James Cove Obituary

I’m a fourth grader from California and at my school we learned about September 11th today. In class we each got names of people who died that day and I got James. My family has been reading about you and you sound like a really nice person.

Dear Jim,

I can't believe after 20 years, you come to my mind so often during the years. Almost every day. When I think about it, I realize I am still mourning the loss of a soft spoken kind and funny friend. We didn't socialize much outside A&A, lunches and things, but you made a mark on my life. That's the kind of man you were. An all time great! Rest in heaven and know that your life is celebrated every day by those who knew you and those who haven't.

Jim Carlina

I love James' definition of happy hour and I pray that his sons are carrying on his legacy by being great human beings. Much love from Texas

Remembering James on the 20th anniversary of 9/11...

Jim, I'll never forget that trick you played a on me in that Mexican restaurant. Boy was that jalapeno hot! You were hysterical while sweat was pouring from me. Wait 'till I get to heaven!

I think about you every day! All you taught me about eating sushi, which I love thanks to you and to enjoy a Beefeater martini! You will always be in my heart and on my mind!

You could not have died in vain that awful day in New York. RIP

Jim,

You are remembered in this 15th year, as I remember you throughout the year. Your life is celebrated, and for me especially for the good friend you were.

I used to share many a childhood adventure with "Jimmy" on 26th Street (I seem to recall that his Grandmother lived on 26th) and over at his apartment on 28th and Avenue D (??).

I have many fond memories of those days.

Oh I remember him well from early to mid sixties hanging out on e 26th st. Always with the comedy. Went to Farragut pool one day. Have pictures of him in our little backyard pool. All blessings to his family.

Dear Jim,
You will never be forgotten. You are remembered often during the year(s) when talking to friends and relatives and people I meet. I recently went to the memorial at Eisenhower Park with several friends. You were remembered. Rest in peace my good friend...Jim

I had the great fortune to meet James' son Ryan this year and he is just a wonderful young man that any father would be proud of. It's a shame that you were taken so suddenly and violently from your loving family and country but We Will Never Forget, may you Rest in Peace James even though I never met you I feel like I know you.....

I get a chance to coach Jim Cove's son Greg every day, one of the great honors of my career. Terrific young guy, awesome leader!
Scott Nelson
Binghamton Lacrosse

Jim,
Another year has passed, and never forgetting you. Thank you for being such a good friend to me...Jim

R.I.P.

Jim, thank you again for the Calibri Pocket Watch you gave me once, just because I liked yours. These are the kind of nice things you did. You were the best. ...Jim

Today, my uncle, James E Cove, would have turned sixty years old. I was five years old when the September 11, 2001 terrorist attacks occured and do not remember that day at all. However, I do remember some details about my Uncle Jimmy. When I was a toddler, I was obessed with facial hair, mustaches in particular. Uncle Jimmy was the only one of my relatives who had one. He would let me touch his mustache when I asked him. Also, he always used to call me "Buddy". As far as sports was concerned, Uncle Jimmy enjoyed golf (Caddyshack was one of his favorite movies) and loved the New York Rangers. Another memory I have of Uncle Jimmy is that he bought me my first Taco Bell meal. That's about all I remember. I love and miss Uncle Jimmy and wish he was still here today and that the horrific events of that day never occured. A day never goes by in which I don't think of you. RIP Unlce Jimmy

To the Cove Family, I am dedicated a walking tour at the Tribute Center / 9-11 Memorial tomorrow at 3:00 PM to honor and remember my former colleague. Saddenly, I did not know Jim but have a sense of who he was from reading these entries. May God continue to bless your family and may every act and deed be done in his name. Sincerely, Susan (Survivor 92 floor - South Tower)

I was alive when the September 11th attacks took place although I did not understand them then. Now I am thirteen and it is a few days after the tenth anniversary. After watching the many videos and listening to the lessons about what happened on that day I now understand what the people like James and the families of the victims have gone through. Although I understand what happened I know that it is nothing like what the families go through. I wanted the family of James E. Cove to know that this event is being remembered everywhere. This includes my small hometown of Armuchee Georgia. I feel better though when I remember that they are all in a better place. But still, we remember.

Dear Theresa--I think of you often. Sending my love.

Hello,
I am an Australian who is visiting the United States and yesterday I participated in the September 11th Memorial Run
in Las Vegas.
We all were given a persons name on our bib that we were running for and honoring.
I was given James E Cove.
I ran yesterday morning and thought of James and what his life meant. May he rest in peace. My heart felt prayers go out to his family.

I worked for A&A with Jim for many years. He helped me quit smoking and was a close friend of mine. Jim sometimes was a jokester. He had me at a jalapeno pepper at a chinese restaurant one time. We both were laughing so hard. I love you Jim, and I always think about you.

I worked for Jim at A&A back in the mid to late 80's. He was such a nice guy and a great boss. Praying for God's comfort and peace to be with you.

Dear Theresa and sons:
I have been thinking of your family and praying for you all. Although I never had the honor of meeting your husband and father I can tell by spending time with you Theresa and getting to know Greg as Kevin's teammate and now roommate that Jim was a wonderful man. It has been a pleasure getting to know your family over the last year. May God bless you and hold you close. I know your angel is watching over you.

Jim,

Seems like yeaterdaywe went to your wedding.
Can't believe it is ten years already.

Nathan

remembering you today and everyday. i will never forget enjoyed working with you at A&A.
jacki gomes-galloway
w. wareham, ma

I was honored to be one of Jimmy's friends at Nazareth High School and in
"the Den". He was a great guy then and I miss him now.

I remember Jim as a kind and loyal friend. I worked with him many years ago at A & A
My thoughts and prayers are with his family He was a good man

You will always live in our hearts and prayers.

I knew Jim when he worked at Willis and my heart goes out to his wife Theresa and their three boys. God Bless you and may Jim rest in peace. He will never be forgotten.

In memory....

Dear Theresa,

Jim was always such a good friend,we all had a good time hanging around in the "Den" in Brooklyn when we were in highschool. I keep Jim in my prayers always.God bless you and your three boys.

Theresa's doing a great job raising the boys, Jim. You'd be proud.

Dear Mrs.Cove: I went to Jerome's with Regina Cove ('63)and although I did not know your husband please accept my condolences. Flatbush was an interesting place and from there so many did so many great things with their lives.



Sincerely,

Janice Comiskey Morrissey

to the family of jim cove, yesterday was a very difficult day for me as i know it was for u. my thoughts just kept running back to A&A. may the memories u share of your husband & father remain in your heart always. jim will always be remembered by me. we will never forget.

I learned of Jim's death at a board meeting of Long Island Child Abuse Prevention Services, an organization Jim Cove served as an Executive Advisory Board member. I gasped when I heard the news . . .for simply hadn't known about it, and had missed his memorial service by only a day.

So I want to say tonight, on the 1 year anniversary of Jim's passing, that the Coves stand out in my mind as one of the sanest, nicest, most grounded families I have ever known. When my husband and I lived in Rockville Centre, (Jeff was the rabbi at Central Synagogue until 1996) our sons Sam and Gabriel, knew the Cove boys well. Teresa was a great sounding board, one of a few Moms I knew in town who had only sons, and with whom I felt a special bond.

Jim is forever in our hearts. The Coves represent everything good in the world and I ache tonight as I think of their loss. Zichrona l'vracha -- may Jim's memory be an eternal blessing.

--Nina, Jeff, Sam & Gabriel Salkin

I was Jim's secretary for several years when he worked at Willis Corroon. I was saddened and shocked by the news of his tragic death. He was a very down to earth, kind and funny man not to mention a great boss. We would often talk about our children, both of our sons were named Gregory. May God bless his wife Theresa and his three sons. Rest in Peace Jim.

In memory of James E. Cove

We did not know James, but my husband is a brother of Cam Sutton who works for Aon. I came across this on the internet and wanted to express our deepest sympathy. I have thought of all the lives lost that day and especially of the ones from my brother-in-laws office and it still hurts deeply. Our deepest deepest sympathy to the family.



Nancy Sutton

Jim:



From the time we met at Nazareth HS in Sept. '66, we hit it off. You were always great to talk to and just to goof with. As I was thinking about something to write in here, I heard this song. It fits you very well.



This one's for you my dear friend Jim!



THANK YOU FOR BEING A FRIEND



Thank you for being a friend

Traveled down a road and back again

Your heart is true, you're a pal and a confidant



I'm not ashamed to say

I hope it always will stay this way

My hat is off, won't you stand up and take a bow



And if you threw a party

Invited everyone you knew

You would see the biggest gift would be from me

And the card attached would say



Thank you for being a friend



If it's a car you lack

I'd surely buy you a Cadillac

Whatever you need any time of the day or night



I'm not ashamed to say

I hope it always will stay this way

My hat is off, won't you stand up and take a bow



And when we both get older

With walking canes and hair of gray

Have no fear even though it's hard to hear

I will stand real close and say



Thank you for being a friend



And when we die

And float away

Into the night

The milky way

You'll hear me call

As we ascend

I'll say your name

Then once again

Thank you for being a friend





Rest easy Jim; may you always rest in God's everloving arms.

There is not a day that goes by that i don't think of you my friend. You were always there for me, always with a kind word, always with a logical solution. You still touch my life and I miss you. Your friend, John

Still thnking of you, Jim. You were a great guy-- Jim

It was my honor to stitch a square in memory of your husband and the children's father for the Memorial quilt. It will be displayed throughout the U.S. next Sept. 11th.

Dear Theresa:



There is so much to say but there doesn't seem to be enough words. I had the pleasure of working with Jim as I handled insurance needs for my company. I feel honored to have known such a kind soul. I think about you and Jim and your boys each and every day. I pray that you find peace and comfort in knowing that he is an angel looking down on you.



Love and God Bless.

Rachel

My deepest sympathies to Jim's family. Jim was a fine man who will be missed by all who knew him. I knew Jim from one of the accounts he worked on at A&A many years ago.

On October 2nd, the day of my .husband Jim's Memorial Mass, I recounted my husband's journey of his life throughout his 48 years. In the "almost" 17 years of marriage that we shared, Jim's genuine concern for myself and his sons was the driving force that motivated him. The following is the tribute I read that day.

-------My Greatest Love-----

"Theresa, I'm coming home," he uttered in his imitable reassuring voice,

But I've had to accept now that these very same words were that of Jesus' choice.

There was never a time when I didn't feel your unconditional love. – You’ve been my knight in shining armor and still shine from up above.--Companion, friend and helpmate were words to describe only you, I had heard about the Jimmy Cove Fan Club-Oh yes Our first date was `1982!--Shy and quiet with beautiful green eyes, What a guy I said to myself,--Then I proceeded to say to all of my friends, "A nice girl" he'll find for himself. Semi –annual dates were our thing for awhile, --I have to admit it didn’t feel right, But gradually I came to realize his love was special and ever so bright.—The dates now drew closer and closer, Our love grew deeper by the day.—The memories of 1984 are tucked in my heart and will forever stay.—And from our love grew a family, Three wonderful sons we’ve been told.—And you and I both realize, they’ve always been our “pot of gold.”—You saw each of your boys as special, so talented and true. But when it comes to "teasing" each other, Jim they all take after you.--The insurance world cannot express their condolences enough,--for sweetheart you always did your job,--whether easy or so tough. As senior vice-president in many ways--You aspired to so much more. Your colleagues and friends have spoken of you as "reliable" to the core.--From your humble beginnings in Brooklyn, On East 28th Street and Avenue D, --Margaret Collins and Frank Cove gave birth to a son, The youngest in the family.--Off he'd go each morning to learn at St. Jerome's his grammar school. Leaving his mother's side however, was never his Golden Rule.--She thought his extra kisses to her, were an excuse not to leave from home. However, in telling this tale to me, he explained, "I felt so bad leaving her alone."--The traits that came from your mother, were practical no doubt.--Home improvements were in the Collins' blood, that the Coves could not live without.--And although I didn't know your father, Jim I'm sure he was well prepared, for when he greeted you at Heaven's Gate--there was a Lionel train set waiting there! Each and every Sunday, The Collins Family gathered at your Grandma’s door.—It’s those memories from 26th Street that were full of laughter and so much more.—For when their Uncle Jim, Msgr. James Collins would arrive on the scene,--He’d gather the nieces and nephews around him, it was surely one happy team.—Named James Edward, after your Uncle Jim, many qualities they would ultimately share.—The warmth of laughter, their love for golf, --and their ability to tease with such flair.—Throughout the years of friendship, many people have been near your side.—The sailing trips, the ski houses, the Hamptons were your pride.—Holiday and family gatherings were always something you looked forward to—Good thing you had your sense of humor, in order to tolerate the Holland crew!—Today, as we glance around our beautiful home, one can see that your accomplishments were much.—Every room speaks of your gifted talents, we’ll always be reminded of your special touch.—Your praises I do intend to sing, with each and every passing day.—Because you filled our world with peace and joy, My Lord please help us to pray.—To our beautiful Guardian Angel Jim, may you guide us with your love.—While hope echoes in the background,--Direct from the Heavens above! All my love always, Theresa

I knew Jim when he worked at Willis Corroon. At that time I worked at Catholic Medical Center. I'm retired now and live in Florida.



I liked Jim very much and appreciated his great sense of humor. I was stunned when I heard from my friends about his untimely and tragic death on that black day in September. My heart goes out to his wife and sons and I will always remember him.



Inge Wuerth

Theresa, Mike, Ryan, and Gregory,



We will always be there for you in any way possible. Our prayers and

thoughts are constantly with you.



Art, Mimi, & Andrew

theresa, michael, ryan & gregory,



surely, jim, your kind husband and terrific dad, is watching you each with a proud and heavy heart. jim did a wonderful job putting together a very wonderful family. those handsome, successful boys on their way to become the same as young adults with a mom filled with wisdom and strength. a sweetheart on earth; an angel in heaven. God bless and sustain you all. you are the best.......

From the day I saw you,

The next day i didn't,

You were looking down on me,

He said "I am Coming Home",

Those words were not true,

Ahead looking down at me,

Cherring me on,

Never Forgetting,

His Son Gregory,

I Will Never Forget You Dad.



From Your Son,

Gregory

My thoughts and prayers are with you. Please don't hesitate to call if I can help in any way.

America Cries

We see your sorrow-

and our hearts cry....

We can not erase your pain

but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-

-the American people-

are beside you.

We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,

the strength that gives you courage,

and the words to lighten your spirits.

And when we are left speechless

may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts

to ease your sorrow.

May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-

-the American people-

face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn

Dixon, IL

MAY THE LORD BLESS YOU JAMES E.COVE

AND MAY YOU REST IN PEACE WITH GOD

AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS..GOD BLESS AMERICA AND MAY WE NEVER FORGET

9/11/01

I didn't realize that we lost Jim until about 2 weeks ago when a mutual friend called me......



Jim and I started at the Home Insurance Company together in 1972; took family vacations together from then on - camping in upstate NY, renting cabins in Maine, renting a house in the Hamptons; he took me to the race track for the first time.



And then Cathy and I moved to Atlanta in 1986 and, as life would have it, we just lost touch with each other.



Although, Teresa, we have never met, I feel terrible about the loss of your husband and the loss of my friend. I'm thankful, though, for for having known Jim and the memories that I have............

Teresa, My thoughts and prayers are with you.I will always remember Jim for being a dear friend but more like a son to me. God Bless You All. Love Sylvia.

I can only say that Jim's kind gentle and warm way has left a mark on my life that I didn't know about until this tragic event. He is in my thoughts always. We were co workers at A&A and he always listened to what I had to say, my concerns any family problems. He offered advice as a truly interested friend. I miss Jim

jim, u were one of the 1st unit leaders when csu was created back in 1986 at alexander & alexander i will remember a quite, gentle family man. to the cove family may the memories u share sustain you in the days ahead. god will be with u all & give u strength.

to the cove family, i worked w/jim at alexander & alexander back in 1986. i remember a quiet & gentle man. may the memories u share as a family be in your heart always. i hope god touches all of you to give u strength & courage each waking day. my thoughts & prayers always.

Theresa and children.....

There are no words.....Jimmy was a very nice man...may his place in your hearts give you strength...courage and hope...



God bless you all....



Sheree and family

With heartfelt sympathy.

I will never forget this sad and tragic loss.

God Bless You and Keep you safe from harm.

kimberley hess

Cambridge

Peoria, Il

Nov. 6, 2001