John Vinci Obituary

Dear Cindy,



I read about John in the Herald.

I will always remember both of you

and how much you both meant to my

dad. I will also never forget all

your kindness when I lost my dad.

I hope that good memories will

comfort you during the days ahead.

With my deepest sympathy.

Hello,



My parents, Einar and Helen Free, sold their farm in Plato Center to Jack's mother, Florence, in 1972. We have appreciated learning to know the family over the years. My parents, my friend Dave from California, and I all attended Florence's 90th birthday party at the farm and enjoyed seeing how beautifully she had remodeled the house.



Last year Frank died just one week before Dave and I were to be married. We attended the visitation with Lynn and Betty Landmeier from my church. He ran the farmland for Florence and Frank, and, I believe, he continues to do that for Diane. Jack told me then that it should have been him, not Frank. Well, now both of them are gone.



Please let Diane know how sorry we are that Anthony has now lost his Uncle Jack also.



What's important to remember is that this life is just the tip of the iceberg. Eternity is ahead. Jesus said, "Don't be troubled. You trust God, now trust in me. There are many rooms in my Father's home, and I am going to prepare a place for you. If this were not so, I would tell you plainly" (John 14:1-2). Then Jesus said, "I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one can come to the Father except through me" (John 14:6). May those of us left on this earth put our trust in Jesus and follow him. He will give peace, hope, and even joy in the midst of our sorrow.



I pray that God will bless and comfort each friend and family member of Jack Vinci.



Sincerely,

Betty (Free) Swanberg

Jack and I met at a party in 1953 when we were 14 years old in our freshman year at MTHS. We became great friends through high school, and tried a date once after we were out of school a few years........but it was a disaster because we were just great friends and nothing more.



We had dinner in Chicago in the late 70's when I was there on business (living in Dallas at the time). He, Phyllis, a mutual friend Betty Mikelson who worked for him, and my boyfriend at the time. We made plans to see each other at the next class reunion, and we did.



We talked on the phone occasionally, and he called to wish me a Happy Birthday on my 50th when I had moved to North Carolina to start a bed and breakfast inn. What a treat to talk to him.



Another former classmate emailed me today to tell me of Jack's death. I am stunned, and although I do not know you, Cindi, I hope you will accept my deepest sympathy.



He was a handsome man on the outside but an even more handsome person on the inside.



May he rest in peace near his mother and brother.



Sincerely,



Marian (Moore) Smith

Jack was someone I looked up to growing up working at the Courtyard. Him and his brother were like family to me. He is now with his mother and brother...I hope they are all at peace now. God Bless all the family and friends......Jack was "the man".

I only knew John as a Courtyard customer. He was a delightful and kind person. I always felt uplifted when I left. I feel blessed to have known him.

My heartfelt sympathies to the Vinci family on Jack's death. I knew Jack for 33 years and shared many happy family gatherings with him and Phyllis. Jack now joins his much loved mother, Florence, and brother, Frank. May God's tender hand surround the Vinci family with love.

Sharon Vinci (Ex sister-in-law)

Cindi & family, we are so sorry for your lose. We are here if you need any help.

Dear Jack and Cindy,

We might have not known you as long as other people have but both of you have made a great impact on our lives,you took us in and allowed us to share in the beauty of your hearts and home.There aren't words that we can say to tell you how sorry we are and that Jack will be missed but not forgotten we will see him everyday when we look out our window or step out our door.I personally will never eat another twizzler without thinking of Jack.

God Bless

Linda and Jerry

Cindy:



I am very sorry to hear of Jack's passing. You have our deepest sympathy. If there is anything at all that you need - don't hesitate to call us. I apologize for not being able to make the services (I will be out of town), but I will make a donation to Lung Cancer Research on Jack's behalf.



Love,

Ted and Ninette