Carol Hillman Obituary

February 2018. Perhaps no one will see this note. Tonight I came across an old address book; as I browsed the pages, Carol's name popped out so I googled her to see what I could learn. Sadly, I came to her obituary and this page for condolences. I knew Carol in the 1970s in Madison; we spent many evenings together (with Dan?) playing cards or dancing at a bar on Park St. We laughed a lot and our friendship helped us both get through some tough times. I left for graduate school in 1976 and we didn't stay in touch, but what I read of her life and career makes me think she fulfilled the promise that was within her for service to others. It's been 40 years since I last saw her and two and a half years since she passed, but Carol's wonderful spirit and delightful laughter are still a blessing. Thank you, Carol. You left this world way too early.

I tried to share a condolence..dont know what happened to it. I knew Carol from the 70's in Madison WI, working at the near east side health center.
She always had quite different things going on and was always funny and interesting to talk to. Sometimes her words were so unusual and yet right on....I liked her and feel very sad that she died...but I am glad she died working on things that she truly believed in and believed in fighting for. I think the world was a better place for her in it. Dana Schreiber

Carol was such an awesome person who would always stop you to say hello. She was such a happy and strong spirit with time for everyone. I will never forget your signature red glasses. You are the very best Carol!!!

I'm so sorry for your loss. I met Carol through the clinic escort program. She was so warm and friendly and always had a story to share. She quickly found ways to connect with you. She will be missed by all who knew her.

This is such a shock. I've known Carol since we were students at the University of Wisconsin, and had only recently reconnected after a long time. She was one of the best story tellers I've ever met. Even minor events were standup-worthy when Carol told them. I can still hear her voice and laughter when I look at these old photos from the 70s and 80s.

Carol and I met as clinic escorts and we quickly became friends. We bonded over our shared interest in history and architecture, our love of music and theatre, and our taste for Jewish food. I can't imagine being at the clinic without her and will always think of her as I don my Escort Vest. May her memory be a blessing and an inspiration to us all.
My condolences especially to Carol's sister, Barbara, who has endured the sudden loss of two siblings in so short a time.
Susan Jacobson

I knew Carol through couple of online dementia-related caregiver information-and-support groups, where she was a seemingly tireless, wonderfully authentic and down-to-earth, loyal contributor and buddy in the trenches. I got to meet her a few times: when a fellow listmember visited Chicago and the three of us spent the day together, and a few years later I was honored when Carol attended my going-away party in Chicago.

I will be thinking of you Barbara and others gathered this Sunday afternoon, and I will honor Carol's memory and spirit.

Carol was such a warm and genuine person. I know that I and my fellow escorts will miss her dearly.

Carol was an amazing woman and a wonderful friend. Together, we defended the right to choose at the clinics, at protests, and in our hearts 24x7x365. She was my comrade, close confidant, and friend. I loved her dearly and I can't imagine life without her. It was an honor to have her on the Board of The Clinic Vest Project and as a Team Leader for the ICAT Clinic Escort Program. My heart hurts right now and I am sure it will for a long time. I take comfort in my memories of Carol and I am grateful for the time we spent together and our friendship. Love you Carol B. Hillman.

I miss you so much already. You have always been a wonderful friend besides being my closest cousin. No matter what happened in our lives together you would always make us laugh. I will continue to claim bragging rights to being related to such a caring, compassionate, passionate soul.

Audrey

I first met Carol in Chicago more than 20 years ago, when we both were temping at First Chicago Bank. I was quickly drawn to her intellect and humor. We became fast friends. I then moved to New York, and later to Phoenix. We re-conected via Facebook 5-6 years ago. She was a compassionate, generous, good person. I miss her already. RIP, dear dear friend. Love, Mark Hakamaa

Carol was the shift leader at the Family Planning clinic that I volunteer at and she was there on my first day. I was very nervous but Carol was there to brighten the chilly, rainy day with her bright yellow ensemble and passionate spirit. She will be missed by many.

I volunteered with Carol at a family planning clinic, protecting patients as they entered. Her cheerful spirit and huge heart will be sorely missed.

She really was one of a kind.

Carol was an unfailing advocate for peace and fairness..I considered her a real friend.

Carol and I became friends several years ago during our endeavor to find a cure for Alzheimer's disease. I soon learned she was also a progressive and invited her to join me and other progressives to create a positive change in our country. I learned that Carol had a huge heart. She often told me if she lived closer she would be right here helping me care for my mother because she understood the struggle of caring for a loved one with dementia. Recently we often joked we were moving to Cuba to escape the extreme conservatives taking over our country. The world will have an empty space without Carol. I miss her already. Shalom, Carol.

I knew Carol only through a long association on two Alzheimer's support groups for care givers. She was loving and selfless care giver during her mother's journey. She added so much to the discussions as she stayed abreast of the developments in Alzheimer's research. Her passing will leave a void for many of us, but she is now reunited with her mother and other loved ones who had already gone ahead. I will certainly miss her on our online support group. Rest in peace, Carol.

I met Carol working for reproductive rights. Her passion and compassion were an inspiration to all of us! She will be missed by so many.

Barbara, Please accept my deepest sympathies. Carol was a force of nature, she was stubborn and strong, kind and caring. I was proud to volunteer with her standing shoulder to shoulder to protect women's reproductive rights. We will say Kaddish on Saturday at the clinic as we all know she would've been there if she could! Also please accept my sympathies for the loss of your sister Peggy as well. May they both rest in eternal peace. Shalom. Andrea Solzman Goldberg

Carol was my dear friend, adviser, sister in the cause and a wonderful soul! I only wish that I had more time to spend with her! She will be missed by many!

Sincerely,
Betsy Schaack

Bob Breving and I are so very sad to hear this terrible news; carol was a wonderful, enthusiastic and knowledgeable student of Labor history.
I will miss her.
Sincerely,
Emily Rosenberg

We are so saddened to hear of your loss and offer our deepest condolences. May the God of all understanding help guard your hearts and thoughts during this difficult time. Exodus 6:3