Chester Jastrzebski Obituary

HI Dad,Ihad a dream about you the other night you didnt say anything you just appeared out if nowhere and we just hugged i couldnt believe it was you.You looked great and i didnt want to let go instead i woke up feeling like you showed yourself to me in a dream.I cant believe it is going to be a year .The memories of that last week with you are so fresh in mind that i go over details and conversations constantly always thinking what if or i should of done things differently would you still be here,or would we have had more time and was there nothing else that could of been done. Everything happened so quickly and there was no time to think about anything because i was still unable to accept that you werent going to make it ,I amk still in complete shock over how everything was changing so fast day by day. First your Coming home leaving hospital everything is fine just need medicine,then staying overnight,then being transferred to fox chase,and then it was hospice at nazareth temporarily, then it was your going home and could be w us for months to years and could continue treatment when were stronger ,and then you werent coming home and I think about those events all the time.I wish you were able to tell me you are in heaven so i know there is a place that i can be with you and mommy and grandmoms and grandpops again.Sometimes just having faith isnt enough.I pray to you and mommy and for you and mommy all the time.Grandmom Sisco told me a long time ago that to get people you love in heaven that you have to pray for their sins so GOD WILL ALLOW THEM INTO HEAVEN by us asking him for forgiveness for them if they were unable to do it before they passed away.I dont know how true it is but i have prayed for everyone in our family that has passed away,just in case Grandmom was telling me the truth.This will be the last entry on this site it is held for 1 year.BUT I WILL CONTINUE TO TALK TO YOU IN MY PRAYERS and love you and always keep you in my thoughts until i see you again.LOVE ALWAYS CHERYL

Hi chet it been a year seen i lost the best BROTHER anyone could have.THE TIME DOSENT GET ANY EASIER WITHOUT YOU MOMMY AND DADDY SOME DAY'S IM LOST WITHOUT USES I JUST WISH YOU WHERE ALL HERE SO I COULD TALK TO YOU I MISS THE TIMES WE WOULD JUST TALK ABOUT DIFFERNT THING'S TELL MOMMY AND DADDY I LOVE THEM.BYE LOVE ALWAY'S YOUR BROTHER RAYMOND

Hi Dad,missing you like usual.Gabby slept over last night and it ujust makes me sad,cause there are so many things that only you did with Gianna and Gabby is unable to have the same thing.And no one is able to replace them memories.I keep thinking about everything your not here for and pulling up to the house most of the time i sit for a minute and say to myself hes not in there,so i dont get upset.I dont know how Judy does it,I know she misses you the most and this is hardest on her.I want you to know we are all doing our best to help her ,i know how much she meant and means to you and how worried you were about her ,I know you were more worried about her than you were yourself.In the hospital she was your main concern not yourself and that is love.To love someone more than yourself,as she did you.It hurts and it is not fair cause you still wanted to do so much ,you werent suppose to die ,you were suppose to be a great grandpa,and retire in the mountains with Judy.I Love you always cheryl

Hi chet miss you Mommy and Daddy every day it just don't feel right without use's.I to go on but still having a really hard time.you were always thier for me now i have no one .Why did this happen to you I just wish i could talk to you .Some day's are really tough .It seem's like it was yesterday i was just talking to you,bye for now love alway's Raymond

Hi Dad ,Grandpop Sisco passed away on friday morning feb 8th.He was very tired.I know he is with grandma and mommy and you and that he is happy especially with grandmom.Now no parents or grandparents it feels like a huge part of who i am is gone.And i dont know how to feel whole or if you ever do again ,maybe just try and make life as great as we can because it is only temporary and you never know how long you have.One day we will all be together again,I cant wait to hug my mom and dad.love you always cheryl

Hi,Dad,Happy BIRTHDAY A DAY LATE .I definately didnt forget casue its all i could think about since LISA'S 25TH B-Day.Was not the same but nothing is or will be ,sometimes i wish there was a way for you to show me you are ok and happy and just waiting for all of us 1 day,that you are with your mom and dad and our mom.And that there is somewhere with no pain or sickness or suffering.I love you always and forever.Miss you and mommy sooo much.

Hi chet happy birthday wish you where here so I could give you a hug on your birthday Love Always RAYMOND

Hi dad,I have been trying to find ways to feel as close to you as possible but nothing is helping .It just makes me miss you even more.I have been having a really hard time and now your bday is coming up,and all I want is you here with us .We need you,I am not ready to say goodbye.I Love You Dad

Hi Dad ,It is Christmas Day and we had christmas eve dinner here with almost everyone except our Dad.We went to shadybrook light show and it really hit Gianna ,she was crying saying how it was no fun without you and it was boring .She said you always made ev erything special and it was the worst day and doesnt want to go back without you.Me,Deb and Lisa all felt the same way but were trying for her,Gabby and even MIMI.We all love and miss you sooo much everything reminds me of you.There are so many things i feel i could of done or should of done for you that just maybe you would still be here.You will never be forgotten and always be missed by all of us.love always me

Hi chet six more days it will be christmas it's don't feel right because your not here.I miss YOU because we be putting decoration's up we allway's had FUN doing it.Trying to get through the day's are really tough it don't get any easier.LOVE YOU RAYMOND MERRY CHRISTMAS

Debbie'S 30th B-day was yesterday and she asked if any of us knew what time she was born.None of us knew and it was like wow no mom or dad to ask.We are all here for eachother,and you dont have to worry about mimi being alone cause she is all we have too.So we promised to take care of her and that is what everyone is doing.You would be so proud of Gianna,she worries about mimi i swear more than i do .Her biggest concern is she never wants her alone.Gabby is great she makes us all laugh ,i wish she would have been able to do all the things with you that you were able to do with Gianna.You are and will always be her PAPA.Love always cheryl and i am trying to listen to her more.

Hi DAD ,Thanksgiving just passed and everything feels like it just happened yesterday ,I try to do things that make me feel closer to you or things that you would do to make it feel like you are still here.But its never gonna be enough ,everyone says with time it gets alittle easier.I dont want it easier i just want you.I LOVE YOU and miss you and it isn't fair that you were not at Gianna's B-Day or first day back to school or vocabulary day.You were always there for everything and made it so special,no one can ever fill your place in our lives.Love always Cheryl

HI CHESTER I MISS YOU MORE THAN YOU'LL EVER KNOW.SOME DAY'S ALL I THINK ABOUT IS YOU AND I CAN'T TALK TO YOU IT'S NOT EASY WITHOUT YOU SOMEDAY WILL BE TOGETHER AGAIN.LOVE RAYMOND

I feel you with us everyday just wish you knew how much you meant to me and how much i need you in my life,as the oldest i always try to act like i have everything under control but i did always need and still need my dad ,i still can not say goodbye.Love always your oldest

Think about you everyday still cant without crying,i just know that you are watching over us especially Gianna and that you feel like yourself again and not sick.love yea Cheryl

MISS YOU EVERY DAY IT'S NOT RIGHT YOUR GONE.BYE LOVE RAYMOND

Dad,I love and miss you very much.

Ray and Joe Jastrzebski
Please accept our sincere condolences.
Our thoughts Prayers are with you
God Bless.

Joseph M.McLaughlin and Family

Deepest Sympathy to the Jastrzebski Family during this difficult time

Chet, You have been apart of my Families life since you moved in next door. You have helped them more than you know. Thank you for all you have done for them. I deeply appreciate your unconditional love for them. Rest in peace, Chet. Until we meet again. God Bless. xo

If anyone deservse a rest it is you, Chet. Thanks for being there for Rose and Michael.

Chet we had so many good times, so many memories.......you are very missed.....
love, Donna

You were the best brother anyone could ever have. love your brother Raymond

Chet you were loved and will be missed by so Many. I know you are in heaven with your departed loved ones. Fishing and hunting will never be the same again. You made an impact on my life and my brothers.we are all going to miss you untill we are together again! love you uncle chet!

It's time to rest, Chet. We love you. I will keep tabs on the girls! You and your family make me complete, thanks for the priceless memories!!!