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Clarke, Cpl Kevin Michael USMC, loving son of Cathy (nee Bohlin) and Phil Clarke, dearest brother of Cindy (P.J.) Grouss, Tim, Katie and Laura Clarke, dear uncle of Cailin, loved grandson of Eugene and the late Martha Bohlin, Rose Mary and the late John Clarke, devoted nephew, cousin and friend to many. Visitation Saturday, 4 to 9 p.m. and Sunday, 2 to 9 p.m. at Lawn Funeral Home, 7732 W. 159th St., Orland Park, 60462. Funeral service Monday, 10:30 a.m. at Moraine Valley Church, 6300 W. 127th St., Palos Heights, 60463. Interment Tinley-Orland Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, donations to Marine Corps Scholarship Fund, P.O. Box 3008 Princeton, N.J., 08543-3008 or Marines Helping Wounded Marines Dept. of Maryland Marine Corps League. P.O. Box 141, Westminster, MD 21158. Funeral info. 708-429-3200

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Published by Chicago Sun-Times on Feb. 24, 2005.

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Mary

February 20, 2025

I brushed the snow off of your memorial at Helen Keller on 2/19/2025. I want you to know that you are remembered.

August 24, 2012

Kevin Clarke, the epitome of a Marine. Please be aware there are those of us who are still in deep gratitude to him and have & will not forget him.

Jessica Nero

February 21, 2012

Kevin,
It has been 7 years and 2 days since you were taken from us. I think about you all the time and miss you so much. Paige and I both have kids now and know that they would love you to pieces. They are both almost 2 years old... how cool is it that we have babies so close together?!? I tell Chance about you all the time and he will know that you are the essence of a true hero, not the glorified basketball player or football player; it's people like you who fight and serve our country. I love you and I know that you are watching over all of us.

Peggy Childers

February 19, 2012

To the family and friends of Cpl. Kevin M. Clarke:
Always remembering Kevin. "Some gave all."

mark perry

June 17, 2011

you were one one of the best solider kevin and you did a good job fighting for our country you rock and may you rest in peaces kevin

Kathleen Schultz

June 9, 2011

My sister and I always go to the annual Memorial Day Weekend Irish Fest at Gaelic Park in Oak Forest. We were there to see Ronan Tynan sing when I noticed a man wearing a "Freedom is not Free" t-shirt. That saying is very near and dear to my heart. I went to tell the man that I liked his shirt. When I got to where he was seated, I saw the front of his shirt emblazoned with the words "Remember Kevin Clarke" on it. I knew right away that he was Kevin's father, Phil. I had seen him at his son's wake and at a Burbank soldier's graveside service. I have also seen Phil and his wife Cathy at a local church. Phil has a very distinctive beard and once you have met him you will always remember him. I introduced myself and my sister to him. I told him that I frequently pray for him, Cathy, and the rest of the family. He asked me to continue praying because it never really gets better. He was very grateful.

Since I am of Irish descent we discussed our shared Irish roots. Then I told him about my son Dan who served in the USMC from 1999-2003. I even showed him some of my son's pictures while he was in the Corps. He was very interested in my son. The thing that really touched me the most was when he asked me to thank my son for his service. Tears welled up in my eyes. My son came safely home and he and his wife now have a baby son. His son didn't come home alive. He never got to go to college, choose a career, get married, or have a child. My son did all of these things.

I wish to thank Phil and Cathy for Kevin's unselfish service to our country. It's always awe inspiring to realize that there are so many young people willing to serve our country for little pay, long hours, and little recognition. They are often still attending high school when they enlist. Yet, they are the the wisest people in the country. They know that "Freedom is not free." They are willing to give up their lives for the rest of us as well as those who aren't even born yet. Thank God for the one percent of the population that actually serves in the military. They may be young, but they have a deep understanding of what it takes for our nation to remain the "Land of the free, and the home of the brave." They all have my undying gratitude.

Tom LeClair

February 21, 2011

Phil, Cathy & family,
I shed more than a few tears this morning when I received a notice there was a new entry in Kevin's Legacy Guestbook and I read Phil's moving note to Kevin.
My son, Mike, has reported for his fifth pre-combat training briefing this month. Mike is my Superman. He, like Kevin, is one of countless young men who are extraordinarily humble about the daily heroic feats they performed under extremely hazardous conditions.
Mike is a USAF Bomb Squad Team Leader whose unit gets assigned to clear the way for Special Operations teams made up of brave soldiers like Kevin who are the tip of the spear securing an area rendering it safe so the main body of troops can move in and set up a TOC (technical operating center).

It wasn't until I saw the movie The Hurt Locker" that I could fully appreciate the stress and danger our boys face on a daily basis. Mike was in Iraq when filming of the movie was staging production in Jordan. Mike had a couple technical advisors working on the film accompany his team when they responded to clear IED's from cars, roadside ambush sites and abandoned buildings in the area where Kevin was killed -although this was back in 2004 - when IEDs began their evolution into the sophisticated weapons of mass destruction they are today.

Mike told me he has accompanied Special Ops teams of elite British, German, Australian, Italian and Israeli units - and they couldn't hold a candle to any Marine unit. When I heard that, it dawned on me that it was quite possible Mike and Kevin could have gone on missions together in late 2004 and 2005. Kevin was the Marine's Marine Mike described as the ideal combat partner Mike knew "had his back". Mikie had Michael the Archangel tattooed over his right shoulder before he deployed the first time - just as Kevin's name is a permanent confidence shield for his brother's-in-arms who knew Superman would have their back, as well.

Kevin's Legacy will live on whenever someone is asked why his name is tattooed there. Kevin will inspire countless lives as they are told how Kevin impacted everyone who had the great fortune to interact with him - under a vast array of circumstances and conditions. People will stand taller and live bolder as they adopt and integrate the living example of what "Best-in-Class" is when describing who and what Kevin means to them.

Although I never met Kevin, I know him when I see and think of Mikie "in action". They both grew up in Tinley Park and excelled in their sport of choice - Kevin conquering hurdles on the track and Mike wrestling all comers on the mat. Their friends count him as a confidant who they trust because he earned their loyalty and respect through shared experiences. They were comfortable when talking to their friend's parents whenever visiting their home because they grew up witnessing respect for others at home. They were fearless in their beliefs and would stand firm if, or when challenged to defend themselves or others less able.

As a patriotic warrior's parent, I feel your pain as you remember Kevin and keep him treasured in your hearts and always on your mind. I pray that I will never have to open my door to find two somber soldiers whose mission is the hardest to accomplish or have to accept.

I'm so sorry for your family's loss. Kevin's ultimate sacrifice shall not ever be forgotten or his honor diminished over time. Kevin will live on and his spirit will comfort many in times of fear and uncertainty both on and off the field of battle.

Thank you for sharing such an awesome young man who participated in and engineered fantastic memories all over this world.

Semper Fi

Peggy Childers

February 19, 2011

To the family and friends of Cpl. Kevin M. Clarke:
Please accept my remembrance of Kevin on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Peggy Childers
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

imissyou.

March 16, 2010

To this day I can not even imagine that kevin is still gone. He was the best person in the world and no one can take that away. I think about you every day and night and I wish you never left. You changed me and to that I am thankful. I love you with all my heart and I still wish you were here, but sadly there isnt anything I can do to change that. I will never forget you and I will stil always think about you. Let No Solider Be Forgotten. You are my here Kevin; For now and for always. I Love You.

Peggy Childers

February 19, 2010

To the family and friends of Cpl. Kevin M. Clarke:
Remembering Kevin on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

February 9, 2010

Superman,
It still doesnt even seem real, it seems like just yesturday we were laying face first in the snow to see who could last longer! Not a day has gone by that I dont think of you, just wanted to write ya cuz its been a while and just seems right. much love brother
Omahen

Deb & Bob

September 12, 2009

Phil & Cathy, It's the eve of the 3rd annual run in Kevin's memory. I find myself deep in thought about not getting the chance to meet the young man we hear so many incredible things about. We may have not have met him, but through his family and friends we feel like we know him. And yet, not having met him, like his family and friends, we miss him terribly. Our biggest regret is that it took the loss of Kevin to bring you into our lives. As we anxiously await sunrise and the chance to once again honor Kevin, we hope you'll find some comfort in knowing that his sacrifice brought your friendship and love into our hearts. That is a debt we could never repay and a gift we will forever be grateful for. We pray you find comfort knowing that Kevin, to his country, his Corp and his Lord, was "Semper Fidelis", always faithful.
When we gather today and the tears flow, let us not grieve, but look up to the heavens and smile knowing that though he walks with his Lord and Savior, Kevin's love and infectious spirit will be with us always.

Kenna Larra

July 8, 2009

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Sincerely and Respectfully,
Kenna

May 23, 2009

Kev, it's been 4 years 93 days since you were taken from us and it just isn't getting any easier. I miss you more than I can express with words. I was at the Wall today and I cried then and I'm crying again, didn't think I had any tears left, but I always manage to find some, sometimes they just come from nowhere. I am retired now and it seems kind of hollow, thought I'd be fishing with you. Fishing just isn't the same anymore. you're gonna be an uncle again, number 6, they will all know about their Uncle Kevin, you have my word on that. I haven't written you in a long time, don't know why but I do talk to you a lot. I miss you seems to fall way short of expressing how I feel. I love you son, good night, Dad

Michael McCready

April 10, 2009

RIP Kevin. There is not a day that goes by that you are not in my mind and heart. You are a great marine and a better person. May we meet in a better place. Look out over our friends, they will need your help in the future

Peggy Childers

February 19, 2009

To the family of Cpl. Kevin M. Clarke:
Kevin gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

Todd Gaines

October 23, 2008

Just remembering my last conversation with you in Al Qaim....you almost missed your promotion ceremony because we were hanging out, making fun of everyone. You are missed--and never forgotten.

PJ Grouss

October 9, 2008

Kevin have I got a story for you! I have worked the last 48 hours nonstop and I know you where there laughing at me and smiling with me.
At approx. 12.30 in the afternoon i got call for a man who is short of breath. When we got on scene I knew that we had a serious problem. while en route to the old hospital my pt started to turn blue and became very agitated! I told my partner I needed to tube this guy. . but we were pulling up to the ER. We moved our pt over and he coded!! I jumped right on top and gave the "thump" and i worked! one save for the day!
Well the next morning we were called for short of breath again this time not so bad transport was smooth. But 20 min. later we were called again for the same thing. I turned to my partner and said I think GOD as a big one for me and wants me to intubate today!
Well we pulled up to the house, myself and one of the guys off the engine walk to the front of the house where a women meets us and says " My mother isn't breathing and the police officer is doing CPR." WHAT! I ran in saw the cop doing mouth to mouth on a woman (God bless him), I grabbed my gear and had her tubed before anyone else was in the room. I felt You next to me! I remember thinking when i looked in this woman's mouth that I need suction and when I looked back it was clear as day!
It turned out the women had been down for 15 min. with in 7 min of us being there, she was alive, I couldn't believe it!! Nor could the doctors.
I miss you bro and I love to you!

Pastor Frank Noyes

September 15, 2008

Dear family of Cpl. Kevin M. Clarke,

We want to say thank you. We understand that no words can be adequate for your sorrow. We certainly do not want to intrude upon your privacy. As Americans we want you to know that we deeply appreciate the ultimate sacrifice your loved one has made for all of us. We also would like for you to be aware that with this letter comes our special concern and prayers for you. We are all safer because young men and women who love their country, and know the value of a free nation, are willing to put themselves in harms way, and lay down their lives to keep this nation free and safe for all of us.
Your sacrifice is also very great. We know that we can give little comfort; however, the knowledge that your loved one did not die in vain, but died in the service of our country, gives each of us a noble example of the value of life, and the responsibility of freedom. We hope this will bring pride and comfort to you.
We at Gethsemane Church believe that there is purpose to life. We send this letter with our deepest appreciation for the greatest of sacrifices, you and your loved one have given to this country. We know it is not enough, but please allow us to assure you that your loved one is not forgotten.


Very Sincerely

Frank G. Noyes
Frank G. Noyes (Pastor)


Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends.
(Jn. 15:13)

Terri Dillon

August 18, 2008

18 August 2008

You will always live on in our memories. My son was one of the Marines who was assigned with Kevin during the mission in which he was killed. Kevin lives on in the memories of his fellow Marines. Semper Fi

July 31, 2008

annoymness

July 13, 2008

kevin was a great family memember. i dont no wat i would do without him. we all love him and he loves us.but we can not cry and be sad. we need to live our lives and be happy. he would want us to do that. he fought for us and lived for us. he made memories and left a smile on evreyones face. and even though i was nervouse to be around my own cousin cause evryone loved him i miss him terriblly. but i hold my head up high and i laugh at the good memories. like the piggy back rides and the fun games. he was a kid in his heart and loved to be himself. he did wat he wanted to. kevin you are my hero now and forever. i love you cousin kevin.

July 13, 2008

kevin was a great family member. my friends and me think that he died happy. he fought for this country.. and even tho we are sad we should be laughing and happy for the memories he gave us. right now he is up aboive laughing and watching over us. he is happy we can make it through. he is out of pain. and is happy. he misses us just like we miss him. well there isnt alot i can say. but as long as he is in ous hearts and looking over us we should al be happy. i love you kevin you were a great cousin.

April 28, 2008

You are remembered and respected. Thank you Cpl Clarke!

Christine Ferreira

February 19, 2008

Its been 3 hole years since our brother Kevin had passed.. In our hearts he will always last. He the one that made those smile he the one who will always stay true delive dog we miss you, so rase your glasses and drink with the most. Tonight my Friend I shall be your host!

Christine Ferreira

December 22, 2007

Looks Like Im writin again. I'd Like to wish the family of the Coolest Marine "Cpl. Clarke" A very Merry Christmas and all the best in the new year to come. "Hey Kev" Hope you get all you wished for this Xmas~ World peace, Right! ahaha! Keep it real Hommie..

Christine Ferreira

November 11, 2007

I love you Kevin!!! Your truly something special! May you and your brothers in heaven be Rocken it out on your Birthday! USMC "NOV 10,1775" WhooooRahh MARINE!<3

November 8, 2007

It's a little early but Happy Veterans Day, Kevin. Men and women like you are true heros.

Christine Ferreira

October 10, 2007

Let me First start in saying how Honored I am in having found this web site. Your Son Kevin "amongst many" Is truly a Hero in my eyes...
My name is Christine Isabel Ferreira, for 4 years I was the proud girl friend of, James Michael Muth. “Who also has your son’s name tattooed on his body.” I had the pleasure of meeting your Son at the Marine corp. ball back in 2003, where it was held in Los Vegas. This was shortly after they had arrived back from Iraq. (Operation Iraqi Freedom) Words couldn’t describe the sadness in my heart when finding out of the loss of your beloved son.
He was and is an amazing man. I was Blessed in being around these Fine Marines for as long as I was. “I too considered them my friends” It was always a garneted Smile, Laugh and deffinitly tears. Probably some of my fondest memories in my 25 years of life. I will never forget Your Son and the Awesome times I had when visiting my Ex boyfriend in Good old 29 stumps.. My heart goes out to all, “especially” a warm embrace to you, Mr. and Mrs. Clarke. Always know that Your Son is watching over you and loves you with his entire heart. We have an Amazing GOD and I know Your “Super man” is flying High!
I hope to one day have the pleasure of meeting you and giving you both that strong Hug I gave my Ex boy friend, upon finding out the news. SMILE, Mr. and Mrs. Clarke, knowing that our Heavenly Father is watch over you and your loveing family.
Love and Light,
Christine I Ferreira

Charlie Alley

September 15, 2007

Phil and Cathy, I met Phil this morning during the "hand off" of the 1744th Transport Co., Indiana Patriot Guard to Illinois PGR contingent. Words fail me in expressing my condolences, except to say that your son is an American hero and will never be forgotten. May God comfort you, and may Kevin rest in peace and eternal glory for his dedication and service to our nation. As father of a Marine currently serving in Iraq, Semper Fidelis. ("ChuckDiesel", Indiana PGR screen name)

August 15, 2007

There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.

Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.

I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.

REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!

PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)

July 15, 2007

Thank you for the sacrifice made by Cpl Clarke and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!

Debbie Smothers

June 17, 2007

I just wanted to let you know that Keven is in my thoughts today. I am so honored to be able to spend time with part of your family and even though I never met Kevin I know he was a wonderful young man and I am sure you have many happy memories of him. Please know that the sacrifice that he made on be half of all of us will never be forgotten. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Jerry & Jeannie Terando

June 12, 2007

To the Clarke family,
I pray that GOD has granted you a measure of peace and comfort, after 2 years mixed with pride and pain.
Phil, I remember when we met at the start of the Freedom Run, last year, and the strength you gave me, when I didn't have a lot. I pray that America will aprreciate the sacrifice made for them, by these brave, young men. GOD bless all of you.
Gold Star parents of:
Sgt. Joshua A. Terando
kia/Iraq 10 Nov 05

steven barrett

May 28, 2007

kevin gave his life so that others can live. that is a true hero. his sacrifice will never be forgotten. he lived life to the fullest and i feel blesssed to have known him. there are lots of ways to live a life. he chose to live his so that others can live.
semper fi.
r.i.p.

Kristin (Evans) Leone

May 2, 2007

Kevin you will never be forgotten. Your a true hero, and will always be in my heart. I'm sorry for your loss Clarke family, god bless you.

Dina Cholly

April 15, 2007

Dear Clarke Family,
Not a single day has passed that I haven't thought about Kevin. He was by far one of my dearest friends and will forever have an important place in my heart. I feel blessed to have had him in my life at all, even if it wasn't long enough.
Stay strong, you are in my prayers every day.
Love,
Dina Cholly

Bettiann Davis

April 6, 2007

To the Family and friends of Cpl. Kevin Clarke:
I wish I could've met Kevin. My son Ryan Mazon)served with him in Iraq and and was there when there when Kevin was killed. Every phone call from my son, he mentioned "Clarke". I believe they were best of friends. My son, thank God, did come home safe but not without the painful memory of losing his dear friend. To this day he remembers Kevin and misses him- the hurt still fresh in his mind. I recently found out Ryan sports a tatoo on his shoulder with his dear friend, Cpl. Kevin Clarke's name, so in unspoken words, I know my son wants him near, always. God bless you Kevin! You are our hero! You will always be remembered for your ultimate sacrifice that allows our family to sleep at night. I will always hold you dear to my heart for being a friend to my son, a faithful Marine, a true "MAN OF HONOR". I cannot imagine the loss your family holds, but I as a mother of TWO U.S. Marines, do have some feeling of the day to day anxiety experienced with your sons in war. The prayers that hold you together when the pain of knowing your son is hurt, but not how bad is reality. Thank God my sons both came back from their 2 & 3 tours in Iraq, but not without the sacrifices of men like Kevin. God gave me strength to hold on as He gives you all the strength to go on. Please know you will all be with my family, always, and Kevin will NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!
Rest in Peace, Kevin!
God Bless America!
God Bless Our Marines!
God Bless You!
Semper Fi,

Jacqueline Nowak

March 6, 2007

Kevin,

I don't know what made me think to look on the internet to see if I could find something about you. But, I looked and I found. It is hard te read all of this, but everything written by everybody is so great and that is because there are only good things to say about you. I remember going to school and hanging with you. There is nothing but good memories. This is the fist time I have ever dropped in to say hi. When I read the paper or watch the news and hear antyhing about Irag I think of you. You are a true hero and I am honored to have known you. I remember asking you what you wanted to do after High School. I never saw you after High School but I found out the unfortnate way that you did exactly what you told me you wanted to do. Man do I respect you for that. I give my love and prayers to your family and friends. You ARE missed.

Matt Rega

February 20, 2007

It has been a while Superman. You are always with us and will always be REMEMBERED. I went to your grave yesterday and wrote in the snow. We love you and miss you dearly.

Garnet Jenkins

February 19, 2007

In Remembrance of this fine young Marine, Cpl. Kevin M. Clarke, on the 2nd anniversary of the day, he gave his life for our Country, with a Multitude of Thanks, for his Courage, Dedication and Service to our Country and for Freedom.

Rest Safely Kevin, in God's Loving Care and may the Peace of God continue to be with the Clarke family.
Those who Made the Ultimate Sacrifice, So Many and So Young, shall Never Be Forgotten, my brother among them. KIA-Vietnam 1967.

"I will lift up my eyes to the hills-
from whence comes my help?
My help comes from the Lord,
Who made heaven and earth."
~ Psalm 121:1-2 ~

I am sincerely hoping that you continue to feel the thoughts of caring and support that surround you each day, as this Country Remembers Someone Very Precious to you, who is a Hero to all of us.
I am So Deeply Sorry for your loss.

Brigit Houlihan

January 25, 2007

dear Autn and Uncle,
i am very sorry Kevin had to die but everybody in the whole world misses him and he died for this country and for that we should all be truely grateful and i miss him but not as much as you guys again i am truely sorry
love,
Brigit

Tina Brannen

October 20, 2006

To The Clark Family,

My husband was with Kevin when he passed. My husband till this day speaks of him and the situation he remembered. Seeing my husband respond the way he has, I cannot imagine how your family grieves. My heart goes out to all of you who knew him dearly and held him to your heart. You will always be in our thoughts and prayers.

Sincerly

The Brannen Family

ROBYN GARSIDE

August 18, 2006

MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. I HAVE JUST LEARNED OF YOUR GREAT LOSS AND WISH TO EXPRESS MY DEEPEST SYMPATHIES. PLEASE KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE AND YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE FOR YOU ALWAYS. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOMEDAY. STAY STRONG AND GODSPEED. SEMPER FI



A PROUD MARINE MOM

April 20, 2006

To the Family of Cpl. Kevin M. Clarke:

My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courgeous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guestbook for the rest of my life. We lost a son 12/1/05.

I know first hand there are no words right now that will bring you the comfort and peace you need. Just know that you are not alone. My heart, thoughts, and prayers are with you all as you mourn this loss. We don't know each other, will probably never meet, but will forever be united in the loss of our Heroes. We have, unfortunately joined a group none of us wanted to join, an ever-growing group of families in this situation. May God grant you peace and strength to get through this and be able once again to smile at a memory rather than have only the tears that flow so easily now. To be so proud of your loved one and so saddened at the same time is a mix of emotions very difficult to deal with. I am sorry that I never knew your soldier personally, but none of these courageous men and women will be forgotten. They will never be able to be replaced, but sometime, someday your loving memories will help to sustain you. This courageous soldier will forever now be your Angel watching over you all for the rest of your lives. It's what brings me some measure of peace and comfort and I hope it will you as well. To his family and friends in pain, I offer this comfort. When you find yourself in that dark sorrowful place, think not only of how you will miss him, but instead recall the years, days, hours and minutes gifted to you by his presence. If you ever want to talk, I'm only an e:mail away and would love for you to tell me more about your Hero. God Bless this courageous soldier and family.

Pam Adams (SFC Brent Adams, KIA 12/1/05 Ramadi, Iraq)

[email protected]

(Millersville, PA )

Tom Gugliuzza-Smith

February 21, 2006

My heartfelt sympathy to the Clarke family in the loss of Kevin. I did not know Kevin, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. Kevin it has been one year since you were taken. You are a hero and you will never be forgotten.

I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.

Love and Peace

Tom



To live in the hearts

of those you leave behind

is never to die"

~Robert Orr~

Michelle Betley

February 19, 2006

Dear Kevin,



I can't believe it has been a year since you have been gone. Everyone misses you dearly. Everytime I hear a song from the movie "A Walk to Remember" I think of you. I am really happy that you saw your first chick flick with me. Not a day goes by that I do not think about you Kevin. Here is the poem that I wrote a year ago...





A Walk to Remember



We are short of breath.

Our eyes are flooding with tears...

and our hearts beat heavy with sadness.



some called him SUPERMAN



Shielded with a will of iron,

and inspired from a heart so tender.

His energy, like a ray of sunshine--

delighted everyone who was touched.



A friend

So strong

So proud

So brave



TENACIOUS



A go-getter who demonstrated

exceptional talent and fellowship.

Never forgot to lend his courteous hand



K indhearted

E minent

V aliant

I rreplaceable

N oble



His righteous dedication took him far away.

Now shining eternally in the peaceful sky...



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When the stars are glistening,

go outside, look up, and take a walk

"A Walk to Remember"



XOXOXO WE LOVE YOU KEVIN XOXOXO

Carolyn Evans

February 17, 2006

Always Our Hero. Gold Star Mother (1991)

Matt Rega

February 14, 2006

Clarke~

You have no idea how much you are missed. It is Valentines day today and Im sure we all want to wish u the best of LOVE. I can still remember the times you made Gordy cry when you put him in the thumb lock. HAHAHA. Just wanted to stop in and say a miss you man

Vangi & McKaLyne Lunsford

February 7, 2006

Psalm 23



1

The LORD is my shepherd, I shall not be in want.

2

He makes me lie down in green pastures, he leads me beside quiet waters,

3

He restores my soul. He guides me in paths of righteousness for his name's sake.

4

Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me.

5

You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies. You anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows.

6

Surely goodness and love will follow me all the days of my life, and I will dwell in the house of the LORD forever.



This is a verse that I have found to be comforting to me during my husbands death. Remember that when it seems that no one else is round, God is still there with you! And he will be your rock!



My daughter,McKaLyne, and I send our heartfelt sympathy for your loss! God Bless this warrior, God Bless those whom serve freedom's cause! They are our true HERO's!!!!



If you need anything, please feel free to contact me!!!



Wife & Daughter of the Late

Sgt. Audrey Daron Lunsford

KIA May 23, 2005

Jennifer Koos

January 22, 2006

To The Clarke Family, Your in my prayers and thoughts all the time. God Bless you all. Kevin was truly a American hero, one of a kind. I wish I could've met Kevin a long time ago. The stories I hear about him it feels like I known him all my life and he's up there with the heavenly father watching all of you and guiding you to were you want to go. GOD BLESS YOU ALL and AMEN IN JESUS'S NAME.

Scott Peterson

January 22, 2006

To family and friends of Kevin, my name is Scott Peterson. I was Kevins first Platoon Sergeant in Iraq 2003. I am back in Iraq now and am so proud to have known your son. He truly was a stellar Marine-head and shoulders above his peers. My prayers and sympathy to you. We await our blessed reunion on that great and glorious day. May the Almighty continue to comfort and encourage you.

Scott R. Peterson

GySgt USMC

Brian Omahen

December 15, 2005

clarke~

Holidays are around the corner and spirits are high. Not a day goes by that i dont think of you and how you ahve changed my life. It never gets any easier but through prayers i feel like i can get closer to you. i know when you are there looking out for me like you always have. I jsut wanted to say THANK YOU YOU ARE A TRUE HERO

love and miss you kevin

Tina DeLuca-Caruso

November 8, 2005

On the eve of the 1st anniversary of the death of my brother-in-law, Sgt. David Caruso, my thoughts and prayers are with all of the fallen soldiers and the gold star families. I remember very vividly hearing the loss of Kevin. I can emphasize with your pain and loss.

Tara Mulligan

October 28, 2005

I'm sorry it took so long to write. But I was thinking of you and I just had to write. You are a courageous person and I wish one day I will be the same. You always seemed to know what you wanted and where you wanted to be. I admire that. I will keep that with me forever. I love you. god bless you.

Luke Lafko

August 29, 2005

What Can I say about Kevin Clarke? There is so much. He was probably the best marine ive met at our level. He was the first person ive seen in my platoon when i came and checked in. stood tall and defiant with the intent to scare me. I thought it was really funny. I stuck my hand out for a handshake to introduce myself and with no hesitation granted me that kind gesture. from that point on he tought me all i needed to know to do my job well. my first team leader, he was a knowledgeable marine. Id say a generation ahead of himself for his professionalism. We all miss Cpl Kevin Clarke. I still remember him being meritoursly promoted to Corporal. He almost fell on his face when he was given order to post. Ive only known him for a short time but had the pleasure to meet such an extrodinary person whom i looked up to being 3 yrs older than him. Age does not matter in the job that we do. its the skill and confidence and he blew everyone out of the water. from the day i met him to the day in iraq he electricuted me, ill always remember what it took of him to save those around him. Superman is not dead. Superman is very much alive and will always continue to fly in my heart! I thank the clarke family for there hospitality at such a rough time. I just hope ive done my best in representing his brothers of The 3rd Herd. till this day a moment of silence is brought over us whenever his name is mentioned. To the man who once told me at a bar..."Ill never marry a woman whose not christian!...do you hear me lafko?!?!" as he grabbed me by the ear,We miss you! and yes i did hear you and im sure theres alot of christian woman where your at!



your name is inked in skin.

your brothers of 3rd herd!

mike smith

August 29, 2005

thank you for this site

Dan Rolla

August 21, 2005

here i am 6 months later and not a day has gone by where you werent on my mind. i thought by now the pain would slowly go away but lately it seems like its getting worse. i feel im a better man having known you and being one of your friends. i just hope one day i am half the man you are and you will always be on my mind and in my heart. you will never be forgotten. i miss you

Tony Weir

August 17, 2005

To all that might view this,

There isn't a day that goes by I don't think about Kevin or his family. Why? He was my brother. His family is my family. I think of him when I'm out in the field, watch the news, songs on the radio, and especially when others fall. Please support those that are in harms way. How can you do this? You can send them items, support the President, and encourage others to serve. But more than all of these things, pray. All the money, all the weapons and all the armor is insignificant compared to the love and power of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. God Bless the Clark Family and all those that fight for the freedom of others.

Lcpl. Eduardo (Rico) Ramirez

July 28, 2005

We will never forget you.

FROM YOOUR BROTHERS of 3RD PLATOON.

God Bless the Clarke Family, you are always in our prayers.

Major Arnold Huskins, USAF

July 20, 2005

Dear Mr. and Mrs. Clarke, Cindy, Tim, Katie, and Laura,



I recently read about the loss of your loved one in Iraq. May I offer my belated condolences to you all upon the passing of your American hero son and brother, Kevin, in Iraq in February.



Please know that other Americans share in your loss and are concerned. It is my prayer that God may continue to grant you and yours an extra measure of peace, comfort, and strength during this difficult time.



May Kevin’s legacy of bravery and devotion to our country and its safety be a source of pride to your family, an inspiration to his peers, and forever remembered by a grateful nation.



Truly he was “Siemper Fi”!



With deepest sympathy,

Sincerely,

Suzin Luetgert

June 30, 2005

Family and friends of Kevin

I had recently moved back to south suburban Chicago shortly before the death of this man and soldier. I have said many prayers for all our great protectors of freedom. I would like to share that everyday I read a devotional from the Moody Institute called Today in the Word. Todays entry(6/30) talks about Kevin. The personal testimony of his faith in Jesus Christ and how it was shared in a prepared statement prior to his his death was talked about. This was compared to Daniel 12:5. THOSE WHO ARE WISE WILL SHINE LIKE THE BRIGHTNESS OF THE HEAVENS

I will gladly give this pamphlet to a family member.

God bless you

Suzin

Brittanie

June 19, 2005

I am so sorry for your loss! My boyfriend is a Marine and knew Kevin and was there when Kevin's name was added to the wall. He fought hard for his country and will always be remembered for that! I thank you for having such a brave and strong son.



He will never be forgotten! God Bless!

Edmarie Calungcaguin

June 13, 2005

Hi, I didnt personally knew Kevin but my brother, E.J. was friends with him. I just want to let you know that my family is so sorry for you loss. We just recently lost my little sister two months ago from a sudden cardiac arrest and my brother metioned that she and Kevin were alot alike. You cannot say one bad thing about them. They were angels among us and maybe that's why God called them back to help him with greater things. The world will truly miss them even beyond this time...Here's something my little sister once wrote:



"I'll be beside you until the very end,

> Wiping all your tears away, being your best friend.

> I'll smile when you smile, and feel all the pain that you do;

> And if you cry a single tear,

I promise I'll cry too."



....they are always gonna be with us. Take care and God bless.



edmarie calungcaguin

Kenneth Delozier

June 2, 2005

Kevin was a dear friend of mine and I was able to watch him work with his Marines. He was a very good and powerful leader while saying few words with exception to higher ups. He gave them a continual headache which was always fun to watch. God Bless his family. He spoke of you all often. He is dearly missed by us. Semper Fidelis. We will see you on the other side my brother.

Shari

May 30, 2005

Dear Clarke Family, your Kevin and your family are being remembered and are in my prayers. God Bless You!

Lori Grabowski

May 17, 2005

Dear Family and Friends of Kevin Clarke, Please let me extend sincere sympathy from my family and me for your great loss. We live in Tinley Park and just came home from the senior awards night at Andrew H.S. in Tinley Park. Mr. Clarke was there presenting a scholarship in memory of Kevin. Tears were streaming from my eyes upon hearing Kevin's story, but then when the first scholarship honoring Kevin was awarded to my son, Adam Grabowski, the emotion of the moment was too much. We are truly honored to accept this scholarship in Kevin's name for our son's education. We are proud of Kevin and his willingness to defend all that is free to allow kids like Adam to pursue a college education. We are truly humbled and appreciative. Thank you so much. Words are not enough. Nothing will bring back your sweet son, but his memory and legacy will live on through all the lives he has touched and continues to touch through you.

Matt Novak

May 15, 2005

Kevin,



Brother, It has been a few months since I last saw you, at your wake. We both were very, very busy, working and serving, Semper Fi Brother...You served the best that you could..and we all know it.... I was thinking about you today and wanted to say hello to you, so I did.. I feel alot safer working the streets at night, knowing that I have you sitting next to me in my Patrol Unit.... You always were one who was fearless....I wish I could say the same.. One sweet day we will all meet again...Your family always has a friend in mine...Till we meet again, Semper Fi....Rest in peace brother...

Pvt James Keating

May 13, 2005

As a fellow marine it is disturbing to hear about the deaths of those you know in Iraq. I met Kevin when he was a LCpl at GySgt. Stroud's recruiting office while he was on leave ready to deploy to Iraq for this second time. Knowing my fate may be his does in fact make me a bit nervous. I can only hope I can serve my country in the face of danger as bravely as Kevin did. I hope to be as good of a marine as he was.

SEMPER FI

DO OR DIE

Barbara Buckley

May 3, 2005

My sincere condolences on your loss. I am truly sorry.

Susan Johnson

April 21, 2005

May God bless your family and bring them comfort. Thank you brave soldier for your selfless sacrifice for the freedom of others. May you now find peace and rest in God's loving embrace.

Brittany Batsch

April 3, 2005

Kevin I love you so much i miss ill be there to help your family you will always be in my heart & prayers love you kiss kiss hug hug

jerry hannigan

March 30, 2005

Cpl. Kevin Clarke we miss you, the drinks in the back yard, the cigars while we're throwing bags, that stern, serious, tight lipped grin, all those things are gone but not forgotten. Thank you Cpl. Kevin Clarke for being who you are, and for making each and everyone of us better for knowing you.

Minnie

March 21, 2005

To The Family of Kevin. We who owe so much to those who served, especially Kevin, we remember and give thanks! Kevin's life changed our world and left it a better place and touched too many hearts to ever be forgotten. May you find comfort in knowing how many people share your sadness. On behalf of my son LCpl Eric - 1/7 Alpha Co.-Weapons...thoughts of heartfelt sympathy are with you.

ALL GAVE SOME SOME GAVE ALL !!!

Danny Kateeb

March 19, 2005

Just remember that kevin is as proud of himself as everyone else is of him.

Donald Lazarz

March 15, 2005

Thanks Kevin.

Kathy Fitzgerald

March 13, 2005

Thank you for raising such a wonderful son that would defend the United States of America and do a duty above and beyond what most of us do. I am so sorry that he had to give his life. My thoughts and prayers are with you, although we do not know one another. My nephew LCPL Tom Pierson is in 1/7 Alpha -Wpns and we send our condolences. Kathy Fitzgerald

Ginger Hester

March 11, 2005

Semper Fi

Pfc J. Lewis 1/7 A Co.

and his family wish to send you our deepest sympathies.

Dan Kopenec

March 8, 2005

As a fellow Andrew High School Grad something like this really shows the reality of war. Kevin may be gone, but he was there fighting for our rights and freedom as Americans and to help the people of Iraq. He is a hero to this country and even more to the people close to him. I thank him for giving everything so that we can walk down the street in peace.

a friend

March 7, 2005

Kevin,



I am so happy you were able live your dream, not too many twice your age can say the same. You are missed more than imaginable, i have never know someone so young that is more respected than you, let alone someone i can call my friend. We miss you brother. Thank you for following your heart so that the rest of us can enjoy freedom.

Rory & Sue Noland

March 5, 2005

To the Clarke Family,

My son Joel, who is in Iraq, just told me about Kevin. They went to SOI together and spoke whenever they saw each other at 29 Palms. Joel had nothing but great things to say about Kevin and even though they were not even in the same unit, he knew about what Kevin had done that day and the courage he showed. He will be greatly missed.



"The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit."

Psalm 34:18

Guy Gustman

March 4, 2005

Clarke family.



My Son Chase is in the 1/7 A Co. He counted your son as a friend and states that they all miss him. I'm sorry I never had the pleasure of meeting your son when I've been at 29 Palms.



When I told my son that I wanted to honor the 1/7 by getting a bracelet in honor of a fallen hero from the 1/7 he told me to get one with Kevin's name on it.



I plan on doing so and wearing your son's name on my wrist. May God bless you and I know that one day you'll be with this great son again.



Another Parent of a 1/7 Marine

JULIAN & JANE LOPEZ

March 4, 2005

Dearest Clarke Family, Kevin was a very good friend to our son,Julian. Julian periodically took his marine buddies to Los Angeles where my sister made some of her best home cooked meals for the boys. We are all saddened but we are all very proud of Kevin that he freely sacrificed his life for the freedom we have living her in America! God Bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Lindsay Tully

March 3, 2005

Clarke Family,

I met your son once, and talked to him once on the phone with Alex, it was his 20th birthday and we called to wish him a Happy Birthday! I have never heard Alex or Pete or Matt or Kenny or Brian talk so good about anyone besides Kevin, for that I am so grateful that they all had a hero to look up to and someone to admire. Kevin, Rest in Peace.

Wendy Picardo

March 3, 2005

Dear Clarke family: I did not know Kevin. I chose his name from a basket last Sunday at the Marble Collegiate Church in New York City. I wanted you to know that Kevin and your entire family have been in my prayers. I light a candle each night and try to imagine how you must be feeling.

This Saturday I will be joining my friend to welcome home her 20 year old son from Iraq. I so wish that Kevin was amoung the courageous young men coming home.

Your family will continue to be in my heart and in my prayers in the coming weeks. God Bless you all.

Sincerely, Wendy Picardo

Stuart Parkhurst

March 3, 2005

Kevin, to a mentor who was always there to help me with the hurdles. A good friend to me and my whole family, you single handedly gave me the will and the desire to succeed in the hurdles, without your guidance and help I would have lost hope and given up in Jr. High. Ill always remember the high school practices when coach D would yell at me for not three stepping the hurdles, your quick response, “Don’t even think about it just do it.” A quote that so very well described you “Just Do It,” that was always your motto. I know in my heart that you are in a better place now but we will always miss you.

This years track season is for you big guy me and freddy plan to take 1st and 2nd in every meet for you, we expect nothing but the best from ourselves cause we know you expected nothing but the best from yourself.

With Love,

Stuart Parkhurst, Long live Superman

John & Lois Garst

March 3, 2005

Clarke Family:

We are honored to be able to send our love and sympathy to your family during this difficult time. May God bless all of you.

Jaylee Carr

March 3, 2005

Clarke Family,

The pain of losing someone you love is the worst pain one could feel and I am so sorry for what you are going through. Knowing that Kevin lived a respectable and honorable life may lessen that pain. I went to school with Kevin and he always put a smile on my face. I remember watching him hurdle in track and just being amazed. He truly did fly. I will miss him.

My dearest sympathies,

Jaylee Carr

Terri Griesmyer

March 2, 2005

Dear Phil, Cathy, Tim, Katie, Laura, Cindy, PJ & Calin:

We walked away from the funeral service in awe. What an amazing celebration of life. As painful as the past week was for all of you, in the end you comforted all of us. Kevin's funeral serice was truly a testament to a young man you not only lived his dream, but believed in it as well. We walked away feeling as if we knew Kevin all our life.

God Bless all of you,

Terri & John

Laura Clarke

March 2, 2005

Kev,

words cannot express how hurt i am that your gone.i love you so much and i am so, so proud of you. i coulndn't ask for a better big brother. you are my hero! i know that your in heaven now and i can't wait until the day i see you again. i love you,

your little sister

Matthew Howe

March 2, 2005

Even though I never was given the opportunity to meet Cpl. Kevin M. Clarke, from what I heard he was a caring and couragious young man. To his family and friends, I send all my thoughts and prayers to you at this very hard time. I also share in the pain of your loss. Kevin dedicated his life to make sure people like me in the United States are safe, and there is no way that I could ever thank him enough for what he did. Kevin is a HERO and WILL NEVER be forgotten. May God watch over all those who were impacted by the life of Kevin Clarke.

Laura Green

March 2, 2005

Clarke family-

Our deepest sympathy go out to you and your family in this time of sorrow. It's comforting to know that Kevin was a true solider and an honorable man. He fought to make our lives and lives of complete strangers safe and secure. He is and will always remain a hero.

Love you dearly.

Laura and Jeff

Juanita Tatro

March 1, 2005

My thouhts and prayers are with the Clarke family. At times like this I am confused on what to say I do know that scince 6th grade I can remember Kevin dreaming of being a Marine and always wearing that ONE Marine t-shirt. He fofilled his dream! He is in Heaven now where there is only peace and of course his good friend Danny Elliet. We are all proud of you.

nicole

March 1, 2005

Dear Clarke family I did not know Kevin or your family I had read about him in the newspaper and was very touched by his story I am so sorry for your loss and all of our loss in the USA he is truly a hero to all of us and has left a wonderful legacy behind god bless all of you-Nicole Lewis

Nate Surufka

March 1, 2005

Clarke,

The memory of your leadership on the track team will never escape my mind.I will never forget the sight of you doing military pullups in the weightroom.You are my Hero.



Clarke Family,

You cant begin to imagine what type of an impact your son's discipline and strength had on me.You are all in the thoughts and prayers of the Surufka Family.

With Love,

Nate

jessica pena

February 28, 2005

Kevin u were a wonderful friend and a great listner when i needed to talk. May God rest ur soul. sincerely jessica pena

Randy Dusing

February 28, 2005

My prayers go out to Phil, Cathy and family. The words like sadness, grief and loss keep being overtaken in my mind by words like honor, blessed and privileged. I just got back from the funeral and someone came to me and said "that must have been a very sad funeral" and I quickly replied "No, actually it was very uplifting". When you feel like that it's a God experience. I was very proud today to be a part of Moraine Valley Church and the rest of Kevin's family and friends and servicemen. I look forward to the day when our Lord Jesus Christ introduces me to this Superman. Thank you Kevin for making us proud.

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