Jay Bennett Obituary

This is many years later, but I would just like to thank Jay for his creation of music that I´ve enjoyed so much and for so many years. Truly creating things that make others happy. What a gift.

Thank you for sharing a part of your life with us.

For Jay...a former member of the band Wilco, has died at age 45. You left
us far too early dear friend

WEEP NOT FOR ME


Do not weep for me when I no longer dwell among the wonders of the earth; for my larger self is free, and my soul rejoices on the other side of pain...on the other side of darkness.

Do not weep for me, for I am a ray of sunshine that touches your skin, a tropical breeze upon your face, the hush of joy within your heart and the innocence of babes in mothers arms.

I am the hope in a darkened night. And, in your hour of need, I will be there to comfort you. I will share your tears, your joys, your fears, your disappointments and your triumphs.

Do not weep for me, for I am cradled
in the arms of God. I walk with the angels, and hear the music beyond the stars.

Do not weep for me, for I am within you;
I am peace, love, I am a soft wind that caresses the flowers. I am the calm that follows a raging storm. I am an autumns leaf that floats among the garden of God, and I am pure white snow that softly falls upon your hand.

Do not weep for me, for I shall never die, as long as you remember me...
with a smile and a sigh.


© Joe Fazio
~
[email protected] /Joe Fazio,
Beverly Hills, California

Jay Bennett truly changed the scope and sound of the American music scene, his contributions to Wilco and solo work showed a visionary artist who will be greatly missed

Dear John, Jan, Jeff and family,
I, too, wanted to offer you my deepest condolences on the very sad loss of Jay. Dan and I just learned of it yesterday. I share Dan's fond memories of spending time with you all at your house on Martin Lane when we were children. I am incredibly sad to learn of Jay's untimely passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this very difficult time.

John, Jan and Jeff,
My deepest condolences to you for the loss of Jay. I can't imagine how difficult it must be. I see that you live in Green Valley. I live in the Phoenix area with my wife Lori and two kids Emma (4) and Luke(2).

Throughout my life I have often thought of the many times I spent at your house as a boy. Baking banana bread with Jan. Hanging out with Jeff. I remember Jay's room walls were covered in heavy metal band posters and he was always playing music. I'm glad to see that he continued to follow that dream.

Take care of yourselves. May the peace of our Lord rest upon you in this dark time.

I did not know Jay but was a fan of his music. My deepest sympathy to Jay's family and friends. We will all miss you Jay.

I didn't know Jay personally, but saw him perform many times over the years, first with Wilco and later with Edward Burch and other musical playmates. Every time, I was left with the particular joy that comes from watching someone do something that he loves and that he's good at. Jay's music holds a world of happy memories for me, and we are all so lucky that he shared his gifts with us. He will be missed.

May all Jay's family, loved ones, friends, and fans find peace and comfort now and in the weeks to come.

Dear John and Jan, We are with you in spirit during this sad time. We have lovely Rolling Meadows memories.
Peace to Jay's memory.

To the Bennett Family,

In high school, I played in a garage band with Jay and spent many a night practicing at your house. I was a bad drummer, but Jay was a great guitarist. We hung out and drove to Cuba Road and I spent a lot of my formative years with Jay. I'm saddened that we drifted away and never got back in touch. I'm sure he touched a lot of lives. He will be missed. My condolences to you all.

Dear Bennett Family,

I am so sorry to read of the death of your loved one. May you find comfort in the Bible's promise at Isaiah 26:19, and John 5:28-29.

When these scriptural promises take placed the enemy death will never caused any family grief again
(1 Corinthians 15:26)
Sincerely
Ms. Blake

Dear John and family,
My heart goes out to you! It is so very hard to lose a treasured loved one. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

( John, you might remember me - I was a teacher in Dist. 25 at Olive)

I never knew Jay. I replied to his post regarding his forthcoming hip replacement, having had my first about 14 weeks ago, and having my second 19th June coming. My two eldest boys are on the stage so I understand the pride his family have in him. My timing seems so ironic? Please accept my deepest sympathy. Do not be 'brave' and try to hide your grief. Scream if you want. Then, when you have healed some what, be positive and only retain all the good memories and funny events. Never stop talking about him. Talk and talk 'til it does not hurt.

Rita Lloyd. North Wales UK

Been listening to Jay's solo material all week. I was introduced to his music through Wilco and stayed a fan when he went solo. I have been affected by this passing which is a testament to his talent. There is a feeling of loss. I hope his family knows how many fans of Jay Bennett there are and how saddened we all are.

Rest in peace, the music stopped.

I extend my most sincere condolences to Jay's family and many friends. He lived five lifetimes in the span of 45 years. As he made his music he lived his life - with an immense dynamic more adventurous than most would ever dare. He earned more advanced degrees, won more Grammy Awards, fixed more guitar amps, repaired more cars and raised more turtles and had more dear friends than most of us will ever...his all-too-short life was certainly well-lived. Godspeed, my friend.

I only knew Jay through his music. He was an amazing talented musician and someone I admired. My sincere condolences to his family and his friends in UC. I too am very sad about this.

It's difficult when we lose someone we love to death. Even Jesus gave way to tears at the loss of his friend Lazarus. May The God of all comfort help you to cope during this difficult time.

The music world has lost a great talent. May his friends and family take comfort in the promise offered to our loved ones in John 5:28,29.

taquee aka boo boo mommy love you and will miss you it hurts me so bad that you left me but i know you were suffering and god took you home i have to find a way to understand that i cry every day because my baby left mommy but i know that you are in a better place no more pain no more suffering i love you baby

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Bennett Family:

I am sorry for your loss of Jay,I know your family is saddened by this unexpected loss and the music world as well.May the God of all comfort and tender mercies be with you in your time of grief. 2corinthians 1:3,4

Jay--
Thank you for listening to my rock noise and your incredible advice. I miss you, dude...

Jimmy

May you and your family have comfort in knowing that God promise he will wipe out every tear from our eyes,and death will be no more,neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore.The former things have passed away.

Dear Family and Friends of Jay Bennett,

The pain, the grief, and the feelings of losing a loved one can be unbearable. At these times, we need comforting words to uplift us. My two favorite scriptures are Ecclesiastes 9:11 which states, "time and unforeseen occurrences befall us all." My second favorite scriptures is Isaiah 25: 8&9,"He will swallow up death forever..." I hope these two scriptures will bring you comfort just like they brought me comfort.

Agape' love

My heart goes out to all Jay's family and friends.

I only knew Jay through his brother Jeff in Cleveland. I was Jeff's barber. I remember Jeff telling me about his brother and his musical ventures in Chicago and being nominated for a
Grammy and the family going to the celebration. Sorry for the
sadness his family is feeling. Jeff was so proud of his brother.

I only knew Jay for about a year. We became fast friends though and I am thankful for the time I got to know him. He was a great friend and mentor. I miss him dearly.

Thanks for the music and the spirit brother! You will be greatly missed and never forgotten!

May the God of all comfort help you through this difficult time.

Revelation 21:4

Such a sad story...Jay was an amazing talent and is missed