
October 14, 2018
Happy birthday Mel I hope ur enjoying ur wings
Bear
October 13, 2018
Happy Birthday, Mel!
The cold weather slammed us recently, but I see you brought sun & nice weather for your special day. My wildflowers are even still blooming for you! I'll tip back a beer for you later...after the day's work is done.
Miss you, kiddo!
Love, Bear
Bear
October 13, 2017
Hi Mel,
It took eleven years, but your birthday is finally on Friday the 13th again! Happy Birthday! Wish we could be having a beverage together to celebrate, but I'll have one for you on this beautiful autumn day.
Miss you! Love, Bear
M K
October 13, 2017
Gone but will never be forgotten. Miss you Mel!
Auntie Liza loves you Baby Girl..
Eliza Buttacavoli
October 15, 2016
Little Sister Ashley, looks lots like you
Eliza Buttacavoli
October 15, 2016
Your baby Brother Willie Jr. Has grown up so Handsome
Eliza Buttacavoli
October 15, 2016
Your Cousins, Tammy, Christopher, and Angela
Eliza Buttacavoli
October 15, 2016
Eliza Buttacavoli
October 15, 2016
Thanks again Bear so much for caring so deeply about my Dear Beautiful Niece . I'm sure she Loved You back.... There is a Memorial for her tonight at 630. Not sure if you are aware or could make it. North Riverside park. Off Cermak on Desplaines
Eliza Buttacavoli
October 14, 2016
Happy late Birthday My Beautiful Niece ,. You were on my mind all day yesterday. Really Really miss you too much Honey... .
Bear
October 13, 2016
Happy Birthday, Mel!
It was a nice sunny, if coolish, autumn day and I think you would have liked it. I always think that we should be having lunch to celebrate! Poor old bear can't even drink a real drink, because I got into something in the yard the other day and have a rash on both arms, Grrrr. But, I'll toast you with a Cherry Coke Zero and remember your smile...always!
Love, Bear
M K
October 14, 2015
Love and miss you always!
Bear
October 13, 2015
It's that time again, Mel. Happy Birthday!
I guess the Cubs tried to give you a present by clinching a playoff series at home. Wish the Sox would have done it! Of course, you would be happy just to be happy. I always loved the way you found something good overlooked by everyone else.
Still miss you lots, kiddo. Still wonder what you would be like at this age?
Love,
Bear
M K
July 7, 2015
Mel bel,
I miss you so much! Never got a chance to tell you what you meant to me. The memories together I will always cherish. I love you!
Bear
October 13, 2014
Happy Birthday, Melissa!
Did the Big Guy put you in charge of the weather today? Wild stuff...rain, wind, lightning and maybe tornadoes? I'm sure that you would still find something to laugh about and make everyone around you a little happier! Miss you lots, kiddo.
justine flint
May 28, 2014
there isnt a day that goes by that i dont think of u chick i miss u sooooooo much i love u and i know ur watching over me and our friends
Bear
January 22, 2014
Dear Kristen,
I'm glad that this little spot and some words and thoughts seem to ease your pain. Although I knew Mel for such a short time, compared to you, I can appreciate your loneliness. Our company moved two months ago and I can no longer look upon the desk where Mel sat. No matter who was sitting there, I always saw Mel's smile and heard her infectious laugh all these years. But, she still smiles and laughs in our hearts!
I only met you once, on a terrible day for meeting people, but I still occasionally look at a couple photos that I scanned from a picture on Mel's desk. You wore a red sweater and Mel wore a red dress, with a black jacket. There was a starburst background. So, you're in my thoughts, too. If you ever need to share such thoughts, feel free to contact me. Mel would like that.
Kristen
November 6, 2013
I never let myself feel how much I actually miss you. I wish we were growing older together. I wish you were here. I'm so tired of being alone, Mel.
Thanks, Bear, for keeping this open for my sister. Your messages to her mean a lot to me.
Bear
October 13, 2013
Happy Birthday, Melissa!
It's a perfect autumn day, with blue skies and a crisp breeze. A good day for thinking about you and remembering your smile.
Bear
October 13, 2012
Happy Birthday, Melissa!
Of course, you're remembered more than once a year, but this day does belong to you. It's rainy and cool, but you would like the way the wet autumn colors are shimmering.
Miss you lots,
Bear
Liza Buttacavoli
March 13, 2012
Hello Beautiful, Its been awhile since I've sent you a message, Sorry. We still Miss you too much & that will never change. You are supposed to be here with us honey. Spring is one of your favorite times.Tell your Dad, Grandma Dora,Grandma & Grandpa Newsom an our others that are with you that we love an miss them too. Until later my Beautiful niece.
Juliana Anastasiou
October 21, 2011
Hey girlfriend...been thinking about you lately...hope you had a good bday..miss you with all my heart. Everytime I see Fannie May Candy I think of you. Please help me through out life please be my guide..xoxo.
October 13, 2011
Happy Birthday, Mel!
Looks like it's just you and me here, kiddo. That's ok, cuz I'm sure everyone else just remembers you in their own way!
So, I had a really rotten day at work today, but when I got out back to my car, I looked up and saw this HUGE perfect rainbow...made me think of you! Then, I was driving west into the sunset and it was fantanstic. Probably just you -- playing with God's crayons!
Love,
Bear
Bear
October 13, 2010
Happy Birthday, MelBelle!
I don't drink very much these days, but I just cracked open a Killian's to celebrate with ya! We just hired a new receptionist who reminds me of you. She's a sweet & petite cheerleader, very pretty with a great personality. Very easy to talk to -- even for a dumb old bear like me! That's probably what I miss about you the most, Mel.
Love always,
Bear
Dawn Magyarics
September 4, 2010
Hey G....its been awhile..another highschool friend pasted phil dore hes prolly with u right now. I seen u the other day in my dreams my mom says that its you coming to see me!! feel free to cum anytime...i think about u everyday melbelle not a day goes by were i dont! i have soo much i wanna tell you youve been gone for years now...my son is 2 already...time flys just wish u were here to talk to to cry to to complain to...to drink n make new memories with!! i hold our childhood memeoires close to my heart cant wait till i can tell my son all the crazy things me u n amy used to do!!! or watch the videos we used to make rememebr the ricky lake one we made lol well mel i love you n miss u with all my heart!!! feel free to drop into a dream whenever u plz i love seein ur smile n hearing ur laugh misss u mel BFFL!!!
Bear
October 13, 2009
Hey Mel,
It's that time of the year again -- time to wish you a Happy Birthday! I even cracked open a beer in your honor, but I sure wish you were here to share one with me. I guess you are still here...in my heart.
Love always,
Liza Buttacavoli
January 4, 2009
Hi Beautiful, just really missing you sweetie. The world will never be the same with us. Two many of our loved ones are missing here. I pray you all are together helping and loving each other. So Angel until later. Loving you, Auntie Liza
Liza Buttacavoli
January 1, 2009
Hi my beautiful Neice an Godchild. Wantin to wish you a Happy New Year. Also Beautiful wanted to tell you that you are missed an thought about so often. Just wish you an your Daddy were here honey, Your Loving Aunt Liza
Angie Galto
October 14, 2008
Hello cuz, I know im a few hours late for your bday but I still wanted to drop you a line and tell you I love you and wish you were with us today. I am turning 21 next month and would have loved to have you celebrate with me. I will be thinking of you and will drink one for you!
I love you and your father. I miss you both and think about both of you everyday. I love you Melissa
Cousin Angela
October 13, 2008
Uncle Chris, Grandma, & Uncle John
October 13, 2008
Cousin Tammy & Auntie Liza
October 13, 2008
Bear
October 13, 2008
Hi Mel,
Just wanted to say "Happy Birthday!"
The weather was beautiful today and I'm sure you would have been dashing out of work to do a little rollerblading. I still miss your smile!
Love,
Bear
Liza Buttacavoli
October 13, 2008
Heh Beautiful Girl. Your Auntie wants to wish you a happpy birthday. Seems not so long ago you were just a baby. I looked at a lot of your pictures today. always so beautiful. Really miss you and Dad. I know you'll celebrate together. Love and miss you two so much. Later my sweetie. Your Auntie Liza
My Sacred Rose reminds me of you
May 26, 2008
Your lil Bro Willie Jr.
May 26, 2008
Your look alike baby girl
Liza Buttacavoli
May 26, 2008
Hi my Beautiful Neice an Godchild. Really missing you an your dad bad, honey. Hug an kiss each other for me.I promised to post pictures of your brother an lil sis for you, I no you would want to see them as much as they would love to see you an their dad. So here they are, lil Willie an Ashley. She looks identically to you when you was small. Always loving an missing you. Until later my girl, Loving you, Auntie Liza
Angela Galto
May 19, 2008
Its been two years today Mel Bel. I love you and I will wish Diana a Happy Bday for you. I know you would want me to.
Missing you as always,
Your cousin
Jessica Albertsen
May 14, 2008
ok so its been 2 years since u left me .. ok everyone.... but melissa i cant go on everyday with out thinking about you 20 thousand times .. i know you have been there threw the hardest times and the most memorable times with me... but its not the same... dawnys having a baby.. im sure u know.. my moms been in and out of the hospital.... realli sick thought she was gonna pass for sure the last time.. but she made it... n i thank u for bein in my heart threw all that.... i wish u were jus here i miss u so much everytime i go to say ur name or something that reminds me of u i jus cry.. like rite now.. u dont understand how much everyone misses u...... well monday will b the hardest day.. ill be at r park in the nite...meet me there.. love you wit all my heart n please keep me strong...... love melbelle....... sooo much XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXO BEST FRIENDS FOREVER AND EVER.... <3 jessi
Angela Galto
May 13, 2008
Hello Melissa,
Wow I cannot believe it has been two years since you passed... It seems like just yesterday we went to the circus... I still cannot believe you are gone and now it is almost one year since Uncle Willie has been gone! I miss you to more the I can describe. I just wish I wouldn't have taken anytime I had with either of you for granted.
I love you so much and hope you are happy and looking down on all of us that still hurt for you. A young girl that I went to school with died a few days ago and it just shot a reminder how short and delicate life is. I just want you to know we all miss you just as much as ever and have/will not EVER forget you!
Dawn Magyarics
April 22, 2008
MelBell*~
Not a day goes by when i dont think about you, and all the years we had together! I miss you more then words can explain...And at the moment i just wish u were here so i can tell u im prego! And if its a girl...I will name her Melissa Belle in memory of you in hope that one day my baby gurl can be as Beautiful inside and out as you were! the 2 year mark is coming up and i feel like im still in shock...Amy misses you much! she talks about you all the time! I loe you mel! n MISS YOU more even more! i know youll be with me all 9 months!!!
Liza Buttacavoli
March 22, 2008
Hi Beautiful, Missing your beautiful smile honey. Its another Easter without you. Hug our family for me sweetie. Loving and missing you every day. Love, Auntie Liza and Family
Angela Galto
January 16, 2008
Melissa,
It has been awhile since I was able to write anything to you. I just wanted to tell you I love you so much and miss you just as much. Its still so hard for me to realize your not with us anymore. I know you had so much more you wanted to do in life and I am sorry you are not able to do that. Even though you are not here in life you are in each and everyones heart. You have taught us to not take one day for granted and I thank you for that. I love you Melissa. At least now you and your father are together and happy! I miss you both and think about the two of you everyday. I love you..
Liza Buttacavoli
January 1, 2008
Hi my Beautiful Girl, We have a brand new year again, A very sad day for me, only bad thing so far is I am are really missing you an your father and too many more of our loved one. The holiday's are not ever going to be the same, neither is life without you all for me. Not a day passes me by without thinking and praying that you all are there together and I will be with you one day. I'm so so sad. Signing out saying I love you all honey, please hug each other for me an take care of each other till I get there to help you k. Loving you,Happy New Year..Auntie Liza
Tammy Giyas
October 18, 2007
Hey Beautiful,
We miss you soo much. Very unfortunate that we couldn't grow up together some more. Losing you was very hard for all of us...Not fair that you couldn't get married, have babies, and enjoy a long fulfilled life. But within us, you live. We think of you often, and just wish we could have spent more time with you. I know now how important life is, and to love my family every single day. I love you Melissa, and miss you more than i can put into words.
XOXOXOXOXOXO
Bear
October 13, 2007
Dear Mel,
It just doesn't seem right to wish you a happy birthday, but I'm thinking it all the same. Time doesn't heal all wounds, though it may eventually soften the blow. Whenever I see a pretty girl rollerblading along the river, I think of you and wonder what life would be like today if only...
I wonder how big your nest would be today? You were so thrilled about that kitchen table your mom gave you...because it was all yours to add on to...one twig at a time. Castles come in all sizes and you would have made a splendid queen!
It's a gray day outside. A good day to relect upon sunny memories.
Happy Birthday, Shorty!
Erika Flores
July 23, 2007
melissa,
my god its been so long since u've passed. you know there is not a day that goes by that i dont think of you. you seriously were my best friend when we met. you were there for me so much. if i ever needed anything i knew i could just call you. you were so beautiful melissa. i remember we would talk about being pretty and your sisters name came out of your mouth everytime. you thought she was so pretty and you were right she looks like you. she was your everything. i still keep all the memories we have close to my heart. there was not a time that i was with you that we werent smiling. i miss you so much melissa. sometimes when im just thinking its hard for me to believe that your gone. but i know your in a better place. i just wish it hadnt happened so soon. your always in my heart girl dont ever forget that. r.i.p love you girl
Erika Flores
Ang Galto
June 11, 2007
Hey Mel Bel. I finally got to see your little brother and sister. They are both great kids. I hope you and uncle willie are together again. Take good care of eachother. I love and miss you both so much! Not a day goes by where I dont think of you guys. I am sure we will meet again somedy. Til then just know you are in all of our hearts.
Your Cuz,
Liza Buttacavoli
June 7, 2007
Hi my Sweet Angel, Oh baby you are missed so bad, its really hard to take. But now is even harder. I just lost my Only Brother, Your Father. It helps me to accept this because I Know he is with you in Heaven and He is finally in peace with the most precious thing in his life...You. He brought the family here for a week vacation and passed away in his sleep four days later. Your little sister Ashley is almost identical to you. It was like looking back in time. It Really hurts honey. I'm posting your sister and brother's picture. They sure miss you, and now they have accept the lose of their dad to. But they know he's with you. So my Sweet Neice Melissa I love and miss you Please give your Daddy Willie and Grandma Dora a kiss for me. My Heart is so broken. Love, Auntie Liza
Angela Galto
February 3, 2007
Melissa I have attempted to sign tis book several times and it never works but I just wanna let you know i regret every chance I had to get to know you better that i didn't take. We were cousins and my mom your godmother and even though I knew you were a wonderful beautiful person I never tried to get to know you better.
Always thinking.. next time. the next time we are in the same place at the same time we will sit down and talk.. I ran out of next times..
Melissa I love you so much and im glad the last memory I had of you was the circus with the family. I love you more then you proabably ever knew and I know one day we will be reunited then we will have our time. I love you.
Your cousin,
Melissa and Dad
Liza Buttacavoli
January 23, 2007
We're missing you too much Sweetie. I'm posting a picture of you and your Dad, I Know you would like it. You look so happy together. Love you babygirl. Auntie Liza and Family
Diana Girardi
January 14, 2007
Hey Mel I miss you gurl.Ill never forget all the stupid immature things we did and spent months laughing about. Riding our bikes all over town, or how bout the night the bench broke and I ended up in the mud. You were the best best friend I could have ever hoped for. Your in my heart forever and ever. I miss you Mel rest in peace. Love u gurl
Ken Fink
October 13, 2006
Dear Mel,
You're still missed! A whole summer has passed by, along with the holidays and long weekends that you were so looking forward to. Today is Friday the 13th! We should have had our lunch to celebrate your 21st birthday -- and an "adult beverage" to wash it down with, too. I wish I could give you a big bear hug, hunny.
Liza Buttacavoli
May 25, 2006
Melissa, I just pray that you no how very special you are to us. You are my only God Child and it will be so hard to be in this world without you and your beautiful smiling face. You are and always was so special to everyone who knew you. It was so wrong for you to have to leave us so early, But now we have our own Special Angel waiting for us in Heaven. Love and miss you so much Baby Girl. The empty hole left in our hearts can never be mended. Loving and missing you Beautiful Girl. Your Auntie Liza
Cheryl Albertsen
May 24, 2006
Melissa was a wonderful person. I have not seen her in about a year, but I will never forget how she would jump the fence to come to my back door to see Jessica. I am glad that Mel and Jess got to spend jr. high and high school together. May God bless her and your family at this time.
Juliana Anastasiou
May 24, 2006
You have passed away
And I can only pray
That God is taking care of you
In a very special way
You were 20 years old
And I had many great years with you
Your mind was sharp
Your heart was great
You were my friend
And I will miss you
Until the very day that I will see you again
In heaven
Until then you will only be just a memory away
Jennifer Alarcon
May 23, 2006
The loss of someone so close is difficult to bear. We share your grief. Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Kristen McCormack
May 23, 2006
You were so full of life, always smiling and carefree. Life loved you being a part of it, and i loved you being a part of me.
You could make anyone laugh, if they were having a bad day. No matter how upset i was, you knew how to take the pain away.
Nothing could ever stop you, or even make you fall. You were ready to take on the world, ready to do it all.
But God decided he needed you, so from our world you left. You took a piece of all of us, our hearts are what you kept.
Your seat is now empty, and it's hard not to see your face. But please always know this, no one will ever take your place.
Nothing will ever be the same, the rooms are empty without your laughter. But i know you're up in heaven, watching over us and looking after.
I remember you swaying next to me on our swingset's swing when you were just child. And the last time I ever saw you, i reminded myself again that you are the prettiest woman i know.
Your smile could brighten anyone's day, no matter what they were going through. And I know everyday for the rest of my life, i will be missing you.
Mel, my big sister, my only one. You're the reason the shade of my eyeshadow matches my outfits perfectly. You're the reason I wore a black velvet dress for my eigth grade graduation picture, you are the reason I learned how to talk to people, you are the reason why I am going to be everything I'm meant to be and more. I promised you that the day I leave for college, if you still hadn't made it there, I'd take you with me. The day I leave, I know you'll be right by my side. Momma is going to take me driving now, I'll have my license by September. You won't be there to hug me close for my sixteenth birthday, nor your twenty first. But I know I'll be carrying your heart in mine. Every attribute about you, I always looked up to. I am who I am today because I had a beautiful woman to help guide me. I'm gonna be okay Melissa. I have mom and dad and our family. They all love us so much. Getting through the holidays and walking through the family without you by my side is going to be hard for me. But you taught me well. I'm sorry that we don't get to grow up together, I know that we always promised eachother we would. God just wanted his turn to be with the woman he spent just a little more time on to be extraordinary. I'm going to be strong for you, for mom and dad. I have to be. I have to be alright. And I will be. I promise promise promise. And you know, I don't break promises. I'll love you forever Mel Bel.
Your younger yet bigger sister.
Kristen
Julie Hartwig
May 22, 2006
Some people live their whole lives and never learn to be kind to others. At such a tender age, you knew how important it was to show people that you cared. That is a true gift. I feel lucky to have known you. I will truly miss you.
Aunt Patti McCormack
May 22, 2006
Melissa,
Since you became a part of the family, I have loved you. I always looked forward to catching up on your world when we got together on holidays. There will be a void that cannot be filled. Love you and miss you.
Betty Parkinson
May 22, 2006
Melissa, all the McCormacks will miss you. You brought laughter and joy when we were together. Your place will always be at our table. We know you will be watching over us. Love you forever
The Parkinsons and McCormacks
Cindy Bogusz
May 22, 2006
What can I say? Nothing that will undo this awful thing. I didn't have the chance to meet you but I feel like I have known you most of your life. My heart grieves for the woman you would have been. I pray that your family finds the strength to get through this sad time and to remember all of the gladness and joy that I know you brought into their lives. God bless you and keep you in his loving embrace.
The Bogusz family
Erika F
May 22, 2006
Melissa,
i just met you about a year and a half ago and it seems like ive known you for years. you were a great friend and you were always there for me when i needed you. you will be missed greatly and i will never forget a person so great as you. the memories will always be in my heart and may you Rest In Peace.
Ken Gallagher
May 22, 2006
Every soul owes life a death. Between each heartbeat is a moment within which the pulse is still. In the longer beat between life and death a woman was here we called a friend, a daughter, a sister, a cousin. She is us and we are her, her death is ours, our lives are hers.
Some see Heaven as dying's recompense, so acknowledge only nothingness in a space we know not of, in a place we know not where. But this we know, as a poet said, "To have been here but the once Never can be undone."
Some will pray, some just remember. Those who remember, having remembered for awhile, will in the course of time forget, more so as the years dissolve. This is as it should be lest death overstep its bounds and impinge too much on life. Life, being what is, cannot impinge too much on death.
The circumstance we most desire in greif which shakes our branches like some holy hurricane raging through this barren world of little light, is that our sister will be gathered in glory. If so, rejoice! If wishful thinking give thanks instead that she was here among us. Delivered from the testing fire of pain, a truer heart was never broken.
Ken Fink
May 21, 2006
Sweet Melissa...although I've known you barely one year, you've made an imprint upon my soul. I am certain that you will explore Heaven with all the innocent love and enthusiasm that kept me smiling inside during our much too brief friendship.
I'll miss you so much, Shorty!
Love always, Kenny
Mom
May 21, 2006
My dear daughter,
How can I stop the tears. How will I live without you. My precious baby.
I will think of you every day. I will hold you in my arms again.
I love my mel bel.
Danielle Schergen
May 21, 2006
I love Melissa so much! She always had that smile to get me through a bad day. I will miss her a lot. Your family has been in our prayers, and i hope they will help through this sad time.
val and mark vought
May 21, 2006
god speed mellbell we love you and will miss the smiles and bubbles. P.S. enjoy the wings. We will always remember you sweatheart! god bless you.
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