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Jerome "Jerry" Witkovsky

1928 - 2025

Jerome "Jerry" Witkovsky obituary, 1928-2025, West Hills, CA

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1928

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2025

Jerome Witkovsky Obituary

Witkovsky, Jerome 'Jerry'

Jerome 'Jerry' Sheldon Witkovsky passed away on 5/26/25 at 97 years of age in West Hills, California. He lived in Fairwinds, a senior living community, to which he migrated during COVID. Jerry passed peacefully, after some medical issues, with the care of Fairwinds medical support and his hospice providers.

Jerry was born in Chicago, Il (South Side) on March 29, 1928, to Benjamin Witkovsky and Elizabeth Shapiro. Elizabeth died when Jerry was 4 years old. His childhood was nurtured by Shapiro aunts, and later by stepmother Evelyn Wolf.

He graduated from Harper High School and then enlisted in the postwar US Army. His service was in Kobe, Japan. He received commendations in clerical work and the development of youth services for the children of Army officers. Upon separation from the Army, Jerry worked with Chicago Boy's Club. His supervisor there recommended that Jerry get a college degree, and he helped Jerry's admission to George Williams College in Hyde Park. While getting his BA degree at GW, Jerry met and wed Margaret Jane Thomas in 1950. She played major roles in Jerry's life including typing his papers while he attended and finished his MSW from the University of Illinois Jane Adams School of Social Work.

With his graduate degree, Jerry was employed again at the Boys and Girls Club but soon switched to the Jewish Community Centers of Chicago. His early assignments were at the Max Strauss Center, and Camp Chi. His favorite place to work, however, was Camp Chi. He worked there from 1953 to1971. The last 4 years he was the Director of Camp Chi. These were the years that he talked about the most. Abe Vinik tapped him to be the Assistant General Director of the JCCs. In 1979 Vinik retired, and Jerry became the General Director. He worked aggressively with the Board of Directors to advocate for persons of all ages who experienced trouble by infirmity, physical illness, poverty, cultural adaptation, religious need, mental health, and self-doubt. Jerry is known to most of us from his tireless dedication to the Jewish community, and his efforts in local, state, national, and international politics.

In each of the above areas in which he worked, he is known for the aphorism, "leave your camp site better than you found it."

In fact, his use of this saying, the use of his powers of learning and confronting, the challenges he laid at his own feet first then at those of others, were known in the Deerfield community where he cut his teeth on doing work for parents, grandparents, and grandchildren. The intergenerational programming at Deerfield High School was well received. The successes there led him to author a book about intergenerational challenges, and he spoke in several formats on this subject. Hopefully, the world of family relationships was better than when he first found them.

Jerry was preceded in death by his father, Benjamin Witkovsky (1987) his mothers Elizabeth (Shapiro, d. 1932) and Evelyn (Wolf, d.1997). His brother Phillip passed in 2014. His wife Margaret passed in 2003 after a marriage of 52 years.

Jerry is survived by his daughter Ellen (Don Cervantes), and son Michael (Julie Nielsen Witkovsky). Jerry also kept a close relationship with Michael's first spouse, Cynthia Hirsch. Grandchildren who additionally survive him are Jessica Cervantes (Travis Crisco); Kathryn Cervantes (Lance Agostino); Rabbi Ethan Witkovsky (Erin Beser); Benny Witkovsky (Corrina Regnier); Merete Witkovsky; and Vivienne Wren Witkovsky. There are 4 great-grandchildren: Aldo Hirsch and Sage Margaret Witkovsky; Hugo Thomas Regnier; and Arthur Enzo Agostino.

There will be a graveside service in Blue Island IL. A portion of Jerry's ashes will be interred beside Margaret's grave in Beverly Cemetery. The date for this family only ritual is yet to be determined.

However, after the interment there will be a JCC assisted Memorial Event hosted by the Weinger JCC and their ability to provide remote attendance and involvement by persons unable to attend in person. The date and time for this event has yet to be decided. Please be prepared to say something, tell a story, about Jerry.

Lastly, without knowing the exact date of this, we have received permission from JCC to disperse, per Jerry's durable and loudly uttered plea, the rest of his ashes in either the Pebble Place, the Big Pine, or a water venue at Turtle Island. The GaGa pit is off limits! We have no other activities planned but if we receive a large outpouring of interest to attend this ritual, we will try to accommodate.

In lieu of flowers, we ask that gifts in Jerry's honor be given to the Camp Chi scholarship fund. This can be done on the Camp Chi website://campchi.jccchicago.org/donate/.

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Published by Chicago Sun-Times on Jun. 2, 2025.

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Linda Kaplan (Spitz)

July 21, 2025

Jerry was such a kind, wise, and lovable person. Being with him at Camp Chi and the JCC (and Margaret) are fond memories. Sending condolences and hugs to your family.

Deanna Shoss

June 20, 2025

In Memory of Jerry Witkovsky: A Relentless Champion for Intergenerational Connection and the Power of Grandparents

Jerry Witkovsky was a force. A rocket. A tireless creator, connector, and learner-right up to the very end.

As his co-author and collaborator on the award-winning Where Two Worlds Meet: A Guide to Connecting with Your Teenage Grandchildren, I had the honor of working alongside Jerry for nearly a decade. His passion was clear and unwavering: to help grandparents unleash their creativity and be a transformative force in the lives of their grandchildren, thereby bringing all three generations closer together. His work and approach were borne of curiosity, respect, and love.

While many may slow down in their later years, Jerry sped up. In his mid-80s, he launched a blog, built a following on social media, spoke to audiences from New York to Chicago, to LA to Israel, and was a regular columnist for Grand Magazine. He designed a curriculum to engage grandparents in schools (and conducted research to affirm the positive impact!) and co-created another curriculum with Chai Mitzvah for synagogues.

He launched a story-prompt program with JCC Chicago, enjoyed by hundreds of grandparents around the globe. As recently as a year ago, he presented Create Together to Be Great Together, a live video show of grandparents and grandchildren creating together, as part of Grandparents Academy´s Grandparents Week.

His zest for learning was matched only by his drive to share what he learned with others, always hoping it would spark one more meaningful connection between grandparents and grandchild.

He didn´t just write and talk about intergenerational connection-he lived it. He believed in bringing the whole self-wisdom, vulnerability, questions, and all-to the table. He wanted families to thrive, to communicate, to grow together. He knew the secret: that grandparents have extraordinary power to shape family culture and legacy, and he made it his mission to help them use it. He particularly worked to support grandparents of teens, that time when developmentally, grandkids may pull away, yet a time when they need their grandparents more than ever.

Jerry leaves behind a living legacy in the thousands of families he´s inspired, the many professionals and advocates he´s mentored and collaborated with, and the bold idea he championed-that intentional connection across generations isn´t only important; it´s transformative. It strengthens mental health, builds identity and resilience in young people, and unlocks a powerful sense of purpose and belonging for older adults.

To those working in the field: Jerry believed in you, in us, and this work. Let´s keep going, with Jerry´s signature energy, generosity, and unstoppable drive to make families stronger.

Kathryn Cervantes

June 8, 2025

Our beloved grandfather, he will be missed.

Robert Berliner

June 2, 2025

My condolences to Jerry's family, with great congratulations to his memory for a long life extraordinarily well lived. I worked with Jerry for a number of years while I served on the JCC Board, and I particularly remember and appreciate his extraordinary work in making it possible for us to acquire a physical facility for what became the Florence G. Heller JCC.

Robert Berliner

Ron Levin

June 2, 2025

Jerry was a mentor and a friend. He was an innovative leader that impacted the entire Chicago Jewish Community. He was caring, sympathetic and kind. I deeply rexpected him and he´ll always have a place of love and respect in my heart. May he rest in peace!

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