Eugene Meehan Obituary

Dear Dad-
Well, it's the first Christmas without you here. The thought of you not being here for Christmas Day weighs on my heart. I know that last year we didn't celebrate Christmas Day together but as we grew up, Christmas Day on Berteau was the way we always did it. I can remember going to that apartment every Christmas Day and never wanting to leave. I loved all the time we shared together and the conversations we had. Even if it was about nothing. Christmas has been hard for me this year. I know it will get better but the memory of our "Christmas Day" with you will never subside in my mind. I can see you now sitting on the "sofa" with a kitchen towel slung over your shoulder, looking over the top of your reading glasses, watching us open our presents! Priceless! I miss your smile, your laugh and your words of wisdom. I love you dad and miss you every day. I will never forget the wonderful memories and times you brought to my life. You are my hero and I hope I make you proud! Merry Christmas!

Today is Christmas Eve and it will be our second major holiday without you here. I know that tonight and tomorrow will be very sad days for your kids (their spouses), your terri and of course all of the grandchildren.

The two youngest grandsons will be celebrating their very first christmas tonight/tomorrow and unfortunately they wont get to share in one of the happiest times - spending the day with their Graypa/Boppa.

I believe I got to part-take in about 7-8 Christmas Eve's/Christmas Day celebrations. Every celebration better than the year before.
I remember my first Christmas holiday with you, Marty and his siblings was on Artesian with some food mishaps, maybe a missed wake-up call and even a few jokes about some presents received (that was not me). But what I remember the most from that day was you making sure that I felt just as a part of the family. Your generosity was always so present.

Years have passed and the Christmas celebrations have become even more memorable and hilarious. Each year a memory more to add to our collection. Personally, I will remember the Christmas with the "bathtime soak", Emma's first christmas only 20 days old, Boppa buying Emma her first ponie, Boppa finding out on Xmas morning that baby no. 2 was another GIRL, and then of course last year celebrating Molliepop's first christmas. That day was filled with love, laughter, jokes and most importantly your love for all of us. (And to top that off, I believe the Bears beat the Packers that day:-)

I am sad to think how much we are going to miss you tomorrow when we are all sitting around the tree watching our kids open up their gifts. But I know that you will be watching over all of us. The excitement that will overcome Emma's eyes when she sees what Santa has left for her under the tree will hopefully bring a smile to Marty's eyes and bring him back to his childhood christmas'. And Poppers enthusiasm of playing with everything she has received (and her sister's) will bring that smile to her face that will be ear to ear just like her Boppa.

I have found a special poem for Marty to read tomorrow morning that I will hope will bring him a little comfort. I will watch over him and wipe away any tears that may come his way and will let him know that this year you will be spending Christmas in Heaven but your love, spirit, and memories will forever be in our hearts.

Missing you so much. Love
Joanne

Dear Ms. Mc Dermott,
Please accept my deepest sympathies in the loss of your loved one. I taught some of Gene's kids, and knew the others. He was a wonderful father.
In a recent conversation with someone other than Gene, I was told how happy he was with you in Florida. My immediate thought was, "How wonderful. He deserves to be happy." Sadly, it ended too soon.
May it comfort you to know that he will always be with you.
You will remain in my prayers.
Trish O'Shea

Having taught Ryan and Marty, and having wacthed Molly, Timmy and Terry grow, I saw Gene as a dedicated father. I recall eating with him at the Mc Donald's across from Woodson Regional Library on one of the many field trips he smilingly joined us for. His love and devotion to his children was ovbious. As a teacher, I aprreciated it. As fellow parent, I admired it.
There's no question, there were difficult times, but both he and your Mom raised wonderful kids into adulthood.
Sadly, he will no longer be present in the lives of those who loved him so. I don't doubt he'll be aware of their continued success and progress. He'll just have a better view!
Kids, I know you are heartbroken right now. You will never stop loving your dad and you shouldn't. It will get a little easier every day, however. I know. I've been there.
Know that you were and are loved. May that be a source of comfort. You made him very proud and happy.

I'm so sorry I was unaware of his passing. I would have liked to express my sympathy in person.
You will be in my prayers.
Peace!

Gene,
It has been a week since your passing and I finally got some time to sit down and collect my thoughts. I miss you and thanks for the memories!!!!
Gene was a great man. A man that I respected and cared for as much as my own father. We all got to see him on Sunday afternoon and he was just happy and excited to see his kids and grandkids. Just like any other time we saw each other he told me "not to cross the stateline" because I was bad mouthing the cubs and their fans (gotta do it). He planned on sending me a broom in the mail on friday when the cubs sweep the brewers at miller park and would you know it the sweep happened. I will always remember the last words and hug I gave him telling him to "hit them straight" the next day on the course. We have had so many great memories over the 13 years that I have known him that I will always keep close to me. I will miss him dearly and will alway remember that he treated me like one of his children. He told me on many occasions that "i was his favorite son-in-law." I had to continuously remind him that i was his only son-in-law :)....he laughed and said I know but my favorite. Molly and I would like to thank all of you for your well wishes and prayers. She is doing as expected, but hanging in there. Bennett helps us alot with his smiles and happiness. Funny how he looks so much like his grandpa Gene. He will always know who is Grandpa is because of the pics and memories that we will share with him.

Rest in Peace old man!!!

I was very sorry to learn of Gene's passing. Gene was a neighbor friend during the 60's in the "old neighborhood". I have many good memories of our time and laughs together. My sympathies to Gene's entire family.

Danger was no stranger to a Gresham Ranger. (006th.District) For all the brothers were valient. I,ll see you at the next thin blue line.

Dear Terri and Gene's children and family,
I groaned when I read of Gene's death in the Tribune...he was such a good and decent human being. I knew him from our days in Gresham in the '70's and when I think of him I picture a peaceful face and a smile: Not a bad way to be remembered! He enriched the earth---and our lives---and when (fresh off the golf course, from what I hear) he stood before his God, I imagine God was glad He created him...a life well-lived. At the Police Mass on 10 August we'll thank the good God for Gene's time with us, and ask Him to be with all of you as you grieve and heal.

Gene was a close friend in high school and I'm sorry I missed the services. My prayers are with the family.
Pax Vobiscum

Dear Terrie, McDermott & Meehan families,

It was to late to attend services for Gene when I heard about his sudden passing. So I am sending this note to all of you to express my sincere sympathy.

I only know Gene through Terrie McDermott and her family. I know that Gene was a wonderful addition to Terrie's life. They so enjoyed all their time together. Our family was so delighted that Gene and Terrie had met and shared their love, joy, hospitality, compassion, family devotion and zest for life.

May all your joyous memories bring comfort to you during your time of grief. And may you feel peace while Gene's soul journeys to wholeness.

We love all of you very much and will continue to keep you in our thoughts and prayers.

Always,

Kathleen, Beth, Bridget and Joey

Timmy,

I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Ryan, Marty, Molly, Timmy and Terry

We are so sorry for the loss of your father. Please know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
The Yetter Family

Gene was a great golpher. at least that,s what he told me! As a leo h.s. alum he,ll be missed. Gene, say hi to all the great men of Leo that have gone before you.

jim venckus leo h.s. 1963

My Dearest sister Karen, and all my wonderful neices and nephews and God child, and for my own children, thier cousins and children we sympithize and stand with you in your loss.

Uncle Gene, Geno, or just plain Gene will always be held in fond memory for our family. Althought we were often far removed from all of you, we have special memories of all of our time together. The trip to El Paso, Pennsilvania, and Hershy, the Weddings are just some of many.
It's regretful, at times like these, that all the good memories rush to the front. For my family and I, those are what we keep close, because for us, they give us a sense of family no matter where in the world we find our selves.

So as Gene makes the jump from the here and now, to all of our family's Thankgiving kitchen tables, we wish him peace and offer prayers for his journey. All our love, to you and yours, at this time of sorrow.

Rog, Jenny, Jennifer, Paul, Rog, and Tommy

Dear Marty, Joanne, Molly, Rob & families,

We are so sorry for your loss. We have many fond memories of your father throughout our college years. He was a great man. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Tony & Michelle Lagowski

Marty and Joanne and the rest of the Meehan family,
I was so sorry to hear about your dad. I know how much he meant to you and that this loss has affected many. I'm sorry I can't be at the wake, but you will all be in my thoughts. If there's anything I can do for you or the girls, don't hesitate to call.

Worked with Gene over the years on the Department, he was a real nice guy. My sympathies to his family, may he rest in peace.

Gene was a very nice man that made everyone smile! I miss Gene very much. He was like a Grandpa to Mike, & I, Grace & Ella. We all wish he was here with us right now but he is in heaven to tell my Grandpa how great we all are! If I could say one thing to Gene it would be that we love you.

Dear Molly, Rob and the Meehan family,
We were so very sorry to hear of the loss of your dad. Just wanted you to know that we are thinking about you and are keeping you in our thoughts and prayers.
The Lupo Family

Mom,
The sadness we feel from the loss of Gene is overwhelming. We are so grateful for the time we had with Gene & most importantly the smile he brought to your face. Gene was part of our family and was loved by everyone of us especially the children. The memory of Gene and the happiness he brought to our family we will forever hold in our hearts.

Meehan Family, We are very sorry to hear of the loss of your father.

Our deepest sympathy...Gene was one of the good guys......

To Gene's Gang:
First, just a comment about his time at the CPD. When we worked together - your Dad was a professional. You can be proud of his service to our City.

More important we remember him as your Father doing turkey dinners at 2449 on the Berteau. He and Jewel foods were great cooks. We remember his smiling face when he knew you guys were coming over to spend some time with him.

We know that we can not control what occurs in our lives.
but this is too soon. Our thoughts are with all of you and our best to all.

Mrs B. and I are out of town now. Please say goodbye to our friend
"Geno" for us.

God bless

Terrie and the Meehan and McDermott families,
We were so sad to hear about Gene. He was such a kind and thoughtful man. He was so sweet to us, especially Jack. What a wonderful father and grandfather he must have been - the way his face would light up at the mention of his family, especially his grandchildren.
We are very lucky to have known him and we will miss him very much.

To Terrie & the girls and the The Meehan Family,
The first two things that you noticed upon meeting Gene, were his kind eyes and that great smile!
He really will be missed.
I am so very sorry for your loss...my thoughts and prayers are with you all during this most difficult time.
Love,
Mary Kay

I'm very sorry to hear of Gene's death. I've known him going all the way back to High School. He was a good guy. Know that I will have some masses said for him through the Catholic Church Extension Society.

Timmy and family,

I am so sorry for your loss. I am thinking of all of you.

xo

To my Father-in-Law/Boppa
From the moment I met you, most likely a SNC football game, you were the most kind and generous man. You offered to be my "dad" for the evening so that I could hangout with Marty and Molly at the Abbey. It wasn't until about two years later, that my friendship with your son Marty turned into something more. We have been together ever since and now have two wonderful girls. I am not sure I ever told you that you raised such a wonderful son. He is the most loving husband and just an amazing father. I know you were very proud of your son, and I know that he was extremely proud that he learned everything from you.

Emma spent every Thursday for the first year of her life with Boppa. Those were moments that we will never let her forget. There were times when she was watching you, but we cherished every Thursday. Your time with Mollie was way too short. I do believe that from the minute Mollie was born that she inherited your happy demeanor. Every time she walks into a room she has a smile on her face. She got that from you, Boppa.

We will share all our stories and memories with the girls for years and years to come. Before we tuck them in at night, we will make sure that they know that Boppa is watching over them every day. Like Emma likes to say before we kiss goodnight, I'll meet you in my dreams.

You will forever be in our hearts and we will never stop loving you.

We already miss you, Love
JoJo (Joanne), your precious Emma K and Miss Molliepop

Gene was such a sweet, kind man. I got to know him when he came to the CCTB to drive our clients. They all loved him and so did we. He will certainly be missed.

Timmy and Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this most difficult time. We are praying for all of you.
Love, The Robert W Lewis Family
(Bob, Cindy,Blythe, Ashley, Wesley and Brittany)

My prayers are with the family. May God give you peace during this time of sadness.

Meehan Family
My deepest condolences, Gene was such a great guy and will be missed by all who knew him.
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
God Bless you and Gene and keep you in the palm of His hand.
Patty Clarke
Retired C.P.D.

Terrie and the entire Meehan Family,

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Our heartfelt condolences to Gene's family. Gene was a valued member of our CCTB Driver Program and will be missed.

You were a good man Gene. You will be missed.

To Ryan, Marty, Molly, Timmy and Terry,

Our hearts go out to you on the sudden loss of your wonderful father Gene. He was also a special cousin and will be greatly missed.