Margarito Velazquez Obituary

Every Wednesday night my grandparents went to visit great-grandpa and -grandma. The four of them would play pinocle in the kitchen and talk over cake and coffee. Grandpa would put the TV on for me, because God knows he was the only one who knew how to work it with all those remotes! I always loved those nightly visits to their house. I always felt comfortable and warm, always welcome.

On the second Wednesday after my great-grandpa passed away, his son and daughter-in-law still made their trip to the house to keep grandma company. So when my aunt called seeking grandma, as usual I responded, "Their at Grandma and Grandpa's house." And then I caught myself, realizing that it was no longer "grandma and grandpa's house." Grandpa was gone now. For the first time, I understood that things were going to be different, things were changing. It's the little things that changed the most. It's the things like not seeing Grandpa sitting in his chair watching TV. Not being able to play pinocle in the kitchen every Wednesday anymore. Not seeing him turn on his stereo at a party and know exactly the right music to play. And every now and then you'll notice that the little things about this family that used to give you pleasure have changed because he is no longer with us.

In our hearts, we will hold those little happy memories forever and smile whenever we think of him. Although he is gone, I have faith in my heart that we will see him again. And when we do, it'll be all the sweeter.

Grandpa, I just wanted to tell you that we all love you very much, and you have impacted each of our lives in a different way. We look forward to meeting you again in a happier place when the time comes. I love you, Grandpa.

Dear Velazquez Family



My heart goes out to you. from the time i got to know jay and his dad and the rest of the family. margarito velazquez was a nice person he was funny and i always had fun every time jay took us over there to go see his mom and dad we always had fun no matter what we did listening to music or watching movies with margarito. I also loved all the times we went over there especially when jay took us to the party's the family had. I will never forget margarito velazquez you and the velazquez family will always will be in my heart's and also the rest of the family and especially mrs velazquez i will have my aunt and my dad watch over margarito god bless you

love always patricia & andrea

Dear grandpa



grandpa there's one thing i want you to know i shouldn't stay away from you that long. But i 'm going tell you have 3 great granddaugthers from me but only one seen you the other two did not. i miss you and love you grandpa i will tell my daugthers about you.when they bigger grandpa i will tell them about you. i will try to help my dad with grandma grandpa but you will be missed from your great grandkids

love always your grandson jeffery velazquez

Dear greatgrandpa



I've been asking for you and i miss you and love you too.I remember you holding me when i was a baby grandpa. I don't understand why you went so fast out of are lives. i wish i could see you more grandpa i always ask my mom elisia and my papa jay velazquez were is great grandpa at times and they tell me you are sleeping so i have to be quit

Dear Pa



We will love and miss you. You will be missed alot but we kniw that you are watching over mom&us. You are alawys in are heart's & our homes you will be in our lives forever Pa. I wish i could spend more time with you then what i have done. We had a good time's togther and one day i will be up there to join you and we can have cake and coffee and we can also play card games and we can play your music that we all loved. maybe we can have a beer or 2 togther. I will alawy's love you no matter how bad i've been when i was a kid. we will help you with mom&dad we were all good kids.mom&cherrly take very good care of you. i love them both for that and alawys will

love alawys your son jay velazquez

DEAR GRANDPA





We had good times when i was a little girl. We played in the yard.I know how much you goin miss playin your music. grandpa but don't worry you can play your music were you are at with some new friends and your grandson jay jr. grandpa someday we will get togther and do lots of things like drink,party but grandpa you will be missed from your granddaugther elisia and your great granddaugther alexandria but we will love you no matter what goes on grandpa. I'll help take care of grandma for you grandpa

love alawy your granddaugther elisia velazquez

GRANDPA, I CAN'T BELIEVE THIS IS REAL. I NEVER THOUGHT OF YOU EVER LEAVING US. IT IS GOING TO BE HARD TO GO TO THE HOUSE AND NOT SEE YOU THERE OR HEAR YOUR MUSIC. I HAVE A LOT OF BEAUTIFUL MEMORIES WITH YOU. LOTS OF PICNICS, PARTIES, CARD GAMES AND HOLIDAY GATHERINGS. THIS FAMILY IS WHAT IT IS TODAY BECAUSE OF YOU. YOU TAUGHT YOUR KIDS FAMILY VALUES AND OUR PARENTS TAUGHT US WHAT YOU TAUGHT THEM. IT ALL STARTS WITH YOU. YOU WILL BE MISSED. I LOVE YOU GRANDPA.







GRANDMA,

YOU ARE SUCH A STRONG WOMAN. WE ALL LOOK UP TO YOU. YOU AND GRANDPA HAVE SHOWN YOUR FAMILY WHAT A MARRIAGE AND FAMILY IS ALL ABOUT. YOU HAVE BEEN THERE FOR ALL YOUR KIDS NO MATTER IF THEY WERE RIGHT OR WRONG. YOU STOOD BY THEM THRU THICK AND THIN. THAT IS WHAT A FAMILY IS ALL ABOUT. GRANDPA AND YOU HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 58 YEARS AND YOU MAKE IT LOOK SO EASY. I LOVE YOU GRANDMA.

I see you laying there in front me

Tears begin to fill my eyes, as you lay peacefully

I miss you Grandpa is all I say and then questions raid my head and I ask, why did you have to go?

And slowly one by one, memories begin to flash in front of me like a picture show

You show me a picture of you and your parents and some of your friends

These pictures speak a thousand words and you take me from beginning to end

I can see you on your ship getting ready to sail

Off to fight for our country with a heart of gold and a mind that is set not to fail

I can see you holding your kids the day they were born and each day after

You were always there when they needed you, whether it was to share their tears or their laughter

I can see you next to your many radios and always dancing

Anyone can see your passion just by glancing

I can see you dressed like Santa Claus and handing out gifts

I can see you dressed for work as you begin your next shift

I see you standing next to Grandma, and I can finally see what “True Love” really means

A smile upon your faces that I can not describe, you shared each others laughter and dreams

I can see you smiling with all of your grandchildren standing next to you

You are our hero and we look up to you and everything you do

You show me a picture of us sitting around the kitchen table playing cards and eating sweets

And then we gather with the great grandchildren to watch a movie and make the night complete

So many memories are being shown and now I can see

What I life you lived and somehow I am a little relieved

The show begins to fade and I watch you slowly being lowered into the ground

The tears begin to fall once again and I start to look around

I see everyone here has been touched by you one way or another

You were a devoted husband, a proud father of six, a dedicated grandfather to eighteen, a great grandfather to twenty four, a loving son, a best friend and an unforgettable brother

I know you are in a better place now and you will longer be in pain

Grandpa, I will miss you and I know things can never be the same

I can hear your voice from a distance and I will always remember your face

I feel comforted knowing that you will be watching over me no matter the time or place

Love your granddaughter,

Dear Grandpa,



Every visit to your house was a holiday. Not only major holidays but also birthdays, Bingo nights or card games. I know as we got older and got more involved with our own little families, our visits became less frequent. This did not mean we forgot about you but that we learned from you the importance of family. As we work through our busy lives, we find comfort in our families and the closeness that is maintained amoung your children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren. You have managed to touch our lives in ways that will continue to touch many future generations. I believe every person on earth is sent to serve a purpose in their time and you have more than fulfilled your share. We will miss you dearly. As we continue to celebrate your life, we will find our peace in the fact that your pain is gone.



Dearest Grandmother,



Grandpa would have been proud of you! You fulfilled his requests so graciously. I hope you can continue your life with the knowledge that your family and friends cherish your elegance, cheerful smile and great sense of humor. I love you!

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

Grandpa,

I am so grateful to have known my great grandfather. We have many special moments together. I am sad that you are gone but you will never leave my heart. I will never forget all the times going to your house and playing cards. I miss you and I love you.



Grandma,

I am very sorry for the loss of great grandpa. But, I am very grateful because i got to know my great grandparents. Not too many people can say that. Thank you for always being there for me. The family is always here if you ever need anything. I love you.

Grampa.

You were a motivating force behind many of the things I've done in my life. I owe much of who I am today to you and Grandma because you are the very heart of this family.

We will miss you and I know that every single one of us will carry you and your memory inside of us. Always.

Donna and family,

my heart, thoughts, and prayers are with you all at this difficult time. May you keep his smile deep in your hearts forever.

To my dearest Grandpa,

I am deeply saddened by our family's loss. You have been a wonderful grandfather and great grandfather to Jacob and I and we will be forever grateful to have had you in our lives. Your love for your family and wittiness will stay in my heart forever. I love you and know that you will be missed tremendously.



To my dearest grandma,

I admire your strength and courage during this difficult time and I pray it continues to carry on with your family in our time of need. I love you and will always be here for you!



Your granddaughter,

Nikki

May the memory of your love live in the hearts of those who loved you best.



May the LORD take you in hand to Heaven's great land. Where loved ones before you will welcome you with open arms.



May patience, understanding and serenity be blessed upon your family, so that they may move forward during this time.



May your Wife, Sons, and Daughters remember the laughter, love and special times with you.



May your grandchildren and great-grandchildren feel your love with them as they continue on life's journey.



I hope this message reaches those who will be able to reflect on Margarito's life and remember the good times.