Judy Zilinsky Obituary

Our Mom ( my step mom) had Bacterial Meningitus. I have found a great web site- that has some wonderful people who are willing to reach out and give you the shoulder you may need, the ear to hear you speak, the confirmation in your story - about how meningitus has affected you.
http://www.meningitis-angels.org/ Please take a moment and read their stories, the person who created this website-Frankie, lost her only child, Ryan- at 18 years old. With the help of our family- I hope to post our mom's ( my Stepmom) story for others to read as well. Going forward I would like to help this organization bring more information to world about Bacterial Meningitus and its signs/affects.

You can only have one mother,
Patient, kind and true;
No other friend in all the world,
Will be the same as you.
When other friends forsake you,
To mother you will return.
For all her loving kindness,
She asks nothing in return.
As we look upon her picture,
Sweet memories we recall-
Of a face so full of sunshine,
And a smile for one and all.
Sweet Jesus, take this message,
To our dear mother up above.
Tell her how much we miss her-
And give her all our love.

Well mom, what can I say, other then I love you and miss you like crazy. You were my everything. No matter what the problem was you were always there to give advice or to just listen when I needed to vent. Now my life is so empty... My daily ride to work talking to you all the way and laughing about the things Nathan did the day before and what he did just in the little time he was there that day... sitting at work and getting an email that made me laugh or a picture of what you were doing with Nathan, that always made me smile... and then the ride home from work, you telling me about your day - I miss it all so much. I told you I loved you every single day, but I really don't think you truly knew how much you meant to me and how much I will miss you. You were a great mom and I am so glad God gave me to you. I love you so much! Thank you for always loving me back. Rest In Peace.. Eventually I will see you in Heaven!

dear gram,
you took me in like a grandson, was able to talk to you when i needed it. you were understanding, caring, everything a grandma should be. you would help me out with any problem that i would have whether it be family issues, love, and life problems you had the answers to everything. i am proud more than anything to call you my grandma, very proud. you leaving us was way too soon, and it would make you proud that me and joey are great friends again. there is never a day that goes by that i don't think of you i love you so much that words can't express. you were everything to me. i felt more like family every time i saw you. i miss you my dear grandma i love you till the day i join you in heaven.
love your grandson
Josh

I honestly dont even know how to start but here goes. I've basically spent the past 3 years almost everyday with my grandma. Ever since i got pregnant with Genevieve grandma was my safe haven. We grew a great and special relationship in that time. I've learned so much from her. I love her character, kindness, and no matter how much i've disappointed her (and many others) she has always smiled at me and gave me advice, talked to me, forgave me. I look up to her and idle her very much. Im lost some days without her. Every morning at my first smoke break of the day she was the first person i called. I still sometimes call her phone just to hear her voice. All in all she is a wonderful person a great mom, grandma, and great grandma. I miss her with all my soul and hope to meet again in another life.

What can I say that has not already been said. I had the priveldge of being Judy's sister-in-law for 24 years. She always was excepting of others and as my husband said at her funeral, she never had a bad word to say about anyone. Judy always had an encourageing word to say and it always seemed like when I had a bad day I would get one of her cute e-mails to remind me she was thinking about me. I have laughed with her, cried with her and believed when things seemed impossible. I will always cherish the memories I have of Judy. She has taught all those who have come across her path to love and except others right were they are. Someday, when my days are done I will see her again and we will walk hand in hand down those golden streets of glory.

I love you Judy!!

Russ,
So sorry to hear about Judy, Becky and I will keep you and all your family in our prayers.

Chuck Kopecky

It was so hard for Fred and me to hear of Judy's passing. She was one of the sweetest and kindest people that I knew. I know that she will be missed by all of her friends and family.

Judy was truly an amazing lady, she will be deeply missed by all.

As I sit in front of my computer typing, I only have to look up at the m&m figurines on the shelf to be reminded of Judys' thoughtfulness and generosity. Since the first year I knew Judy, she chose to give me one of these figurines every year on my birthday. I have had close family members forget my birthday, which is fine, but Judy never did, and I think this is such a fine example of how Judy touched so many peoples' lives. I will miss her very much.

Here's a picture I thought was funny. Even when Mom stood on the step, she was still shorter than Joey!!

This is my favorite photo I have of Judy. She was holding my very first grandson who is now 8 years old. We had lunch that day with just her and Margie at my house.

We express our deepest condolences.

Russ, Karen, Russell and Jennifer

To my StepMom Judy,
If I could turn back the clock, I would spend more time with you that Saturday- I knew you weren't feeling good- but thought it was the flu and you just needed to rest. If I was able to know then what I know now- I would have made Dad take you to the doctors. Those 18 days we spent in the hospital with you- were so hard. We all took turns talking to you, holding your hands- rubbing your feet- looking for that sign... any sign... that you were going to pull through. Dad sat next you everyday- anywhere from 6 am to 8 at night. Just waiting for the chance to hear your voice again - or see your eyes focus on him. That never came... you and Dad had promised each other- that you would never live with a machine
keeping you alive. Dad did not want that decision put on him. On one fluke night- a night that by chance- one of our many family members was not sitting by your side, you released yourself. Setting yourself free from the machines that were holding you to this earth. Your leaving us, has saddened so many.
There are many who miss you now and will miss you always. You were the smiley face- a beauty different from the rest. You made people feel
special if only for a moment. I hope when you got to the gates- Buttons,
Pugsley & Princess were barking at you and wagging their tails to greet you. I imagine Grandma and Grandpa Schultz were there waiting with open arms- along with Grandma and Grandpa Z- and along side of them- many of friends past who were eager to show you around. We are helping Dad in this difficult time- I hope missing you will not be so painful to him with time.... however- you will remain in our hearts forever.
xoxo- Jenn

I know for certain that we never lose the people we love, even to death. They continue to participate in every act, thought and decision we make. Their love leaves an indelible imprint in our memories. We find comfort in knowing that our lives have been enriched by having shared their love. DeMoss Family

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Please accept my heartfelt sympathies for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.

I'm so sad for the loss of Judy.

I know she loved her family so much!

the babies made her so proud!
God blessing to you all.
Joe, & Debbie Yearsich

Too soon lost, always remembered

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

JUDY WAS A WONDERFUL PERSON
TRULY LOVED BY ALL AT THE SENIOR CLUB
SHE WILL BE MISSED
MY EMAIL BUDDY
ANNIE CLIFTON

Judy was a special person. Her eyes always sparkled with smiles. I will always hear her voice saying "hey there Auntie Liz". She will be greatly missed.

We want to express our deepest sympathy to your family during this difficult time. It was always a pleasure to see Judy when she attended our company functions. Her smile will be remembered!
From her Dunlee friends

Russ and family,

Our deepest sympathy to you and your family. Judy will be remembered as a great person with love for life. I will never forget the first time I met her she made me feel like I had been her friend for years. We will all miss her.

Russ please accept our deepest sympathy. We will all miss Judy, she was always the nicest neighbor to see at the end of the block.

Offering our deepest condolences during this difficult time.