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John Garvey Obituary

Garvey, John Kevin For someone who could not walk or talk, couldn't communicate beyond smiles and eye contact, John Kevin Garvey accumulated an inordinate number of friends, fans, and admirers. Despite being a quadriplegic and confined to a wheelchair, he was well-known to friends and neighbors in Beverly, where he was born and raised, and around Streeterville, where he lived his last decade, and where his devoted team of nurses would take him for excursions to Oak Street beach and along Michigan Avenue. John Kevin passed away peacefully at home the night of May 5th, succumbing to the chronic lung disease that complicated his underlying cerebral palsy. He spent his last days surrounded by his parents, Ann and Kevin, with whom he lived all his 39 years; his siblings Tim, Julie Davis, and Jim; and his brother-in-law Marc Davis. His parents were his primary caregivers and fiercest advocates through many hospitalizations, surgeries, and illnesses over the years. "If only everyone could have the support that Kevin has had through his life..." said Tim, "...there are so many like him who don't get the extraordinary care that he and we have gotten over the years." Much of that support came from the doctors, nurses and staff at Little Company of Mary Hospital, in Evergreen Park, who helped care for John Kevin over his four decades. Until the end, despite his age, he was cared for in the Pediatric Intensive Care Unit, in part because the caregivers there were so committed to him and to his family. Jan Terra, a nurse who first cared for him as a nurse trainee in 1970, wrote in a 2007 tribute, "I returned from my maternity leave to care for a beautiful little boy...God gave them a son whose body is flawed but whose spirit is pure...and gave the nurses an opportunity to work with and love a young man who has taught us so much." His siblings recounted the varied ways John Kevin indelibly marked their lives, in ways large and small. "Literally every college application, every medical school essay, every wedding toast centered on Kevin and what we had learned from him and from my parents' care for him. He had to be rolling his eyes each time he heard about it." Tim, an obstetrician in Chicago, also credits his parents' experiences as having prepared him to help his patients through difficult pregnancies. Other survivors include his nieces and nephews, Madeline, Emma, Matthew and Kevin Garvey, and Elijah, Jadon and Noah Davis; and many aunts, uncles and cousins from the Garvey and Crotty families. The details of the wake and funeral mass are as follows: Visitation Sunday 1-8 pm, and Monday 9:30 am to 11:30 am, at Brady-Gill Funeral Home (Heeney-Laughlin Directors), 2929 West 87th St., Evergreen Park. Funeral Monday, leaving Brady-Gill at 11:30 am to Christ the King Church, 9235 South Hamilton Ave., Chicago, IL 60643 for Mass of Christian Burial at 12 Noon. Interment at St. Mary's Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions to United Cerebral Palsy of Greater Chicago, 547 W. Jackson, Suite 225, Chicago, IL 60661, or Misericordia/Heart of Mercy, 6300 N. Ridge Ave., Chicago, IL 60660, are most appreciated.

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Published by Chicago Sun-Times from May 7 to May 9, 2010.

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February 2, 2011

Dear Ann & Kevin - I just learned of John's death. I want you to know that I honor his memory. Both John and Kevin were significant people in my Case Management at the insurance company. Some people touch you deeply- and your life story did impact my life. Ann and Kevin, know that you continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. I know John is already wrapped in God's loving and comfortable arms. You did a great job!
Joyce Kinworthy

John Neumann

May 21, 2010

Mary Cozzie called to tell us that John Kevin had died and would be returning home to Beverly on Mother's Day.
As I entered the parlor, there was the usual buzz of conversation among the many friends and relatives consoling Parents, Siblings and each other. Each of them remembering their own special John Kevin stories. There to one side of the room was the man himself. I had'nt seen him since he moved away so I remembered the young John Kevin. As I approached I noticed that his body was still very slight and his arms still had the familiar twists. He hadn't changed much. How could I have expected otherwise? I knelt down to pay my respects and saw the most handsome, manly face I could ever imagine. He had filled out from the skinny faced boy I had remembered. His famous smile was bright and shinning. There was something in his face that was more than the "at rest", "sleeping" visage we are used to seeing on one who has died. I have been bothered by this moment for almost three weeks now. I have dreamt about it. I have thought about it in my sleep. I think I figured it out. John Kevin was looking at the face of God and he was showing us his entrance into Heaven. I will never forget the feeling I had when I saw his face. Pure happiness. Pure contentment. Pure - " I am home where I belong. I knew it would be like this". Thank you, John Kevin.
May God's peace be with you and your family and friends.

Lynne & Rudy Johnson

May 14, 2010

Dear Dr. Tim.

We were very saddaned to here about your brother. Our thoughts and condolences are with you and your family. We did not know John personally but know that he was a wonderful person. Being your brother would make him special.

We hope to see you soon.

Warmest Regards,

Diane Malooly Zeitzheim

May 14, 2010

Tim:
I was so sorry to hear about your brother. My parents mailed the obituary to me and what beautiful words to describe such a wonderful brother. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

William Banzhaf

May 10, 2010

Tim,
My heartfelt condolences. I hope you are well.
Bill Banzhaf

May 10, 2010

Kevin and Ann,
My heart and prayers go out to you and your family at this very sad time.
Peace in time...
Joan Ahrens

Barbara Battiste LPN

May 10, 2010

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

Maribel Hopgood

May 10, 2010

Dear Garvey Family,

Our deepest sympathies go out to all of you on the loss of your beloved John Kevin. Your family's devotion and dedication to him has been a great source of admiration and inspiration for so many of us. May you find comfort and peace in knowing that Kevin's life will represent a legacy of love, hope and determination to always be cherished. We will keep him and all of you in our prayers!

Best,
Omar, Maribel & Rafa

May 10, 2010

Dear Ann and Kevin, We will be thinking of you and your family today and remembering you all in our prayers.
Love, Mel and Ken

May 9, 2010

Dear Tim and Family,

Please accept my sincere condolences. Each of you and John Kevin are in my prayers.

Fondly,

Cathy Ellyin

Joan Dessoye

May 9, 2010

Garvey Family: We are saddened to learn of the loss of John Kevin. We feel privileged to have known John Kevin and to have witnessed the loving devotion of the Garvey family. He was blessed.
Love
Joni & Pete Dessoye
Nicole Dessoye

Lauren Gulbrandsen

May 9, 2010

My Dearest Family
I am so sorry for the loss of your beloved John Kevin. Your constant care and devotion to him is a testament to the love and stength of your family. Over my lifetime you all have been an inspiration to me. I will truly miss John Kevins infectious smile, he taught us all so much without even saying a word. I am sorry I will not be there to share in a celebration of his life, please know that you and John Kevin are in my thoughts and prayers.
All my Love,
Cousin Lauren

Bryant Family

May 9, 2010

Mr. and Mrs. Garvey, Tim, Jim, Julie and Marc,
We are so sorry for you loss. We will light a candle today in honor of John Kevin, hold hands, and pray. Your example of love and dedication have touched us all in many ways.
We thank you all. May he rest in peace. We know he can still feel your love.

Michael Marro

May 8, 2010

Tim,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Please accept my condolences and prayers for your famiy.
Warmest regards,

May 8, 2010

Dear Ann and Kevin,

We are so sorry for your loss. You two were such devoted parents. We are very glad that we got to meet John Kevin last year.

Denice Gilson-Landry

May 8, 2010

In all the patient's I'd cared for John Kevin was the most memorable. I can still hear him laughing when he beat Gene in arm wrestling. The way he'd search for his green frog when we gave him his treatments and the way he let us know he wasn't happy with something we'd done.

Your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Dave Casebolt

May 8, 2010

Ann & Kev, my prayers are with you & your family upon the loss of John Kevin. Your four decades of loving care has always been a wonderful inspiration to all who know you and your incredible dedication to your family.

Sherri Davis, RN, BSN

May 7, 2010

Mr. & Mrs. Garvey,
I am honored to have had the amazing opportunity of taking care of John Kevin. I am blessed to have known you and John Kevin for the last four years. Your love for him and your family is palpable. You have taught me so much, and John Kevin has taught me so much. My heart cries for you and all you have endured through his life. I will never be the same because of you and John Kevin. You all have made me a better Nurse, a better Mother, and a better person. Thank you for welcoming me into your home and into your lives. You all have made an everlasting impression in my heart. May God wrap his loving arms around you while you say goodbye to your "Baby". God bless you.

John Kevin Garvey with his Trademark Smile

Sherri Davis

May 7, 2010

John Lawless

May 7, 2010

Dear Ann and Kevin,
Jack has told me about John Kevin. I'm so sorry about the loss of your son. I admired both of you for caring all these years for your son. May God bless his soul. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

May 7, 2010

So sorry for your loss. Tim's words were so eloquent in the newspaper today. You are all in our prayers.
Fondly, Tim's Yale classmate Anneliese (a.k.a. Alf)
and her family: Bob, Peter, Andrew, and Daniel Crawford

Matt Myren

May 7, 2010

I have had the pleasure of being a client of Jim Garvey's for several years now. I have not met Kevin, but the stories and memories contained on this page are very moving, and speak to a life lived fully and lovingly despite challenges that might seem insurmountable to others. It is a great testiment to Kevin, his family, caregivers and friends.

Wishing all of you peace and healing in your time of loss. You will be in the prayers of me, my family and all of Jim's friends at Enesco, LLC.

Joyce Koranda

May 7, 2010

Please accept my deepest sympathies.

Joyce Koranda Nurse at U.C.P. Trutter Center

May 7, 2010

Dear Ann and Kevin
I am sorry to hear of John Kevin's
transition.
My prayers and condolences are with
you and your family.
John Kevin had a special way of making
you love him with a big smile and laugh.
I enjoyed the time shared with John Kevin as his nurse.

Addie Alliston Chicago Illinois

Mary Nedved

May 7, 2010

Dear Ann, Kevin, Tim, Julie, Jim and Marc,
Every day we experienced your love and commitment to John Kevin. Grandma Terry loved spending time with him. Brian T and Moira beginning at an early age, never fearful or hesitant happily participated in many Garvey celebrations with John Kevin at the enter of things, laughing and smiling.
Of all our Leavitt street neighbors, John Kevin was the only one who loved our mangy dog, Jacque who despite all our safe guards managed to jump on his lap and lick him. These happy memories and more will sustain us and give us peace.
With sympathy,
Mary, Brian T Nedved and Moira Stockwell

Tom Grant

May 7, 2010

Tim,

I am very sorry to hear about your terrible loss. You, and your whole family, are in my thoughts and prayers.

Carmen Robinson-Mapp

May 7, 2010

Dearest Kevin and Ann, my sincere condolences are with you and your family. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to assist you in your time of need. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. God Bless. Sincerely, Carmen

Jack Crotty

May 7, 2010

John Kevin, I have always love you....and I will remember you in all of my life. Thank you for being my nephew. Love You Always, Uncle Jack

Ron and Eileen Galip

May 7, 2010

John Kevin holds a special place in the hearts of many who never had the opportunity to meet him but knew so much about him thru the loving words of his devoted parents. He rests now in the eternal peace of Our Lord. Our prayers and thoughts are with Kevin, Ann and their family.

Barbara and Dan Ryan III

May 7, 2010

Dear Ann and Kevin,
John Kevin was a lucky young man to have had the care and love that surrounded him throughout his life. He touched us all. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Peace and love to all.

Barbara and Dan Ryan III

May 7, 2010

Kevin, my heartfelt thoughts and sympathies extend to you and your family.

Terri Simard

richard burstein

May 7, 2010

Kevin and Ann, my heart goes out to you. The devotion and care you exhibited all these years were admired by all. Dick Burstein

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