John Reo Obituary

Lisa Badolato-Allen

Mr. Reo and family. I'm so sorry for your loss. In December of 2014, I, too, lost my son, Ryan Bell, to a tragic accident. Our children are not supposed to die before us. Ryan was in second grade when the towers were attacked. I told him, in an age appropriate way, how my principal (Class of 1985) lost both his son and son in law that day. This is fresh to me and I can't imagine the pain ever goes away. May peace be with you.

15 years and it still feels so fresh. Your spirit lives on in all who loved you.

To Mr Reo and family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you always.

I love you John

Your family was particularly in my thoughts today. As an appreciative recipient of the the John Armand Reo
Memorial Scholarship from Troy High School -Class of 2011' I wanted you to know I was able to utilize the
funds to travel and study with my Honors College at Oxford University in England this summer. While there on a historic walk I noticed in the distance two trees side by side that towered above all the others; it made me think of 9/11 and inparticular your significant loss. I hope you find comfort in the good memories and special times shared with your son and son-in-law, and know they are never forgotten.

RIP John...

My thoughts have once again turned to the turmoil of that day and the great loss suffered. May the Lord hold you in His arms and may Mother Mary comfort your spirit.

Mr.Reo and family, I think of you all the time, just thinking about this tragedy, your loss is our loss. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and the Family. Since I was 15... Mr. Reo

To Mr. Reo and family. I have thought of you so many times in the last ten years after my brother told me you not only lost John but your son-in-law also. I was not sure how to reach you to let you know that so many of us that you touched as the Principal of Troy High Schol still remember and have not forgotten your loss until I found this page today. I pray for your family often. My brother, David, knew John and thought a lot of him.

Mr Reo and family,
Here it is 10 years later and it still seems like yesterday. I have faith that He who created all has your family in His arms today. John is gone from you physically but is forever in your hearts & therefore will forever be a part of your lives. I pray today, as I do on every 9/11, that your love for John & his for you will continue to sustain you. May the Peace of the Lord be with you today and always.
I did have the pleasure of meeting John when I worked as a cashier at THS. Instead of using his "position" as the principal's son to get away with things, he used it to remind his friends that they must behave at a higher level. He set an example that all should follow. You raised a good man.

Mr. And Mrs. Reo and family - may the heartfelt wishes, thoughts and prayers from friends, family and even "strangers" bring you much deserved peace as you remember your precious son and son-in-law. Mr. Reo was my high school principal and although I never had the pleasure of knowing his son, John, i know that with a father like Mr. Reo, he had to be an outstanding person. May God bless you all.

To Mr. Reo and family. I have had all of you in my thoughts and prayers since that horrible day that you lost your son and son in law 9/11/2001. Mr. Reo you were my favorite principal in Troy High. I can't imagine the pain you and your family have endured. I hope your memories of the good times give you some comfort. May God be with you always. They are gone but will never be forgotten.

Dear Judy, Armand, Suzanne, Mark, Kristen, Meg and families,

Sending prayers and thoughts of comfort your way today and always. May God send you hope, peace and many blessings. You are, and always have been, an extraordinary family.
With love,

Dear Suzanne, and your entire family: What a lovely tribute to your brother and husband. Seeing you at the CNR reunion, I was inspired by your positive attitude and view on life. You, your beautiful girls, and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Peace.
Mel

Not a day goes by that your family is not in my heart. It's surreal knowing what happened 10 years ago, and where we are today. Our hearts are still filled with pain, loss and disbelief. I believe the memories will keep us strong and moving forward, so that this type of tragedy never occurs in our lifetime. I lost too many friends that day - It is our purpose to continue sharing their legacy, memories and love.

As always, my heart goes out to all of the Reo family - with love, Marta Joy Smock

prayers are with you

To Mr. Reo & Family. I hope today helps bring closer to your whole family. I just realized from the newspaper that your son & son-in-law was a victims of 9/11. May God Bless you all. From and from my kids(Waugh), siblings-(Scotts), and I your former student now 51 God Bless You

mr. reo you were my principle in Troy high I was at the memorial for your son and son in law right after this happened but I hoe all is well with your family and you find some peace that your sons killer is dead now.

Dear Mr. Reo, I graduated from Troy High in 1999. One of my memories of high school was of you standing in the hall watching as we walked or in some cases ran to class. You were so tall and radiated confidence. I could tell that you were proud to be our principal. And, I know that you were just as proud of your son John for the accomplishments he made in his short life, including the start of his career at Cantor Fitzgerald. Every year around this time I go back and remember what happened on 9/11/01 and the fear I felt that day. My thoughts go to your son John because to this day I'm still in disbelief that someone from my home city was lost in the WTC attacks. I didn't know John,he went to school with my sisters, Megan and Molly. What I do know is that they both described him as a really nice, handsome guy with a great smile. I know that he and your son-in-law are both watching over you all. And, I know that John is still smiling that great smile of his up there. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. John and John R.I.P.
~ I will never forget....

We're thinking of you on this day. Our prayers are with you and your family.

Another year passes and still the memory of your smile shines. Love, prayers and peace to the Reo and Swain families today. You are remembered.

Every year my heart goes out to John's family, and I think of John. Prayers are with you always....

You are in my thoughts today. How I wish I could give you a cheeseburger!

I'm thinking of your Mom and Dad too. May the lord continue to give them comfort.

john you were one of my best friends at Troy High. You were one of the best Lacrosse players out there. You were a great person. Im a cop now, have been for 14 years ....I never will let my guard down I will never forget

Happy Birthday!!!

Mr and Mrs. Reo and Family,
It has been 7 years and still the pain is there. He will never be forgotton, i pray everyday for all of you who have lost a loved one and i visit the tree that was planted for him. God Bless you all.

I will never forget. Every year my heart goes out to you and I think of John.

To the Reo Family:

Years have passed and i am sure it hasn't gotten any easier to deal with the pain. I think of John often and visit his memorial site in st. mary's, he is buried near where my father is. i always stop and say a little prayer. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Mr. Reo and extended family,

Each year around this time, my thoughts and prayers turn to those who suffered the loss of loved ones on 9/11. The loss of John touched me deeply as I had the opportunity in a very minor way to see who he was becoming.
Mr. Reo, you were my prinicpal when I graduated in 1979 and I had always been fond of you.
Many years later I had the opportunity to return to THS as a cashier in the cafeteria. John was a regular at my burger stand. Such a handsome and bright boy! He didn't take advantage of the fact that his Dad ran the school, either.
God Bless all your family as the anniversary approaches as well as the Swaine family.

Happy Birthday!!!

John and I were friends in our early youth. We either played in youth league together or studied in religion classes together, maybe even both. Even though we lost touch growing up I remember him to have been a good friend to me in our early adolescent years. Every year on Sept. 11, I pause for a moment of silence in his honor.

I know nothing anyone says or does can ease the pain. I remember being at your house when John was 2 or 3 yrs old, and i hadnt seen him in years since then. I remember hearing what had happened to him and i cried. I tried to make sense of it. But you cant make sense of senseless deliberate terrible acts. So how do you go on, you have to keep your faith in God and family. I visit Johns grave when i visit my fathers that is nearby. I say a prayer.

As I stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.

In memory....

I am consumed with the thought of your son John today. I feel so sad inside, on so many different levels. I knew your son for a short time, what seems like forever ago. Although we lost touch, as people tend to do, always in the back of my mind was the hope of "running into" John, catching up on what has happened in our lives. I only knew John for a short period in our lives, but I want you to know he made an impression, otherwise I wouldn't have wanted to offer these words, in hopes it will comfort you and your family, two years from this devistating occurance. What I knew of John, was a good man, one who was caring, quiet, but had a charming wit about him and made me laugh consistently with his somewhat dry sense of humor. I will forever be touched, and think of him, knowing I will never have the chance to "run into him", and catch up, never be able to know him better for the man he became since I knew him, but grateful that I did have a chance to know him, however briefly. I am thinking of you and your family, for the loss of your son and son-in law. I offer prayers of comfort and peace, and the knowledge that your son did make an impression on those around him, he was a truly good soul on this earth, and here after, and will be forever remembered and missed. I will always remember. God Bless.

Our heartfelt sympathy to the Reo family. Our prayers are with you all the time. Peace and Love to you all. God Bless You!

Cousins,



I awoke this morning at 5am ET. I was in Hood River, OR traveling for business. I found a small Catholic church in a small town on my way up to the Yakima Indian reservation. I was alone. I lite every candle said a prayer for all of you and both John's and Suzanne - and for the family. After serving my country for 15 years and having had friends die in combat - I felt as if these two wonderful men had done the same. They are gone simply because they were Americans. The greatest honor I can give those that perished that day is to continue to try and make this a loving world for the next generation. Smiles for my children, a kiss for my wife while she sleeps on a crisp september morning. As a military pilot I of course have never taken life lightly - and tried as much as possible to cherish those around me every moment. Your loss - has reminded me of the sanctity and wonder of life, and faith. I've not seen you all in many many years having been all over the world - but Arm you were always such a mentor for me - a true gentle man, and scholar - I take comfort in the fact that your son was so much like you - a true gentle man.

So, my thoughts for you this night float accross a continent. A continent that is grieving for your loss, and hopefull that out of that loss will come a new day. A brighter day for all our sons and daughters.



Fair winds and Calm Seas

Sean Crotty and Family

Vashon Island Wa

John was a 2000 graduate of the University at Albany. Today, the first anniversary of his loss, his alma mater planted two trees in memory of him, the other seventeen alumni lost with him, and the thousands of other voices silenced so brutally and suddenly. We share in the grief of so many families today, and we renew our commitment to the value of each human life.

Mr. and Mrs. Reo and Danielle - I think of you and your family every day. God bless.

On this first anniversary of ths tragedy, the people of Troy still feel your pain. John and his family have touched all who went to Troy High. God Bless you all.

Mr. Reo,

As the first anniversary of 9/11 is remembered, the memory of your son John and your son-in-law John will never fade in our hearts. I want you to know that I will always remember you standing tall in the halls of Troy H.S 1980. proud of your school. As I know you are standing tall in honor of your son and son-in-law that you loved so deeply. May God Bless you and Your family in all the years to come.

I knew your father all through school. My deepest heartfelt sympathies to your family, friends and loved ones.

God Bless you and your family. I am very very sorry for your loss.

May God Bless you and keep you always. Rest in peace..........

DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS BEAUTIFUL YOUNG MAN...JOHN ARMAND REO AND MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS..STAY CLOSE..PRAY..AND NEVER FORGET 9/11/01..GOD BLESS AMERICA AND NEW YORK FOREVER..MAY JESUS AND ST.JOHN GREET YOU AT THE GATES OF HEAVEN..AMEN

I didn't know your husband or brother but I just had to send my prays to you. Please know that we all greive with you. May God bless you and comfort you in your time of need.

I never met John; but I grew up just two houses from his grandparents and father's home. I can't imagine the pain this has brought to such a beautiful family. I hope that in some way, God's devine purpose will shed meaning on this tragedy not only for the Reo family; but for all of us.

I KNEW YOUR PARENTS AND GRANDPARENTS DURING MY YEARS IN WATERFORD.WE ALSO LOST A SON SO WE KNOW THE HEARTACHE.MAY GOD BLESS ALL OF YOU.

We are extremely sorry for your loss of John and John. Words cannot express the sorrow our hearts feel for your family. Our hearts cry with you.

America Cries

We see your sorrow-

and our hearts cry....

We can not erase your pain

but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-

-the American people-

are beside you.

We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,

the strength that gives you courage,

and the words to lighten your spirits.

And when we are left speechless

may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts

to ease your sorrow.

May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-

-the American people-

face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn

Dixon, IL

to Mr. Reos family and friends, I am so sorry for your loss, I grew up in Mamaroneck, went to Mamaroneck High, and I too lost a family member in the attack on one of the airplanes, this is truly a terribly sad time for us all. Please accept my deepest condolences on Johns death, and just know, many are thinking of you at this time. SIncerely Debbie from Mamaroneck....

To the family of John Reo, May God welcome John with open arms and a wide smile. As a graduate of Troy High, I was especially touched by this tragedy. Mr. Reo was my principal during my four years at Troy High and my sister had the privilage of knowing John. I hope that your memories will somehow comfort you during these awful times. God Bless.