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Cornelius "Neil" O'Keefe
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Cornelius O'Keefe Obituary
It is with heavy hearts we announce the passing of Cornelius "Neil" O'Keefe on August 19, 2025 at the age of 86. Neil will be remembered for his quick wit, kind smile, and the unwavering love he showed his family every day. He had a gift for conversation and could strike up a chat with anyone he met, but more importantly he was an exceptional listener, someone you could turn to for advice, comfort, or encouragement. His love of travel carried him around the world – not bad for a skinny Irish kid from South Deering. Along the way he brought laughter, connection, and friendship to all who knew him.
Neil was loved by Donna, his wife of 64 years; their children Kelly (O'Keefe) Zupan, Kathleen (O'Keefe) Robin, Karen (O'Keefe) Farrer and her husband David, and Kevin O'Keefe and his wife Tina, as well as 10 grandchildren and 4 great grandchildren, all whom brought him immense pride and joy.
A Memorial Mass will be held on Saturday, August 23, 2025 at 10:00 am DIRECTLY at Holy Name of Jesus Catholic Church 11000 W. 133rd Ave. Cedar Lake, Indiana 46303. In lieu of flowers memorial contributions can be made to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital. Arrangements entrusted to Elmwood Funeral Chapel and Crematory. For more information 219-374-9300 or www.elmwoodchapel.com
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