John McCabe Obituary

Oh Johnboy I can´t believe how the time has passed! It seems like yesterday in so many ways.
RIP John
Love you and miss you
Larry & Joycie

Happy Angelversary John
Can´t believe it´s 21 yrs.
Thinking of you and sending
Love & prayers,
Larry & Joycie

Oh John boy it´s been 19 yrs since we saw you and laughed or sat and gabbed for hours on end with Helen!
We miss your laughter and hugs and all the crazy stories from Bass Lake!
We think of you always and will forever remember the fun and friendship!
Love you & miss you
Joycie & Larry

Happy Heaven Birthday John Boy! We miss you more than you know!! Today we lost Reba, I know you see her and are celebrating your heaven birthday with John Novak, my Mom, Dad, Chuck, my Sister in laws and inlaws and Grandma Mary! You are All Dearly Missed!! I hear your laugh so many times... I know your well!Love you and miss you John!You will NEVER be forgotten ❤Larry

Happy Birthday, Johnny. Miss you every day. I look at you everyday on my desk. Love you. Give Mom and Dad a big hug from me.

Hi John Boy. Just wanted to wish you a Happy Birthday
Larry and I miss you and wish you peace in heaven
Love you and say Hi to John Novak for us!
Love,
Larry & Joyce

Good morning Johnboy.. I can't believe it's 15 yrs already! We miss you and still hear your voice when I say "How's Frank?" We always had a good laugh, didn't we?
Well I hope you see my mom and dad and give yourself a big hug from us!
Love ❤ you John!
Love ❤ and prayers,
Larry and Joycie

Hi Johnboy! I have been thinking about you so much lately and just remembered about this guest book, sooo here I am saying hello! We miss you and talk about our times together a lot! The laughs we had at Bass Lake and on Kedzie will never be forgotten!
Sending much love and many hugs you You Johnny!
Love and prayers,
Larry and Joycie

14 years ago today, I lost my amazing brother. Miss you so much. With all my love always.

Johnny, just wanted to tell how much I still miss you. Can't believe it's been 13 years. So wish I could hear your big "HELLO" Give my love to Mom, Dad and Ginnie. Hope you are all enjoying a beer together. My love always. Sue

Hello & Happy Birthday John,
Where has the time gone? You're not missing much with the Bears but everything else is pretty much as it always was. Your warm smile & hearty "HELLO" are always missed more than you'll ever know!

I think about how you would call Matt "a little moron" but I'm tellin' ya, you would be so proud of him today. He's only got one more semester & will have his masters. 4.0 through graduate school. I think about the types of conversations the two of you would have today! He's a bit liberal so I'm sure they would be heated discussions, but filled with love.

I wish you a very Happy Birthday. We are going out to dinner tonight, and I will order a beer in your honor.

Love Always,
Doobs

Another year has past and I still am missing you. I saw the kids when I was in Chicago in Oct. they are sure growing fast. Tam is having a boy in May, his name is going to be Thomas McCabe Reese. How about that. I love you and miss you every day. Love to Mom and Dad.

Hi there John Boy, how the heck are you?? Missing you as always! Boy have the Grandkids grown huh?? They are gorgeous, and now that there has been another little girl added to Your Family Tree, I know you are even more proud!!
Well, looks like those Bears won't be playing your game this year however, there is always next year right??
Larry says..drink a beer anyway!!
Well, Johnny...you are missed but, NEVER Forgotten!!!
Love and prayers,
Joyce and Larry

I just wanted to tell you how much i really miss you. :(
Please help us. I love you very much and hope you are really at peace and happy. I love you again, and always.

7 years have past I still am missing you. I miss your big "hello" when you answered the phone! I also miss my ability to call when I can't do something on the computor, have a football or movie question. I just wanted to let you know that I will love always. Your Little Sis Sue

Johnny, I can't believe it's been 6 years. I miss you every day. How about that new grandson, he really looks like you.
Give my love to Mom and Dad, someday we will all be together agian. I love you, Your little sis

Hey John Boy, how did you enjoy being right there for the game? I know you had box seats! So they did what you wanted and now we just have to pray they continue with the WIN! Thought about you all day on the 19th. Well, I know that the weather where you are is certainly beautiful. Say Hi to my Dad and Gram? We miss you all so much and thinking of you all the time.
We will be with you all on the 4th watching the game!
Love and Prayers,
Larry and Joyce

We're going to the Super Bowl!!!! How I wish you were her to enjoy it! Last week when we were down I got out your prayer card, read the prayer and just held on to it knowning you would help them win. I still miss you every day, your pics are all over the house, on my desk, my night stand and on my den wall so you are with me always. I love you and miss you so much.

Hey, John Boy, how's things going up there? Sorry about the Bears yesterday, but ya know it just wasn't meant to be. Well, I don't have to tell you that cause you already know why they didn't win. You knew that before the game on Sunday! Can you give me a sign of some numbers to play on the lottery??? Larry was really sick when they didn't make it, but I told him we are closer to it for next year!

Mama is doing okay and missing you every minute! I can't believe 4 years have past already!! We miss You and things will never be the same without seeing that Handsome face of Yours, but one day we will all be together again!

Please say Hi to My Dad and Gram for me? Can you give them a HUGE Hug for me too? Well, Big Guy, I'm here if you ever want to send me a sign?(hahaha)

Love and Miss You!

Joyce & Larry

Dearest John,

Here it is - the Bears are in the playoffs & it's almost 4 years to the day since you left us.



Boy, I am so sorry for not writing sooner. So much has happened. As you know, we've moved after 29 years. What a job that was ! ! We are very happy in our condo - lots less work for my man:) Matt was inducted into NHS, has been doing great with his acting & took 2 awards yesterday for speech competition. You'd be so proud of the little guy. He's not so little anymore. We are getting ready (this next semester) to look at colleges & he will be taking the big "ACT" tests in spring. He has been doing very well in the pre-test stage & I know with your help - - - he'll "ACE" 'em.



Anyway, we are heading over to your house, I WILL be wearing the Bears sweatshirt you had on 4 years ago & we need a win today buddy. I told "mama" that if the Bears win today, this would be your way of saying "move on" with your life. I really can't begin to explain how difficult these past 4 years have been for her.



Pour a beer - and cheer the Bears on to Victory today over those Jacquars. The only "jags" I like are cars:) Tino is joining us, as always, for the game. His kids are so big, you would be proud of the man he has become.



Love you lots - miss you SO much and hope that you know how much we all still think of you everyday.



Love,

Doobs

Johnny, Johnny, Johnny,

ONE MILLION APOLOGIES TO YOU, MY FRIEND. Here it is, St. Joseph's Day (wearing of the Red / NOT Green) and it just dawned on me that I forgot to send you your annual St. Patty's Day wish. With selling the house, Matt going to State for Drama and all of the chaos and confusion, I just never made it to the computer. Please forgive me buddy ! ! I hope you celebrated and hopefully, are still celebrating so you won't be too upset that this wish is coming to you late.



I'm going to mass in the morning for Palm Sunday and will be sure (as always) to keep you in my prayers. When you re-coup from your celebration, please keep a GOOD thought for us and the condo. Typically, people bury "Saints" in their front yard to sell their house, but please, you be a saint for me and save me from doing such a "yucky" thing to St. Joseph and to my front yard :)



Love ya lots - Talk to you soon,

Doobs



PS - With Matt driving, we need all of the prayers of those in "high" places to keep him safe. Thanks.

Hi John Boy, It seems like yesterday we were at the lake. Then there are times it feels like a dream. Things have been pretty crazy here as you know but all is well. Everyone misses you and remembers your wonderful personality. I'm thinking abut having a hotdog in your honor today....or no maybe an eggsalad sandwich. Should I have a beer with that too? I just wanted you to know we think of you all the time and one day we will all be together again!

Love,prayers,and peace my friend!!!

Larry and Joyce

Dear John,

3 Years - How fast/how slow?!

When I think back to watching the bears and holding your hand, it's hard at times to believe it was only three years ago. At times, it seems as though you have been gone so long. Then, there are times when it seems like just yesterday we were talking, laughing, and having a great time. I can't explain how I'm feeling and it's even harder to express how very much you are missed. The Bears have just kept losing since that sad day 3 years ago. I really believe they will never win again. Without you, their biggest fan here to call the plays, I realize they are losing because of their lack of input from you. I guess that pretty much sums it up - we are all losing everyday without your input. I do believe that you make your presence known every now and then and you are keeping most of us on our toes. The kids as you know are getting so much bigger and I think Sean is your clone. He has that twinkle in his eye, just like you.



Please know that we all love you and miss you terribly and you are not forgotten. My thoughts and prayers are with you today and always.



Love,

Doobs

(PS - my dopler is showing that there is an Alberta Clipper coming our way. Didn't want you to think for one minute that I have changed. Weather issues remain my woes. The big difference now is that you are not here to laugh about them :-(

Merry Christmas John,

Well dear, another Christmas without you :( How sad for all of us. You are in our thoughts and hearts everyday but I do miss your smiling face, your warm HELLO and Old Style just doesn't have the same ring to it since you've been gone.



How are you? Fine I hope. Everyone is getting together tomorrow at mom's and we are praying that the heat is set to at least 60! Your sweetie is still not smoking, but the rest of us will be outside freezing our cookies off for a few puffs. I had Bill's side over tonight for Christmas and we had a really nice time. With mom gone, our holiday is really not the same either. Please give her a hug and kiss for me and also, save a hug and kiss for cousin Barbara. Frank's birthday is on Christmas day so this year will be especially hard for him.



Missin' you everyday and thinking of your often!

Love,

Sweetie Doobs

Hi Johnboy, I'm a day late but I did think about you! Who wouldn't!! Well... I did it, I finished my Christmas shopping! I'm just about finished wrapping also! Can you believe it? Niether can I! How was your Birthday? I'm sure it was well celebrated with all your family and friends in heaven! Thanksgiving was wonderful, couldn't believe how much food again! It is a sin how much food we prepare. It is a beautiful, sunny, day today. Unlike the past few! All that snow was unbelievable!

"Happy Birthday" Big Guy!

We miss seeing your smiling face! However I can hearing you laughing and that is what is Important!!!

Talk to you soon Sweetie,

Love and prayers,

Joyce and Larry

Happy, Happy Birthday Johnny :)

First I would like to say that I am sorry for not writing sooner. It is surely not because you are not thought about all the time. I have been pounding the pavement, looking for a job but finally got one. I almost had a job in a police department. I kept saying how proud you would be. Oh well, I put that career on hold. It was rotating shifts and the job I took is more money and I only work days.



Anyway, let me start by wishing you a Happy Thanksgiving. As I'm sure you saw, today was quite the day. I really believe people (in general) lose their minds during the holidays. Someday, there will be documented proof of this statement I'm sure :) The meal was great, as always and the Bears looked like crap, as always :( I know this is a day early for your birthday, but I would rather be early than late, or not at all. Everyone here is doing pretty good, although there are some real yucky days. Time is supposed to heal all, but I think a lot more time is needed.



Do take care, please say hi to cousin Barbara for me. Frank is not doing well and is missing her just like "mama" misses you.



Love you lots, you're always in my prayers,

Debbie

Hi Johnboy! I have had you on my mind for days! Just been thinking about you and the old times we all shared. Thought I would write and say Hello.... Halloween is coming and I know how you liked to see the trick or treaters. I know you will be enjoying all of the ghosts and goblins!

Larry and I were in Italy for 16 days, and had a great time. We are still exhausted though! Lots and lots of walking and climbing stairs! "You would have liked the beer", says your buddy Larry! He enjoyed himself. We both did. It seemed like we were gone for a year!

How's my Dad, and Gram doing? Just wondering! Oh well I just wanted to say Hi and let you know I'm thinking of you!

Mama is doing good, hadn't really seen her for awhile. We were gone and so much going on. I know Chrissy and Ronnie and the kids were in Florida for awhile. I'm sure they are enjoying themseves!!

Say Hi to all the family, and I'll write soon!

Love ya Johnboy!

Joyce and Larry

Hi John,

Whew ! ! ! Just made it. If I didn't get this in today, I would have gone the whole month without writing to you and that is something I just don't do. Well, lots has happened. I quit that "killer" job I had and am looking for something new. My next job will at least be doing what I know instead of like this last job. Boy, kind of hard to quit after 10 years but you know what it was doing to me for the past several years and I just couldn't take it anymore.



Now, the bad news. Cousin Barbara passed away on Saturday. Even though everyone knew it was coming, it sure was hard to take. Please do me a favor buddy, look out after her for all of us. You being the great guy you are, I'm sure that you will show her around. Really is such a shame that such GOOD people leave us so soon.



I will talk to you soon. My thoughts and prayers are with you always.



Doobs

Happy Easter Dear John,

Hi sweetie !!! I must begin by telling you that your tree is going to produce so much shade this year, it will be hard for you to see us sitting at the patio table. There are still no leaves on it, but it's branches are reaching all the way up to heaven. We had the Easter Egg Hunt outside (even though it was a bit chilly) and hid quite a few eggs on & around your tree. I couldn't help but look straight up and almost expected to see you looking down at me. Your Easter Bunny is tied to the tree and is holding on, just waiting for the leaves to appear. Well, it was another dy-no-mite meal & day thanks to your sweetie. Boy, can that woman cook !!! Ate too much, some drank too much, but all in all, it was a great day. Still, so very hard without you there physically, but your presence is felt everytime we are there. I bet you are happy that MILO didn't bump you today. I think he has been practicing sitting there and not disturbing you.



Love you, miss you and pray for you always,

Doobs :)

Dear John,

Hi sweetie - I must begin by apologizing for forgetting to wish you a Happy Anniversary. I called your sweetie the morning of and wished her, but didn't get a chance to go online for you. 15 years!! Everytime I think back to your wedding day, I realize it was only a few short months later and we brought Matt into the world. Wow, how time flies . . .



Now, the biggy! ! ! Yep, you guessed it. It is your favorite holiday of all - St. Patty's Day. Boy talk about your luck of the Irish, they were out in full force on Sunday. Hard to find a sober one in the bunch. Hope your glass stayed full. I can just picture you in your "tam" singing like you did every year at the end of this special day.



Dad's been sick and now, as you know, your sweetie is caring for him. It is hard on her and I know that you must be getting a little aggravated that he continues to hit the stand where you lie. We keep telling him you're gonna get mad and he then apologizes. You know old folks ! ! Mama bought a big shamrock for your tree and decorated it for you. That tree is so big. I can hardly wait to see all the leaves it will have this year. Talk about shade - you should be so proud.



Got to go dear, sweet dreams, God Bless you always.

Love,

Doobs

HI, BEEN AWHILE SINCE I WROTE. NOT TO SAY I DON'T THINK OF YOU. YOUR DOLLY JUST HAD HER 11TH B-DAY AND SHE HAD A GREAT DAY. MOM CAME OVER AND SPENT THE NIGHT, SHE LOVES WHEN MOM SPENDS THE NIGHT. SAMMY DOES TOO. SHE WILL DO THE SAME THING ON SAMMY'S B-DAY. THEN THE NEXT DAY WATCH THE GIRLS, CAUSE THEY ARE OFF FROM SCHOOL. I'M SURE THE GIRLS AND MOM WILL HAVE A BALL WITHOUT RON OR I HERE. HOPEFULLY THE DOGS WILL BE GOOD TO MOM AND LEAVE HER ALONE. I KNOW YOU ALREADY KNOW THIS, BUT RON AND I GOT A NEW KITCHEN FLOOR AND DISHWASHER. THEY ARE JUST BEAUTIFUL. MOM WAS SOOO FUNNY AFTER THE DISHWASHER WAS PUT IN. I CALLED HER TO SEE IF SHE COULD HEAR IT, SHE SAID "NO, BUT ARE YOU GOING TO CALL ME EVERYTIME YOU PUT ON THE DISHWASHER". IT WAS JUST SOOO FUNNY!! IT'S EXTREAMLY QUITE. THE FLOOR MAKES THE ROOM LOOK SO GOOD TOO. IT WAS A GREAT DEAL AND WE COULDN'T PASS IT UP. OF COURSE YOU KNOW THAT IF CHRISSY WANTS SOMETHING, CHRISSY WILL GET IT, AND RON USUALLY DOESN'T SAY NO TO ME. MOM SAYS HE'S TO GOOD TO ME AND SPOILS ME, BUT I KNOW THAT'S EXACTLY WHAT YOU AND HER WANT FOR ME. SOMEONE WHO DOES TREAT ME WITH RESPECT AND SPOILS ME. MAYBE NOT AS MUCH AS RON DOES, BUT I LIKE IT. AND MOST OF THE TIME HE DOESN'T SEEM TO MIND. WE JUST GOT DIRECT TV. I'M STILL TRING TO FIGURE OUT THE DAME REMOTE. I'M HAVING A HARD TIME FINDING THE CHANNEL I LIKE. DEANNA HAS TO PUT ON THE TV FOR ME, BECAUSE I'M SUCH AN IDOIT.(SPELLING?? HA-HA.) BASICLY WE ARE ALL GOOD, A LITTLE STRESSED OUT, BUT FOR US IT'S BECOME NORMAL. WE ALL STILL THINK OF YOU AND MISS YOU DEARLY. YOUR DOLLY THE MOST!! THINGS FROM 2 YEARS AGO ARE JUST LIKE THEY JUST HAPPENED YESTERDAY IN HER MIND. SOME OF THOSE THING ARE GREAT, FANTASTIC MEMORIES. AND SOME OF THEM ARE SCARY AND SAD TO HER. WE ARE STILL WORKING WITH HER. SAMMY STILL IS A WHINNER.(SPELLING AGAIN??? HA-HA-HA) BUT NOT GETTING AWAY WITH AS MUCH. SO SHE STILL GETS AWAY WITH ALOT, BUT NOT AS MUCH. HER 7TH B-DAY IS COMING SOON. SHE HAVING A PARTY WITH SOME FRIENDS FROM SCHOOL AND THE NEIGHBORHOOD. WELL, I'M GOING TO GO NOW, BUT ONCE IN A WHILE LET US KNOW YOUR STILL WATCHING OVER US. WE COULD ALL USE WATCHING OVER. HOPE YOU ARE HAPPY AND HAVING FUN:) LOVE YOU LOTS AND LOTS.

Howdy John,

Well, Superbowl is over, the Groundhog in Pa saw its shadow, but the one at Brookfield Zoo did not. I am so confused. Will winter last or not? That is the question.



Wanted to take the time to thank you for the exciting phone call Mama got today. I know, in my heart, that you had something to do with it. In your own special way, I know you are sharing this excitement with her. You always had such great timing. I was starting to get a little worried but knew you would come through, as you always do. How's the weather there? It has been so cold and now we have the snow to contend with. What did you think of Janet Jackson's performance? I sat in your chair watching the game and was just imagining what you would have said during the halftime show. I bet you got a kick out of the commercials. (as always)



Just wanted to say THANKS !



Love ya lots and think of you always,

Doobs

Hi there John Boy. How's Heaven treating you? I'm sure it is wonderful! Well 2 years have passed and it only seems like yesterday. Many things have changed, the kids have really grown and your tree of life has taken over the back yard. What a beautiful tree, every time we look out there we see your smiling face! Your Sweetie is taking very good care of the family, she and Ryan had a time of their lives at Toys R Us. That is something the kids really look forward to year after year. Remember the looks on their faces when they would realize they could go where ever they wanted? Well I'm sure you still see it. Really is nice to know that you still know everything that takes place, nothing gets pass the big guy John! Thats what I loved about you. You never miss a thing...good, bad, or indifferent! Oh well Sweetie... say Hi to all our loved ones and give my Dad and Gram a kiss for me! If you can tell them for me? I felt them at the Christening for Jamie. Was a beautiful day!!!

Enjoy.... John Boy, miss you every day.

Love and Miss You,

Larry and Joyce

Dear John,

I know this is not going to make it in the guest book on time, but had some computer problems. Without you here to turn to, had to fix them myself. You know that I don't miss any holiday or special "thinking of you time" to write to you.



My God, where have 2 years gone? The kids are getting older and so big. You would be so proud. The boys have sleep-overs by the house with Grandma whenever there is time off of school. Joey is still so sweet and Ryan has that "devil" in his eyes. Mama took Ryan for his birthday lunch and shopping. She does it every year and enjoys every minute she spends with them. There is not a day gone that you are not thought of. We have such fond memories of the past 14 years that not one year stands out more than the next. It is GREAT to say that none of us have any regrets of things we should have or could have done with you or for you. That helps us to sleep well at night.



Well my dear, please watch over us and keep us strong.



Love,

Doobs

Well John, it's 2 years ago today that you left all of us, for hopefully a much better place, but there still is not a day go by that I don't miss you and wish that I could hear your voice again. It just seems so unreal not to have any of my family left. i know life goes on but it's still had . The kids mine and yours are all doing great. Terry graduates Friday from the Secret Service School and all will be there. I'm sure you will be too. I will love and miss you always.

Sue

Happy "Belated" New Year John,

I can't believe it, but I got SOOOOO wrapped up with the holidays and work, I forgot to send you this timely greeting. It is 1-6-04 so I am still within a week of the big day. Hope you know that I may be late once in awhile, but you are NEVER gone from my mind. We think about you ALL the time. Got a Mr. Wonderful doll to sit on top of your resting place because it reminded me of you. Yep, Mr. Wonderful is what you will always be to all of us.



Love ya Lots & Miss ya everyday :(

Doobs

Merry, Merry Christmas John,

Well, your 2nd favorite holiday is here. Boy did this year fly by. You would be proud of me (I hope) that I upheld the famous MacMan tradition of letter writing. This is my second year of writing your sweetie her Christmas letter. Although I try my best, none of my letters can compare to the loving, thoughtful and beautiful ones you gave her each & every year. She treasures them and much to our surprise, she found the one you wrote but never gave her. I think you kind of "led" her to it because she never would have found it without your guidance. Boy, if people only knew the relationship you two had (& still have) they would be so jealous that they didn't have that unconditional love. She let us read the letter and after reading it, I knew why you kept it from her. You knew something was happening but you remained so upbeat and positive through it all. Well, if you ever saw that movie "Pay it Forward" now's the time for you to step in. You need to give that strength, positive attitude and never quit attitude back to her. She REALLY needs it now. These holidays without you are so difficult. You are thought of everyday. The other day, I even rattled your resting place and found myself turning around and saying "Sorry John".



You will be with all of us that love you in a few hours to celebrate Christmas, and will stay in our hearts forever.



All my love,

Debbie

Hi John Boy, hope your birthday was great! I'm sure it was. We are all doing well on the homefront. Your "Sweetie" is more beautiful everyday. She has been taking good care of herself. You know how we love Nordstroms!! She has been teaching me the ropes there. Larry is so proud of the two of us. He sits in your chair and looks at all the things we have bought and tells us what you would be saying! We never forget you! We always say Hi to you when we come in. I know you know that though! Thanksgiving was great for all of us. How's my Dad and Gram doing?

Well the holidays are coming soon and we will miss seeing your smiling face but I'm sure the only place you will really be is at the house by the tree, having the time of your life with your "Sweetie", Kids and the family! Take care Big Guy. We love you!!!

"Happy Holidays"

Love You,

Larry and Joyce

Happy Birthday Dearest John,

You are probably out celebrating your birthday, but I didn't want to miss the chance to wish you a happy, happy birhday. Tomorrow is Thanksgiving and as we are giving thanks for what we have, we will be giving thanks for all we had in you. Knowing how you love the holidays, I know you will be with us tomorrow. I will pour you a beer and I'm sure Billy will drink it down for you.



After almost two years, you are still such a big part of everyone's thoughts & prayers. No matter where life leads us, you will remain in all of our hearts.



Love you Lots!!

Doobs

Happy Birthday Johnny! I sure wish your where here so I could call and hear your voice. I was thinking back over the years and the birthday of yours that still sticks out the most was you 21st. , when dad toasted to your first drink and Ginnie almost choked. That was such a fun day, I just wish we could have more. I miss you so much, I'm sitting in my office with pics of you everywhere. I talk to you often hope you can hear me. Well I'll go for now, I love you always.

Sue

Dear Uncle John,

Here I am in high school. Wow what a difference from previous years. Doing a lot of acting and improv and speech. I think I should make you proud. Made high honors first quarter and hoping to do well this quarter too. Had an English assignment and had to write about an Event that changed my life. Thought you would like to hear it. Knowing how good you are with spelling and things, hope I did ok.



Matt Weibel

11-18-03

1st Period Honors English



An event that changed my life was. . .



the death of my uncle during seventh grade. My Uncle John was a very important person in my life. He was there when I was a baby and taught me and encouraged me in everything that I did. When I was a baby, I would stay by my aunt and uncle’s house and spent a lot of time with them during the summer in Indiana. As I grew, he taught me many things. I learned to play chess, and to pull out my loose teeth, just because of Uncle John. He was a detective for the Chicago Police Department and was a very good man. My uncle had retired in February and that same summer, he was diagnosed with cancer. They kept saying he would not live very long, but coming from a determined family like I do, he proved them wrong for several years. He loved all sports but especially the Chicago Bears. Any holiday you can think of, especially St. Patrick’s Day, are just not the same without him anymore.



Anyone who knew my uncle loved his sense of humor and his famous “HELLO”. He would make anyone who came in his home welcome. He loved people and was great around children. As I was growing up, he use to always tell me that the only reason I did and would get in trouble was because of “my mouth”. When I was at his house as a small boy, I think I was getting on his nerves so he decided to teach me to play chess. The more I think about it, he probably just wanted me to learn to focus, concentrate and not talk so much. I became very good at chess thanks to him and entered many tournaments when I was younger. I got to play against one of the masters when I was eight and did pretty good. I never could have done it without his guidance. It is really hard for me to think about chess without him. My aunt and uncle had a place in Indiana at a lake and I would stay with them over the summer. My days there were very happy and I will never forget the good times we had.



My uncle was in the police force for over thirty years. He started out as a police officer and was promoted and promoted until he became a detective. He went to work early in the morning, but was home early so I got to see him a lot. I wanted a bowling party after I made my first communion and at the bowling alley the year before they told him he had cancer, he fell. From that day on, his leg was never the same. Everyone was worried about him, but he was a policeman and was tough. He never went to the doctor but you knew he didn’t feel well. After more than thirty years with the police, he decided to retire and enjoy the good life. It was only a few months after retirement that he was diagnosed with cancer but he never gave up.



If you didn’t like sports, being around my uncle you just had to be a Chicago Bears fan. Even when the team kept losing, Uncle John was there, cheering them all the way. You could never say anything bad about them because that is when he became a lawyer. He would defend them and blame the coaches or weather or something but would watch every week. We had a football get together at their house every Sunday and hearing him cheer or coach them would make everyone get into the game. He was wonderful to be around during the holidays too. My uncle was Irish and that was like a holy day to him. He loved his heritage and loved sharing it with everyone, even people who were not Irish. By the time the day was over, you would be almost as Irish as he was because he would sing and have a great time with his family and friends.



When I heard my uncle had cancer, I wasn’t really sure what that would mean. He never complained and was in so much pain, he was a real inspiration to everyone. He was trying all kinds of treatments and took a ton of pills every day just to stay alive. You could see the cancer was getting the best of him and then he would have a few great days. He was on oxygen all the time and toward the end, could barely walk. The day he died, my mom called and had my dad bring me to their house. I had just been with him, walked out of the room and then he died. The Chicago Bears were doing pretty good that year and they had just come on the TV when he died. I guess they must have known what a fan he was because they took it pretty hard too and lost the game that day. I was chosen to be a pallbearer and a reader in church and felt honored to speak for a person I loved so much. I hope that everyone gets the chance to have someone so special come into their life like I did with my uncle. I was lucky to be given some of his favorite things that I will always keep to remind me of the good times we had together.

The End



Just to update you Uncle John, I still play chess every once in awhile and YES, my mouth is still getting me in trouble after all of these years. I love you as much as ever and hope you know that it is hard to put into words how much you meant to me.



Love from your little "MORON"

HI, JUST THINKING ABOUT YOU TODAY FOR SOME REASON. THE GIRLS STARTED SCHOOL ON FRIDAY. THIS IS THERE 1ST FULL WEEK BACK. THEY ARE DOING WELL SO FAR. SAMMY IS A LITTLE LAZY WHEN IT COMES TO READING, BUT WE ARE TRING TO MAKE IT FUN FOR HER SO SHE WILL LEARN. DEANNA IS WELL. VERY WELL. I THINK YOU WERE WATCHING OVER HER THIS PAST YEAR. SHE MUCH BETTER THAN THIS TIME LAST YEAR. SHE'S BACK TO HER OLD SELF. THANKS FOR HELPING HER!!! RON AND I ARE GOING FINE. ALL IS WELL. SAME OLD STUFF. BOTH DOGS ARE STILL AROUND AND STILL DRIVING US CRAZY. MOM SEEMS BETTER TOO. STILL MISSES YOU LIKE CRAZY. BUT REALLY THINK SHES A LITTLE BETTER. WELL JUST WANTED TO CHECK IN WITH YOU. PLEASE KEEP WATCHING OVER ALL OF US. WE ALL NEED A HELPFUL HAND FROM YOU FROM TIME TO TIME. STILL LOVING YOU---

Hi Sweetie-

There has been so much going on and not one day has gone by that you are not thought of. To recap . . .

Matt was inducted into the Honor Society in May, went to his first dinner dance, graduated with honors and is going to be taking an "improv" class this summer. You know what an ACTOR he can be! ! Anyway, we have been running from one function to another and are getting ready to go on vacation. Kind of like a graduation, birthday, "lets get away" vacation. When we were at graduation, MAMA said how proud you would be of Matt's accomplishments. I know that you are guiding him and I might add, you are doing a GREAT JOB. With Father's Day here tomorrow, it is such a bittersweet day. Not having you here makes it so sad, but I must tell you, your tree is growing bigger and stronger each day and I hope that the strength that your tree has found does the same for those of us missing you so terribly. Mama has such a hard time so if you could give her some of the strength you had, we would all appreciate it. Were you just fallin' off the barstool when Sammy "CORKED" it ! ! I knew you would love that one.



Got to go- our thoughts and prayers are always with you.



Love,

The Weibels

Mac, Ihave great news today Tam is back in San Diego safe and sound. Thank you and Mom and Dad for keeping her safe. I talked with her today it is her Bday and she sounded gteat. She is going to Chicago next week to see everyone and is really thrilled to be able to be with everyone if only for a few days. I love and miss you always. Sue

Happy St. Patrick's Day Mac!!!! I've got an Old Style in my hand and toasting to you. Hope you and Mom and Dad had fun watching the parade from a great vantage point. I really miss being in Chicago on St Paddy's day. They don't do anything here. Well the president is talking in a few mins. and it looks like war. Please keep an eye on Tam and keep her safe. I try to email her often and send snail mail too. It really scares me having her over there. I love you and miss you always.

Sue

Top of the Day to you John ! ! !

Well, you would have loved it. Weather close to 70 degrees I think and more green going down the streets that you've ever seen before. It's amazing how many people become IRISH on this day. You though, my friend, were true to the green everyday of your life. Lots of music coming from down the street, an accident right in front of the house - WOW ! ! who could ask for anything more for St. Patty's Day. Thinking of you, (as always)missing you every single day and wanting you to know that we all still love you so much.



God Bless You - Now go get a beer!!

Doobs O'Weibel :)

Dear John & Helen,

Happy Anniversary. Yes, another year for the two of you. I know this seems strange, but even though you are not here physically, the two of you had (& still have) a special and wonderful relationship. John, your laughter, your companionship and words of wisdom are missed so very much. Helen, your devotion to John remains so very real. The two of you were a match made in heaven.

Lots going on . . . John, I need you to watch over your sweetie over the next couple of weeks. She is going to be going through a lot and you know there are those of us who will stand in your place (never able though to fill your shoes) and help her in any & every way that we can.



Love to the both of you,

Doobs

Hi Mac,

Well you probably already know but we have a new McCabe!! Scot and Nancy had a baby girl Kylie 9lbs 7oz one the 28th. Mom and baby are doing fine. Congratulations Grandpa. On a less upbeat note Tammy is going to the Middle East next week. Although she will be in public relations I'm still a little worried about her. Please keep an ey on her for all of us. Nothing much else going on just thought I sent an update. All my love always.

Sue

HAS IT REALLY BEEN A YEAR? DOESN'T SEEM THAT LONG IN SOME WAYS. IN OTHER WAYS IS SEEMS LIKE A LIFE TIME. AUNT DEBBIE IS RIGHT, WHAT A YEAR! VERY DIFFICULT YEAR FOR US HERE IN FRANKFORT. DEANNA SEEMS BETTER, BUT NOT OUT OF THE WOODS YET. SAMMY IS MUCH BETTER IN SCHOOL. NO MORE NOTES COMING HOME ON HER BEHAVIOR. RON AND I ARE SOME WHAT CRAZY WITH ALL THATS GOING ON WITH THE WEDDING, KIDS, WORK, DOCTORS APPOINTMENTS, AND BRING DEANNA TO FRIENDS HOUSES ON THE WEEKENDS. SHE JUST LOVES TO SPEND THE NIGHT AT ALLIE'S HOUSE AND JUST BEING A KID. SHE STAYS UP ALL NIGHT AND THEY PLAY GAMES ON THE COMPUTER OR WITH PS2. HER FRIENDS ARE SOOO IMPORTANT TO HER NOW. I THINK IT'S GREAT. BASKETBALL WILL BE STARTING SOON. PRACTICES AND GAMES WILL SURELY TAKE UP ANY EXTRA TIME WE DID HAVE. BUT, THEY ARE ONLY KIDS ONCE. THIS IS WHAT BEING A PARENT IS ALL ABOUT. JUST MAKING SURE THEY ARE HEALTHY, HAPPY AND HOPEFULLY WELL ADJUSTED. IT BECOMES HARD FOR DEANNA TO CHOOSE BETWEEN FRIENDS AND FAMILY SOMETIMES. SHE WANTS TO BE WITH BOTH ALL THE TIME. I'M TRYING TO TEACH HER TO NOT BE UPSET OR MAD, BUT TO MAKE PLANS AT OTHER TIME OR DAY. SHE'S SLOWLY LEARNING HOW TO DIVIDE HER TIME. SAMMY IS STILL TRYING TO UNDERSTAND WHY SHE CAN'T GO AND SLEEP OVER AT FRIENDS HOUSES. SHE'S JUST TO LITTLE. WE TRY TO HAVE HER GO BY ONE OF THE GRANDMA'S, SO SHE FEELS LIKE SHE HAS SOMETHING TO LOOK FORWARD TO AS WELL. SHE HAS BECOME SUCH A WONDERFUL ARTIST. YOU WOULD BE SO PROUD OF HER WORK. I KNOW YOU WOULD BE MAKING AN ALBUM FOR HER IF YOU COULD. SHE GROWING LIKE A WEED TOO. WE LOOKED AT PITURES YESTERDAY, AND CAN'T BELIEVE HOW MUCH BOTH GIRLS AND GROWN. IT'S SURPRISING. BOTH GIRLS ARE GOING TO BE SO TALL. WE WENT TONIGHT AND GOT THE GIRLS THEIR SHOES FOR THE WEDDING. I CAN'T BELIEVE IT'S LESS THAN 2 MONTHS AWAY. I REMEMBER TALKING TO YOU ABOUT THE WEDDING PLANS, AND YOU WERE SO EXCITED FOR ME. YOU WERE SO PROUD OF ME. MORE THAN LIKELY, IF YOU WERE HERE TODAY, YOU'D PROBABLY EITHER BE KICKING MY BUTT ON SOME STUFF, AND ENCOURGING ME ON OTHER THINGS. THIS WEDDING HAS BEEN A HUGH PAIN IN THE ASS. EVERYTHING IS MAKING ME NERVOUS, STRESSED OUT AND JUST PLAIN WORRIED. IS EVERYONE GOING TO BE HAPPY, PROUD, LIKE THE FOOD? IS THE WHEATHER GOING TO BE OK? I'M WORRIED ABOUT THE KIDS WHEN WE ARE GONE. I JUST REALLY WANT IT OVER. I'M NOT EXCITED. JUST WAY TO MANY WORRIES. PEOPLE NOT IN MY SHOES, CAN'T UNDERSTAND WHY I'M SO STRESSED OUT. I TOLD MY DOCTOR, "I JUST HAVE TOO MUCH ON MY PLATE RIGHT NOW." I GUESS BECAUSE I'M YOUNG, I SHOULD BE ABLE TO HANDLE ANYTHING WITH GREAT EASE. WELL, AS YOU KNOW I CAN'T. WHEN THE STRESS LEVEL GET TOO HIGH, I GET CRABY, CRY AND GO TO SLEEP. AS YOU ALSO KNOW, I DO TRY. IN MY HEART AND SOUL, I DO TRY TO DO THE RIGHT THING. SOMETIMES IT DOESN'T WORK OUT THAT WAY.

I WANT TO JUST TALK TO YOU. I MISS YOU VOICE. YOUR KNOWLEDGE OF ALL THIS STUFF AND SO MUCH MORE THAT I WILL NOT WRITE. WHAT A YEAR! HONESTLY, LOOKING BACK, IT'S BEEN A VERY CRAPPY YEAR. I LOST WHOLE LOT MORE THAN JUST YOU, ONE YEAR AGO. OUR LIVES WILL NEVER BE THE SAME WITHOUT YOU IN THEM. SOMEHOW WE ALL HAVE TO MOVE FORWARD AND DO THE BEST WE CAN WITHOUT YOU THERE. CAN YOU TELL ME HOW TO DO THAT? ONE YEAR LATER, AND I STILL DON'T KNOW HOW TO TRUELY GREAVE FOR YOU, HOW TO MOVE ON. MAYBE BECAUSE I TALK TO YOU OFTEN AND WRITE TO YOU, IS THE REASON I FIND IT DIFFICULT TO MOVE ON. YES, LIFE DID MOVE ON. MY LIFE DID MOVE ON. BUT, IN MY HEART, MY LIFE DID NOT MOVE ON. SO HOW DOES MY HEART GET TO MOVE ON? I KNOW THIS IS THE MILLION DOLLAR QUESTION. I'M NOT ALONE IN THIS QUESTION EITHER. ALL WHO LOVED YOU, TRUELY KNEW YOU, SPENT TIME WITH YOU, HELPED YOU, GOT A BEER FOR YOU, FOOD FOR YOU(HA-HA), TALKED TO YOU, TOOK ADVISE FROM YOU. HOW DOES YOUR HEART MOVE ON? I THINK WE WOULD ALL LOVE AN ANSWER TO THAT QUESTION.

BOY, THIS REALLY IS A LONG NOTE!! BUT, ONE YEAR IS LONG AND MAYBE THIS NOTE IS MEANT TO BE LONG TOO. MAYBE MY NOTE IS MEANT TO BE LONG. MAYBE MY HEART NEEDED IT TO BE LONG. WE HAD VERY LONG DAYS, ONE YEAR AGO. SEEMED LIKE WE NEVER SLEPT, OR ATE. BUT WE DID. I WENT TO THE FUNERAL HOME EARLY EVERY DAY, JUST TO MAKE SURE YOU WERE OK! I KNOW YOUR OK NOW. WE DOWN HERE JUST NEED TO GET OK AGAIN. I'LL GO NOW. IF YOU COME UP WITH THE MILLION DOLLAR QUESTION, E-MAIL ME-OK?

I LOVE YOU!!!

:) :) :)

CHRIS

Johnny,

I just can't believe that it has been a year. There isn't a day that goes by that I don't think about you. I miss you with all my heart and always will. You were the best brother ever! I love and miss you.

Sue

Dear John, (the Year in Review)

Boy, it's hard to believe one year ago I was RUSHING from the beauty shop to be with you one last time. Your HELLO's have been missed so much. The recorder is our only link to that Hello that only YOU could do so well. I don't know what your year has been like, but those of us that have had to live it without you have stumbled at times, but for the most part, tried to live it as you would have wanted. I feel that there is no better tribute to you than to do the things like we use to. It is so easy to make excuses for not doing things and I know how you hated excuses. Even though things aren't exactly the same, we try to keep those things important to you alive. Well, here's the trip down memory lane.



You have a wife that has been a pilar of strength, doing so much for so many and getting a little less sometimes in return. The handful of those who you could always count on have worked on the car, done the floors, shoveled the snow, welded the chairs, and have tried to be there for her as she was for you for so long. It has taken a year, but your "wall of fame" was put up and looks fantastic. Larry did such a great job. I don't know how they do it, but they are always there when Mama needs them. Truer friends you will never find anywhere. We did as promised and didn't miss a football game. I knew the Bears would not do well this year without you, but there is always next year. Your one grandson looks just like you and little Molly is absolutely beautiful. The kids are growing like weeds, even Matt. I sure wish I had started him on steak like you suggested 13 years ago but I think he's finally catching up. Dolly is getting to be a fine young lady although we don't get to see her that much. It took a year, but Mama went through your "treasures" and has given things to those you love and the rest to your favorite charities. Matt is the owner of your Bears keepsakes and treasures them. Mike got his house, a dog named "Mac" who proudly wears a police collar just as you did. As for me, not a day goes by that I don't chat a couple of times with Mama and I try to be there for her (& for you) as much as I can. You know how she can't ask for help, so the best thing anyone can do is to just be around and hopefully pick up on something that she may need.



I am crying now (missing you and sad for what Mama has had to endure) so I think I better go. I am SO happy that we kept this legacy for you because it gives me another way to talk to you. Please be there for us again this year and keep us strong.



Love to you in Heaven,

Debbie

Happy New Year John ! ! !

Whew! We made it through 2002 and without you, it was twice as difficult. I must admit that I know you were there so many times pulling us through and I want to thank you and tell you to KEEP IT UP. We all need you down here watching us and helping us whenever you can. Had a nice New Year's Eve although Mama was the only one awake at midnight. You were so lucky to get such a sweetheart. Had Chinese, although you know Mama, she wanted spigetti. I told her it was good luck to eat Chinese food for the New Year so I got my way this time. There were eight of us and we had a great time. Matt ate with chopsticks some of Bill's Mongolian Beef. Boy, you must have really had something to do with that.



Anyway, looking forward to our chats in 2003 and still missing you like crazy.



Love,

Doobs

Hey John... How's things up there? I'm sure Christmas was a beautiful scene, you've never seen Christmas like that before! All is swell here, as you are well aware of!!!!!! I'm sure you spent time with my Dad and Gram? Christmas was very good this year except not seeing you face to face, but I know we were all together!! Your Sweetie is something else, pulling things together like always. She is the best thing that life could offer. Such a wonderful, caring, and loving person! Too bad there aren't more people in this life today that are like her!!! Well.... I just didn't want to go without saying Happy Holidays to You! Love Ya John Boy! Oh...how did you like the little snowman??? There are many surprises for you in store this next year!

Love ya Buddy,

Larry and Joyce

Dear John, (yep, the color of my living room)

Me Late? Nope - never too late because Christmas is a time of year, not 1 day. What a Christmas this year was, as you are WELL aware of. It was a day of many firsts. Without you, a first we couldn't bear, but I know you spent it with all of us this year in your own special way. What a shame it could not have been like this while you were with us, but nevertheless, it finally happened. I could feel your smile and hugs the whole day through which made it not so hard. Mama made it through like a trooper and laughed so hard at one point, we thought we'd have to bring her to the E.R. Ate, drank, laughed and spent quality family time together, which was always so important to you. You must have been proud of your family this year. Hope you enjoyed the ornament that I gave Mama. I picked up in your footsteps (although I could never fill your shoes) and wrote a letter and poem to her. The only similarity between my letter and yours was that it was from the heart, just like yours always were. Going for Chinese on New Year's Eve with the family. Hope you will join us, we'll save you a seat.



Love You and wishing you continued Peace.

Doobs

MERRY CHRISTMAS PAPA!!! THIS YEAR WAS NOT THE SAME WITHOUT YOU. EVERYTHING WAS SOOOO DIFFERENT WITHOUT YOU THERE. I THOUGHT OF YOU ALL DAY LONG. WONDERING IF YOU WERE THERE WATCHING OVER US. SMOKING AND DRINKING WITH US, BUT AND NOT EATING TOO MUCH. THE DAY IT'S SELF WAS NICE BUT AGAIN STRANGE. HARD TO PUT INTO WORDS WHY IT WAS STRANGE, BUT IT JUST WAS. SANTA CAME AND LEFT TONS OF PRESENTS HERE FOR THE GIRLS. DOLLY GOT HER PS2 AND SAMMY GOT THE BARBIE HOTEL. THEY LOVED THEM. BETWEEN SANTA AND US THEY HAD 26 GIFTS TO OPEN. 1/2 WAY THOUGH SAMMY GOT BORED AND REALLY DIDN'T CARE ANYMORE ABOUT OPENING. AND BELIEVE IT OR NOT 2ND YEAR IN A ROW, I HAD TO WAKE THEM UP TO TELL THEM SANTA CAME. THIS MIGHT HAVE BEEN THE LAST YEAR FOR DOLLY BELIEVING IN SANTA. SHE'S PRETTY SURE THE TOOTH FAIRY IS RON, BUT SHE'S PLAYING WITH THE IDEA. SHE'S PRETTY SMART THOUGH, BECAUSE SHE THINKS IF SHE DOESN'T BELIEVE ANYMORE SHE WON'T GET HER $5.00 FOR EACH TOOTH ANYMORE. SHE'S GETTING BETTER I THINK SINCE LAST WEEK. NOT SURE, BUT IT LOOKS GOOD. WITHOUT WRITING IT DOWN, I KNOW YOU KNOW WHAT I'M TALKING ABOUT. WISH YOU WHERE HERE. I MISS YOU DEARLY AND WOULD DO JUST ABOUT ANYTHING TO GET YOU BACK TO US. IT'S ALMOST A YEAR SINCE YOU'VE BEEN GONE. SOOO HARD TO BELIEVE IT'S BEEN A YEAR. WHAT DOES MAKE IT A LITTLE EASIER, IS THAT I TREATED YOU GOOD, AND WITH RESPECT AND LOVED YOU FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART. YOU ARE MY DAD. I HOPE YOU ARE AT PEACE AND PLEASED WITH WHAT IS GOING ON DOWN HERE. PLEASE TALK TO GOD REGARDING YOUR DOLLY. I, WE COULD USE SOME HELP. LOVE YOU:)



CHRIS

Merry Christmas, Johnny! I'm getting ready for xmas dinner and listening to Johnny Mathias xmas music. It reminds me of how you loved his music when we were young. Do you remember when I took you to see him for your birthday what a great night that was. I was also thinking about all the xmas's we shared together. Rmember the year you got some kind of thing to work out with and it let go and went thru the lampshade on Mom's new lamp and that same morning Mom turned around when I was showing her on of my gifts and knocked it out of my hand and broke it? What a crazy xams that was. I talked to Terry, Tam and Tino last night at there Mom's house. I sure miss being with everyone. Especially you. I would give anything to have you with us this year. I'm sure you are here with us. Well I gotta get working on dinner. I've got 6 people coming so it will be nice. Wish Mom and Dad a Merry Christmas for me. I love and miss all of you!!!

Happy Thanksgiving, Johnny. Hope you, Mom and Dad had a great day! Tell Dad I miss his spigetti dinner on Thanksgiving. We went to Bill's sister house as usual and had a nice time. I talked to all my girls today sure wish I could have been there with them. Amber was 18 yesterday I can't believe she is that old! LouAnne and Tino are having lunch together tomorrow I'm glad they are becoming good friends. Well just wanted to say hi miss you and love you always.

Sue

Happy Thanksgiving John,

As you know, this is going to be a very hard day for those of us who have celebrated with you in the past. Thanksgiving is a day for giving thanks not for just what we HAVE, but for those special things we have been lucky enough to have throughout our lives. Well, YOU are something that we are all thankful for. Thanks for leaving us such great memories, thanks for giving so much to so many, thanks for being YOU, and most of all, thanks for the years of good times and laughter that only Mac could deliver. We will once again share this Thanksgiving with you just not in the same way.



Hope you are proud of mama & me cuz we spent your birthday together as I know you would have wanted. Both of us had a piece of German Chocolate Cake just for you ! !



You're Always in our thoughts, prayers and fondest memories.



Deb,Bill, Matt & Shadow

Johnny,

It's so hard knowing I can't pick up the phone and wish you happy birthday! I miss you so much. I listened to emerald Society CD you gave to and from work today and just keep remembering all the good times we had together. There could never be a more wonderfull brother. Hope you were with Mom and Dad for your birthday. I'm sure you were. Give them my love. Have an Old style for me too. Love you and miss you always!

Sue

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU! IT'S STILL VERY HARD BELIEVE YOUR NOT HERE. WE ALL MISS YOU VERY, VERY MUCH. WHEN I'M SHOPPING, I SEE SOOOO MANY THINGS THAT YOU WOULD JUST LOVE. IT'S HARD NOT TO BUY THEM. A COUPLE OF DAYS AGO, I SAW SOMETHING AND ALMOST BOUGHT IT FOR YOU, I WAS GOING TO GIVE IT TO MOM AND PUT IT BY YOUR TREE. THEN I THOUGHT I BETTER NOT. REALLY WISH YOU WHERE HERE!!!!!!! LAST NIGHT I WATCHED ERIN BROCKOVICH. THAT WAS THE LAST MOVIE WE WATCHED TOGETHER. AND SOMEHOW I FOUND IT FUNNY THAT THE NIGHT BEFORE YOUR BIRTHDAY, I WAS WATCHING IT AGAIN. I FELT YOU WHERE WATCHING IT TOO. HOPE YOU WHERE. I WILL BE THINKING OF YOU ALL DAY. HAPPY BIRTHDAY. I LOVE YOU AND JUST SIMPLY MISS YOU DEARLY...

Dear John,

Well, HAPPY BIRTHDAY Sweetie. Boy, hard to believe that I can not give you these wishes in person. You are so missed by those of us who loved you so very much. It is hard to admit but our love has not diminished since you've been gone. I know now that it is true what they say that "tomorrow is not promised to anyone" because I really always thought there would be a lot of tomorrows to spend with you. I miss your baths in Bass Lake and your very pleasant "HELLO". I am going to have a piece of cake in your honor and you will be in my prayers.



Buy everyone there a round and enjoy your day as only you can.



Love,

Debbie

Hi John Boy,

All is well I guess... Well I guess I don't need to tell you that,you already know!!!! I see Doobs already told you about Mikey's house...It's really GREAT isn't it??? Are you all getting ready for the big celebration on the 26th?? I'm sure my Dad and Gram are!!! They always love to kick their heels up and celebrate!! Oh I just wanted you to know that Chris and Maria's baby is going to be born the morning of your birthday so maybe You, Dad, and Gram could start the celebration early in the day!!! We miss you terribly and think of you all the time! We see Mama a couple times a week, as you already know!! Have a Great birthday and Happy Thanksgiving! Tell Dad, and Gram Happy Thanksgiving o.k.? Also give them a Big Hug too???

Love Ya Johnny.

With Love, Kisses, and Hugs,

Larry and Joyce

Hello John,

Well, it has been a long time since I wrote to you but need to let you know that you are in our thoughts every day.

Alot has been going on. Mikey got a beautiful house and you would be so proud of how good he is doing. He really learned a lot from you and is becoming a real handyman. We are in the middle of painting and redecorating the house. Yes, again ! ! ! Anyway, the living room color we chose was "Dear John" by Behr. Yep, it is almost as wonderful as YOU. Mama is having her good and bad day and with your birthday right around the corner and the holidays, it is going to be tough. Oh, by the way, don't worry about fixing the toilet. Bill finally got it fixed after replacing just about everything in there. You would have been proud of him. Matt says hi and yes, he turned in his confirmation name and it is JOHN, what else could he have chosen that would have meant so much to so many.



Love you Lots & Lots and think about you all the time,

Doobs

Hello my Dear John,

Well, it's BEAR season and you have the best seat in the house. From what I hear, we are going to have those famous game conditions going all day tomorrow. It has been a grueling summer and with football season here, I am looking forward to the excitement that comes with each game. I get teary eyed thinking how you won't be at command central calling the plays and bringing them to victory, but know just the same that as with every day that passes, "You are ALWAYS with us". I will be sure to roll my eyes at Milo if he gets too obnoxious for you and may even have a cold one in your honor.



When mama told me about her call Saturday from Tino about the addition, we all knew you were jumping for joy that Tino & Patti were giving you the granddaughter you wanted.



Missing you but loving the memories,

Debbie

Johnny,

I just talked to Tino and I know you already know that Patty had a little girl, Molly Erin!!! I'm so thrilled for them as I know you are Grandpa. I really wish you were here to see her! It would have been so wonderfull, but at least you knew that they were having a baby. I know you were there with them for this joyous birth. I know they wish you were still with them to spoil her. I miss you so much!! Watch over this newest McCabe. I love you!

Sue

HAPPY FATHERS DAY!!

THINKING OF YOU TODAY AND MOST OTHER DAYS. EVERYTHING HERE IS FINE. DEANNA'S OUT OF SCHOOL, AND GOT 3 A'S AND 3 B'S ON HER REPORT CARD. SHE DID WONDERFUL.SHE HAD HER SURGERY ON HER EARS ON THURSDAY. ALL WENT GOOD. SAM IS STILL SAM. STILL WHINNING.WE ARE GETTING A NEW DOG ON WED. IT'S A SHIH SZU. WE ARE GETTING HIM FROM THE POUND. HE SEEMS PRETTY GOOD. 3YEARS OLD AND POTTY TRAINED WE THINK. NO MORE PUPPIES. I THINK MOM THINKS WE ARE CRAZY, SHE PROBABLY RIGHT. BELLA SHOULD LIKE HIM. WELL I'LL GO NOW, HAPPY FATHERS DAY AGAIN. MISS YOU!!

HELLO ! ! !

(needs to be said like only you can)

Well, haven't been able to write as my hard drive crashed. Had to have it replaced and I am suppose to pick it up by the end of this week. Now for the updates-



Your tree in the backyard looks great & was decorated JUST FOR YOU for memorial day. Had a huge BBQ that you would have truly enjoyed. Boy, talk about things you would have enjoyed. Joey was playing Chess!! Yep, you would have been so proud. I think he even beat Tino one time. Patti looks great and is getting ready for your next grandchild. Speaking of grandchildren, Shawn looks EXACTLY like you. All he needs is glasses and we wouldn't know the difference. He has your great smile, sparkling eyes and is all personality.



I really think that living where you did would disappoint you these days. Things have really changed in the area (as you already know) and for all the hard work & good deeds you guys did for the neighbors, looks like the reward for being great, saving lives, etc. is a kick in the teeth.



Oh well, what goes around eventually comes around.



Love -

Doobie - Doobie - Do ! ! !

Hi Johnny,

I was just sitting out on the deck and missing you terribly. I still just want to pick up the phone and hear your voice. I have had so many dreams about you. My life just seems so empty. I always new that you were there to help me and give me a kick in the pants when I needed it. Dale Marie was 4 today can you beleive it. Lou misses you too. I'm so glad that you two became so close. She really loved you and I know you loved her. I just wish we had had her in our lives all those years. Things continue to improve with us but I know it will never be perfect,but I have come to accept that and I can live with it. I sent my old computor to her last week and she is thrilled I also bought her a digital camera for her bday next month so she can sent me some pics. Well I'm just rambling but it feels good to put things in words I love you and miss so very much. Tell Mom and Dad I miss them too!!!

Love, Sue

HAPPY MEMORIAL DAY! TODAY IS ONE DAY I CAN'T HELP THINKING ABOUT YOU. WE ARE HAVING A BBQ AT MOMS AND OF COURSE THERE WILL BE TONS OF FOOD. IT WILL BE VERY STRANGE TO SEE SOMEONE ELSE AT THE BBQ GRILL. ALOT OF YOUR LOVED ONES WILL BE THERE. IT'S STILL HARD TO BELIEVE YOUR NOT HERE. I KEEP THINKING YOUR JUST IN THE HOSPITAL OR MAYBE BASS LAKE. JUST WISH I COULD SEE YOU TODAY IN THE GARAGE PLAYING AROUND WITH YOUR STUFF WHEN WE PULL INTO THE DRIVEWAY. WANT TO SEE YOU BBQING. JUST WANT TO SEE YOU!!! I AM ALWAYS THINKING OF YOU. TRY TO WHISPER SWEET NOTHINGS INTO MOM EAR TODAY. SHE REALLY COULD USE IT. LOVE YOU DEARLY. BYE.

HAPPY EASTER, ORTHODOX STYLE.MOM'S BEEN BUSY COOKING AND GETTING EVERYTHING READY TO HAVE A NICE EASTER. SHE MISSES YOU SOO MUCH. SHE DOESN'T KNOW WHAT TO DO WITHOUT YOU. THE PAIN OF LOSING YOU HASN'T EASED FOR ME. DEANNA IS ALWAYS TALKING TO YOU AND DREAMING OF YOU. SHE SAYS THE TWO OF YOU TALK ALL THE TIME. SHE'S SO HAPPY TO SEE AND TALK TO YOU IN HER DREAMS. IT MAKES HER FEEL LIKE YOUR STILL THERE FOR HER. LAST WEEKEND I BOUGHT MY WEDDING DRESS. MOM, GRAM AND BETTY WHERE THERE AND LOVED THE DRESS. SO DID I. IT'S DIFFERENT THEN THE ONE I SHOWED YOU, BUT JUST AS BEAUTIFUL IF NOT MORE SO. MISS YOU VERY MUCH AND I WISH I COULD TALK FACE TO FACE WITH YOU.HOPE YOUR STILL WATCHING OVER US, WE ALL LOVE YOU VERY MUCH, I GUESS THAT'S WHY WE STILL WRITE TO YOU LIKE THIS. YOU JUST LOVED YOUR COMPUTER. LOVE YOU LOTS. CHRIS

Hi John,

Just a quick note to say HI - thinking of you ALL of the time. I am writing because I have a big favor to ask of you . . .



Joyce & Larry's "GRAM" passed away today. It has been a very rough couple of weeks and she is finally at peace. You have such a way of making people feel comfortable and welcome that I would like you to look after her for them. They gave so much to her from their hearts that it would be a comfort for them to know she is in such good hands.



Missing you all of the time :(

Love,

Debbie

HELLO - - -

I thought I would give others their chance to write to you. I try to do a couple of notes to you EVERY month and I have lots going on to tell you. As if you didn't already know :)



Well, Matt is done with CCD for this year and is preparing for confirmation. He has lots of confirmation hours to get in, so I'm sure your sweetie is gonna get some much deserved help around the house this spring & summer. Boy, talk about summer - today was in the upper 80's. I could just about see the sweat on your forehead ! ! We went to the taping of Wheel of Fortune on Saturday and will be on TV (3) times in May. (make sure you watch) As you know, Matt made the honor roll (first 2 trimesters) and if he does it for this last marking period, he will be eligible for NHS. Keep your fingers crossed buddy! Friday night we are going to a spelling bee. Matt was picked as top "7th" grader to enter the township event. If you're not busy, try to whisper the answers to him. (you're such a good speller) Found some GREAT pictures from years ago of you with the family that I am going to give to your sweetie. You looked wonderful and that is how I choose to remember you each & everyday.



Your in my thoughts & prayers,

Love - Debbie

Johnny,

It's been awhile since anyone has written to you, so I thought I'd drop a note. Today some one at work brought in a bag of Fish and it really made me sad. I know how much you loved them and loved giving them to all the kids. I'm still really having a hard time believing that you are really gone. There are so many times I think about giving you a call and then reality sets in. I made a copy of the pic of you and me the day I got my camera and have it on the way in my bedroom so I can say good night and good morning everyday. Well its getting late and I have to get to bed, just wanted you to know that I miss you with all my heart. I will love always big brother.

Sue

Let the celebration begin John,

I know you must be busy, getting ready for St. Patrick's Day, othewise known as The Feast of Our Lady of Old Style. Know that you'll be with us as we celebrate your favorite holiday. Won't be the same without you, but we've got your area decorated with green & shamrocks. So for now . . .

"May the road rise up to meet you.

May the wind be always at your back,

May the sun shine warm upon your face,

And the rains fall soft upo your fields,

And until we meet again,

May God hold you in the palm of his hand."

Love and fond memories,

Doobs

Hi John Boy and Helen, Happy Anniversary guys! I know your together today.... the nights are hard for Helen,John,...Please let your Spirit bring her Peace!!!!!!Sunday is another big day. Even I am going to toast You a "cold one". Larry and I miss your smiling face, your witty humor, and the smoke that comes out of your ears when we mention Frank!!! "I love you Johnboy"! Please give My Dad a hug for me??? I miss him too!!! Happy Anniversary, Love, Larry & Joyce

I'M GLAD YOU AND MOM PICKED TODAY TO GET MARRIED. I CAN'T EVER FORGET THIS SPECIAL DAY. I KNOW YOU WHERE WITH MOM TODAY ON HER ADVENTURE, AND YOU MADE IT HAPPEN. GREAT GIFT!

AS ALWAYS I'M STILL THINKING OF YOU AND MISSING YOU. DOLLY IS MISSING YOU LIKE CRAZY,SHE HAD A DREAM ABOUT YOU THE OTHER NIGHT. SHE SAID IT WAS SUCH A GOOD DREAM THAT SHE DIDN'T WANT TO GET UP FOR SCHOOL. I TOLD HER THAT WAS YOUR WAY OF TALKING TO HER. THROUGH HER DREAMS. SHE LOVED THAT. WISH YOU WERE HERE TODAY FOR MY BIRTHDAY. LOVE TO HEAR YOUR VOICE WISH ME A HAPPY BIRTHDAY SWEETY. I WILL BE HAVING ONE FOR YOU ON SUNDAY. I'LL BE SURE TO WEAR GREEN JUST FOR YOU. LOVE YOU AND CHAT LATER. CHRISSY

Well Dear John,

Just wanted to send you an anniversary greeting. Tomorrow is the big day. I know deep down inside you will be sending "MAMA" a special anniversary present. Too bad one of your famous cards could not appear. Boy, would that make her so happy. You kind of spoiled her with those fantastic "MAC MASTERPIECES" and no one can fill that void. Guess what ? ? Ya know how people put their kids shoes on their rearview mirror? I know you remember me getting those old gymers on you, well, they are now in my car. No buddy, can't hang 'em on the mirror, but they are with me everyday.



Miss you lots - Miss your "HELLO" and your smile. I think on Sunday, I'm gonna put on that Irish Tam and do a couple of cold ones just for you.



Love,

Doobs

Hey Big John Everytime I sit in front of this computer I think of you and all the help you gave me.I still play the Emerold Society tape you gave me.You were a great guy to be around.Have one for me Mac and save me a stool up there a end one Pat M

PAPA,

IVE BEEN READING ALL OF THESE NOTES PEOPLE HAVE LEFT FOR YOU AND FOR MOM. IVE WANTED TO WRITE AGAIN BUT NOT SURE WHAT I SHOULD SAY. SO, ILL JUST TALK TO YOU. I REALLY NEED A GOOD ELECTRICTION, DO YOU KNOW OF ONE? WE STARTED TO PAINT AND AGAIN I COULD REALLY USE YOUR INPUT ON SOME STUFF WE ARE DOING. I JUST SIMPLY MISS YOU VERY MUCH. GOING TO THE HOUSE SEEMS STRANGE WITHOUT YOU THERE TO TALK TO, HUG AND KISS AND COMPLAIN TO. I KNOW YOUR THERE WATCHING OVER EVERYTHING AND EVERYONE, BUT I'D STILL LIKE TO JUST SEE YOU. SEEMS SOOOO LONG SINCE WE LAST TALKED,THAT LAST NIGHT WITH YOU. IM SO HAPPY I STAYED WITH YOU THAT NIGHT. EVEN MORE SO CAUSE I DIDNT KNOW IT WOULD BE YOUR LAST. MY MEMORY ISNT TOO GOOD SOMETIMES BUT I REMEMBER EVERYTHING ABOUT OUR LAST NIGHT TOGETHER. SORRY TO RAMBLE, JUST MISS YOU LIKE CRAZY. IM THINKING OF YOU AND STILL LOVING YOU VERY MUCH. AS ALWAYS I WILL WATCH OVER MOM. BYE

Well John,

You would have loved this one. The gas pipe was hit by some workers using a backhoe at 107th & Kedzie and put a hole in the gasline. Huge fire resulted that took hours to control and now it is over 24 hours that NO HEAT is available for the area. Knowing that heat was not in your list of "TOP TEN" priorities, you would have not been bothered by this turn of events. Mama is sitting under an electric blanket and waiting patiently for them to get things up and running.



Figures that mistakes like these happen at the worst possible times. Boy, this has been an unbelieveable 6 weeks.



Missin Ya,

Deb

Six minutes...No pulse and you did it Mac Daddy!!! You saved my daughter's life. I could never Thank you enough;you blew into her mouth and pumped on her chest for six long terrifying minutes. I Love you Mac and when I look into her eyes, I will see you and remember that day. And because of you she is alive and I thank you.

John, Gave this poem to those closest to you. Figured I better get a copy to you.



"If I knew it would be the last time

that I'd see you fall asleep,

I would tuck you in more tightly

and pray the Lord, your soul to keep.



If I knew it would be the last time

that I see you walk out the door,

I would give you a hug and kiss

and call you back for one more.

If I knew it would be the last time

I'd hear your voice lifted up in praise, I would video tape each action and word, so I could play them back day after day.

If I knew it would be the last time,

I could spare an extra minute or two

to stop and say I love you,

instead of assuming you would KNOW I do.

If I knew it would be the last time

I would be there to share your day,

well I'm sure you'll have so many more, so I can let just this one slip away. For surely there's always tomorrow to make up for an oversight,& we always get a second chance to make everything right. There will always be another day

to say our I love you's, And certainly there's another chance

to say our "Anything I can do's?" But just in case I might be wrong,

and today is all I get,

I'd like to say how much I love you

and I hope we never forget, Tomorrow is not promised to anyone,

young or old alike, And today may be the last chance you get to hold your loved one tight.. So if you're waiting for tomorrow, why not do it today?

For if tomorrow never comes,

you'll surely regret the day, That you didn't take that extra time

for a smile, a hug, or a kiss

and you were too busy to grant someone, what turned out to be their one last wish. So hold your loved ones close today, whisper in their ear,

Tell them how much you love them

and that you'll always hold them dear, Take time to say "I'm sorry, please forgive me," "thank you" or "it's okay".

And if tomorrow never comes,

you'll have no regrets about today."



Well John my dear, our only regrets are that you are not here with us for a while longer and that there wasn't more time to tell you how truly great you are. Hopefully, by now, you will know.



Love you & Miss You Lots,

B, D & Matt



PS - we are watchin' over mama, and we know you are too. THANKS.

Helen,

I'm so very sorry for your loss. John was a great guy. I'm just in shock: like

everyone else I didn't really believe that cancer would beat out his Irish

stubbornness! God bless. Please call me.

Love, your friends

Pat, Tom, and girls

Dear Mac, Well, you would have loved this.... condolences via the internet.The sadness I feel is almost overwhelming at times, and yet there's also a great deal of happiness and serenity. I'm still finding the notes you left me. Maybe you knew more than you let on. My years with you were the best of my life and I will always be grateful for that. Be at peace and know I'll be fine because of you. Love, Mrs. Mac

Dear John,You have given us memories for a lifetime. You and Helen have taught us the true meaning of FRIENDSHIP!!! Peace be with you. You were a Wonderful Man who gave MUCH back to the people still on this earth! We Love You John. You will NEVER be FORGOTTEN FRIEND! Love,Hugs,and Kisses, Larry & Joyce

In the years of knowing John McCabe I can honestly say that I do not know a better man. His will to live was more then any of us ever experienced. He was a pleasure to know and a pleasure to call him my friend and co worker. I wish only the best for his wife. John is in good hands and he is watching down on you. God Bless us all!!

I worked with John for years. He was a great guy. Always took the time to say "hello how are ya".He was a credit to his badge. I am sorry for the loss and sadden by his death.

John will always be in our hearts....a good friend never does leave us. We were fortunate to have called him that. He put many smiles on our faces and made many wonderful memories for us to keep.

Besides being a good husband, father,neighbor, one of Chicago's Finest, a devoted Bears fan and a dedicated Old Style customer... to one and all....he was also our FRIEND....and for that we are so grateful! Until we meet again, may God hold him in the palm of his hand.~

I WISH TO EXTEND MY CONDOLENCES TO THE FAMILY OF JOHN MCCABE. BY BROTHER, BOB KERRIGAN, WAS A FRIEND OF JOHN JRS. THEY ATTENDED QUIGLEY TOGETHER. MY HUSBAND IS ALSO A FIRE FIGHTER. HE EXTENDS HIS THOUGHTS OF SYMPATHIES ALSO. GOD BLESS!

Johnny,

You were the best brother anyone could ever have. I love you with all my heart and will miss you always. Give Mom and Dad a kiss for me and hopefully someday will all be together again.

John,

You were one in a billion.

You will be forever in my heart.



MOM,

Stay strong and remember we all love you!

To John, Thanks for being the best brother-in-law that anyone could ever have. I loved being around you, watching the bears and giving you those little "sneak" peaks when they would finally score. I will never forget our times together and will cherish every minute we have spent. Thanks for being "My Hero". Your strength has made me stronger.



To Helen, Thanks for being the pilar of strength that you are. You kept John upbeat and everyone around you. Had it not been for that ever-positive attitude of yours, who knows what would have happened and when. We will always be there for you and John will surely watch over you all of the days of your life.



God Bless you !

I had the honor of working with John at Area2 Homicide/Sex back in the 70's. Proud to have known him.

Dear Helen, Please accept my deepest sympathy in this difficult time..May God Bless John's soul and grant him eternal peace..My Thoughts and Prayers are with you and the family.... Chip Kerrigan

Dear Helen:



Tom & I will always remember the laughs and good times we had with you and John at the Lake. You will always be in our minds and hearts.



Love



Deb & Tom Smith

John was my friend and partner. From the Academy to 4 Tactical and Area 2 Homicide. He was a tough, honest and brave policeman. My deepest sympathy to his friends and family. Ted

THANK YOU JOHN FOR ALL YOU HAVE DONE FOR ALL OF US. I WILL TAKE GREAT CARE AND WATCH OVER MOM, DOLLY AND YOUR SAMMY. WE LOVED YOU OH SO VERY MUCH. THANK YOU AGAIN FOR BEING YOU. XXXOOO