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Mary McNeill Obituary

McNeill Ph.D., Mary A. died peacefully at age 90, at Northwestern Memorial Hospital on Thursday morning. Dr. McNeill had been a clinical psychologist at Little Company of Mary Hospital, and had also practiced as a psychotherapist on the southwest side of Chicago. In earlier years she had been a member of the faculty in the department of psychology at Loyola Univeristy, and worked in the department of human resources at Motorola. After completing her undergraduate education at St. Xavier College in Chicago in the 1930's, she studied for a Master's degree in psychology at the Catholic University of America and worked for the Department of the Navy in Washington during the World War II years. She later obtained her doctorate in clinical psychology from Loyola University of Chicago. Although never married, she had a large extended family. A younger sister, Margaret Ann McCarthy of Palos Park, survives, along with eight nephews, Martin McCarthy Jr., John McNeill McCarthy, Thomas J. McCarthy, William D. McCarthy, Edward Q. McCarthy, James B. McCarthy, Michael S. McCarthy and Patrick M. McCarthy, all of the Chicago area; another sister, Elizabeth "Betty" Foley of Baltimore, preceded her in death. There are seven nieces and nephews from the Foley branch of the family, Lynn, Sharon, Patrice, Barbara, Cathi, James and John. For the late ten years Dr. McNeill had been a resident of the Edgewater Beach Apartments. Visitation Tuesday, from 10 a.m. until the time of Mass 11 a.m., at Our Lady of the Woods Church, 10731 West 131st St., Orland Park. Interment Holy Sepulchre Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, memorials to the Madonna Della Strada Chapel at Loyola University, c/o VP of Mission and Ministry at Loyola Univeristy Chicago, 6526 N. Sheridan Rd., Chicago, IL 60626 appreciated. arrangements handled by: Adams Winterfield & Sullivan Funeral Home, 630-968-1000 or www.adamswinterfieldsullivan.com

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Published by Chicago Sun-Times from Oct. 24 to Oct. 25, 2004.

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Deborah Hughes

October 30, 2004

The Saint Xavier University Community expresses deep sympathy to the family of Dr. Mary A. McNeill.



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Nance Prahl

October 27, 2004

Tweet was a lady ahead of her time. I was so delighted to have known her through friends and family. Her spirit will live on.

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Karen Kociak

October 25, 2004

How sad I am to hear of Dr. McNeill's death. I have thought of her over the years, remembering how she helped me when I was a student at Maria High School in Chicago. The year was 1964 and I was an emotional wreck when I asked to see the school psychologist, Dr. McNeill. To ask to see the counselor at Maria was tantamount to a declaration of insanity so I was relieved to be calmed by Dr. McNeill. It is not an exaggeration to say that she saved my life. After a few meetings, Dr. McNeill observed a large swelling in my neck. Because of Dr. McNeill's observation, I saw our family doctor who diagnosed Grave's Disease with Exopthalmic goiter. This disease, which is hyperactivity of the thyroid, caused my emotional roller coaster. I know I thanked Dr. McNeill at the time but always wanted to let her know the impact she had on my life. I regret not contacting her. Those who survive her should know that there are many like me who were touched by her. I will never forget her acute diagnostic skills and the kindness she showed me. Please accept my sincere condolences at the passing of a great lady.

Kath Mategrano

October 24, 2004

I was so sad to hear that Tweet passed away. I've been a recipent of many notes over the years (and have saved them all) delighting when one would arrive -- waiting for just the right moment to enjoy -- coveting it like a good book or glass of wine. The last of which was May 25, 2004. Somehow she just had the perfect words for every occasion. My favorite note 11 Sept, 2004 - 12:15 p.m. -- imagine --apologizing for the envelope not matching the stationery. "But it is appropriate" (small tiny hearts) how flattered I felt. She--recalled the first time we spoke and that "awful real estate agent" our 10 years of correspondence are a gift that I will treasure -- I will miss that next note. One of the greatest letter writers -- always a promise, hope or love bestowed. Dearest Tweet -- remember us and send some of your golden sunshine down here! Fondly and with great admiration -- Kath

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October 24, 2004

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