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Donald Hayes Obituary

Hayes, Donald R. Age 41, beloved son of Dorothy L. and the late Daniel Hayes Sr. Loving brother of Debbie (Terry) Sprouse, Daniel (Kim) Hayes Jr. and Diana (Wayne) Huffman. Dearest uncle of Nick (Kelly), Danny III, Josh, Ashley, Monica, Wayne III. Great uncle of Hayley and Jacob. Special friend and confidant of Ginger Lupo-James. Funeral Wednesday, September 21st, 11:00 a.m. at the McKenzie Funeral Home, 15618 S. Cicero Ave., Oak Forest. Interment Skyline Memorial Park. Visitation Tuesday 3 to 9 p.m. 708-687-2990

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Published by Chicago Sun-Times on Sep. 20, 2011.

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Fran Lupo

September 27, 2011

Donald,

After attending your wake and funeral, I believe you had a gift. A special way of bringing people together. Regardless of their race, ethnic background or income level. Everyone there had something amazing in common...YOU!

Thank you for becoming a friend. Thank you for helping me realize what is important in life and more importantly, giving me the realization that one person truely can make a difference in the world. You taught me that ignorance is the true handicap and I will never underestimate again.

You may have physically been short, but you stood taller than anyone I have ever known!

Mark and Sandy Moore

September 26, 2011

Dear Dan and Kim We are so sorry to hear of your loss, you and your family our in our prayers. Please if you need anything just call.

Ginger Lupo-James

September 24, 2011

Warm Summer Sun

Warm summer sun,
Shine kindly here,
Warm southern wind,
Blow softly here.
Green sod above,
Lie light, lie light.
Good night, dear heart,
Good night, good night.

By Mark Twain (Samuel Langhorne Clemens)
The Poetry Foundation

Vince Crubaugh

September 23, 2011

My thoughts and prayers go to all that knew Donnie. Donnie was a special person, a good friend, and all around GREAT person. He could always make one laugh on the saddest of days, that will alwaqys be remembered. Donnie my friend my you rest in peace. Ypu will be forever missed!!

Shelia Hughes Hunter

September 23, 2011

I just have to say that I'm glad we reconnected after many years. We shared lots of laugh these past few months. I pray that you family be comforted with GODS GRACE durring this time.God Bless

Ginger & Donnie

September 22, 2011

Kimberly Witz

September 21, 2011

Donnie, you will be missed. I know that you are better off where you are than we are here. I am reassured that you are able to do everything you ever dreamed of (by the way, don't run over anyone as I'm sure you have found a sportscar or two) You brought so much to the lives of everyone you met. I am thankful for our friendship. Dorothy, thank you for being such an incredible example of love and strength. I am praying for you all during this time. Love and prayers to all of you.

YADIRA SERNA

September 21, 2011

HE WAS A GREAT FRIEND AND PERSON U WILL BE MISSED DONALD

katie thurow

September 21, 2011

GREAT MAN, GREAT FRIEND, GREAT CONFIDANT, GREAT HUMAN....

Robin Schecker

September 21, 2011

My heart goes out to you Gin, as well as the rest of Donald's obviously loving family. I was honored to watch your love for Donald and his for you, blossom. The unconditional love you two had for each other was so heartfelt and the smiles on your faces were beautiful. I know he loved you so very much Gin and was so thrilled that you loved him with your whole heart. I have loved getting to know his family with pictures and stories he shared and I am so glad that you were able to share these past 3 years with him. He was truly a wonderful man and I just pray that your memories keep you strong and bring you peace. I will think of him with a smile every time I see an eagle. Donald~fly free with the Eagles and angels my friend. You will be sorely missed. ((((((Donald & Gin)))))

Brenda May

September 20, 2011

We All Miss You Donald..R.I.P. Never met you but, felt as if I knew you! Prayers go up for the Family..

Karen Campbell

September 20, 2011

We here at the Tribbey Church of God are praying for the family. I personally enjoyed being Donald's facebook friend. May the Lord give you strength.
Pastor Karen Campbell

Cecelia Berns

September 20, 2011

Auntie Ginger and my Frannie. I love you both dearly and even never meeting Donald I know he shared unconditional love and humor and made this world a better place for the both of you just knowing him. He leaves with you and all others who knew and loved him a legacy of love, humor and in the face of others ignorance grace and dignity. Keep him in your hearts and prayers as he will now be another guardian angel for the both of you. He now is in all his grace. Love and hugs to you both.

Maureen Boblitt

September 20, 2011

My Deepest Heartfelt Condolences go out to Momma Ginger & the Entire Family.I was not fortunate enough to meet Donald,but he brought me many smiles & laughter with his unique carefree attitude..May you Rest In Peace Donald,Soar like an Eagle Freely with the Angels..

Gene w/ Donnie In Arkansas for Morgan's graduation.

Lisa Jenkins

September 20, 2011

Dearest Hayes Family My heart is aching for all of you. Donny was such a great and funny man!!! I was always laughing when I was around him!!! The world has lost a great star and now he is resting in paradise w/other family. My sincerest and heartfelt codolences to all of you.

Kim (Hayes) Eades

September 20, 2011

Chance made us cousins, choice made us friends. I miss you more than you will ever know. Grieving from a far, praying for peace to Aunt Dorothy, Ginger and family. You we're one of a kind. RIP until we meet again.

Lary Saladin

September 20, 2011

Donald,
Only met ya once. but you seemed like a good person. May you rest peacefully

September 20, 2011

May God grant to him eternal rest. Our sincere & deepest sympathy to you & your family "Aunt" Dorothy

The Wingren Family

September 20, 2011

Our deepest sympathies to Dorothy and the entire family. Donny was one of the "good ones" and will be sorely missed. R.I.P. Don.

The Wick family

September 20, 2011

Fran Lupo

September 20, 2011

Donald...for 3 years you blessed my Mother with unconditional love and in doing so you graced my life with laughter. You brought joy and understanding. You will be missed more than you could have ever imagined. You taught me that ignorance is the true handicap in this world. Thank you for sharing who you were with me. Thank you for loving my Mom. Thank you, for being you. Rest in Paradise. Soar with the angels on your very own eagle wings. ?

September 20, 2011

Rip Donny u will be missed buddy.

September 20, 2011

barella family has you in are prayers, so sorry ,for your loss. debbie ,pam, sherrie, janette.barella

liz eiduk

September 20, 2011

My prayers go out to Dorothy and her family. Donald will truely be missed.
Liz and Erwin Eiduk

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