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David Gray Obituary

Gray, David R. 76, of Chicago, died on May 29, 2010 at the Cleveland Clinic, Cleveland, OH. Arrangements have been entrusted with Sommerfeld Chapel of New Buffalo, MI. David was born July 14, 1933 in Chicago, IL to James and Caroline (Campbell) Gray. He graduated from the University of Illinois with degrees in theology and political science. He received his Juris Doctor degree in 1957, and was admitted to the practice of law in 1958. David was a solo practitioner for his entire legal career. He began his early career by doing pro bono work for the Valparaiso Children's Home and by founding the Church of Christ in Worth, IL. He was also the owner and President of Midwest Real Estate Investment Company. On June 30, 1973 he was married to Bonnie Jean Walsh. David was a lifelong resident of the City of Chicago and enjoyed his free time in New Buffalo, MI. He was an avid sailor and traveler, accomplished artist, and cherished his time with his wife Bonnie, his children and grandchildren. David is survived by his wife, Bonnie, his children, Laura (Peter) Frame of Wapakoneta, OH, Rick (Deborah Sherry) Gray of Chicago, IL, David (Lauren Lumbrazo) Gray of Chicago, IL, and Timothy Gray of Chicago, IL, his grandchildren, Taylor Frame, Campbell Frame, Rees Gray, and Avery Gray, his siblings, Marion (James) Brim of Jacksonville, IL and Carol (Harold) Spehar of Anacortes, WA, sister-in-law, Cynthia (John) West of Vero Beach, FL, and many nieces and nephews. A Celebration of Life Memorial Service will be held on Wednesday, June 16, 2010 at 3:00 p.m. at the Fourth Presbyterian Church, located on the corner of Michigan Avenue and Delaware Place in Chicago, IL. In lieu of flowers donations may be made to the American Heart Association at www.heart.org or the American Heart Association – 3816 Pay Sphere Circle, Chicago, IL 60674. Friends wishing to leave a message of condolence may do so at www.sommerfeldchapel.com

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Published by Chicago Sun-Times from Jun. 4 to Jun. 6, 2010.

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June 5, 2014

Dear Bonnie, Laura, and Rick,
I have often thought of you over the years. I am very sorry to learn of David's passing. I appreciated the opportunity he gave me to work as a law clerk. It was a memorable experience. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers. Julie Pierson Lees
Silver Spring, MD

T T

June 29, 2013

Because of David Grat I have three more children that we adopted. Without him my life would have been so different. He was truly a ripple in the pond!

Charlotte Kennedy

June 28, 2013

Words can only tell a story. Words for this great man can never be enough. David was a true human. Wish there where more people in the world like him. Thanks for what you gave to the world and the insight you gave to me. Because of you I eat frog legs. LOL Great man Great human. Hope you know just how much you where loved and are missed.

Teri Lee

June 27, 2013

I just found out about David's passing and my heart is so sad. I knew David for many many year! I was fourteen when I met him. He stayed my friend forever. His passing is a shock. I'm sorry for his family and friends. He told me once that he lived half of his life one way and at fifty he was going to live his life another way! He taught me many things. One was to play hard and work hard. I miss him so much.

June 18, 2010

So often in life we forget that each day is a gift--a blessing. I had to adopt that philosophy myself and it has changed my life. Although we may have lost touch over the years, my love for your family has always remained strong. You never forget your good friends (Laura) and when they are suffering from illness or any of life's challenges you want to express your concern and support. Laura and Bonnie I will continue to pray that God will guide you on a path of serenity. Sara Sullivan

Don Schramm

June 18, 2010

David and the Gray Family,

I am saddened to hear of your father’s passing and want you to know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers. Hopefully fond memories of time shared together will assist you through your period of grief.

In Sympathy,

Don Schramm, Chicago

June 14, 2010

I started as a law clerk in 1972 with Dave Gray, I thought I knew a lot until I learned , working for him just how little I did know. Dave taught me the work habits I still practice today as well as how to try a case. Undoubtedly, there are a lot of lawyers out there that are still using what they learned from Dave. He was always availabl to consult with on the phone or over dinner. I pray for him and his family in the sad time. Burt Brown

Brandon Elliott

June 7, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers go out to the entire family. Take comfort in knowing that Mr. Gray has directly and indirectly influenced more lives in a positive way than you will ever know.

Brandon, Nisha, and Helen Elliott

Victor King

June 7, 2010

Our deepest condolences to the Gray family. Our prayers and thoughts are with you all.

Victor and Amy King

Victor King

June 7, 2010

Our deepest condolences to the Gray family. Our prayers and thoughts are with you all.

Love,

Victor and Amy King

BRUCE BUYER

June 7, 2010

To The Gray Family--As I said in my recent e-mail to David Jr., my sincere condolences to you all. I considered David as a friend for many years; I will miss him.

Bruce Buyer

Lynn Baldassarra

June 6, 2010

My condolences to Mr. Gray's Family,

May happy memories sustain the family and bring some comfort to your heart.

He is healing the broken-hearted ones, and is binding up their painful spots.(Psalms 147:3)

June 5, 2010

Dear Bonnie, Rick, Debbie and family - we're very sorry to hear of David's passing. We're keeping you in our prayers out here in Montana during this sad time. With much love, Brian and Mary Kelly, John, Ryan, Mckenna and Connor.

June 5, 2010

Dear Mrs. Gray, David, Tim and the entire Gray family:

On behalf of the entire staff at Long Beach Country Club, please accept our sincere condolences on the passing of Mr. Gray. Please know that our prayers are with you all during this difficult time.

John Dillon
General Manager

June 4, 2010

BONNIE, WE WERE SO SORRY TO READ ABOUT DAVID...WE HAVE SO MANY GREAT MEMORIES OF HIM AS A GREAT FATHER, HUSBAND, GARDNER, SAILOR AND MICHIGAN COMMUNITY LEADER...WE WILL TRY TO MAKE THE MEMORIAL ON JUNE 16TH BUT IF WE CAN'T KNOW WE LOVED HIM...GEORGE AND CONNIE WEBER

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