Mary Lahey Obituary

I was blessed with the best mom in the world. My mom's job was to take care of her husband and children. She was an expert at doing both. She taught us values and the love of God, family and country. My mom was kind to everyone and was always helping someone out. Her role as grandma was also done well. She loved each and everyone of her grandchildren, treating all of them equally. When a grandchild got married, mom just added one more blessing to her life. She welcomed the newcomer to the family right away with open arms. She also loved her great grandchildren, who loving called her Grandma Mia. They talked about America, Eagles and Cardinals and what her life was like growing up. There were always Oreos and Cowtails to be had at her home. She was the best caretaker when it came to dad. When dad passed, mom took his place in the chair by the window watching for company and waving at all guests. She was truly a treasure. She is with dad now in heaven and with her 4 children who passed before her. I know she is happy and that I will see her again someday. For now I cherish the memories she left behind. I thank God that I was her daughter, her friend and her neighbor. I just want to say one more time; Mom I love you more than you love me.

It's been difficult over the past year pulling up and not seeing you across the street in the window. It's sad but then I think about all of the great memories and I find comfort. I'm happy and blessed to have known you. I love you and miss you very much.

Mom I miss you most on Wednesday we always had fun going shopping and to lunch. Thanks for loving me and supporting me all my life. I know you your are happy to be with Dad and he was waiting for you. Love Always and Forever Patti

I consider myself very lucky to have my grandparents live across the street from me as I was growing up. Unlike most children, we spent so much time with them and they were just a part of literally everything we did. What I miss most with Grandma being gone is all the little things. Lunch with her, talking and hearing her stories of when she was a child, vacationing with her, parties at her house, her advice even when I didn't ask for it, and her honesty. She was a stubborn, kind and loving person who loved her family with everything she was. I miss seeing her in the window saying her prayers and waving to us as we left. I miss her everyday.

Mom, it has been a long year of firsts without you, I miss you so very much each and every day, you were and continue to be such a big influence in the way I go about my life, thank you for always being there for me and my family, and for taking such great care of dad. If it wasn't for you we would have lost him a long time ago, thanks for such a wonderful life. miss you love your son john

I loved Grandma Mia's cookies. They were the best. I miss how she would always go on vacation with us. I love you, Grandma Mia!

There was a consistency and comfort in going "across the street". I could kid and tease Grandma and she would always go right back at me. She was 1/2 of the pillar which was the Lahey/Moore family and I always admired the strength in the family in which I married. I will miss seeing her in the window, miss seeing her camping, miss her at the Lahey/Moore functions at her house, and miss her asking how I was doing and how the family was doing. She always prayed and cared about so many people before herself which is what I admired about her. God bless you Mary Lahey. I'll miss you so much and thank you for letting me into your family with open arms. I love you and miss you.

Grandma Mia, I miss you and your cookies. I miss the duck and playing balloons with you. I love you!

Grandma Mia, I miss everything about you. I miss your cookies, your smiles, sharing your brown blanket, having lunches with you and seeing you in the front window. I love you very much!

I miss hearing you laugh at us while we were playing in the garage. I miss all your parties and the conversations we had. Most of all I miss how kind you were to me. I love you so much!!

Grandma Mia, I loved watching you say your prayers by the window while watching the birds. I miss how you would wave to us when we got to your house and when we would leave. I will never forget the cookies in the corner cabinet you would give us even if my mom said no. I love and miss you so much!

"Across the street" meant everything to me. It was where I could find my grandparents. I was so very lucky to have grown up with them so close. My grandma was always there for me. She would tell the best stories from her earlier years. I loved listening to them, even if it was the tenth time I heard them. Whenever I went into her house, I would go straight to her corner cabinet in hopes that there were cookies and I was never disappointed. Grandma loved her family. She especially loved when everyone was together. I miss her everyday. I miss her vacationing with us. I miss her smiling face in her kitchen window. I just want to hold her hand one more time and tell her that I love her.

Grandma Mia, I love you very, very much. I loved watching you sit in your kitchen window, waving to us as we left your house. I miss you.

Grandma Mia I love you very much and miss you! We have two cardinals that come to our house all the time and we call them Grandma Mia and Grandpa John. I know you are watching over us.

Grandma Mia I love you!

Grandma Mia I miss getting cookies from you! We could have them even if our mom said no because you were the boss and it was your house. I miss and love you!

Grandma Mia I miss my morning breakfast with you. I miss giving you your orange pillow to hold onto. I especially miss my half of your Boston Kreme donut! I miss you very much and love you!

I loved going to Grandma Mia's house. She always had cookies and cow tails to share with us. I loved telling her my stories. If I was excited about something, she was very happy to hear all about it. I will miss you. I love you.

Grandma Mia, I miss playing and dancing at your house. I loved eating 4 cookies for lunch. You are the best Grandma Mia. I love you!

Grandma Mia, I named my eagle after you and I sleep with it all the time. I miss playing in your toy box. I love you!

Grandma Mia, When I see a cardinal I think of you. I love you so much!

To say that I'm sad is an understatement, my heart hurts because a large piece is missing. This piece is made up of some of the most wonderful memories that I have and I am lucky to say that my grandparents were part of those memories. I know that I didn't grow up in my grandparent's house, but they were definitely like my second parents most of my life. One street is all that separated us. My grandma was easily one of the most amazing woman that I know. She was one tough German woman. She is the reason that we are all here today. She is the reason why we got to have the many, many years Grandpa. She was selfless, constantly taking care of everyone around her. I will miss her sitting in her window watching the birds. I will miss walking in her home and going right to the cookie jar to grab an Oreo. I will miss her stories about when she was younger and living in the city and taking the street car or hearing about her dating grandpa or working at the ice cream shop. I may have heard each story 10 or 20 times, but those stories never get old. It made her so happy to talk about those fun days. I would give anything to hear those stories again. I will miss my Tuesday and Friday lunch dates. Grandma wanted nothing more than a Portillos chop salad, it was her favorite. I consider myself so lucky to be able to have those days with her. I feel so blessed to have had all of my children meet and get to know Grandma or as they call her Grandma Mia. Actually, when I would go over there by myself, the first question would be, where are the boys? Nothing made her happier to see the great grandchildren playing at her house. Grandma's house is empty now, but still holds so many memories for me. I will miss Grandma, but I will never forget her.

Gram was such a beautiful person inside and out. She had the patience of a saint. We have had so many fun times and memories to reflect on. As much as we miss you, Gram, we know you are now with the love of your life, Gramps, Aunt Maureen and the rest of your family and friends that have passed on. We will meet again one day and perhaps do a shot ski or two in Heaven! When we were with you your final days, you would put your hand on my pregnant belly and tell me, "You're going to have your hands full!". You were right, and for that reason, among many more, our daughter Mikaela carries the middle name Mia after you. Although, you know just as well, as you always stated in the Dells, Lukey is the wild one! We love you Grandma Mia!

I am lost everyday without my mom. She was a incredible mom and I miss her everyday. She gave her up her life to raise all of us and never complained about do that. Her family was her world and the most important part of her life. She always put everyone before her and that is the one fault I could say about my mom. She took care of dad until we call came along and then after we all started to move on she was back to caring for dad up until the day is passed. She was always by his side no matter what. As a mom myself I marvel at how she lost 4 children but still keep her strong faith in God. She was my hero and I can only hope that I am as good of a mom to my son as she was to her children. Mom I know you are with Dad, the love of your life and that is where you wanted to be. Until we meet again I will keep you close to my heart and use your rosary to keep prayer for your family. I LOVE YOU MOM!!!!

Aunt Mary was a remarkable woman! She was always full of life and loving her family and all the celebrations a big family brings. What a wonderful role model she was for everyone who knew her.
God Bless You, Rita and Tom

Dear Lahey Family,
So sorry for you loss. Aunt Mary was such a beautiful and loving being. She always made me feel ver welcomed and loved. Sorry I was unable to be at the wake and funeral. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Peace and Love, Cousin Laurie

God bless all of you, but you all have been truly blessed already by having a very caring and loving Mom. We share your grief and we celebrate her life.
Love, Russ and Carol

We are so sorry for the loss of your mother. She was such a wonderful, caring person and we loved her dearly.
Love, Lou and Holly

To all my wonderful cousins,
Please know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers. Your mother was a marvelous woman whose love and kindness always shined through. Her family was everything in the world to her and only being in God's heavenly kingdom could make her happier. Your mother is in good company! She will watch over her family from above. I truly believe that. Take comfort in all the many cherished moments together and God bless all of you now and always. Love, Ed and MaryAnn Dunn

Dear Cousins,
Aunt Mary was a great lady. I will miss her. Your family is in my prayers and thoughts.
Love, Sue Hofferica

Dear Cousins,
What a wonderful person your Mom was. I have wonderful memories of both your Mother and Father at Cedar Lake, Argonne picnics and summers at your home. We are all better people for having your Mom in our lives. God bless you all and may your memories bring you comfort.
Love,
Kathy & Jack

I am so sorry for your loss. Frank and I thought so highly of your Mom and Dad. I know how difficult it is to lose someone you love, especially within a family as close and loving as yours. Right now your loss is so painful and your grief so overwhelming, but I pray in time that the beautiful memories and love of your Mom will fill the hole in your hearts. May Jesus comfort you and bless you with the image of His arms and John's wrapped around her with everlasting love and peace.
Bless you,
Judy Paciga

I have memories from when Mike and I were young and dumb and how nice your Mother and Father were to talk with us. How really interested and engaged they were on what was going on in my life. That's a very special quality. You were blessed with wonderful parents and they will be missed. John Poorman

It was wonderful seeing the whole family and how they have grown. Your mom was a wonderful woman who taught her family how to be wonderful people and fantastic parents. The legacy of Mom lives on! Enjoy your memories. Lorrie Arena

I was so sorry to hear that Aunt Mary had passed away. I have such great memories of her. She always looked to include me in your family's activities and I am forever grateful for that. She was also so giving to both my Mom and Dad. I am sure that they were waiting for her in heaven. My best to the family. May God bless all of you in this difficult time. Stephen Verzak

We are so sorry to hear about your mom. She was such a nice lady and always so positive. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Lisa and Brian

We were saddened to learn of the death of your mom. We have so enjoyed watching her over the years with all her children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren surrounding her. It will not be the same without her. Please accept our condolences. Lynne and Robert Speaker

So sorry we were unable to attend Mary's wake and funeral. She was a dear sweet person and an inspiration. I always enjoyed greeting her, whenever I saw her at mass. John and Mary were a lovely couple. May you know deep comfort in believing Mary's eternal joy started with a loving embrace from Jesus, John and Maureen. Peace to all. Kathy & Wayne Lape

I am so sorry for your loss. May you look to God for comfort and support during your time of grief.
Sincerely, G.W.

Just a note to all the family offering our deepest sympathy on the passing of our dear Aunt Mary. Memories that come to mind always include Cedar Lake and their generosity in taking my mother and all of us up to their cottage and playing with all our cousins. Uncle John and Aunt Mary were extraordinary people who will be missed by all.

Love from the Pasternaks

Mrs. Lahey was such a special lady. I got to know her and her husband at church. I just enjoyed seeing her with her children , grandchildren and great grandchildren. What a wonderful legacy she and her husband have left. I know they are delighted to be together again in our Lord's kingdom. I feel very blessed just to know her and Mr. Lahey for the short time I did. GOD BLESS

I am so sorry to hear about Aunt Mary,she was involved in my childrens life,always came over and dropped off boxes of clothes for my kids. The kids loved going thru the clothes and they would fight who was getting what. She was a very woderful woman and always was for her family. She put others before her. I loved her for everything she did for the kids and I. And of course for the person she was. Prayers to the family and not enough words to express what your feeling. God is good.She will have a wonderful life in heaven and to be young again and rejoicing to be with her family that is up in Heaven.❤❤❤❤

My deepest sympathies go out to your family. Death of a loved once can be extremely difficult to cope with. I pray that the God of all comfort stay with your family in your time of need.

I never met Mary, but I feel I've met some of the best parts of her, through her children, grandchildren and their extended family. Through them, Mary has had an unmatched presence at the Avon Chicago walks to fight breast cancer, and contributed to the love and sense of family that keeps bringing the Route Safety Team together year after year. My heart, and the hearts of thousands of walkers, have been touched by the family she has raised and inspired, and by the love and compassion she has taught them to share with others.

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Mike & Jeanne & family,
We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts & prayers are with you all.
Rick & Sue

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.