Lawrence Kalafut Obituary

I miss you!

Happy 48th Heavenly Birthday Larry! I miss u so much and hope your having the best birthday ever!! Keep watching over everyone. 3-8-1

I feel like I've hit rock bottom and I never knew how to get back, even get over it. I haven't been doing what I've said I would.. Lately, everything seems to be coming to a end, just when I felt things were getting better. I cannot stop blaming myself for everything. I wish you were here so I can get your forgiveness, I need your strength and guidance. I'm sorry, I haven't been talking to you more than I said I would. Me being as selfish as I am, I tried doing it on my own, when I can't. I met someone, a really wonderful someone who sparks my soul, and does everything that she can for me, like how you do. You would really like her, i wish you were here to meet her, you definitely would approve. Next chance I get to come to you, I'm taking it... And every other chance after that. Please keep watching over me dad, I love you with all my heart.
Love always,
Your son

It's been 8 years since you were taken away. I miss u just as much today as I did 8 years ago. Love and miss u bunches! 3-8-1

Hey Dad,
I'm pretty embarrassed to say I never knew this Guest Book even existed. Other than that I'm glad I was told about it by my good friend William. But it's been a very long time, too long... I wish you never left, I miss and love you so much dad... Theres not a time I stop to think about you. I went to your grave on Fathers Day, I'll be here more often writing you every chance I get now Dad..
I will always love and remember you father.
Please continue to look down upon me, that I still need you in my life.
Love you dad, forever and always.
3/8/1
Your Son, Larry

Happy Father's Day Larry. U are missed daily. I can't tell u enough how much I wish you were here. Til we meet again 3-8-1

Happy Valentine's Day Larry ! I miss u so much. I can not express how much I wish you were here with me. I love you! 3-8-1

Merry Christmas Larry! I miss you as much today as the day you left. Please wrap your Angel wings around me every now and then cause at times I really need it. I love you dearly! 3-8-1 Forever

Happy Birthday Larry! I know it was yesterday but didnt get on here. Sorry. Hope u were having a good party with the rest of the Angels up there. I love u and miss you so much. I always wonder where we would be if you weren't taken away so soon. Always thinking about you! 3-8-1 Forever!

Larry,
I can't believe it's been 5 years since you were taken away. It feels like yesterday. I miss you so much and think about you alw-ays. You will be in my heart forever!3-8-1

Still thinking about you daily and wishing you were here. I miss you so much Larry. It doesn't get easier as time goes on. We just try to adjust. I love you! 3-8-1

<3

Happy Thanksgiving Larry! I can't believe how fast these years are going by. I miss you like crazy. I think about you all the time. Its hard living so far away and not being able to come to the cemetary but I know you are near cause you are so close to my heart and always will be. Love and Mega Mooches! 3-8-1

Those who know will appreciate 3-8-1

Hey Sweetie!
Wow! Its been a while since I've been on here. Doesn't mean that I have stopped thinking about you. Happy New Year and Happy Belated Valentines Day! I miss you so much! You will always hold a special place in my heart. Please watch over us and keep us all safe. I love you Larry! 3-8-1

Happy Birthday Larry! I miss you so much. Not a day goes by that I don't think about you. You are and always will be in my thoughts! I love u!! Mega Birthday Mooches Baby! 3-8-1 Forever

Happy Sweetest Day, Larry! You are missed so much!! Mega Mooches! XOXOXO 3-8-1

Merry Christmas Larry! You are missed dearly. Sometimes, I can't believe how long you have been gone now. Still feels like yesterday. Love ya lots!! Mooches Baby!

Hey Sweetie,
Happy Belated Birthday. Sorry this entry is late but I haven't been online in a few days but i did come visit you on your bday. I miss you so much Larry! A lot has been going on in my life. Things have gotten better. I'm at least working again. That's a plus. Well, just wanted to say "Happy Birthday"! I love you and miss you always!!!

Larry,
2 years ago today you left us. I still feel so empty inside. I miss you so much and you will never be forgotten. I love you Larry and always will. Things have been hard lately but we have to take things one day at a time. Today was Christopher's last day of daycare and it was heart-breaking. Please watch over us and keep your Angel wings wrapped around us. Big Hugs and Mega Mooches! 3-8-1

Hey Sweetie!
Been thinking about you a lot as usual. I miss you so much. Christopher is graduating PreSchool next week. I can't believe how fast my baby is growing up. Please watch over him. He gets real nervous when he has to go on stage. Larry, no matter where I am or who I'm with you will always be my true love. I love you so much! Sometimes, words can not describe how I feel. You were/are a special part of my life. We have known each other for so long and it's not fair that you had to go away so soon. I will never ever forget you! I hope to see you when its my time to leave this life. I love you and miss you dearly! Big Hugs and lots of Mooches! 3-8-1 Forever

Hey Larry,
I know it's been a while since I signed your book. I miss you so much and think about you everyday. I lost my job back in Feb. I'm one of the many millions that have due to the economy. I'm hanging in there. Christopher is starting kindergarden in the fall. Can you believe it? I can't believe how fast time is going by. I miss you and love you very much! Mooches Baby! 3-8-1

Hey Baby,
Happy New Year! Not sure how happy it will be but hopefully it's a lot better than last year. I miss you so much. There are so many things I would like to talk to you about. I know I still talk to you but it would be nice to get a response back. I know you are watching over all of us. I love you and you will always be in my heart forever. 3-8-1

Merry Christmas Larry!
I miss you so much. I just sit and think about you all the time. I love you with all my heart! 3-8-1

Happy Birthday Uncle Larry.
miss you lots!

Happy 40th Birthday and Happy Thanksgiving Larry! I love you and miss you so much! It's been a very rough year. I'm trying my best to stay strong. Christopher is doing well. He likes school now and doesn't give me a hard time about going. I can't believe he is 5 already. Time is really flying by. Sometimes, we need to just stop and take a moment for ourselves. I am sending lots and lots of birthday kisses to heaven for you! I love you Baby!! 3-8-1 Forever!!!

Hi Larry,
Happy Belated Sweetest Day Sweetie! I miss you so much. I think about you all the time. I'm still hanging in there. Trying to sell my house. Christopher is doing good. He doesn't really like going to School but not much choice. Seems like everyone is having a rough time lately. Hope it all gets better soon! I love you Baby!! Big Hugs and lots of Mooches! 3-8-1

Hey Sweetie,
I can't believe how much time has gone by. I miss you a lot. Some days I just sit and think why you. I just wish we can turn back time but we can't. You are so special to me. I had another Birthday and really miss your cards and calls. I seen Jerry the other day and he started talking about you. He really misses you too. You have left a lasting impression on a lot of people. You had a big heart. I know we all do dumb things and make bad choices at times but we try to learn from them. I love you with all my heart!! 3-8-1

I miss you with all my heart!!!!! 3-8-1

Hey Larry,
One year ago today I lost my Best Friend! I miss you so much and can not believe how fast this year has gone by. You will always be one of the dearest people in my life. I love you with all my heart! You will always have that special place in my heart! We will see one another again and I hope you will be waiting with your Angel Wings. I am sending Big Hugs and heavenly kisses to you! 3-8-1 Forever!!

Happy Belated Father's Day baby! I love you so much! Big Hugs and mooches!! 3-8-1

Hi Sweetie! Hope your doing good up there and not driving everyone nuts. haha I miss you so much and can't believe how fast time is flying by. Christopher is enjoying preschool now. He is excited about learning things. I love you so much, Larry. Not a day goes by that I don't think about you. It seems like yesterday that you left. You always will have a special place in my heart. Mooches baby! 3-8-1

Hi Larry,
It's been a lttle while since I wrote you. I talk to you all the time. I miss you so much! Still thinking about you everyday. I will be coming to see you soon. Christopher is in Pre-School now. He's not liking it much but he is starting to get use to it. I can't believe it's been 10 months since you left. It still feels like yesterday. I love ya Lar!! Big Hugs and Mooches! 3-8-1

Hi Larry,
Happy Easter! Love you and Miss you! Mega Mooches and Hugs! XOXOXO 3-8-1

Hi Larry,
Happy St. Patrick's Day! I love you and miss you so much! You are so special to me! Lots of Hugs and Irish Kisses for you! 3-8-1

I Miss you!

<33 Britt

Hello Larry,
Happy Valentine's Day Sweetie!! I miss you so much. My heart aches daily! I think about you so much its getting crazy! I love you with all my heart!

HI Baby!!
Just stopping by to say I love you and Miss you as usual!You are always in my thoughts!! XOXOXOX
3-8-1

Sometimes when I'm alone
I Cry,
Cause I am on my own.
The tears I cry are bitter and warm.
They flow with life but take no form
I Cry because my heart is torn.
I find it difficult to carry on.
If I had an ear to confiding,
I would cry among my treasured friend,
but who do you know that stops that long,
to help another carry on.
The world moves fast and it would rather pass by.
Then to stop and see what makes one cry,
so painful and sad.
And sometimes...
I Cry
and no one cares about why.
I love you and miss you, Larry
3-8-1

Hey Lar, Happy New Year. And Happy belated Birthday. Didn't realize you and Little Angel shared the same birthday.

Kelli

Happy New Year Larry! I sure hope 2008 is better than 2007. Too many good people were taken away and you were one of them. When you were taken away my life was shattered. I'm trying to piece things together but it still hurts. I love you and miss you dearly!! Hugs! 3-8-1

MERRY CHRISTMAS LARRY WE ALL MISS YOU DOWN HERE....

Hey Baby,
Merry Christmas! I miss you so much Larry. I was so sad when I came to visit yesterday. You have been taken away too soon. I didn't get a chance to say and do all the things I wanted to for you. I can only continue to live on and keep you and my memories close to my heart. Christopher isn't feeling well. He at least got to see Santa last night at Aunt Donna's house. We didn't stay long but he is feeling a little better today. You are my Angel Larry. I love you with all my heart. Big Hugs and lots of kisses are being sent to Heaven just for you! 3-8-1 Love, Dawn

Hi Larry,
I was just sitting here thinking about you. The Holidays are coming and it's really lonely without you. The other day I found myself wanting to send you a Christmas card. I miss you a lot Lar. Christopher is really enjoying this time of year. He is so excited. He's also really into Rudolph this year and wanting to learn all the Christmas songs. I'm so blessed to have a smart and happy child. I wish you could have spent time with him. He always talks about you too! He knows how much his mommy misses you! Well, back to work. Happy Holidays Sweetie! 3-8-1

Hello Larry,
I just wanted to stop by and say I miss you so much. I thought things would get easier but their not. I think about you all the time. I hope your watching over all of us. You are my Angel. I love you so much!! Hug and kisses to you! 3-8-1

happy birthday lar we all miss u very much i hope u found ma dog up there and she is with u again we know how much u loved her it has been hard but we will still never get over the loss of u just like bobby be good dont drive ur parents nuts and tell gizzy we send our love and to everyone else too

HAPPY BIRTHDAY

Happy Birthday Larry!!
I miss you so much! I'm sending lots of birthday hugs and kisses your way! You are a very Special Man and will always have a special place in my heart! I love you Baby! 3-8-1

Happy Thanksgiving Baby,
I miss you so much. I miss your cards and letters. I want to hold you in my arms and never let go. Things are not the same anymore without you. I love you so much Larry! 3-8-1

Hi Larry,
I miss you so much! I think about you all the time. I hope your at rest now. I love you!

Happy Halloween Baby!
Trick or Treat!
3-8-1

Well Larry,
Its been 4 months now. I still feel lonely without you. Still miss you a lot. I now know you are watching over me. I asked you for help in winning money and I did win. I was so happy when I won it. I am so grateful to have a Angel like you. I love you Sweetie! P.S. Happy Halloween!
3-8-1 Forever!!

Hey Lar,
I'm glad I was able to stop at the cemetary today. I can not believe how much I think about you. You are constantly on my mind. I miss you so much. I was reading something today that reminded me of us. It's the saying "if u let it go and it comes back its yours forever"! This is so true!! You had come back to me a couple of times and now God needed to take you from me just when I thought I was going to have it all! I love you so much and I cry all the time. It still hurts so bad!! 3-8-1 Forever

Hi Sweetie,
I miss you so much! Christopher's party went well. Lisa gave me a gift that made me cry but I was very happy to receive. It was a photo book with some pictures of me and you. I was so happy that she found them. I can not stop looking at them. You have such a beautiful smile. I love you so much Larry. I wish you were here. I want to hug you and hear your voice again. It's still hard for me to deal with you being gone. My heart still aches but not much I can do about it. I love you and miss you!! 3-8-1 Baby!!

Hey Larry,
Wow! It's been 3 months already. I can not believe how fast the time is going. I miss you as usual. Nothing new here. Tomorrow is Christopher's B day and we will be celebrating it next weekend. He is so excited. I am too and can't believe my Baby will be 4 already. I love you Larry and I still think about you all the time. Like I said before you will always have a special place in my heart. Rest in Peace Baby! 3-8-1

Hey Larry,
Glad I was able to stop and visit today. Such a beautiful and peaceful day. I at least got to sit and talk to you and say all the things I needed to say. I really miss you a lot. It's not getting any easier. I guess when you care and love someone as much as I do you. It won't get easier. Just have to take it one day at a time. I love you Sweetie! Good Night! 3-8-1 Forever!!

Hi Larry,
I'm kind of having a bad day. I'm really missing you and it is making me real sad that your not here. My heart aches when I sit and just think about you. I will be at the cemetary shortly. I really need to be there. Sometimes it helps and other days it don't. I guess I could handle you being gone if it wasn't so sudden. All I keep thinking about was how you called and said don't worry about me I'm ok. Your gone now and I am heartbroken. I love you Larry and miss you a lot. 3-8-1 Forever Baby!!

Hey Sweetie,
It's been 2 months ago today that you left us. I still miss you so much as if it were yesterday. You mean so much to me. I find myself wanting to write you a letter or pick up a nice card for you. Larry, I think about you all the time and it hurts today as well as the day you left. It will hurt for a long time. You will always have that special place in my heart. It really hurts me when I think about what our future was going to be and now I take the steps to the future alone. I hope your at rest and peace. If I know you better your probably driving your Dad nuts. Ha Ha You were never the type that can sit still. So full of energy. Just remember I love you and always will!! 3-8-1 Forever!

Larry,
I love you! I miss you! I'm always thinking of you! What more can I say? 3-8-1

Hi Larry,
Well, today is my Birthday and it's not a happy one without you. I'm really sad that I won't get my beautiful Cards that you always send me. Larry, I miss you so much. Somedays I get so mad because your not here. I know it sounds selfish but I really miss having you here. I miss talking to you and hearing your voice. I love you with all my heart. XOXOXO 3-8-1

Hey Larry,
Just wanted to stop by and show some love. I still miss you terribly. Not much has been going on. The heat has been terrible and I know you hated the heat like me. I will be coming to visit you soon. I love you and miss you bunches!! 3-8-1

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2007

Dear Larry,
One month ago today I lost someone that meant the world to me. That someone is you. You will always have a special place in my heart! I miss you sooo much! I think about you all the time. I am so sorry that God needed to take you from me and your family. I know he knew you were an angel. I know you were my Angel and always will be. You always put a smile on my face. You would do anything for anyone when you could. I love you with all my heart and I will never forget how Special you were and are to me. Miss you Bunches, Sweetie! Rest in Peace Baby! Big Hugs and Lots of kisses for you!! 3-8-1 Forever!

Hello Lawrence,
Just wanted to stop and say "I love you"!! Still thinking about you daily and missing you more and more! XOXOXO 3-8-1

Hi Larry,
It's me again. It's so hard not to think about you. I miss you so much. I feel a little comfort by going to the cemetery to visit you. But my heart is so empty. I keep waiting for your weekly phone call. Well, I just wanted to stop and say I love you and I miss you with all my heart. You are my Angel. Make sure you watch over me. Send me a sign once in a while so I know your near. XOXOXOXO 3-8-1

Dennis and Jimmy John,
I am so sorry for your loss and I am sorry I wasn't able to attend Larry's services, I hope you understand. Dennis I think about you alot I can't believe how much you have had to go through already and your the baby. Well I just wanted you guys to know you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Love Always Becky

Hey Larry,
I can't believe it's already been 2 weeks that you've been gone. I miss you so much. I just read the last letter I received from you and it made me cry. You talked about plans for the future and it breaks my heart that your gone. I still sit and think that I can't believe you are gone! I know one thing you may be gone but you will never be forgotten! I promise you that!! I love you with all my heart!

Good morning Sunshine,
I miss you and I'm glad I went to the cemetary again yesterday. I'm having a difficult time dealing with you being gone. I will never ever forget you! I'm so grateful your family made me a part of your memorial. Your family really made me feel welcome and I appreciate that. I love you and Miss you bunches! 3-8-1

Well, Larry I left you a poem the other day but for some reason it didn't make it on here. I will wait a little longer and if not I will post it again. I can not believe how much I think about you. I miss you so much. No matter what I'm doing I think of you. I hear a certain song and I think of you. I love you always and forever!
XOXOXO
P.S. As you put on all your letters and envelopes
3-8-1 (3 words, 8 letters, 1 meaning)

Hey Larry,
I just wanted to tell you how much I miss you. It was a really hard day for me. Even harder when 3:45pm came around. That was the last time I talked to you one week ago today. I'm just glad that we always had good conversations and we ALWAYS ended our calls with "I love you." I'm gonna be so lost without you. I know I have to be strong because I have to look out for myself and my Son. You know it was really weird but the phone rang earlier and Christopher answered and I said who is it and he said I think Larry. I really wished that it was you. Well, I just needed to talk to you. I love you and Miss you so much!

Sorry to hear of the loss of your brother. You have my deepest sympathy

To the Kalafut Family,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Mayra Scott (Perez) & Family

You are going to be missed but never forgotten. You had a special way about you that no one else can duplicate. We will keep you alive in our memories, thoughts, and heart for as long as we live. You know we are all missing you already down here, but someday we will all have the same reunion you witnessed. Until then know that we all hold your memory in our heart always.

Love,
George, Laura, Megan, and Caitlin Nunez

I really don't know where to start. I can't believe this has happened to us again. Larry will be missed. My thoughts are with all of you at this time. Stay together and stay strong, that is the only way we'll get through this.

Love you all.

Cousin Kelli

Larry, you will be greatly missed. I will always remember the fun times we all had and we will have them again some day. You are a special person and hold a special place in my heart. You take care of yourself up there Lar. Until we meet again. I will never forget you.

Rest In Peace Larry! You are now free! I will miss you dearly! I will miss our phone calls and letters. You will always hold a special place in my heart! I love you now and forever! No one can ever take away our special love. I will hold our memories close to my heart. I will never ever forget you! We will be together again one day and I hope you will be waiting for me with open arms!! I love you!!!